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roba

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by a WG?

Im assuming most of you havent because obviously you are all so devastatingly handsome and you only go with filthy prossies with stinky minges because, well its hard man innit?

Can get a fit bird easily enough normally right?  Course you can, nothing wrong with you sunshine :)  :music:

So, have you?, ever been refused entry to a parlour or she refused to get in your car  :scare:

Or the cheeky fucking bint ignored your emails?

Or hung up on you??




ladyofthemansion

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If that's happened to you it's probably not personal. Just a rude biatch!

Offline enzio

Had girls who ignored my emails plenty (even where I think I have been most polite)

Earlier this week, however, I had for the first time a girl tell me half way through a three hour punt that she wanted to go home.  To be honest I was bloody glad she did and quickly negotiated a deal with her to close the punt early (before she could change her mind).  We just were not clicking.

Fortunately, the following night I managed to organize a  brilliant punt with a brilliant lady  :dance:

roba

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If that's happened to you it's probably not personal. Just a rude biatch!

It was tongue in cheek Miss  :)

Offline AnthG

Emails ignored loads of times; likely all PG scams.

My worst turn down if I can call it that was a girl going totally psycho down the phone at me as I could not hear the hotel she was staying at due to her accent and kept asking her where she was. Which she went totally and utterly ballistic at.

I hung up the phone but I would say it was a constructive dismissal. :)
Banned reason: To much drama, account closed
Banned by: Iloveoral

Offline jackdaw

Come on. Anybody who hasn't had an email ignored has not been a punter for more than "five minutes". Many agency websites routinely ignore practically all email inquiries, and even many independents ignore any email that doesn't suggest a punt on exact time and date that lady is actually free.

Apart from that refusal to meeting on grounds that I'm an ugly old bugger: once to date. And on another recent occasion practically had to sign a medical declaration that I wouldn't expire (on grounds of being too old for vigorous exercise) before punt could progress.

Offline Strawberry

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Come on. Anybody who hasn't had an email ignored has not been a punter for more than "five minutes". Many agency websites routinely ignore practically all email inquiries, and even many independents ignore any email that doesn't suggest a punt on exact time and date that lady is actually free.

Apart from that refusal to meeting on grounds that I'm an ugly old bugger: once to date. And on another recent occasion practically had to sign a medical declaration that I wouldn't expire (on grounds of being too old for vigorous exercise) before punt could progress.

Whilst it can be frustrating receiving vague texts or emails, I at least always send a reply asking for something more specific. I sometimes think I'm a mug at times as some guys then think it's quite ok to send 20 texts or emails asking question after question, but I'll usually indicate at some point that they are starting to put me off - and to either give me a call or call it quits because we simply aren't going to meet if it takes that long to sort out!

I will turn folk down if they behave inappropriately, sometimes they take it well - other times not so. I think this is one reason some ladies simply block or ignore without warning.

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Whilst it can be frustrating receiving vague texts or emails, I at least always send a reply asking for something more specifi
Fair play for actually replying.I do sometimes send not vague but certainly obvious questions about say extra rates (e.g. anal if not listed but offered) etc. This is to test if the profile is genuine if I have doubts. I have asked for a number before (the girl said to email for it before making a booking!) she never replied back - I have seen girls who do not reply to emails before but this is rare and onl if she has good feedback or is known to be a genuine and decent escort. Not had anyone refuse to meet before, one woman nearly did as I sounded nervous and she thought I was younger than I actually was. She phoned me back 5 minutes later because she said I sounded nice we met up and it was worth the effort.


Offline Marmalade

Nope  :cool:
Welcome back, James. Someone thought you'd disappeared for some reason.

James999

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Welcome back, James. Someone thought you'd disappeared for some reason.

I have been on a moderators course  :cool:

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Offline sumertime

The more I think about this the angrier I get  :angry:

I reported the "event" under Reviews https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=25623.0

The amazing thing is that "Lacey" receives great ratings in AW apart from mine!!

My rating: "Disaster! AWBook confm, phone arr made. Arrived, hello, who are you? What you want? Dont want to see you,Get out will call police, very aggro, No reason given!"

Her responce:    "you turned up without an apoitment and was rude and hostile and i accept everyone but have my safety to consider and it says everything that i had to call police"

Now I am an average guy in most aspects, I treat all women well with respect, I don't have strange requirement or deviences, I enjoy GFEs, always confirm bookings and try to introduce myself by AW email....

So what went wrong!? I had and appointment,emails, phone calls and AW booking confirmed not 20mins before, smartly dressed, neatly groomed and well showered expecting a pleasant hour punt... I was not rude or hostile, made no demand on her. She invited me in, pointed me to a bedroom and started ranting!! Telling me to get out or she would lock me in the room and call police!! I had never seen the girl before and she looked very puntable when she opened the door - but all this without hardly a word from me..

Now this has never happened to me before in several years of punting up and down the country.... Is it rare?????  :unknown:

SirFrank

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Never been turned down while punting but as above had loads of emails ignored. I never chase up simply because it tells me all I need to know about the WG (or scammer).

Offline webpunter

Never been turned down while punting but as above had loads of emails ignored. I never chase up simply because it tells me all I need to know about the WG (or scammer).
+1 on ignored emails.  Brevity is the key [after one reply started 'yawn' - which i deserved]
Banned from entering parlour - was just too bladdered.  Blessing really as they could have taken my cash.  I could barely stand up let alone get it up

Tjkooker

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There is a bit of a weird one that posts on the Scottish section that could answer this. Have been told by various folk that he is blocked/barred by several Scottish escorts. Indeed he has posted about how to get around call blocking. Why would you want to book somebody that has made it clear they don't want to see you. ?????
If somebody doesn't want to see you take the hint and spend your money on someone that is willing to meet you.

jcdmj12

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The more I think about this the angrier I get  :angry:

I reported the "event" under Reviews https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=25623.0

The amazing thing is that "Lacey" receives great ratings in AW apart from mine!!

