Sugar Babies
Shemales

Author Topic: Two main questions: about (1) Viagra; and (2) ED  (Read 2010 times)

SlamBoy

  • Guest
Would really appreciate any input on these two issues lads:

(1) Does anyone else find it difficult to cum when using Viagra? It is great for getting me hard, but I find it really difficult to cum when using it.

(2) Has anyone either improved or eradicated ED without using Viagra or an equivalent? What did you do? How long did it take etc.

Online daviemac

  • Board Moderator
  • Moderator
  • *****
  • Posts: 25,271
  • Likes: 382
  • Reviews: 24
Would really appreciate any input on these two issues lads:

(1) Does anyone else find it difficult to cum when using Viagra? It is great for getting me hard, but I find it really difficult to cum when using it.

(2) Has anyone either improved or eradicated ED without using Viagra or an equivalent? What did you do? How long did it take etc.

Is it not extensively covered here.   :unknown:  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=201025.0

Offline Hobbit

Would really appreciate any input on these two issues lads:

(1) Does anyone else find it difficult to cum when using Viagra? It is great for getting me hard, but I find it really difficult to cum when using it.

(2) Has anyone either improved or eradicated ED without using Viagra or an equivalent? What did you do? How long did it take etc.

Answer to number 2: Very easy - quit wanking, drinking alcohol and stop looking at porn. That may help.  :hi:
« Last Edit: February 19, 2019, 10:33:14 am by Hobbit »

Offline GreyDave

 :hi: Depends on you health and age

ED as my other half says is when SHE is dissapointed with my performance.  :cry: :cry:

I find blue pill 25mg works o n empty tum best and at 58 I feel un worried about weening myslef off of its wonderful stiffening effects  :D :D :drinks: :drinks:

Online Waterhouse

:hi: Depends on you health and age

ED as my other half says is when SHE is dissapointed with my performance.  :cry: :cry:

I find blue pill 25mg works o n empty tum best and at 58 I feel un worried about weening myslef off of its wonderful stiffening effects  :D :D :drinks: :drinks:

Do higher doses or mixing ED pharms have an enhanced effect, or can they have the opposite effect if you take too much? i.e. blood pressure too low to maintain a wood?   :unknown:

Offline Fanfanuk

Would really appreciate any input on these two issues lads:

(1) Does anyone else find it difficult to cum when using Viagra? It is great for getting me hard, but I find it really difficult to cum when using it.

(2) Has anyone either improved or eradicated ED without using Viagra or an equivalent? What did you do? How long did it take etc.
Are you sure it's just Viagra?
Some black market stuff they add dapoxetine, this will make it a lot harder to ejaculated. It's amazing mix if you end to soon .   If your buying online it could be that. If you getting it from Asda ect/Dr  it will be pure.       
Banned reason: Previously banned troll
Banned by:

Offline scutty brown

Do higher doses or mixing ED pharms have an enhanced effect, or can they have the opposite effect if you take too much? i.e. blood pressure too low to maintain a wood?   :unknown:

FFS why don't people read previous threads, this has been covered numerous times.
But to answer your question mixing ED drugs can drop your blood pressure below survivable levels. Doing it can kill

Offline Fanfanuk

 :rose:
Ps 
Didn't know ED ment erectile dysfunction I guess.  But it's easy fixed via TesoGels. Ask your Dr for a testosterone levels along with your oestrogen and prolactin levels are.   If there's ou.  Your Dr can offer help or you can just go online and try Testogel it's a simple trt treatment .  Worked for me mate..  Good luck
Banned reason: Previously banned troll
Banned by:

Offline scutty brown

:rose:
Ps 
Didn't know ED ment erectile dysfunction I guess.  But it's easy fixed via TesoGels. Ask your Dr for a testosterone levels along with your oestrogen and prolactin levels are.   If there's ou.  Your Dr can offer help or you can just go online and try Testogel it's a simple trt treatment .  Worked for me mate..  Good luck

What kind of fucking idiot are you? Self-diagnosing testosterone levels and then self-administering what would have to be black-market steroids would be a real mugs game. For a start you've got the usual problems of taking steroids, and then a whole host of other issues.
Read the information leaflet: risk of high blood pressure, prostate cancer, red blood cell irregularities and a host of other problems.
External Link/Members Only
Morons like you who encourage people to self prescribe are playing with other peoples lives

Offline scutty brown

Are you sure it's just Viagra?
Some black market stuff they add dapoxetine, this will make it a lot harder to ejaculated. It's amazing mix if you end to soon .   If your buying online it could be that. If you getting it from Asda ect/Dr  it will be pure.     

