I am currently single so I am not cheating on anybody, contrary to the beliefs of Third Wave Sex Negative Feminists I do not see woman as an object. My favourite punts are with Woman I can talk to, feel emotionally connected to and even have a nice cuddle as well of course good meaningful sex (not that I am a fluffy I realise that woman I punt are not my girlfriend and make sure I don't get attached to any long term). A working girl even ones who are not super models who can put an honest smile on when I punt them are appreciated.
I am a professional in my late thirties with a high paying job north of 40K in IT services, I buy new cars, own a house, dress well and I would love to settle down to have a family. Unfortunately I am average looking and not overly tall meaning many modern professional woman are barely interested, so I punt to maintain some kind of emotional sexual life. Not to say I haven't had Girlfriends but if I hadn't started punting then I wouldn't of lost my Virginity until I was 34, for my sheer mental wellbeing especially having a very high sexual drive from a young age that would have been unacceptable! So I had my first fumbling punt in 1997 a few days after my 18th birthday with a curvy young woman in Brighton called Tammy and got it out of my system. I actually see myself like the Queen with her two Birthdays having two times I lost my Virginity first time to a hooker second to a Civvy! As I prefer Oriental woman punting is a way to satisfy that need, I must admit the time a few years back when I had a Chinese Girlfriend were deeply happy and I regret not popping the question when she was forced to return to China at the end of her study.
On occasion I have felt other regrets but more usually about spending too much in a month on punting! Then again I don't punt as much now as I used to twenty years ago as the sexual fires burn less brightly but nevertheless I have a few through the year albeit I think we are in a pretty bad period for quality woman.
The national statistics say 10% of men in the UK punt which means if you stand in a room with a hundred men then 10 of them including yourself will be punters. I think that statistic is too Conservative and more men persue the hobby, considering it allows men to let off sexual steam and even helps protect relationships when men have particular sexual needs or even worse their other half no-longer wants sex this is hardly surprising. The public image of punters as seedy, violent, lonely and dangerous men is wrong as well. The largest group are men like me Single men aged 25 to 34, in managerial or professional occupations. I certainly don't regard myself lonely outside of wanting a family life and have a good social life.
Punting is part of life don't regret it.