How hard do you you go at it with an sp?

[Ozy84]

Guys, strange one but will put it out there, how hard do you fuck an sp?

Have felt i have been too soft recently and realised recently that i had been fucking an sp too lightly, in fact she said she needed it harder to cum. Also read reviews on here where the op says “pounded”, “fucked her hard” etc

How hard to you go at it without risking an sp complaining or not enjoying seeing you again?

 

[daviemac]

I do the same in every punt, I go with the service on offer and how it's offered and that differs from girl to girl.

I'm not into the 'I've paid so I can pound her as hard as I like' train of thought. If she isn't comfortable with something I don't do it.

[Straightsix]

I generally accelerate to a modest 45 reciprocations per minute at about 60 psi at the hips. Then after the third minute I whisper 'I love you' in her ear which generally ends with her climaxing and gushing with pleasure.

[Bonker]

The same goes for me.
I'm uncomfortable with the language in some reviews - pounded, smashed, let her have it - It sounds selfish and has connotations of abusive behaviour.

[CMiller]

Call it a cop out but it depends on the woman. I have no goal of pounding away as hard as I can as that's not my mindset from the fact I've paid for sex. I go at my "normal" rate unless she asks me to go harder or more slowly.

[FiveKnuckles]

I use the 'pounding' to describe a deep and fast pace.  I will read a SPs body/face and will go easy if they seem uncomfortable.   I'm average sized so most SPs should be ok.

There was one SP I saw that's was size 4 and I decided to go easy.  In hindsight she probably would had handled me fine.

When a SP says "don't make love, just fuck me!" or "fuck me" 

[Thephoenix]

I generally accelerate to a modest 45 reciprocations per minute at about 60 psi at the hips. Then after the third minute I whisper 'I love you' in her ear which generally ends with her climaxing and gushing with pleasure.

That had me giggling to myself.

I agree with the views saying it depends on the SP and what you perceive her preferences are.
Some will actually ask for a faster pace.
I think it comes with years of practice.

In the past I'd follow the usual routine of starting off slowly then if the signals were on green accelerating accordingly.

These days, I start off slowly and gradually fade away until I have to reach for my inhaler 😞



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[geostorm1]

Also I don't think pounding away as hard as possible always feels the greatest. Sometimes a slow and sensual fuck can feel really good too. But sometimes you get the right girl and the right position and you can really go at it as well. Just depends on the girl and how she is.

Usually when a girl wants it from behind she is happy to be smashed hard, whereas in missionary less so.

[Fac51]

I generally accelerate to a modest 45 reciprocations per minute at about 60 psi at the hips. Then after the third minute I whisper 'I love you' in her ear which generally ends with her climaxing and gushing with pleasure.

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[Punterperson1971]

I’ll only do it if she requests it I’ve had a regular asking me to pound her arse a few times lol

[olijameson]

I generally accelerate to a modest 45 reciprocations per minute at about 60 psi at the hips. Then after the third minute I whisper 'I love you' in her ear which generally ends with her climaxing and gushing with pleasure.

 

[Moby Dick]

Some ask for it harder cos they know you will finish early in the condom without any mess to wipe off their face. 

I’ve learnt to pace myself so that I cum in the final minute.
Bit of a bugger if I do a shorter 30minute booking.

[Punterperson1971]

I start off with lots of oral both ways fingering her ass and pace myself out in a 30 minute booking and usually know when im ready to cum and she can end up being quite vocal
Some times have toys out and strap on for pegging to so it’s never rushed never like to pound her hard unless it’s a P&D and she’s also asks me too I’ve had one or too say go easy at first stroke or 2 but they soon start to get into it.

[the_patient_wolf]

These days, I start off slowly and gradually fade away until I have to reach for my inhaler 😞

This.

Actually, this is quite a serious question. You need consent from the SP. If she is not happy with you going at it hard (or indeed any way) you need to stop. That consent needs to be verbal, physical and ongoing.

[PunterNumber69]

My goal is not to make her cum. My goal is to enjoy myself. I'm not into all this pounding bollocks that you read in reviews.

