I’m a bit of a devotee of tie and tease. Like everything else I choose to do when punting. I enjoy the variety of different things.
You don’t mention the lady in question you see. But if you’ve seen her twice already then you must already feel ok about her.
Is the doubt in your mind one of your own safety for example. ?
I enjoy tie and tease so have no problems and never have had any..... with any WG or mistress who has done it for me.
Blindfolded though. Can’t stand the things. I like to see.