2 weeks 5 cancellations

[Tun210]

Hi Everyone,

Just a bit of a rant from a frustrated punter, I have had 5 cancellations from WG’s in the last 2 weeks and most of them on the same day, not sure if I should put them as negative reviews or even put AW profile links here.

1- Saw her before, Her profile says she was having near issues but all resolved now so I booked as per her availability on Monday evening, I get a text on Sunday that she isn’t feeling too well and can we re-schedule for Wednesday evening same time, I say no problem, Wednesday morning I get a text saying some friends are coming over to her place and she cannot work, can we reschedule for Friday evening, same again cancelled Friday meet, gave up.
2- Met this WG few times and thought to be reliable but on the day of the booking she messages that she is stuck in the mud and a JCB is rescuing her but she will be fine for the evening, text from her around 4 that things got complicated and she won’t be able to see me and she will message me the whole details later, nothing until now.
3-Never seen this WG but wanted for for months, she tours a lot so booked well in advance, she has glowing reviews on UKP, when I text in the morning to confirm that I will see her later on, she replied back that she had her COVID vaccine and isn’t feeling too well so can’t see me and no other slots were available and that she is fully booked.
4-Never seen this WG but has good reviews on UKP, discussed everything and booked a day in advance and when I messaged her around noon to confirm she replied back saying I was about to text you, something came up and I cannot see you but happy to see you some other time.
5-This one has been a nightmare cancelled 4 times until now from march, latest being yesterday and that too just 2 hours before the meeting, reason-have to baby sit my niece, can we do it on Friday, I said ok but I am pretty sure she will cancel on Friday as well, she has used all the excuses in the world

Do the above count as negatives? Or shall I give them benefit of doubt (all 5) just wanted to get it off my chest, end of the day they are all whores and nothing more than that.
It will be fun if anyone can guess who they are.


Tun

[Derrick101]

If you had a confirmed booking, then you can post a review. Posting a negative is worth it to notify others of a possible time-waster. 

[contentguy]

Do the above count as negatives? Or shall I give them benefit of doubt (all 5) just wanted to get it off my chest, end of the day they are all whores and nothing more than that.
It will be fun if anyone can guess who they are.

I thought they were all negatives until I saw the bold bit.

At which point I came to the conclusion that you're a disrespectful wanker and the SPs who cancelled on you had a lucky break.

 

[Tun210]

I thought they were all negatives until I saw the bold bit.

At which point I came to the conclusion that you're a disrespectful wanker and the SPs who cancelled on you had a lucky break.

 

You can say that because you were not at the receiving end.

[jj8989]

You can say that because you were not at the receiving end.

Whores are still human beings that deserve respect, the fact you consider them lesser than that warrants a ban imo.

[Tun210]

Not the first time this word has been used by punters, just put the word in search and you will know.

[contentguy]

Not the first time this word has been used by punters, just put the word in search and you will know.

I find it disturbing that you didn't understand my earlier point.

It's not the use of the word "whore" that I'm taking exception to.
It's your use of the phrase "...they are all whores and nothing more than that."

Your statement indicates a similar mindset to killers such as Steve Wright and Peter Sutcliffe.
You will see, if you engage google, that there are many friends and family who strongly disagree with the sentiments that you and these evil bastards share.

Guy

[Dirty_Parry]

I truly sympathise Tun110. A dreadful set of events and hopefully a one off. BTW I don’t think you’re a psychopathic murderer because you used the term whore. It’s not a term I use, but is certainly used on the forum a lot.

Actually reading your reviews I find you usually attentive and a gentleman in you reports. Of course frustration at such a let down would piss anyone off.

SP’s love to use the term escort, but they are prostitutes according to the dictionary definition.  Another word for a prostitute in the thesaurus is Whore. Well there you go. 
I’d post negatives obviously BTW.  Thank you for your rant. I wonder if anyone will guess.

[contentguy]

I truly sympathise Tun110. A dreadful set of events and hopefully a one off. BTW I don’t think you’re a psychopathic murderer because you used the term whore. It’s not a term I use, but is certainly used on the forum a lot.

Actually reading your reviews I find you usually attentive and a gentleman in you reports. Of course frustration at such a let down would piss anyone off.

SP’s love to use the term escort, but they are prostitutes according to the dictionary definition.  Another word for a prostitute in the thesaurus is Whore. Well there you go. 
I’d post negatives obviously BTW.  Thank you for your rant. I wonder if anyone will guess.

Before being passive aggressive towards my post, why don't you actually read what I said?

Are you agreeing with the OP's sentiment:

...end of the day they are all whores and nothing more than that.

[Stevelondon]

I guess where your coming from Contentguy.
It’s not the words being used. It’s the context in which it’s being phrased.

I dislike the terms prossies and whores. Escorts being ok by me.

I actually find it amusing when I read or hear of punters describing working girls as being nothing more than that. 

Yes they sell sex. But who the hells buying it. Pot kettle springs to mind. 

[ReginaldPerrin]

Sometimes things come up and as long as you were notified in good time then fair enough. If you repeatedly get messed about by the same SP that is another matter. IMO

[contentguy]

I guess where your coming from Contentguy.
It’s not the words being used. It’s the context in which it’s being phrased.