I never "go hard at it"

[Stevelondon]

I sometimes think when I read posts where the punter says.
“Gave her a good pounding”
It’s more for his own memory than anything else.
I am a great fuck kinda thing 

I’ve never been a pounder really. Perhaps in my younger days I may have shagged a tad longer and more forcibly than I do now. But as others have said. I kind of gauge the moment so to speak.

[PLeisure]

I generally accelerate to a modest 45 reciprocations per minute at about 60 psi at the hips. Then after the third minute I whisper 'I love you' in her ear which generally ends with her climaxing and gushing with pleasure.

You last as long as that? Impressive! If I haven't told her in the first 60secs, detumescence kicks in and it's game over 

[PLeisure]

I sometimes think when I read posts where the punter says.
“Gave her a good pounding”
It’s more for his own memory than anything else.
I am a great fuck kinda thing 

Exactly. The ego caressing in such posts is the equivalent of a self-administered wank 
I suspect it's a legacy of all those appalling readers' stories in 80's porn mags and locker room bragging.

[donnybob]

I generally accelerate to a modest 45 reciprocations per minute at about 60 psi at the hips. Then after the third minute I whisper 'I love you' in her ear which generally ends with her climaxing and gushing with pleasure.

I am very similar, but instead of saying I love you, I mention a tip 

[tynetunnel]

The same goes for me.
I'm uncomfortable with the language in some reviews - pounded, smashed, let her have it - It sounds selfish and has connotations of abusive behaviour.

This 100%

[sensualencounter]

As some have already mentioned, I'm pretty certain that a lot of the "I pounded her hard" reviews are semi-fantasy, for the benefit of the reviewer's own personal wank bank and to big themselves up.

However, there are also a few that have sounded really quite nasty and have no respect for the escort and treat her as a piece of meat. Totally out of order and often done to those at the cheaper end of the market, who can't always stick up for themselves through fear of their pimps. Disgusting behaviour and clear abuse.

As with everything in punting, complete consent should be given and understood by both parties and that consent can be withdrawn at any moment. Just because you've paid £xxx doesn't mean you own the escort and can do what you want.

[FLYING BLUE]

The same goes for me.
I'm uncomfortable with the language in some reviews - pounded, smashed, let her have it - It sounds selfish and has connotations of abusive behaviour.

Exactly this - my feelings 100%

[Nagilum]

Guys, strange one but will put it out there, how hard do you fuck an sp?

Have felt i have been too soft recently and realised recently that i had been fucking an sp too lightly, in fact she said she needed it harder to cum. Also read reviews on here where the op says “pounded”, “fucked her hard” etc

How hard to you go at it without risking an sp complaining or not enjoying seeing you again?

 

Ultimately, what is it you like? If you enjoy it soft, then do it and if you enjoy porn style sex then make sure you find an SP that can take it.

Some do take the piss and fake sensitivity and pain so watch out for those too.

[Ozy84]

I generally accelerate to a modest 45 reciprocations per minute at about 60 psi at the hips. Then after the third minute I whisper 'I love you' in her ear which generally ends with her climaxing and gushing with pleasure.

 

[Ozy84]

Ultimately, what is it you like? If you enjoy it soft, then do it and if you enjoy porn style sex then make sure you find an SP that can take it.

Some do take the piss and fake sensitivity and pain so watch out for those too.

Obviously.

And i am not concerned about the faking.

I have for the nost part always been a slow and steady with the odd deap thrust thrown in however it was whilst i was fucking this girl she almost had this look of i cant take it and want it harder, i asked and she said yes. I always assumed because of her slight frame and being a busy wg she would want the opposite but said she does quite often like it a little harder.

That got me thinking that all this time i been taking care or not going at it to fast or hard, the wg’s might have wanted it. Yes they could say, but language barrier is often the case with the girls i see.

Good to hear opinions and experiences, i guess it is all about good communication/chemistry.

Regarding wanting the wg to cum, i always want the girl to cum, although i am under no illusions that this happens all the time or with every girl. Feeling and fucking a naturally wet pussy feels sooooo much better then lube! Knowing that the lady is getting off/wet because of what she is seeing or feeling is also a big turn on.

