Has a working girl ever refused to see you?

[FlaccidChimp]

If so please do tell the story.

[Moby Dick]

Sounds like you wanna share?
Please go first

[daviemac]

No.

[FlaccidChimp]

I used to see one girl who did massages and hand jobs for a long time. She sometimes said I had a big dick. She made comments like "this would kill me" etc. So I heard through the grapevines that she had slept with a client. So I kind of pushed the question and she caved eventually after speaking to the manager lady. Before we began she told me to go slow. It was good for me as she was warm and quite tight, but I could tell she didn't enjoy it.

She disappeared for a little while then eventually I found that she has transitioned to a full escort. I contacted her and she said she wont fuck me. I was about to give my excuses but she said "I don't do your size." I don't fully believe that's the real reason because I'm not very large, maybe high average at the biggest. Also I'm kind of bummed out because she's good VFM compared to a lot of others. She has good looks, figure and service although her attitude and English was never great. This is the only time I've been declined and it is bad for the ego. Also this was ages ago, I'm just mentioning it now.

[Gordon Bennett]

Think you need to be more specific about what you mean...... I had one who I used to see occasionally but then refused all further bookings from me on basis she'd got fat and I wouldn't fancy her anymore. I was a bit miffed but thought oh well, she's being honest at least and moved on.

[EnglishRebecca121]

ive refused to see a few   .....

Boundery pushers, eas to the max or just total weirdos like the one who told me repeatadly through our booking that he could "easily break me in 2," how he was "A cage fighter with skills" and that i had a "body made for raping"
yea he never got a 2nd chance

[rellz14]

yep, cos im black, even though i asked her if she sees black men

[BigD77]

yup - refused the guy who, after I told him I had a cold sore asked if I would just give him a blow job instead.

Refuse anyone with weird requests, or who comes across as a bit sketchy.

[threechilliman]

Yep, I've been refused a few times.

[Latinoking]

yeah only once due to age. but tbh there was a major age difference between us.

[chipsdigme]

yup - refused the guy who, after I told him I had a cold sore asked if I would just give him a blow job instead

That's fucking mental lol, what a plum!

[Die_Yuppie_Scum]

Had a girl who cut off all contact after guiding me in to her apartment complex car park. She was obviously able to see me from her window & decided she didn't fancy it. Mainly punt in parlors now.

[rickyponting]

Phoned one recently who insisted on calling first instead of text (fair enough) and on her profile said over 40s only.
I was a bit nervous ,so maybe my voice went a little high,she asked how old i was,i told her and she said i sounded really young and that she wasnt going to see me.
The whole conversation lasted 41 seconds 

[Kimchee]

Yes, after I told her my ethnicity

[bbwandy72]

I had one who got a bit uppity about the fact that I would only pay her a deposit using something that preserved my anonymity. I'd have liked to have seen her. Indeed, I still would. But I'm not going to do a bank transfer, or anything else that could link to my real identity.

[Nathxxx]

A couple of years ago I was seeing a girl for b2b massages, while I was in a relationship and she soon knew I had a partner during our chats. We liked each other a lot and this quickly developed into full on sex and even ‘going out’ one evening. Stupid while in a relationship, I know, but there you go. She  decided to stop it as she felt awkward about my partner and where things could end up and didnt want to meet for massages or anything after that- a complete break.

Last year I contacted someone on massage.me who looked like her, but a different name. I couldnt help but contact her; she still had my number and recognised me. She was unsure, but we eventually arranged to book a massage again, but strictly just b2b. Day before she cancelled and begged me not to contact her again.

[Foxtail17]

Yup. Sent one girl a polite email telling her my details, and what I required. Booking was all done in 30 mins or so, then she mailed to cancel saying I was too old. She is 25, I am 53. She knew my age from my first message.

[Anadin]

Face to face, no. Before the meeting yes. If they're hot enough I just book again using a different number. As we've never met I don't take the refusal personally. I often assume they think I'm someone else.

The most annoying one was when I got reverse booking from a pretty expensive escort who offered a good discount, then when I was halfway there,  I phoned to confirm and she said some weird bullshit about expecting me to be older which was crazy cause how could you tell that from a reverse booking. I never  bothered with her again.

[hermanmunster]

Yes - probably because she stole £500 from me when we met before.  My attempts to contact her resulted in me talking to some "chav" who threatened to come and sort me out.  I laughed at this brainless idiot, but reluctantly had to accept my £500 was never coming back.

[GreyDave]

  Yep Miss Whiplash many many years ago from her basement flat told me wait for it....

"Your too young for me luv now Fuck off"  saved myself a fair ammount of cash.
 Then a Greek girl in Sweet surprise palour refused me as I`d " fucked the brains out of her mate a few hours earlier and wouldnt come again" 

Those where the days

[Charliehutton]

Yup. Sent one girl a polite email telling her my details, and what I required. Booking was all done in 30 mins or so, then she mailed to cancel saying I was too old. She is 25, I am 53. She knew my age from my first message.

