How long to wait before walking?

[LFRM]

How long to wait before walking?

Hello good people,

Long time lurker here but wish my first post would be somewhat happier!

Just wanted to ask everyone, how long would you wait at a girl's place before she gave you directions to her place (assuming you don't have it beforehand).

Reason I ask, is today I decided to see Ashleigh Allen (link below):

External Link/Members Only

Have only used zzzz on and off for the last few years, and had a urge to go see someone today for a 30 minutes incall.

Admittedly was a last minute request to Ashleigh. I messaged her (sms) around 930am this morning and got a response saying she would be free for 30minutes later in the evening (630pm) Great, I thought, so messaged back that I would confirm and ask for location details. I can understand if they want to give details later to filter timewasters, security etc.

After work I sent her a message that I was on my way and would call her at Canary Wharf which she responded to.

I arrived a bit early at Canary Wharf (615pm) and tried to call her to get where she was working from. Went straight to her voicemail. I thought she's probably seeing another punter, so sent her a message that I'm in the area and could she let me know if our meeting was still on at 630pm.

630pm came so I called, the phone rang but no answer. Again messaged her and then tried to call after a while - nothing. Sent another message saying I will be around for 10-15 minutes and asking her to please confirm or not.

After waiting for about 15 minutes, nothing so headed home. Disappointed after wasting my time heading there straight from work.

Unfortunately no Plan B or C so came back empty handed.

Have you had this experience before? And how long did you wait?

Apologises if this has been asked before!

[hantshagger]

for me, it would depend on a number of factors:

How keen i was to meet her, based upon her profile
How far i had travelled
Whether i could arrange a plan B or not in the time i  had
Whether i had my own time constraints (follow on commitments)m meaning i couldnt delay a meet very much at all
How well reviewed she was on UKP - if very well reviewed i might wait a bit longer than if not... simply to give myself a chanve of the meet foing ahead


I have ended up waiting 25 mins once, and it was worth the wait for what happened when we met, but if that punt had been closer to home or she wasnt so hot, i dont think i would wait more than 8 mins from the proper starting time....  its a bit of a flexible one, for me....

[cueball]

As above it depends on a few factors, if there is a delay but she's let me know and kept good comms before my allotted time then I'll wait if I've got the window to wait.

If I called and text as the op did and got no answer I'd be on the return journey at exactly my allotted time.

Once I start the return journey there is no u turns neither.

[James999]

Do a Negative review on her and move on 

[LFRM]

Thanks for the response. Never been stood-up, so to speak before, so not really hung up. In the end of the day, it's my money so if she doesn't want to meet then I can use it next time. Bit annoyed though that there was no plan B and agree depends how keen and travel. Thankfully wasn't that far to travel but more wary for next time!

I did return home and no response to my sms so guess that's someone else to take off my HL!

Tempted to do a negative review. Just need to write it!

[cueball]

Tempted to do a negative review. Just need to write it!

Get it written, it'll be appreciated 

[maxxblue]

Agreed that this deserves a negative review.

[stevedave]

In the end of the day, it's my money so if she doesn't want to meet then I can use it next time.

Is the right attitude to have 

I agree with my esteemed colleagues above, this sounds like it merits a neg.

[pking_paul]

Sounds to me like you gave her every chance 

Neg seems fair if you write it like it was.

[smiths]

How long to wait before walking?

Hello good people,

Long time lurker here but wish my first post would be somewhat happier!

Just wanted to ask everyone, how long would you wait at a girl's place before she gave you directions to her place (assuming you don't have it beforehand).

Reason I ask, is today I decided to see Ashleigh Allen (link below):

External Link/Members Only

Have only used zzzz on and off for the last few years, and had a urge to go see someone today for a 30 minutes incall.

Admittedly was a last minute request to Ashleigh. I messaged her (sms) around 930am this morning and got a response saying she would be free for 30minutes later in the evening (630pm) Great, I thought, so messaged back that I would confirm and ask for location details. I can understand if they want to give details later to filter timewasters, security etc.

After work I sent her a message that I was on my way and would call her at Canary Wharf which she responded to.

I arrived a bit early at Canary Wharf (615pm) and tried to call her to get where she was working from. Went straight to her voicemail. I thought she's probably seeing another punter, so sent her a message that I'm in the area and could she let me know if our meeting was still on at 630pm.

630pm came so I called, the phone rang but no answer. Again messaged her and then tried to call after a while - nothing. Sent another message saying I will be around for 10-15 minutes and asking her to please confirm or not.

After waiting for about 15 minutes, nothing so headed home. Disappointed after wasting my time heading there straight from work.

Unfortunately no Plan B or C so came back empty handed.

Have you had this experience before? And how long did you wait?

Apologises if this has been asked before!

Yes I have, the WG probably accepted a booking off a regular after you heard from her, a negative review is what such low lifes deserve in my view.

I always have a plan B option, usually a regular who I can call, I wouldn't wait more than half hour nowadays, I don't appreciate having my time wasted.

[uncle jessie]

Yeah, some escort have got to get a lot more customer service focused and realize  they can't fuck  punters about, they whinge & moan about us lot on endlessly on SAAFE , those who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones comes to mind . I know this hobby is unregulated and below the radar per se . If it wasn't  a lot of them would end up on  TV's watchdog, or by word of mouth, at the least customers would vote with their feet, guess our example would be voting with our cocks after reading  posts on here...... should think this site has created numerous dusty escorts phones ! .

[Frampton]

10-15 minutes sounds like a fair time to wait, I'd expect them to be ok with that sort of delay if I got stuck in traffic.

But (assuming she had your mobile number) she ought to have text you just to say she was running late and giving you a rough idea of when she'd be free. As she didn't bother then I'd assume she was a timewaster.

[Pinballer]

If you arrive on time maybe 5-10 minutes.

Longer only if it was a short notice booking and she managed to fit you in

[Brazilian Martian]

15. Mins max then I'm leaving 

[threechilliman]

As above it depends on a few factors, if there is a delay but she's let me know and kept good comms before my allotted time then I'll wait if I've got the window to wait.

If I called and text as the op did and got no answer I'd be on the return journey at exactly my allotted time.

Once I start the return journey there is no u turns neither.

As above for me.

tcm

[mrdiamond77]

It's happened to me twice in the last year.  Both times I waited about 15 minutes without reply to my texts before I left.  On the other hand the one girl did text me back later apologizing and admitted she got the time of our appointment wrong and said she hoped we could rearrange for another time.  That was the only thing that stopped me putting a negative review on here.  I am booked to see her again next week so hopefully everything will go ok.

[Nagilum]

Agreed, review and forget about it.

25 minutes is generally a fair amount of time to wait. 

[jame75]

Do a Negative review on her and move on 

This. One of many reasons why this site is great!

[HankF]

I would wait 15 mins (maybe 20 max ) before bailing. Nothing more frustrating then getting no response upon arrival

[Ellroy44]

I wouldn't wait longer than 10 mins after the agreed meeting time, probably wouldn't even wait  that long if I'm getting no response to my texts and calls. I'd be thinking about lining up my plan b.

[will-ow]

15 minutes max if im on time,

[LFRM]

Well after a couple of days to rest. Have finally put up a review of my experience.

Good comments to my original post and one to take note for the future. Cheers guys!

[ickydicky]

Get it written, it'll be appreciated 

correct. do review. give her a negative. as for when to walk. if the comms fuck you about just switch off your phone and get tae fuck. or if she opens the door - hiding behind it as they all do - and when you step in and you dont like the look of what you see just say thanks but no thanks and get out of dodge. switching off your punting phone