What kind of stupidity is this?
What kind of business is going to cut a cheap drug like sildenafil with an expensive one like dapoxetine? You're talking shite

Offline Fanfanuk

DA' Zeagra 50/30mg
About 60/70p each.

DA' Zeagra (50+30) mg contains active ingredients Sildenafil Citrate 50 mg and Dapoxetine 30 mg


I'm saying he may not be getting what he thinks. There no need to be rude dude..   I'm not talking about a guy at home cutting drugs ffs.
   Both drugs are cheap.  Maybe the seller ran out of one and replaced it with a the above medication.  The sellers don't care.
I'm trying to help the guy.   Again be nice.   


Banned reason: Previously banned troll
Banned by:

Online Waterhouse

FFS why don't people read previous threads, this has been covered numerous times.
But to answer your question mixing ED drugs can drop your blood pressure below survivable levels. Doing it can kill
Ease up, you'll bust a blood vessel.  I've read the other threads and am well aware that 'cocktails' can dangerously lower BP.  That was not my question.  Have a look at the actual question I asked before getting your caks in a twist.

Assuming you don't die  :rolleyes:  do higher doses, i.e. 150mg Sildenafil have an enhanced effect or the opposite effect? I.e. If 25mg or 50mg works fine, would 100/150mg still work or not?  I don't need a lesson on the dangers of mixing higher level doses or different ED meds or taking with anti-hypertensive meds.
« Last Edit: February 19, 2019, 10:21:27 pm by Yondu616 »

Wooderz

  • Guest
I've heard viagra increases melanoma risk.. personally the day I need chemical assistance to hoist the main mast will be the day I take up bowls instead as a hobby..  :lol:

Offline Fanfanuk

What kind of fucking idiot are you? Self-diagnosing testosterone levels and then self-administering what would have to be black-market steroids would be a real mugs game. For a start you've got the usual problems of taking steroids, and then a whole host of other issues.
Read the information leaflet: risk of high blood pressure, prostate cancer, red blood cell irregularities and a host of other problems.
External Link/Members Only
Morons like you who encourage people to self prescribe are playing with other peoples lives
Dude it's not a black market I said ask the Dr to do the tests ect. it's available from Lloyds the Chemist  External Link/Members Only

I'm not going to reply to you you seam to have anger issues
The poster asked what worked for Ed.     This site is also all about a subject that's not totally leagle ie escorts ect.   I'm not sure why your so angry or here. I give up
90%of your posts are very angry unhelpfull posts 80%+ your reviews are negative.  maybe ask yourself rite/healthy game  my friend.  I'd hate to be so angry/neative all the time.pal
« Last Edit: February 19, 2019, 10:34:06 pm by Fanfanuk »
Banned reason: Previously banned troll
Banned by:

Offline chipsdigme

Dude it's not a black market I said ask the Dr to do the tests ect. it's available from Lloyds the Chemist  External Link/Members Only

I'm not going to reply to you you seam to have anger issues
The poster asked what worked for Ed.     This site is also all about a subgect that's not totally leagle ie escorts ect.   I'm not sure why your so angry. I give up
90%of your posts are very angry unhelpfull posts 80%+ your reviews are negative. Are you in the maybe ask yourself rite/healthy game  my friend.  I'd hate to be so angry/neative all the time.pal

Escorting is perfectly legal

Offline Fanfanuk

Escorting is perfectly legal
Thank you I'm sure there's so gray areas on here ie more than one girl working in one premises but you got my points . I see posting any help on here is a pointless effort. Good luck poster. Go see the Dr like I said mate it helped me
Banned reason: Previously banned troll
Banned by:

Offline scutty brown

Ease up, you'll bust a blood vessel.  I've read the other threads and am well aware that 'cocktails' can dangerously lower BP.  That was not my question.  Have a look at the actual question I asked before getting your caks in a twist.