Why did you tell her your age, Foxy? If she specified something like 'no over 50's' in her profile then fair enough, although I've never known a girl impose any kind of age barrier. If not, she needs to buck her ideas up and decide whether she wants our money or not. I hope you gave her a scathing review.

[Oldishgit]

Yup, also on age grounds - a WG who hadn’t specified this on her profile, told me that she would be “uncomfortable having sex with someone older than her parents” Her loss, I thought...

[daviemac]

Why did you tell her your age, Foxy? If she specified something like 'no over 50's' in her profile then fair enough, although I've never known a girl impose any kind of age barrier. If not, she needs to buck her ideas up and decide whether she wants our money or not. I hope you gave her a scathing review.

You'd be surprised how many have age limits, both upper and lower. I always tell them I'm an older bloke just to be sure they're happy to shag someone sometimes as old as their grandfather. never been refused yet.

[Strawberry]

You'd be surprised how many have age limits, both upper and lower. I always tell them I'm an older bloke just to be sure they're happy to shag someone sometimes as old as their grandfather. never been refused yet.

Which explains why quite a few enquiries will tell me their age, I don't have any age restrictions apart from legal age of consent and more or less cover that in my '18-80' statement although I have had clients outside that (but over age of consent and still alive).

Even punters relatively close to my age will stipulate upfront, some of it I suspect is also based on non-paid-sex dating scene in which even small age gaps can be considered a bit no go.

[freeze44]

Which explains why quite a few enquiries will tell me their age, I don't have any age restrictions apart from legal age of consent and more or less cover that in my '18-80' statement although I have had clients outside that (but over age of consent and still alive).

Even punters relatively close to my age will stipulate upfront, some of it I suspect is also based on non-paid-sex dating scene in which even small age gaps can be considered a bit no go.

I give an age, ethnic group and body size as want the wg to know roughly what to expect the same as I want to know what age/size/likes the wg is and what can expect.

[Steelworker]

I give an age, ethnic group and body size as want the wg to know roughly what to expect the same as I want to know what age/size/likes the wg is and what can expect.

I do same as I’m mid 50’s. But not ethnicity and never been asked. Only once had an escort saying she normally sees younger but if I could send photo, she’d assess. I passed on that opportunity, saying I’d prefer not to be in a booking where there was a chance she may be repulsed by an older guy. Of course, I wasn’t going to send a photo either 

[Ali Katt]

I give an age, ethnic group and body size as want the wg to know roughly what to expect the same as I want to know what age/size/likes the wg is and what can expect.

I prefer to surprise or disappoint the escort when we meet.

[Steelworker]

I prefer to surprise or disappoint the escort when we meet.

  I’d love to pleasantly surprise them. Those days are gone, so prefer to pre warn 

[SO595]

Never been refused.  Also never been asked age or ethnicity.

[EnglishRebecca121]

I do same as I’m mid 50’s. But not ethnicity and never been asked. Only once had an escort saying she normally sees younger but if I could send photo, she’d assess. I passed on that opportunity, saying I’d prefer not to be in a booking where there was a chance she may be repulsed by an older guy. Of course, I wasn’t going to send a photo either 

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You should have just sent a certain famous persons pic as you look the same lol 😂

[earlgreyman]

Nope but i've walked away from quite a few!

Just to say it must feel awful to be refused for one's age, size or ethnicity. You'd understand why, if said punter was unkempt, drunk, high or down right rude/aggressive.

[signy]

Just once. I sent a girl my standard-ish (very polite) email describing a proposed roleplay (nothing outlandish). Got an email back saying she loved the idea, but didn't think she was the girl for me. I had given no personal details (age, appearance, ethnicity, etc.) and still don't know what her issue was. Only thing I could think of was that I have a couple of TS in my feedback list, and I know some WG object to any hint of bisexuality. On my mind for a couple of days, and then moved on.

[Bogof60]

After an e mail exchange on AW I got a number but found every call went to voicemail.
After another e mail exchange on AW it turns out that she has blocked my number thinking I am someone else.
No amount of telling her I am not the one she originally blocked will let her accept my call..
I suppose a WG has to stick to her own rules so it was move on time for me
First and only time this has happened but still frustrating.
I suppose I could get another sim and try again but do I really want to be that bloke

[Jonestown]

Never when I’ve been sober, and once when i was on a bender, she was very nice about it, an Australian lady in a mansion flat in Cleveland Street, suggested I didn't look too well and it might be better to come back another day, which i did a few weeks later.

[WARSZAWA16]

Once at a walk-up in Soho years ago. I went up the stairs and when I got to the door there was another bloke standing in front of it. The door opened, the maid looked at us both and said - "she doesn't see two together" and promptly shut the door. We both then sheepishly made our way down the stairs without comment.

