The pros and cons of SA, that covers a high percentage of the women on the site.
I rejoin occasionally, so it's not all bad. For the cost of a half hour punt I can have a months worth of entertainment, even without meeting anyone. The last time I was a paid up member was about six months ago:
1. I had a fun conversation with one and when it came to the subject of money she wanted pro$$ie rates, she let me down the first time (rag week?), when we resumed the conversation she was pissy about £200 for two hours. She said she was giving it away, I told her to keep it.
2. Short and sweet conversation, all set for a Saturday night, she just needed £50 for the babysitter before she left, apparently I was the first to refuse to send her the money?
3. Some ex-prossie with a very dusty phone lured me in, £250 for an overnight... I would have had more fun from a 15 minute quickie with a Rom B&S.
4. A young woman with very flattering photos, turned up slightly larger than I imagined and had a good night. The second meeting she stuffed herself with prawn crackers and made herself ill, she still took the money.
5. Agreed a night at mine with a very attractive black woman, the last minute she decides she's not comfortable with staying at mine, cancelled.
6. Went out for a drink with another black beauty, had a good time and met up again another evening for £150. We were both pleased with the outcome but she was unavailable the following week because it was her 21st. Stayed in touch for another couple of weeks but then nothing.
As others have said, SA is time consuming, it can get expensive very quickly and there is no certainty with anything. I enjoyed a few overnight punts from AW reverse bookings for between £350-400 where reviews are available and services listed, not something available with SBs.
Overall SA is a matter of personal circumstances, personality of individuals and cash. There is the time involved in the pursuit but also finding the time to arrange a meeting, my weekdays are fairly hectic which means I can only arrange an extended meeting on a Saturday night. Being the gentleman that I am, I don't string along plans b and c, so, when plan a lets me down that's a quarter of my month fucked, which is not as bad as when I first started, I would have a hotel booked in some strange city. I spent nights alone in Leeds, Sheffield and London as well as a day room in Manchester, the best part of £500 done for nothing!
As for the actual SA thread, I haven't read it for a couple of years, the successes and sexual prowess of my peers was too damaging to my ego.