This is a really interesting thread but I honestly find it so sad that so many men are sceptical if a working girl says she has another career. As if these women are capable only of opening their legs, and nothing more. How dare they share with me and say they have a real life job - it can’t possibly be true(!)
I’m open about my “day job” to my clients; some look at me as though I’m crazy (and in all honesty I couldn’t care less as I likely won’t see them again) and some have enough respect for women to take it on face value and discuss further if they wish.
But come on guys, do you really think ALL of us have nothing more to our lives than escorting? Some of us work full time, demanding jobs AND this; because believe it or not, it is possible.
Some of us do this because 1) the money’s great and our jobs don’t pay enough for our wants in life/our loan repayments/bills 2) we like sex and the thrill of fucking for money 3) it’s a turn on.
I do this to pay back loans I took for my study amounting to over £100k. I don’t enjoy debt hanging over my head and a large wedge of my regular payslip taken away before I’ve even smelt it. I earn £150 per hour and for a few appointments a month, I can make loan repayments and maintain a lovely comfortable life as well. Yes, I work alongside this, yes it’s possible, yes it’s hard and yes, I am tired ALL the time - but I’m doing it. Like others do.
I’m not unique. A lot of the ladies you are seeing have separate lives to this - careers, ambitions, savings, degrees, some probably own their own businesses too. It shouldn’t be such a big surprise in this day and age.
Escorting for the lucky ones is not a desperation game; it’s a power move and it pays.