[tynetunnel]

Knowing that the lady is getting off/wet because of what she is seeing or feeling is also a big turn on.

So here’s the million dollar question. Does the lady get wet because she is turned on/horny/excited/anticipating a good and sexy time, or is it simply an uncontrolled and necessary bodily reaction in readiness for what she knows is about to happen, and will require lubrication? 

[Ozy84]

So here’s the million dollar question. Does the lady get wet because she is turned on/horny/excited/anticipating a good and sexy time, or is it simply an uncontrolled and necessary bodily reaction in readiness for what she knows is about to happen, and will require lubrication? 

Couldn’t give you a definitive answer but i have been with a lady who appears to be enjoying it and is soaking wet and another who isn’t necessarily interested and bone dry. 

[notcalledchris]

I like to pound deep and hard.  It is what makes me cum.  Sue me.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Was having a chat with a young very fit Rom the other night and this subject came up!, seemed that anyone more then a gen 6 inches she didnt like as it walloped her Cervix and was not only uncomfortable but sometimes painfull. Even if she was well warmed up!,  she said didnt happen that often, as most punters  once they got with her wanted to get on with the pounding away bit!

She also said that almost every punter espically the younger ones wanted her to do BB and some had tried to remove the condom in doggy and that she said is why i'll have these two fingers around your dick to make sure that does not happen!.

[OakTree]

The trouble with this game is it's all smoke and mirrors and make believe.

I've had it where the girl is on top smashing into me telling me to fuck her harder but the chances are she's hoping this will bring about my early cum shot. She may well be enjoying it but as I said, in this game it's all smoke and mirrors.

If hard fucking does occur it usually comes about as the natural tempo steps up. It's a joint thing. I certainly wouldn't as some reviews seem to say, flip her over, slam my cock in and fuck her senseless.

[Cal55]

Depends on the SP and the rapport you build with her imo. For me she’d need to at least have ‘that level’ about her. Even if it is an act, as long as she gets into it and you can get into the mood, why not.

[willie loman]

The same goes for me.
I'm uncomfortable with the language in some reviews - pounded, smashed, let her have it - It sounds selfish and has connotations of abusive behaviour.

+1, i never take the opinions of these posters seriously

[PumpDump]

This.

Actually, this is quite a serious question. You need consent from the SP. If she is not happy with you going at it hard (or indeed any way) you need to stop. That consent needs to be verbal, physical and ongoing.

Absolutely, even better to get her to sign an agreement with details of how exactly the appointment will go. Don't touch her until you are sure she has read and understood the agreement. Once you start the session be sure to keep asking her every 30 seconds or sooner if she is happy to continue

[Cal55]

Absolutely, even better to get her to sign an agreement with details of how exactly the appointment will go. Don't touch her until you are sure she has read and understood the agreement. Once you start the session be sure to keep asking her every 30 seconds or sooner if she is happy to continue

😂😂😂😂

There are plenty of snowflake SP’s out there nowadays. I’m sure one of them will make this ‘PC contract.’

loool

[Punterperson1971]

Absolutely, even better to get her to sign an agreement with details of how exactly the appointment will go. Don't touch her until you are sure she has read and understood the agreement. Once you start the session be sure to keep asking her every 30 seconds or sooner if she is happy to continue

That will be extra

[The Owl]

Guys, strange one but will put it out there, how hard do you fuck an sp?

Have felt i have been too soft recently and realised recently that i had been fucking an sp too lightly, in fact she said she needed it harder to cum. Also read reviews on here where the op says “pounded”, “fucked her hard” etc

How hard to you go at it without risking an sp complaining or not enjoying seeing you again?

 

It depends on the SP. Some I really have pounded firmly between the legs and others it's nowhere near that. It depends on the SP and my energy at the time.

I'd be a little wary of reading too much in to punters reviews. Some may well be bragging on a forum about their sexual prowess in the same way some go on about their big cocks, SP's fancying them etc etc etc. In a similar way some punters claiming an SP is stunning with the perfect body but then someone else that points out her droopy tits, stretch marks and pointy witch nose.