Assuming you don't die  :rolleyes:  do higher doses, i.e. 150mg Sildenafil have an enhanced effect or the opposite effect? I.e. If 25mg or 50mg works fine, would 100/150mg still work or not?  I don't need a lesson on the dangers of mixing higher level doses or different ED meds or taking with anti-hypertensive meds.

It appeared to be part of the question, and a part that needed jumping on...
In answer to what you've just asked, 100mg should work -but whether it would work better than a lower dose is uncertain assuming the lower dose works for you. Personally, I find I need 100mg - lesser doses don't work, but I'd be very leery about taking a higher dose.
Twice I've passed out after taking 100mg and then having a shared bath where the water was too warm and the blood pressure got too low...could have been nasty. The margin between safe/unsafe seems a bit tight. One of the reasons I switched to tadalafil - lower dose required.

Offline scutty brown

DA' Zeagra 50/30mg
About 60/70p each.

DA' Zeagra (50+30) mg contains active ingredients Sildenafil Citrate 50 mg and Dapoxetine 30 mg


I'm saying he may not be getting what he thinks. There no need to be rude dude..   I'm not talking about a guy at home cutting drugs ffs.
   Both drugs are cheap.  Maybe the seller ran out of one and replaced it with a the above medication.  The sellers don't care.
I'm trying to help the guy.   Again be nice.

If you can find that on sale in the UK I'll be very surprised. Its not being sold in India as an ED treatment, its being sold as a sexual enhancement product and would be labeled for what it is - as a blend. If anyone was caught selling it here they'd be  in serious shit: no product licence
« Last Edit: February 19, 2019, 10:52:35 pm by scutty brown »

Offline scutty brown

Dude it's not a black market I said ask the Dr to do the tests ect. it's available from Lloyds the Chemist  External Link/Members Only

I'm not going to reply to you you seam to have anger issues
The poster asked what worked for Ed.     This site is also all about a subject that's not totally leagle ie escorts ect.   I'm not sure why your so angry or here. I give up
90%of your posts are very angry unhelpfull posts 80%+ your reviews are negative.  maybe ask yourself rite/healthy game  my friend.  I'd hate to be so angry/neative all the time.pal

so thats why you said
Quote
or you can just go online and try Testogel
somewhat suggesting he should buy it without reference to medical checks.

You say I sound angry - well, I am at idiots who try to dispense bad medical advice. Idiots like you

Offline arthur

Certain strains of weed help to enhance the sexual feelings for me and overcome the issue with cumming. Ive also considered other drugs that enchance sexual pleasure but ive never been sure about how safe Ecstacy/Weed and viagra mixed are, so maybe some other members can help educate me.

Offline Home Alone

I've heard viagra increases melanoma risk.. personally the day I need chemical assistance to hoist the main mast will be the day I take up bowls instead as a hobby..  :lol:

Can't help wondering if you'll still say that when, as I am, you're in your early 70s, Wooderz?

As for me; I'm grateful that there's medication that allows me to pursue a much more satisfying pastime than bowls!  :yahoo:

Offline Fanfanuk

so thats why you said somewhat suggesting he should buy it without reference to medical checks.

You say I sound angry - well, I am at idiots who try to dispense bad medical advice. Idiots like you
Dude your efforts here are wasted there some good flat earth forums out there .  With all your time/no life  ect

NHS have trials for Ed /Testogel  and mk 2866/ mk77 most sarms ect  Go Google again it falls under wellbeing/fert    Ok I will now leave before you get me banned like you have done to probably 100s.   Your a 47 year old man. Lost his hair. Has a kid but prob not your he hates you. You have a dead end job your getting bulled to crap in. Your only life line is to come on here and act like your the boss. God.  You use Google to try to belittle every one. You go to bed wishing you had more of a life then you do. Hoping not to wank up in the morning.  Got your number pal.

