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Offline IRLBJ

Anyone else experience worse service if you visit an SP multiple times? Like they try less? Had this happen with multiple SPs, first punt they seem really eager - get me to cum three times no matter what it takes, give great deepthroat etc. Next few times they put in 30 percent less effort.

Online OakTree

Yeah that’s why I generally visit them only the once.

That said there are a small handful I’ve seen a number of times but it’s usually six months to a year or even more between each visit.

In a nutshell I’ve never had/been a regular.

Online hendrix

No. At least, no WG that's become a reg of mine has ever done this. If they did, they wouldn't be regulars. Some I've seen many hundreds of times, always a great service.

Offline Herts_Outcaller

Obviously the ones I go back to are the better ones, and familiarity makes it a bit better. You know what you're getting, and so do they.

Sometimes I might have a booking with a semi-regular where we don't quite click, then it's back to their best next time after.

Offline tynetunnel

Yes, I had one I saw each time I punted. The quality and enthusiasm rapidly dropped. Lesson learned  :hi:

Offline jimmypopp

I've only visited one twice. First time was amazing, hence the 2nd visit when I was passing through.

IDK if the different circumstances counted, and with hindsight & antibiotics, suspect she was feeling off and shouldn't have been working on my 2nd visit.

1st visit was late at night, and fantastic. 2nd was early afternoon and she was not the same bubbly person. A few days later I was needing to pee all the time and put it down to an infection from the OWO.

At the end of the day they are human, not robots.

Offline sim0256

I do have a habit of re-visiting if the service is good. Indeed my number one I have seen many times and I feel the service has improved with time.
 Anyone who has a regular , or indeed more than one, must enjoy the service given and it must maintain a certain level , or what's the point in returning.

So accepting those points a regular won't be a regular if the service declines and there won't be subsequent visits.!

Offline Charliehutton

Some I've seen many hundreds of times.

Wow, I'm really surprised to read that. I rarely see a girl more than once, and only the exceptional ones at that. Even my favourite girl I've only seen six times, over six years. Just shows how we're all different, I guess.

Online RandomGuy99

In the past I've seen the same SP every two weeks for 6 months or so. I've also seen the same SP every week for a couple of months. Most of the time the service has either stayed the same or improved as we get used to each other's likes. Generally, I am quite shy so once I get comfortable with an SP and I enjoy myself then I see them again over and over.  I've probably done this with about 5 SPs.

Other SPs I've seen once or twice mostly because they were tourers or their location wasn't as convenient for me or didn't have the looks I liked or they were harder to book at the times I like to do bookings. 

I think the best SPs have the ability to keep you happy time after time not because they offer you extra services, but because they deliver a consistently good experience, sometimes they introduce you to things you've not tried before (positions or services) and are very professional in their business (good comms, quick booking process).

However, you can also get situations where you can annoy each other, which means it is time to stop being a regular.

I also like regulars as I like to maximise the use of my punting opportunities and I'd prefer to see a regular who I know delivers what I like than take a risk on an unknown who may or may not be good.
« Last Edit: February 02, 2023, 09:09:13 pm by RandomGuy99 »

Online Punterperson1971

Anyone else experience worse service if you visit an SP multiple times? Like they try less? Had this happen with multiple SPs, first punt they seem really eager - get me to cum three times no matter what it takes, give great deepthroat etc. Next few times they put in 30 percent less effort.
No been seeing my reg for 5 years almost and service is still excellent

Offline Iloveoral

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Anyone else experience worse service if you visit an SP multiple times? Like they try less? Had this happen with multiple SPs, first punt they seem really eager - get me to cum three times no matter what it takes, give great deepthroat etc. Next few times they put in 30 percent less effort.
With just one review in 5 years I’m guessing you stick to that regular ?
Any reason your not contributing more here?

Offline jimbobted

I wouldn't say I've even noticed less effort on a return visit, but some it becomes clear on the second and any subsequent visits that they have a routine and that's that. Gets pretty stale.
The only girls I've returned more than once or twice are those where it's a different (but still great) experience every time. Confidentially those seek to be the girls that give the best service, and often tend to be part timers or low volume girls doing it for fun and excitement as much as for the cash.

Offline Bonker

Yes.
Foolishly, I expected the opposite.

What's the reason? Complacency? Suspicion of EAS? Derision?

I don't know.  Maybe some of our SPs can enlighten us.

In other businesses, loyalty is rewarded.  Yes, I know it's different with punting but I don't think it should be.

