Eye contact, anyone else think it's a bit weird?

[Ravanelli]

I'm often reading on here in one review or another how the girl maintained eye contact whilst giving a BJ. Personally I find it a bit fucking weird and it only serves to make me uncomfortable rather than heighten the intimacy of the situation. The best sex I've ever had has been with civvies and not one of them felt the need to lock eyes in a fixed stare whilst schlomping on my cock. So far from seeing this as a good thing I see it as something fairly unique to the punting world and generally quite odd. Anyone else feel the same?

[cueball]

It don't really matter either way to me, they look up, they look down. I think the looking into your eyes comes from porn films etc.
And, if I can get away with it she has difficulty looking up as her nose is buried in my pubes

[Trevor12]

I do like a bit of eye contact, not just during a BJ, but also sex and RO. Too much or continuous can feel a bit weird in a 'not sure where to look' type way.

I prefer it to those who keep there eyes closed though- seems like they're imagining they're anywhere else with anyone else.

[vt]

I do like a bit of eye contact, not just during a BJ, but also sex and RO. Too much or continuous can feel a bit weird in a 'not sure where to look' type way.

I prefer it to those who keep there eyes closed though- seems like they're imagining they're anywhere else with anyone else.

Me too...there is a girl I know who keeps constant eye contact when giving oral, she seems to like to gauge your reaction to what she's doing and she is very intuitive and skilled as a result. I do keep having to look away though as it gets a bit intense.

I also find it a turn-off when girls refuse to look though...it gives the message that they don't want to be there.

IMHO, the best girls vary the eye contact throughout in a natural way, from coy looks with cheeky smiles to intense stares with eye-rolling and involuntary gasps.

[Ben4454]

I hate all forms of eye contact during the punt while down to business.

[hendrix]

No, I love it. Especially standing deep throat and she's  looking up or in a threesome where one is rimming me (me lying down) while the other is rimming her and I just see her eyes peering over her arse

Or alternate face fucking but only making eye contact with the girl that isn't being face fucked.

[seeker]

Me too...there is a girl I know who keeps constant eye contact when giving oral, she seems to like to gauge your reaction to what she's doing and she is very intuitive and skilled as a result

I also find it a turn-off when girls refuse to look though...it gives the message that they don't want to be there.

IMHO, the best girls vary the eye contact throughout in a natural way, from coy looks with cheeky smiles to intense stares with eye-rolling and involuntary gasps.

+1

[Quesadilla]

For me a punt is just like having a girlfriend who happens to be a really dirty slut.  I expect good eye contact / chemistry from the outset and all the way through just like with a girlfriend.  Without that connection I might just as well be fucking a blow up doll or a piece of meat. 
 
One time I did have a great punt which was really more massage / BJ / HJ with almost no eye contact, because she was just incredibly good with her hands - I came twice but didn't get as far as full sex, so went back another time for a full service session.  During the sex she kept deliberately looking away and the lack of eye contact really threw me.  As VT said it made me feel she really didn't want to be there.  I've not been back since and probably wouldn't. 

So I guess good eye contact isn't essential to me for a half decent punt, but for someone I would return to it's a must.

[LL]

I really like eye contact, it keeps me hard!
I had no idea other people found it weird.
Have you never shot your load into a girl whilst she's staring into your eyes?  Can't get any more intimate than that, in my opinion.
What about holding hands with the girl - do some people think that's weird too.  For me it also adds to the intimacy.  I love to lock fingers with the girl (both hands) whilst pounding her in mish.  Again, good eye contact would be the icing on the cake.

[Quesadilla]

I really like eye contact, it keeps me hard!
I had no idea other people found it weird.
Have you never shot your load into a girl whilst she's staring into your eyes?  Can't get any more intimate than that, in my opinion.
What about holding hands with the girl - do some people think that's weird too.  For me it also adds to the intimacy.  I love to lock fingers with the girl (both hands) whilst pounding her in mish.  Again, good eye contact would be the icing on the cake.

+1 to handholding - all part of the full girlfriend experience IMHO. 

[cueball]

Have you never shot your load into a girl whilst she's staring into your eyes?  Can't get any more intimate than that,

You've got a good point there, the more I think about it the more I like eye contact

[a10]

I like eye contact, not obsessive staring mind, but it makes it feel as if the WG is comfortable with you. The ones that avoid eye contact make it feel as if they hate doing what they're doing, literally can't stand the site of you.

[LL]

The ones that avoid eye contact make it feel as if they hate doing what they're doing, literally can't stand the site of you.

Or they're just very shy.  I've seen WGs who start off in this fashion when they're new to the job but the next time you see them they can maintain eye contact.  This might indicate that prostitution helps to increase confidence not just for punters but also for puntees!