Omg some one just  mentioned weed. Go get him.
Op again . Good luck mate. This guys runin the forum and sorry for posting.
Banned reason: Previously banned troll
Banned by:

Offline Fanfanuk

If you can find that on sale in the UK I'll be very surprised. Its not being sold in India as an ED treatment, its being sold as a sexual enhancement product and would be labeled for what it is - as a blend. If anyone was caught selling it here they'd be  in serious shit: no product licence
You can get it cheap like I said. From a Canadian pharmacy its  totally fine to bring into the  eu country you talk total crap.  Once again    you can't live your life via Google dude.
Banned reason: Previously banned troll
Banned by:

SlamBoy

  • Guest
So the thread (like many other UKP threads lately), has gone rather off topic and turned into an argument and slanging match  :unknown:

I would really just appreciate any of your thoughts on the two questions posed at the beginning (reproduced here for ease of reference):

Would really appreciate any input on these two issues lads:

(1) Does anyone else find it difficult to cum when using Viagra? It is great for getting me hard, but I find it really difficult to cum when using it.

(2) Has anyone either improved or eradicated ED without using Viagra or an equivalent? What did you do? How long did it take etc.

Thanks.

Offline shyboy1

So the thread (like many other UKP threads lately), has gone rather off topic and turned into an argument and slanging match  :unknown:

I would really just appreciate any of your thoughts on the two questions posed at the beginning (reproduced here for ease of reference):

Thanks.
I do find it takes a lot longer to cum if I use Viagra but seeing as my biggest annoyance before was having a short fuse I try to look on it as a positive. In fact I can pretty much stay hard and enjoy a couple of hours of action then have one intense cum at the end. There are some things that will always make me cum when I need to like a vigorous hj, a hard deep missionary fuck or A levels.
If you find it very difficult to cum no matter what then this leads into question 2.
Abstinence can help, there was an excellent explanation on an old thread about this but basically it said to break the porn habit and leave the old chap alone for a couple of weeks or more if possible and if you have to wax the dolphin just use two fingers and not the tight grip method, this helps bring sensitivity back and allows you to cum more readily through normal sex.
I have tried this and although it’s difficult it does work.
Best of luck
SB


Offline Plan R

That other ED thread became largely about improving your hydraulics without viagra..

but this stuff is the best I've found for increasing libido...(between the ears)
I get well horny on it. That insatiable urge for pussy you're always fighting when your younger.
To the point that I only take it for a few days then come off - I think it could make me a sex pest  :D

External Link/Members Only

Snake Oil? Placebo Effect?   Maybe... fact is I don't know or really care that much.
I just know I'm impressed with the boost to my libido when I take it.
YMMV of course - but there are 700+ reviews on amazon, so draw your own conclusions.

Offline GreyDave

I've heard viagra increases melanoma risk.. personally the day I need chemical assistance to hoist the main mast will be the day I take up bowls instead as a hobby..  :lol:

Ahh you must be Young or Very Lucky  ;) ;)

Dissapointing erections not disfunction  ;) came to me in my mid 50`s at lucky the same time as Kamagra and ASDA `s stuff was CHEAP   :dance: :dance: and easy to get previously it wasin the realms of the Peter Stringfellow types at £10 plus a tab :scare: :scare:

Offline Doc Holliday

I would really just appreciate any of your thoughts on the two questions posed at the beginning (reproduced here for ease of reference):


In relation to your first point about orgasm difficulties .. this does seem to vary individually but was a huge issue for me. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=238347.msg2437481#msg2437481

Many others report this and some actually see it as a benefit. Surprisingly I was never able to find this as an 'official' side effect by the pharmaceutical companies, but it is speculated that this symptom may be due a central effect on the brain or that it reduces sensitivity of the glans. In my case I felt the latter was definitely occurring.

Offline Doc Holliday

Twice I've passed out after taking 100mg and then having a shared bath where the water was too warm and the blood pressure got too low...could have been nasty. The margin between safe/unsafe seems a bit tight.