Offline Stevelondon

Let me get this right. The OP is asking if we (like him) experience poorer service the more times we visit the same SP.

No...

Because if I went back a second time and the service was'nt as good as the first time. I would'nt be going back for thirds for fucks sake.


Online akauya

I don't have regulars so this is not a problem for me.

Maybe you guys, with regulars whose quality of service decreases with time, could drop a hint that you have another regular? So when booking your next visit say something like 'oh no can't do that date I'm seeing my other regular. Shall we try the week after?'

Her competition instinct may kick in and start giving you a better service... or maybe not?  :unknown:

Offline Maak

My regular isn't amazing, she just ok. I keep going back as she has an amazing body & value for money

Offline Lecoamraam

Ever thought about it being you and not the SP? If the excitement of seeing a new girl is lessened and it becomes a bit more of a routine, it can seem the SP is putting in less of an effort. Because you are just less aroused every time you go through the same motions. Or you may send of vibes that dampen the overall excitement in the experience.

I think having an optimal punting experience requires effort on both sides. If either side slacks off it will reduce it.

Offline Blackpool Rock

I rarely see a girl more than once and the 1st punt has to be memorable or exceptionable for some reason for me to think "may have a regular here" and return a 2nd time
I noticed many years ago that the 2nd visit was never quite the same level as the initial visit but also thought this may be down to my expectations being so high from the initial punt.
It then dawned on me that the 3rd visit was so often a disappointment and the service level did seem to drop off considerably and for this reason i'd say that i've only ever had a few regulars

Perhaps for some girls they think they have you hooked and put less effort in and some of it is probably down to me and my expectation of getting an 11/10 punt every time, more than likely a combination of factors

Offline Stevelondon

Those last two posts raise an interesting point and I had not thought about it to be honest.

Over my punting career I have been back to see the same SP again and again.
By that I don’t mean just one SP. But over the years a number of girls that I’ve gone back to repeatedly.

But I would have to say this is because of roleplay/Fetish punts and when building up a sort of rap-ore, I suspect return visits help in that regard.

But if it’s just a more normal vanilla type lick, blow and shag experience. I’d probably only be visiting a couple of times.

Offline Hobbit

Yes.
Foolishly, I expected the opposite.

What's the reason? Complacency? Suspicion of EAS? Derision?

I don't know.  Maybe some of our SPs can enlighten us.

In other businesses, loyalty is rewarded.  Yes, I know it's different with punting but I don't think it should be.

Unfortunately, it's neither in my opinion. I would put it down to human conditioning and modern-based culture.
Modern culture is based on doing as little as possible for as much profit as possible. Combined with a sense of entitlement you have a toxic timebomb! :bomb:

There are exceptions and some people do have traditional values of working hard, good ethics, and customer satisfaction. However, many don't and like you, I have also found especially with younger women, that their performance drops significantly after a few visits. When that happens, I simply don't see them for 6 months or more and when I return their performance heightens like a 10 inch cock!

Offline Munter84

It's certainly possible for standards to slip after a few visits but there are many factors at play and many potential outcomes.

1) WG sees she's getting a repeat customer, thinks "thank God, an easy one, he's a nice reliable pay packet" and delivers a perfunctory performance. Punter leaves feeling slightly cheated. I imagine this is what a lot of punters must assume.

But it could also be:

2) The WG is having an off day. The punter sees her, compares back to the good first meet, and with a sample size of n=2 confidently declares the WG is a lazy bint who has him marked as a sucker. Indignant, he never sees her again and thus his opinion goes unchallenged.

Or even:

3) The WG provides a consistent service. The punter feels that a few meets in the SP should have "loosened up" and started offering discretionary services. With the novelty factor gone, the punter percieves a drop in service, and ups sticks.

On the flip side, potentially:

4) The WG remembers you and what gets your juices flowing, and as a result the sessions actually get better with repeat visits. Happy days!

YMMV.

Online hendrix

Wow, I'm really surprised to read that. I rarely see a girl more than once, and only the exceptional ones at that. Even my favourite girl I've only seen six times, over six years. Just shows how we're all different, I guess.

I've been punting a long time, maybe 40 years now.. And I don't have any unpaid options whilst nowadays requiring sex (of a very specific pse type) most days so... It adds up!

Offline JonasG

The true good WGs don't let their standards slip. I've got regulars who are still as good as when I first saw them in 2018 etc. Upwards of 20+ meets or more.

Obviously some WGs do slip once you make them a regular but then you sack em off and delete them from your HL.