[starman555]

Sometimes yes sometimes no, with some girls that are to full on ,talking, shouting yes yes, or harder harder, I ask them to pretend they are asleep to shut them up....sort of enjoy pretending they have been drugged..needless to say ...no eye contact then
 

[greychap]

I'm often reading on here in one review or another how the girl maintained eye contact whilst giving a BJ. Personally I find it a bit fucking weird and it only serves to make me uncomfortable rather than heighten the intimacy of the situation. The best sex I've ever had has been with civvies and not one of them felt the need to lock eyes in a fixed stare whilst schlomping on my cock. So far from seeing this as a good thing I see it as something fairly unique to the punting world and generally quite odd. Anyone else feel the same?

I must admit too much eye contact can put me off but it all depends what you want and what you like. Some escorts might feel more eye contact is what they should do and a lot do this on porn films like the sloppy bj but I hate the spitting its not what I like all that spitting but yet again its done in the movies and no doubt there is a lot that do like that just not me

[OakTree]

Yes it is a bit weird when they just lock on to you and just stare. On the other hand totally different when they give you eye contact and interact with you, especially if they talk dirty.

[Roth]

I like eye contact, not obsessive staring mind, but it makes it feel as if the WG is comfortable with you. The ones that avoid eye contact make it feel as if they hate doing what they're doing, literally can't stand the site of you.

Agree.  Some eye contact is good for the above reasons.  Also you know she hasn't fallen asleep on the job! 

[justfornow]

I really like eye contact, it keeps me hard!
I had no idea other people found it weird.
Have you never shot your load into a girl whilst she's staring into your eyes?  Can't get any more intimate than that, in my opinion.
What about holding hands with the girl - do some people think that's weird too.  For me it also adds to the intimacy.  I love to lock fingers with the girl (both hands) whilst pounding her in mish.  Again, good eye contact would be the icing on the cake.

+1

That's spot on. Eye contact when required and locking fingers in mish is fkn great

[socks]

I must admit too much eye contact can put me off but it all depends what you want and what you like. Some escorts might feel more eye contact is what they should do and a lot do this on porn films like the sloppy bj but I hate the spitting its not what I like all that spitting but yet again its done in the movies and no doubt there is a lot that do like that just not me

The cuter the girl the more I like eye contact I find. I like spitting though, especially in my face

[SmackmaBitchUp]

I love it big turn on 

[Thepacifist]

First thing I thought of when I read the OP

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[azrael]

Glad im not the only one who sees this as being weird, i dont mind the ocaisional glance up but not the constant staring while slurping on your lolly some people like it but its kinda off putting like they expect you to say something to them. Why not go with the flow and let us enjoy the pleasure we're recieving

[smiths]

I'm often reading on here in one review or another how the girl maintained eye contact whilst giving a BJ. Personally I find it a bit fucking weird and it only serves to make me uncomfortable rather than heighten the intimacy of the situation. The best sex I've ever had has been with civvies and not one of them felt the need to lock eyes in a fixed stare whilst schlomping on my cock. So far from seeing this as a good thing I see it as something fairly unique to the punting world and generally quite odd. Anyone else feel the same?

I love eye contact from a WG. Stems from porn and a turn-on to me it can be, if they are talking dirty as well all the better.

[Malvolio]

I mostly prefer a GFE, so eye contact works for me.  I particularly like her to go on top in sex and lean over me so that her face is only a couple of inches above mine whilst I'm pumping away from below.

If the OP doesn't like it, just mention it before the punt starts.

[john_n]

I am certainly one of those who prefer eye contact. It just adds more to the session if you ask me

[Ravanelli]

Eye contact is a normal part of social interaction and punting is no different. I want normal eye contact but I don't want the forced staring of a girl looking at me while she's sucking my cock because she thinks the prossie manual says that's what you must do.

[herbie007]

The cuter the girl the more I like eye contact I find. I like spitting though, especially in my face

Me too, but I like them spitting in my mouth and then snogging me whilst they keep their eyes open.

[socks]

Me too, but I like them spitting in my mouth and then snogging me whilst they keep their eyes open.

that sounds like a winning combination to me 

[dilettante]

When I was about to cum, Busty Anita told me to "look at me with those lovely blue eyes", or something similar - that's the sort of thing that'll keep me going back.  WGs looking at you giving head is sort of "deferential" body language, like a proferred rump - we like that sort of thing, don't we boys, makes us feel good?

[Markus]

Anyone that doesn't look at me isn't for me. I don't want someone cold.

One if my best punts was a Hungarian WG called Monica who had gorgeous blue eyes. Her eye contact was phenomenal. Whilst she was wanking meoff, she started lightly slapping me and talking dirty. One of my best punts ever.

[herbie007]

that sounds like a winning combination to me 

 

[SamLP]

Anyone that doesn't look at me isn't for me. I don't want someone cold.