Have you had your BP checked out as 100mg should not produce such a significant drop in blood pressure in a healthy individual. Are you taking any hypertensive meds?

SlamBoy

  • Guest
I do find it takes a lot longer to cum if I use Viagra but seeing as my biggest annoyance before was having a short fuse I try to look on it as a positive. In fact I can pretty much stay hard and enjoy a couple of hours of action then have one intense cum at the end. There are some things that will always make me cum when I need to like a vigorous hj, a hard deep missionary fuck or A levels.
If you find it very difficult to cum no matter what then this leads into question 2.
Abstinence can help, there was an excellent explanation on an old thread about this but basically it said to break the porn habit and leave the old chap alone for a couple of weeks or more if possible and if you have to wax the dolphin just use two fingers and not the tight grip method, this helps bring sensitivity back and allows you to cum more readily through normal sex.
I have tried this and although it’s difficult it does work.
Best of luck
SB

Very useful. Thanks  :thumbsup:

SlamBoy

  • Guest
In relation to your first point about orgasm difficulties .. this does seem to vary individually but was a huge issue for me. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=238347.msg2437481#msg2437481

Many others report this and some actually see it as a benefit. Surprisingly I was never able to find this as an 'official' side effect by the pharmaceutical companies, but it is speculated that this symptom may be due a central effect on the brain or that it reduces sensitivity of the glans. In my case I felt the latter was definitely occurring.

Yes. The cum hindrance isn't a benefit to me. I was always able to control when I cum for any extended period of time and never suffered from premature ejeculation. Maybe that's one of the reasons Viagra makes it very difficult for me to cum.  :unknown:

Offline rickyponting

I pop ok on the first go,but second time I can take forever,it's almost like the sensitivity in my knob disappears.
I take about a quarter of a 50mg pill,I cut them with a Stanley knife.
Strangely ,with the OH I don't need Viagra,and can get hard and pop twice no problem,but the difference there is proper kissing and groping I think..

Wooderz

  • Guest
Can't help wondering if you'll still say that when, as I am, you're in your early 70s, Wooderz?

As for me; I'm grateful that there's medication that allows me to pursue a much more satisfying pastime than bowls!  :yahoo:
Haha. Good on yer.. Apparently, there is some debate regards how much viagra assists in detecting melanoma.. Often occurs in males on the back.. A place usually only seen by sex partners..  :hi:

I'm only a teenager behind you age wise.. But I am wondering how things are for older punters? I have been punting for 4 decades and apart from a lull in my 30's and 40's when access to fresh supplies of civvies was highly productive so I had little or no need to punt, I can honestly say whoring has only ever been something I over indulge in because I have a very high sex drive and cannot be arsed "dating" etc..

In my youth and middle age, access to quality fresh gash being only reliable on a pay per shag basis..

Yesterday I plonked 4 whores. Probably excessive, but I was aiming for 5 but had a kebab instead of getting my last one in..

Gotta say, getting wood hasn't ever been a problem for me, but sometime when on a dickathalon mission, I really can't be arsed and am not fully in "the zone"..

Sometimes I wonder why I bother.. Shagging cheers me up, but sometimes i have to do a lot of women to get a high..

I was wondering how viagra etc works in with the "mental" side of sex drive?


Offline GreyDave


Yesterday I plonked 4 whores. Probably excessive, but I was aiming for 5 but had a kebab instead of getting my last one in..

Gotta say, getting wood hasn't ever been a problem for me, but sometime when on a dickathalon mission, I really can't be arsed and am not fully in "the zone"..

Sometimes I wonder why I bother.. Shagging cheers me up, but sometimes i have to do a lot of women to get a high..

I was wondering how viagra etc works in with the "mental" side of sex drive?