« Last Edit: February 03, 2023, 05:20:01 pm by JonasG »

Offline pantywetter

Yeah, I had two i was seeing regularly last year and both went off the boil.  Surprising because it’s guaranteed money and I assume I’m a relatively easy and no BS customer.  Alas….

Online Fuzzyduck

Anyone else experience worse service if you visit an SP multiple times? Like they try less? Had this happen with multiple SPs, first punt they seem really eager - get me to cum three times no matter what it takes, give great deepthroat etc. Next few times they put in 30 percent less effort.

You raise an interesting question but TBH you deserve fuck all response given what you've shared in the past.

Offline Jeffe

Key thing to remember no real loyalty is owed on either side. I like having a few regulars but if I feel it’s time to move on (either the novelty has worn off for me or their service has become more complacent) then I do these days. I shake my head at some previous regulars who I saw sometimes as I felt an odd “obligation” too. Happier to move on and enjoy the variety of punting these days

Offline Naughtyboyuk

Maybe I’ve been lucky but my 3 regulars have all been prepared to be more adventurous and introduce variety as we continue to meet.  We discuss additional and different things to try to keep things fun and fresh….hopefully for both parties but if only for me I’m not complaining.

Online scutty brown

Anyone else experience worse service if you visit an SP multiple times? Like they try less? Had this happen with multiple SPs, first punt they seem really eager - get me to cum three times no matter what it takes, give great deepthroat etc. Next few times they put in 30 percent less effort.

It's because they recognise you from what was to them a bad experience.
Could be anything - farting, fucking too hard, spunking in her hair, expecting a rimming with a hairy asshole, asking too many questions................anything

Offline tigerbiker

I find that the rapport grows with a regular SP and things get better.
My most frequented SP  (about 30 visits over 2 years - no longer working and long before I was in here) went from being a mediocre experience first time to a total mind blower after about 5 visits. For example, she did not offer A levels but once asked me to arse fuck her because she had been watching bum fucking porno.... happy to help. In the later meets she started to orgasm during vaginal fucking. Sometimes if she had not cum after I was done she would ask if she could use her vibrator to cum whilst I licked her nipples - happy to oblige. She was the best sex partner I have had to date.... and I have had quite a lot.

Online Half Century

Like others have said, YMMV.  I made repeat visits to a couple of girls who provided a good service and both of them started to fill time with chatting (not in a good way) and less action and enthusiasm.  Maybe they didn't feel like they needed to try as hard as I was a repeat customer and there was less need to impress. On the other hand, my most regular girl for many years was someone who I visited for hand relief visits but as time went on, she did the lot for the same money because she just fancied it.  Shame she doesn't work any more or I'd still be going.

Offline Doc Holliday

It's because they recognise you from what was to them a bad experience.
Could be anything - farting, fucking too hard, spunking in her hair, expecting a rimming with a hairy asshole, asking too many questions................anything

This is also a strong possibility. Most though not all Sp's will hope to build up regulars .. but that doesn't mean they cannot select who those regulars are.

If you are deemed a potential regular then a good SP will maintain a standard to keep you coming back and some will look to develop things if it seems appropriate and what the punter wants (which isn't always the case)

For me it was always about variety and out of a guesstimate of 600-700 different SP's, there are maybe around a dozen I have seen more than once and of those a few were by accident. I think the most I have seen anyone is perhaps four times, where there has been a financial transaction involved.

I have never really had anyone I would call a regular and it has always been my belief that the sex can only genuinely develop' to any real extent, when money is removed from the equation ... but that's just me.




Offline belamy85

Like others have said, YMMV.  I made repeat visits to a couple of girls who provided a good service and both of them started to fill time with chatting (not in a good way) and less action and enthusiasm.  Maybe they didn't feel like they needed to try as hard as I was a repeat customer and there was less need to impress. On the other hand, my most regular girl for many years was someone who I visited for hand relief visits but as time went on, she did the lot for the same money because she just fancied it.  Shame she doesn't work any more or I'd still be going.

My experience is similar to this. I had a couple of regs where the service diminished with each visit. Less enthusiasm, more chat. I guess they thought bcs I kept coming back they didn't need to put the effort in. Eventually I stopped seeing them.

On the other hand another reg started offering services that she didn't advertise such as giving rimming, filming etc (but to be clear, never BB. She always played safe.) She also became more generous with her time. Once I paid for 60 mins... and stayed the whole afternoon.

So I guess the answer to the original question is that it depends on the individual SP.