[freeze44]

I prefer to surprise or disappoint the escort when we meet.

  good one. Despite my best efforts to paint a rough picture of what's coming their way, still get a level of disappointment on there faces!! 

[workinallweek]

 after seeing a girl 3 or 4 times with some great sex and toy play .  and having a lot of banter and talk of food sex chocolate bars whiped cream etc . i texted for a meeting and asked if i should bring a cream egg .  She called me a pervert and to never call her again and blocked my number 

[dboy74]

Never been refused, as yet!

[Visionist]

I was refused by an American WG over emails as I couldn't provide references at the time. I even sent her my picture first with my name on a piece of paper lol, but no cigar.

Another girl cancelled on me for no reason at all when I was literally about to knock on her hotel door. I'd travelled quite far and was very annoyed with her "I tell you before, you no read (sic)" whoreshit text she sent trying to explain herself. My plan B turned out to be a total cunt as well that day.

[InMefan]

Tried to see a newish girl last week, texted her and she asked what's my age and race, I replied back, then she was silent then I texted again half hour later and she said "sorry I only see white English"

[Ali Katt]

after seeing a girl 3 or 4 times with some great sex and toy play .  and having a lot of banter and talk of food sex chocolate bars whiped cream etc . i texted for a meeting and asked if i should bring a cream egg .  She called me a pervert and to never call her again and blocked my number 

Maybe she was lactose intolerant.

[Landscape]

Just this week with my dealings with a first class space cadet who told me a long fantastical tale of why she didn't want to do the incall and then decided not to do it. Turns out I dodged a bullet which is a relief.

[delete]

Never been refused but I once called an SP, got no answer, waited  30 minutes and called again only to discover  my number was blocked.

I hadn't had any contact with the SP before I tried to call them and they were flagged up as available.

[Ilovebbw]

I once saw a wg for a quick blow job meet, unfortunately i was unable to shoot my spaff as I'm pretty uptight when it comes to time restraints, anyway I messaged her for a half hour meet a couple of days later saying we had "unfinished business", I thought it was a cheeky throwaway comment but she obviously thought it was creepy and told me not to contact her again. Probably for the best as she looks like a bit of an ed-der-ball who deletes and reactivates her account monthly.

[tester101]

There was this lass at Sandys back in the day (Juliana I think), she was cited as one of their 'stars'...prior to that meet, every session had been exemplary.  Anyway tried to engage with some initial chit chat, and it seemed to go downhill from there.  On reflection I was a little anxious and that seemed to wind her up or un nerve her.  Not sure if it was personal, racial but she asked me to leave.  Fair enough, saw another lass (Santana) and had a fabulous session

[yandex]

I used to see one girl who did massages and hand jobs for a long time. She sometimes said I had a big dick. She made comments like "this would kill me" etc. So I heard through the grapevines that she had slept with a client. So I kind of pushed the question and she caved eventually after speaking to the manager lady. Before we began she told me to go slow. It was good for me as she was warm and quite tight, but I could tell she didn't enjoy it.

She disappeared for a little while then eventually I found that she has transitioned to a full escort. I contacted her and she said she wont fuck me. I was about to give my excuses but she said "I don't do your size." I don't fully believe that's the real reason because I'm not very large, maybe high average at the biggest. Also I'm kind of bummed out because she's good VFM compared to a lot of others. She has good looks, figure and service although her attitude and English was never great. This is the only time I've been declined and it is bad for the ego. Also this was ages ago, I'm just mentioning it now.

You sound like a creep to me. Why would you go back to someone who clearly didn't enjoy the encounter unless you've got some sort of fantasy about abusing women?

[SO595]

You should have just sent a certain famous persons pic as you look the same lol

Hidden Image/Members Only

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(Sorry SW  )

[Ali Katt]

You sound like a creep to me. Why would you go back to someone who clearly didn't enjoy the encounter unless you've got some sort of fantasy about abusing women?

It's another work of fiction.

[Doc Holliday]

It's another work of fiction.

+1 I'm astonished this guy is being given so much airtime. The contradictions across his threads/posts are considerable.

Regarding the topic, as I think I have posted before, I have been refused on a couple of occasions in parlours because it transpired we knew each other in real life.

I once had an indie appointment cancelled because her OH didn't want her to see me again!

[MrDizzy]

Booked a visit with a girl years ago based on pics that only showed her body in lingerie and a bikini. Buzzed her front door to be let in on arrival only to discover when it opened the SP in the lovely lingerie was a girl I'd gone to school with.

Instant recognition from both of us, I experienced a flood of terrified horror (early days of punting) a huge awkward pause followed by much laughter on all sides. She immediately apologised and said she wouldn't be able to go through with it (and to be honest I don't think I could've) but she did invite me in for a coffee and we had a good catch up.