I find it dosent do anything mentally or refuel wise I suspect you are like me a Walk Up lad seeing 4-5 in a day  :drinks: :drinks:

I am still able to do that with the pills but the cum is one maybe two at end of day and then its hard work  :D :D :D for the girl
some of them see it as achallenge others an iratation , i have been told times up so many times now and the maids know me  I try and stay on their good side and tip a little more 3 quid and some times a 5`er in the maids hand if its a pretty one  :cool: :cool:

Wooderz

  • Guest
I find it dosent do anything mentally or refuel wise I suspect you are like me a Walk Up lad seeing 4-5 in a day  :drinks: :drinks:

I am still able to do that with the pills but the cum is one maybe two at end of day and then its hard work  :D :D :D for the girl
some of them see it as achallenge others an iratation , i have been told times up so many times now and the maids know me  I try and stay on their good side and tip a little more 3 quid and some times a 5`er in the maids hand if its a pretty one  :cool: :cool:
I was always a fan on street action but that game is good as dead now. cops have killed it. I don't like the online AWank ways of getting  action because it's too whorecentric and only a small percentage of SP's on there are worth wasting time on..

Regarding wood pills.. How do they work? I mean, what happens?

I don't have erection problems as such, but sometimes I have a "power boner" which is rampant and can do wonders all day and all night, other times I can't arsed much..

On my "can't be arsed with shagging" days I enjoy relaxing and don't miss it..

But, sometimes, when I am doing a rubbish punt, I wanna pop and run.. Some SP's really irritate me so much I feel like saying "fuck off, keep the cash, I'm going leave it".. I lose wood and need to crank it up and shoot fast.. Which I do by hand when the SP isn't my cuppa..

Do wood pills provide the reliable solid slab of manpike to resist lack lustre SP induced droops?

Offline yandex


Regarding wood pills.. How do they work? I mean, what happens?

But, sometimes, when I am doing a rubbish punt, I wanna pop and run.. Some SP's really irritate me so much I feel like saying "fuck off, keep the cash, I'm going leave it".. I lose wood and need to crank it up and shoot fast.. Which I do by hand when the SP isn't my cuppa..

Do wood pills provide the reliable solid slab of manpike to resist lack lustre SP induced droops?

Who knows how this stuff really works - Sidenafil was originally developed as a heart drug for angina and the test subjects noticed that they got and maintained hard on's much easier.

The fact is, it doesn't give you an erection automatically, you still need to have some sort of desire first. I find (with Kamagra, an internet generic version) that I get hard and once I've popped, stay reasonably big and get erect again pretty much straight away. Said erection still goes down at the end of the punt without the mental stimulus though.

Others might have a different experience, but if the attraction/lust isn't there from the start, I'm not getting a boner, no matter how hard I try.

Wooderz

  • Guest
if the attraction/lust isn't there from the start, I'm not getting a boner, no matter how hard I try.
Hmm.. this is what bothers me. I have a slight interest in trying it but my dick works good when I am in da mood.. Sometimes I ain't in da mood, but I wanna shag for the high of it.. Kinda, depression fix..

Reminds me of the saying.. "Erection dysfunction is primarily caused by ugly women"..

Show me a good un and I'm up like a jack in box ready for action.. Rare to find though aint they?

Diminishing returns, the law of..

Online daviemac

  • Board Moderator
  • Moderator
  • *****
  • Posts: 25,271
  • Likes: 382
  • Reviews: 24
Hmm.. this is what bothers me. I have a slight interest in trying it but my dick works good when I am in da mood.. Sometimes I ain't in da mood, but I wanna shag for the high of it.. Kinda, depression fix..

Reminds me of the saying.. "Erection dysfunction is primarily caused by ugly women"..

Show me a good un and I'm up like a jack in box ready for action.. Rare to find though aint they?

Diminishing returns, the law of..

It may help you to read up on how sildenafil works, it's not an instant hard-on, it only becomes effective with sexual stimulation.

External Link/Members Only   

Wooderz

  • Guest
It may help you to read up on how sildenafil works, it's not an instant hard-on, it only becomes effective with sexual stimulation.

External Link/Members Only   
thanks for the link.. Scared me off bigtime.. I don't fancy risking side effects..