Offline jesse4585

Had it happen twice that the 2nd visit was much less fun than the first.  Normally I find WG's get better on repeat visits.  In my case, for the two disappointments, it felt like it was because they had other stresses in their life and had got too run down  - they were both quite high volume lasses. 

But similar to what others are saying, I guess in somes cases a WG puts less effort in once she feels she's got a punter hooked.
« Last Edit: February 06, 2023, 02:30:28 pm by jesse4585 »

Offline Comicman

I've only seen Amy Amazon who sadly  passed away  and laura/angel dd the Polish girl from  Camden who  sadly retired  more than  once both never let me down hence the multiple visits

Offline Tender.french.kiss

Ever thought about it being you and not the SP? If the excitement of seeing a new girl is lessened and it becomes a bit more of a routine, it can seem the SP is putting in less of an effort.

I noticed many years ago that the 2nd visit was never quite the same level as the initial visit but also thought this may be down to my expectations being so high from the initial punt.

I concur.
Experienced it recently with 2 WGs who had been good enough for me to fancy seeing them again. Both repeat meets were a bit disappointing.
Previous older cases with others WG I saw 2 and 3 times also ended up as 'duller'.
I'd put it down to the fact that the 'novelty' factor is gone. The planning and waiting phases before the first meet, with all its unknown and arousing anticipation is not longer there. I believe, at least for me, that the curiosity of meeting a new girl and wondering 'how naughty will she be, how genuine will it feel, how good will it be' is an important factor in my enjoyment of a punt.
So with this novelty gone and with maybe an unconscious expectation of 'Can she be even better' I have found that repeat meets are never better than initial one, unlike with civvies IRL.
Only my tuppence.

Offline wristjob

I prefer not to have regulars but outside London choice of suitable quality really isn't there.

I've seen many girls who were great 1st time, maybe drops off the 2nd time. Probably 1/5 that get 2 visits even make it to a 3rd and after that it's really rare. A couple have been as good on later visits but most either seem like they are more a friend than a GF, or they seem a bit familiar and a little complacent and going through the motions. I saw one girl for a 3rd visit recently and she just wouldn't stop talking, which wasn't really why I was there.


Offline Generalstockinghead

If you get a worse service as a returning customer then it’s time to move on and find a lads who gets better as you learn each others kinks.  Don’t waste your time hoping for a better service, move on and try another. 


Offline Joball87

I've been guilty of having some regulars and in my case I have had this issue by stealth. Still good service but looking back stuff like less energy at times, bit more arriving late and clock watching etc. This thread has helped me to reflect and going fwds I will probs be in the 1 or 2 max 3 visits category of punter.

Offline Colston36

Anyone else experience worse service if you visit an SP multiple times? Like they try less? Had this happen with multiple SPs, first punt they seem really eager - get me to cum three times no matter what it takes, give great deepthroat etc. Next few times they put in 30 percent less effort.

This take-you-for-granted weakness is common in all service industries. The rare smart operators offer you extra when you're a regular.

Offline Joball87

Also a useful thread to remind me to add some more reviews - will get them up soon.

Offline JonasG

Tbh, this is where this forum comes in handy. The truly very good WGs will have minimal if any neutrals and negatives over a big portion of reviews. Research these ones in particular.

You turn these WGs into regulars and the chances of them dipping in performance over numerous visits and years is low from my experience.

And also a factor is to keep your standards up and don't start doing things that would annoy a WG. (text tennis, poor hygiene, being late, asking for extra services after a certain amount of visits and testing the waters etc.)

Both these things should mean you build a good base of regulars that always deliver if you prefer that type of punting of knowing what you're gonna get.
« Last Edit: February 12, 2023, 01:01:24 am by JonasG »

Offline hullad

I have quite the reverse happen.

It has vastly improved over the last 8 years I have been seeing her, I see her now almost exclusively for a two hour + sesh every month. I have tried lots of new stuff including bondage to the point she has told me she really enjoys herself . She puts every effort in and makes suggestions, tries different ways of pleasuring each other. I discovered she likes being  held by the throat, it drives her wild and I discovered I love her sitting on my face.

This is the 2nd lady I have had as a regular that as gone onto being better over time

Offline 1599337

Varies from girl to girl i think. Some seem to give more enthusiastic service after a couple of visits, others just seem to stop putting in the effort. Hard to tell which you'll get usually too

I've had some where on a repeat its miles worse than the first and much less enthusiasm, and others where they seem to get a better idea of what you like and cater to that more. Roll of the dice i suppose
« Last Edit: February 13, 2023, 11:09:43 am by 1599337 »