My rating: "Disaster! AWBook confm, phone arr made. Arrived, hello, who are you? What you want? Dont want to see you,Get out will call police, very aggro, No reason given!"

Her responce:    "you turned up without an apoitment and was rude and hostile and i accept everyone but have my safety to consider and it says everything that i had to call police"

Now I am an average guy in most aspects, I treat all women well with respect, I don't have strange requirement or deviences, I enjoy GFEs, always confirm bookings and try to introduce myself by AW email....

So what went wrong!? I had and appointment,emails, phone calls and AW booking confirmed not 20mins before, smartly dressed, neatly groomed and well showered expecting a pleasant hour punt... I was not rude or hostile, made no demand on her. She invited me in, pointed me to a bedroom and started ranting!! Telling me to get out or she would lock me in the room and call police!! I had never seen the girl before and she looked very puntable when she opened the door - but all this without hardly a word from me..

Now this has never happened to me before in several years of punting up and down the country.... Is it rare?????  :unknown:

Cocaine is a hell of a drug.

Offline sumertime

If somebody doesn't want to see you take the hint and spend your money on someone that is willing to meet you.

As it happened I had a plan B in the book and it turned out to be one of the best for a long time... :yahoo:

Tjkooker

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As it happened I had a plan B in the book and it turned out to be one of the best for a long time... :yahoo:
Glad to hear it. Not worth crying about. Sometimes I get pissed off when getting pissed about, let down etc but I can usually get my hole somewhere else within the hour. So I concentrate on the bookings that do happen.

Offline Dani

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In answer to the banned OP of course people get turned down for many reasons. Being a prossie I can give some of the main reasons. some just get told they are too busy to see them at the desired time as it saves having an argument.  There can be many reasons for being turned down.
The main reasons though are being a bit stupid and sending text after text or making it very obvious when you arrive and not being discreet like phoning for the door number and shouting about it whilst outside instead of talking quietly into your phone.  Turning up drunk or off your face on drugs can get you turned away by some (not all).  Sometimes rightly or wrongly we get a gut feeling for no reason at all and we cant put our finger on it so we turn the client down.  Its not anything he has done wrong but just something we feel.  We just sometimes feel it would not be a good idea to see that person.  I ignored it once and wished to hell I hadn't.  So now I work on that and I may turn down some really nice guys so I miss out but we learn to work on instinct and at the end of the day our gut instinct is our first form of security before the person gets to see us

so if you do get turned down don't think you have done something wrong, you probably haven't, it is probably just that gut feeling coming into play.

pleasure

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I once had a very odd situation where a girl effectively turned me down mid-punt. I'd booked an hour, we got down to round one, and to be fair it wasn't great.

After it was over, at about the half-way point of the booked time, she made it clear she wasn't up for any more. At first I thought she was just going to try and persuade me to clear off when I'd only had half of what I'd paid for - it wouldn't be the first time a girl had tried that.

But no, she actually offered me a refund of half the booking fee. I've never had that before or since, and I sure wasn't flattered. But I was happy to take her up on her offer. The performance had been lack-lustre, she seemed tired and I guess we just didn't click, so I was more than happy to cut my losses (in the literal sense) and get the hell out of there!

Offline anyfucker

Something like Pleasure above.
Half way through an hour long session with an EE girl  i had seen 3-4 times before, poor english but a cracking slim body to "compensate" :-)
She was humping away on top, I made a joke and she just totally misunderstood it, thought i was being disrespectful and asked me to leave giving me half the money back.
Lesson learnt, no point in making jokes that will not be understood.

vorian

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Something like Pleasure above.
Half way through an hour long session with an EE girl  i had seen 3-4 times before, poor english but a cracking slim body to "compensate" :-)
She was humping away on top, I made a joke and she just totally misunderstood it, thought i was being disrespectful and asked me to leave giving me half the money back.
Lesson learnt, no point in making jokes that will not be understood.

What on earth was the joke :unknown:

SeekingtheTruth

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Never happened to me but I guess any of the girls have the right to refuse to see someone. Any business has the right to refusal of service at the managers discretion.

Not sure how I would react if it happened to me but I would probably just brush it off my shoulder and move on with my life while making a mental note not to come back again.

Some people just like to create drama though and WG's are no different.

Offline myothernameis

I had arranged fro an escort to see me at my place, so made the arrangements, she turned up at 7pm as requested, and once I opened the door she didn't enter, but went back to here driver and left

She refused to say why she wouldn't see me, but I think it was because I had seen here at the bus stop near my house, and maybe she had recognized me

charley11

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Once a few years ago I went to a flat, in the days I was still getting numbers from phone boxes and trying to find some decent punts  / places to stick with.  I'd been there already a couple of times but the girl I'd previously seen was busy.  The other girl was obviously very inexperienced, maybe even her first day / first time and spoke no English at all.  After getting undressed and a bit of massage and hand job, she just went no, shook here head and indicated she couldnt go through with it.

I got dressed, told the maid and asked to see the other girl instead.  Didnt make a big thing of it or get insulted or whatever.  I waited in the 1st room, listening to her banging away with another punter (nice!?) before taking my turn.  Decent punt in the end.

Offline NIK

I have been turned down by the entire sisterhood.  :cry:


Apart from Lou4Fun.  :D

Offline anyfucker

What on earth was the joke :unknown:

just seen your question, it was so long ago i can't remember but was defo not disrespectful (not my style)