One if my best punts was a Hungarian WG called Monica who had gorgeous blue eyes. Her eye contact was phenomenal. Whilst she was wanking meoff, she started lightly slapping me and talking dirty. One of my best punts ever.

Was Monica  a milf working in Kingsbury?

Eye contact heightens the pleasure especially if it's a dirty or innocent look with a wicked smile. If she has beautiful eyes then even better.

[Ali Katt]

I think it's fucking hot if I didn't like it I'd wear a blindfold.

[d00fer]

Good eye contact (not staring) is a massive turn on for me, can't beat it

[foreverchanges]

IMHO, the best girls vary the eye contact throughout in a natural way, from coy looks with cheeky smiles to intense stares with eye-rolling and involuntary gasps.

Anyone who had the fortune to see the long retired Kerry at London Street Sauna in Edinburgh will remember her absolute mastery of the above.

[jsparky]

I love eye contact, its not about constant staring during bj, that would be a bit weird. Eye contact is a form of non-verbal communication, establish a connection between two person. A good WG could make full use of 'her tools' (whether it's her eyes, facial expressions) to provide a good experience.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I'm in the eye contact camp in a big way. Nowt worse that a girl looking or gazing elsewhere a big turn off  for me;(..

As well as kissing that usually  makes a good punt an excellent one..

[kingkong]

Massive turn on during oral but it's not a deal breaker for me.

[cueball]

As well as kissing that usually  makes a good punt an excellent one..

Kissing essential to me on a punt,

[portable]

It's only weird if she has a glass eye.

[Roth]

It's only weird if she has a glass eye.

 

[Steely Dan]

And I hope you all give it in return.  Again, not full on "hurt your neck" staring in her eyes as you try to find your way around her pussy, but looking up to check.  Great when they are playing with their nipples or giving you a look that says you are hitting the sweet spot.  Of course if her belly is too big to see her eyes while giving RO, it just might be a sign of photo-shop.

[knightofthegarter]

Eye contact is great,in particular, there is nothing better than a gorgeous girl looking up at me while she gives me a blowjob. It can be over done but I would rather that than no eye contact.

[kingkong]

Eye contact while banging her doggy infront of a mirror is great too.

[socks]

Eye contact while banging her doggy infront of a mirror is great too.

Great idea, never done it, bucket list extended. Thanks

[RedKettle]

I really like eye contact, it keeps me hard!
I had no idea other people found it weird.
Have you never shot your load into a girl whilst she's staring into your eyes?  Can't get any more intimate than that, in my opinion.
What about holding hands with the girl - do some people think that's weird too.  For me it also adds to the intimacy.  I love to lock fingers with the girl (both hands) whilst pounding her in mish.  Again, good eye contact would be the icing on the cake.

I agree on the eye contact - it would never have occurred to me that somebody would not want it.  However holding hands during is not for me - better bits to be getting hold off than her hands.

[Roth]

I agree on the eye contact - it would never have occurred to me that somebody would not want it.  However holding hands during is not for me - better bits to be getting hold off than her hands.

+1

[richie]

Depends what's happening and what mood I'm in:

BJ while standing it's almost a must - power trip for me I guess.

BJ laying down - nice if its not constant but I'm not too bothered either way.

Sex when I'm in a good, relaxed mood - adds a little intimacy so more enjoyable.

Sex while I'm in a bad mood - I deliberately pick girls I know don't really want to be there for sessions like that. I'd rather they keep there face in the pillow and just took it. A few squeals of discomfort or stifled complaints are always a nice touch though  guess it's a power trip thing again and  me just getting off on their non enjoyment....

Does the last one make me a bit odd?

[socks]

Sex while I'm in a bad mood - I deliberately pick girls I know don't really want to be there for sessions like that. I'd rather they keep there face in the pillow and just took it. A few squeals of discomfort or stifled complaints are always a nice touch though  guess it's a power trip thing again and  me just getting off on their non enjoyment....

Does the last one make me a bit odd?

I think I've experienced that. It was not like the disinterested Romanian fuck, nor was it by any stretch of the imagination non consentual. I had an ffm 2 or 3 years ago with a couple of early-mid twenties fit blondes. One was clearly more enthusiastic than the other and I was aware of that one telling her to up her game when i wasn't looking. I fucked them doggy next to each other, while stroking the arse crack of the one not being fucked. When I pulled out of the first and into the more reluctant one, I got a massive extra buzz out of seeing her bent over naked in front of me, impaled on my cock. Knowing that she was taking it more to appease her colleague than the joy of fucking with me, was something that enhanced my experience and brought a massive climax out of me deep inside her. I think it was a mild sub/dom thing between them that done it for me and on reflection something i might just have to seek out again!