Erectile dysfunction can be caused by one of two things: 1. an actual physical problem (if this is the case you should see your GP/doctor) or 2. (and this is the most common cause of it) performance anxiety (or any other kind of psychological anxiety) . A mans sexual function is heavily related to how he feels psychologically. If he is stressed and anxious in anyway, cortisol (the natural stress hormone) acts to inhibit certain functions in order to get us through the stressful situation. This is a fro-back from our earliest ancestors for survival purposes, so that in the presence of danger, a man would not be hung up on sex or any kind of sexual activity. It would free him up to be able to deal with the situation at time. It's that same reason as to why sometimes you can't pee when somebody else enters the bathroom.

So then what is the solution?

The only real way to dealing with performance anxiety/psychological anxiety is really just to learn how to relax, and be less inhibited about yourself. It's the same thing as when you learn to relax when you pee even in the presence of another person and your in complete trust of yourself and your functions. It takes time and it takes patience, but ultimately, it's about re-learning to trust yourself and your sexual functions.

Sorry for the essay. Hope this helps.

(P.s, if you can still get erections when you wake up in the morning and when you masturbate, then the problem is only psychological. if you can't get it up at all then it is a physical problem which requires a doctors help. either way see your doctor for more help).

Wooderz

  • Guest
Erectile dysfunction can be caused by one of two things: 1. an actual physical problem (if this is the case you should see your GP/doctor) or 2. (and this is the most common cause of it) performance anxiety (or any other kind of psychological anxiety) . A mans sexual function is heavily related to how he feels psychologically. If he is stressed and anxious in anyway, cortisol (the natural stress hormone) acts to inhibit certain functions in order to get us through the stressful situation. This is a fro-back from our earliest ancestors for survival purposes, so that in the presence of danger, a man would not be hung up on sex or any kind of sexual activity. It would free him up to be able to deal with the situation at time. It's that same reason as to why sometimes you can't pee when somebody else enters the bathroom.

So then what is the solution?

The only real way to dealing with performance anxiety/psychological anxiety is really just to learn how to relax, and be less inhibited about yourself. It's the same thing as when you learn to relax when you pee even in the presence of another person and your in complete trust of yourself and your functions. It takes time and it takes patience, but ultimately, it's about re-learning to trust yourself and your sexual functions.

Sorry for the essay. Hope this helps.

(P.s, if you can still get erections when you wake up in the morning and when you masturbate, then the problem is only psychological. if you can't get it up at all then it is a physical problem which requires a doctors help. either way see your doctor for more help).
:drinks:.

Offline Home Alone

It may help you to read up on how sildenafil works, it's not an instant hard-on, it only becomes effective with sexual stimulation.

External Link/Members Only   

It's the same with Tadalafil; I'm paraphrasing, but the leaflet inside the box says they work better when you've been sexually stimulated.

Or as the Scottish lady GP who prescribed my first dose of Viagra said, "Ye'll still have to go through foreplay, mind."

And I thought, "Ah well, if I must, I must!"  :yahoo:
« Last Edit: February 21, 2019, 10:41:53 pm by Home Alone »

Offline Marmalade

I wonder if it’s possible to add a few calm notes here without giving advice on personal choices ...

Medical data (check the studies) shows a higher number of subjects responding with a higher dose than lower dose of sildenafil (viagra under whatever name). But it enhances your ability to respond. Gives you wood with stimulation. Doesn’t make repulsive robotic Romanians sexy unless you find them sexy anyway. (This, and I’m hypothesising now, is maybe why staying off porn and off wanking can help — it starts to make any pair of piss flaps look pretty cuntishly hot.)

A larger dose — and this goes for things like sleeping tablets as well — will give more of an effect than a smaller dose, but if a small dose has zero effect then a bigger one probably won’t help much. This is relevant if you are trying to get them on the NHS. If the doc starts you on 50mg and you want 100, it’s no use saying 50 is crap: say it has some effect but not enough.