[SamOmar]

I generally accelerate to a modest 45 reciprocations per minute at about 60 psi at the hips. Then after the third minute I whisper 'I love you' in her ear which generally ends with her climaxing and gushing with pleasure.

Do you bring the pressure gauge / heart rate monitor / stopwatch to your punts to measure your performance and make sure it is the same each time around?

In all seriousness , each WG is different and no 2 punts are exactly the same, you generally perform inline with the services that are offered.

[mrfishyfoo]

Pounding a lass senseless is IMHO abusive and not on.

[Steely Dan]

Get her on top fucking you in CG or RCG.  Then you will know what she likes.  You can fuck her back from this sort of position too, but she is in control so you can't really 'pound her'.

[willie loman]

with the odd exception, a curious silence from those who boast in every review, that they gave her a pounding, or even a good old fashioned pounding.

[Payyourwaymate]

I agree with Oaktree, if she's trying to get you to fuck her harder, odds are it's because she knows you will finish faster and feels comfortable that your size in combination with your ferocity will not injure her and leave her MIA from work. Even worse if she gets you to go into doggy first ASAP and then goads you to fuck her hard, she wants you to finish quick. However, if you have size and you are physically strong, odds are you will wreck the woman with such antics, her work day will be finished, she might be out of commision for days with lost income and you will get banned. Not much good will come out of it to be honest.

[Stevelondon]

with the odd exception, a curious silence from those who boast in every review, that they gave her a pounding, or even a good old fashioned pounding.

You see....even after punting for what seems an eternity. I am still learning.
Never knew there was a good old fashioned pounding never mind just a pounding.

For all I know there is soft and hard poundings. Fast and slow poundings.
Me heads spinning. 

[Joe Cocker]

Remember we are all men here talking about our sexual encounters and performances, most likely 90% of it is bullshit.

[willie loman]

Remember we are all men here talking about our sexual encounters and performances, most likely 90% of it is bullshit.

an awful lot of reviews are posters describing their prowess, rather than the merits of the girls,

[CMiller]

an awful lot of reviews are posters describing their prowess, rather than the merits of the girls,

And I take those reviews with a pinch of salt because the reviewer sounds like he'd suck his own dick if he could and has no need for escorts.

[CMiller]

Pounding a lass senseless is IMHO abusive and not on.

If it is consensual or sought after by a lass, is it still "abusive and not on"?

Before anyone comes chasing with pitchforks and torches, I don't encourage rough sex.

[mrfishyfoo]

If it is consensual or sought after by a lass, is it still "abusive and not on"?

Before anyone comes chasing with pitchforks and torches, I don't encourage rough sex.

I encourage rough sex and actively seek it out. 

I also fully acknowledge that it is the lass not me that is in control in the room. 

So no it's not abusive nor is it not on if the lass consents to it. 

[daviemac]

If it is consensual or sought after by a lass, is it still "abusive and not on"?

Before anyone comes chasing with pitchforks and torches, I don't encourage rough sex.

I think most of us are in agreement that it's down to the girl how rough she wants it and most decent punters would be able to judge by her reaction if she was happy with it.
The abuse comes in when you see the like of "she wouldn't do x or y so I pounded her as hard as I could" in reviews, I've even seen reviewers state that they had been asked to stop because it was hurting but had carried on.

[mrfishyfoo]

I think most of us are in agreement that it's down to the girl how rough she wants it and most decent punters would be able to judge by her reaction if she was happy with it.
The abuse comes in when you see the like of "she wouldn't do x or y so I pounded her as hard as I could" in reviews, I've even seen reviewers state that they had been asked to stop because it was hurting but had carried on.

Lowlife scum !!! 

[CMiller]

I think most of us are in agreement that it's down to the girl how rough she wants it and most decent punters would be able to judge by her reaction if she was happy with it.
The abuse comes in when you see the like of "she wouldn't do x or y so I pounded her as hard as I could" in reviews, I've even seen reviewers state that they had been asked to stop because it was hurting but had carried on.

That was my intended point. If a hard pounding is what the girl wants, who are we to judge a punter who pounds a girl hard?

I just don't subscribe to any implied narrative that a hard pounding is abusive no matter the context but mrfishyfoo has clarified that consent is the key thing.