Testosterone gels work entirely differently. They don’t make your willie jump up in the air at the sight of skirt like viagra: they increase your general libido (which viagra doesn’t). It makes you feel younger and probably a bit more alive to (and interested in) the opposite sex. There are some risks attached. Those health authorities that are ok about prescribing it generally have guidelines to discuss the pros and cons (no pun intended) with the patient and come to a joint decision. Some clinicians feel it should be offered to all men over a certain age (but the cost would be enormous). BNF guidelines (the NHS default) is quite conservative compared to many countries and the suggested tests are rarely implemented with proper clinical guidelines. (Testing your t-levels is more complex than just including it with a regular blood test.) Two other points: the majority of studies and recent meta studies do not think it causes prostate cancer, although it is thought that it can make an existing condition worse. Secondly last time I checked, it is illegal to import it by mail order even from Europe or America. Not because of patent or black market issues but simply because it is from time to time on a list of controlled drugs that it is illegal to import (but if it is prescribed for you while you are abroad you can bring it back with you for your own use).

Wooderz

  • Guest
I wonder if it’s possible to add a few calm notes here without giving advice on personal choices ...

Medical data (check the studies) shows a higher number of subjects responding with a higher dose than lower dose of sildenafil (viagra under whatever name). But it enhances your ability to respond. Gives you wood with stimulation. Doesn’t make repulsive robotic Romanians sexy unless you find them sexy anyway. (This, and I’m hypothesising now, is maybe why staying off porn and off wanking can help — it starts to make any pair of piss flaps look pretty cuntishly hot.)

A larger dose — and this goes for things like sleeping tablets as well — will give more of an effect than a smaller dose, but if a small dose has zero effect then a bigger one probably won’t help much. This is relevant if you are trying to get them on the NHS. If the doc starts you on 50mg and you want 100, it’s no use saying 50 is crap: say it has some effect but not enough.

Testosterone gels work entirely differently. They don’t make your willie jump up in the air at the sight of skirt like viagra: they increase your general libido (which viagra doesn’t). It makes you feel younger and probably a bit more alive to (and interested in) the opposite sex. There are some risks attached. Those health authorities that are ok about prescribing it generally have guidelines to discuss the pros and cons (no pun intended) with the patient and come to a joint decision. Some clinicians feel it should be offered to all men over a certain age (but the cost would be enormous). BNF guidelines (the NHS default) is quite conservative compared to many countries and the suggested tests are rarely implemented with proper clinical guidelines. (Testing your t-levels is more complex than just including it with a regular blood test.) Two other points: the majority of studies and recent meta studies do not think it causes prostate cancer, although it is thought that it can make an existing condition worse. Secondly last time I checked, it is illegal to import it by mail order even from Europe or America. Not because of patent or black market issues but simply because it is from time to time on a list of controlled drugs that it is illegal to import (but if it is prescribed for you while you are abroad you can bring it back with you for your own use).
Makes sense regards "vitamin T". I used to enjoy hard sessions in the gym and my general libido was much higher when I was a regular gym bunny. As soon as I quit training a year or more ago I lost much of my rampantness.. I know it will come back with some hard gym work.. I just don't see much point in being a middle aged man trying to look like I am 2 decades younger.. I just like shagging women 2 decades younger.. Not prepared to work hard for it though..  :cool: We all wanna quick fix eh lads?

Offline Marmalade

I think you’re probably right — from what I recall, doing a work out releases more testosterone — though the effect lessens with age. Maybe that’s one reason why ‘getting back in the swing of it’ (the barbells not the bunnies) also gets more difficult with age.

Wooderz

  • Guest
I think you’re probably right — from what I recall, doing a work out releases more testosterone — though the effect lessens with age. Maybe that’s one reason why ‘getting back in the swing of it’ (the barbells not the bunnies) also gets more difficult with age.
I have trained on and off for decades and I would say the testosterone increase evidenced by higher drive and libido (in all things) has been more marked as I get older..

Aged 19 I had raging hormones regardless of my bodybuilding activities..

Aged 50 plus the only way I was getting "involuntary boners" regularly at sight of women was after hard gym work and, perhaps, protien powder milk shakes with alleged testo boost additives.. Not sure but I certain soon lost that when I stopped training..

Offline nervous1

Depends on the ED.  I was too much wanking with mine so viagra just made that problem worse.  If it's due to some other health issue then see your GP.