I dislike the terms prossies and whores. Escorts being ok by me.

I actually find it amusing when I read or hear of punters describing working girls as being nothing more than that. 

Yes they sell sex. But who the hells buying it. Pot kettle springs to mind. 

Steve, It's the "nothing more than that" element that I found offensive.
The suggestion being that by becoming a "whore, SP, escort or prostitute", call them what you will.  They forfeit any right to any respect.  The role defines them in their entirety.

Whereas we punters are (who are on the flip side of the transaction) are of course morally righteous.
As you say, "pot kettle".

[lillythesavage]

I thought they were all negatives until I saw the bold bit.

At which point I came to the conclusion that you're a disrespectful wanker and the SPs who cancelled on you had a lucky break.

 

Have to agree with the sentiment of your post, on a male orientated forum sometimes things get typed in a macho way, your words do you no favors OP, frustration is no excuse and an explanation would help.

[anonymous86273]

Just a thought - Have you checked your punting number on the Saafe forum and Client Eye just to check you haven't been labelled as a timewaster or worse? Could be reasons for them all cancelling on you.

[Tun210]

Just a thought - Have you checked your punting number on the Saafe forum and Client Eye just to check you haven't been labelled as a timewaster or worse? Could be reasons for them all cancelling on you.

Yes I did, not there

[Tun210]

Just a thought - Have you checked your punting number on the Saafe forum and Client Eye just to check you haven't been labelled as a timewaster or worse? Could be reasons for them all cancelling on you.

This has been happening since last 2 weeks, I did not jump straight away but did after 5 happened in a row.

[Tun210]

I find it disturbing that you didn't understand my earlier point.

It's not the use of the word "whore" that I'm taking exception to.
It's your use of the phrase "...they are all whores and nothing more than that."

Your statement indicates a similar mindset to killers such as Steve Wright and Peter Sutcliffe.
You will see, if you engage google, that there are many friends and family who strongly disagree with the sentiments that you and these evil bastards share.

Guy

I know my mindset very well and now understand yours too.
If you happen to meet any of the ladies I reviewed you can ask what my behaviour is like, you will get the picture

[Tun210]

I truly sympathise Tun110. A dreadful set of events and hopefully a one off. BTW I don’t think you’re a psychopathic murderer because you used the term whore. It’s not a term I use, but is certainly used on the forum a lot.

Actually reading your reviews I find you usually attentive and a gentleman in you reports. Of course frustration at such a let down would piss anyone off.

SP’s love to use the term escort, but they are prostitutes according to the dictionary definition.  Another word for a prostitute in the thesaurus is Whore. Well there you go. 
I’d post negatives obviously BTW.  Thank you for your rant. I wonder if anyone will guess.

Thanks mate,
ok I rephrase my sentence
end of the day the above mentioned esteemed escorts is just escorts

[Tun210]

I guess where your coming from Contentguy.
It’s not the words being used. It’s the context in which it’s being phrased.

I dislike the terms prossies and whores. Escorts being ok by me.

I actually find it amusing when I read or hear of punters describing working girls as being nothing more than that. 

Yes they sell sex. But who the hells buying it. Pot kettle springs to mind. 

whore monger, I dont mind that term at all as that's what I am

[Dirty_Parry]

Before being passive aggressive towards my post, why don't you actually read what I said?

Are you agreeing with the OP's sentiment:

You compared the OP with two psychopathic serial killers. Seriously you think that’s ok? The OP was pissed of and on a rant. It was your arrogance that allowed you to make such a comparison. I never normally involve myself in these I just get the popcorn! However that remark shocked me. I believe the two psychopaths you referred to were just that.

[contentguy]

You compared the OP with two psychopathic serial killers. Seriously you think that’s ok? The OP was pissed of and on a rant. It was your arrogance that allowed you to make such a comparison. I never normally involve myself in these I just get the popcorn! However that remark shocked me. I believe the two psychopaths you referred to were just that.

He is sharing a mindset when he says "end of the day they are all whores and nothing more than that."

By supporting him, you're agreeing with him.  It's disturbing that people on here have such views.

If it's arrogant to be respectful towards SP's then I'm guilty as charged.

[Dirty_Parry]

He is sharing a mindset when he says "end of the day they are all whores and nothing more than that."

By supporting him, you're agreeing with him.  It's disturbing that people on here have such views.

If it's arrogant to be respectful towards SP's then I'm guilty as charged.

It gets better - because I defend a guy who has a bad day and rants to fellow punters and I empathise with his position. Accept he probably went a bit OTT but understand he’s only human, I now also have the mind set of psychopathic killer. Please get over yourself.

[Dirty_Parry]

This escalated quick Tun210 you whore monger you. 

[contentguy]

Accept he probably went a bit OTT but understand he’s only human, I now also have the mind set of psychopathic killer. Please get over yourself.

So you're agreeing with me, the comment was inappropriate.
It's the sort of comment that a shit stirring journo would use to "illustrate" what the forum is all about.

Why not say initially that the OP was OTT, rather than the passive aggressive pop at my post.

[Tun210]

The frustration was because of the time and effort you put in to arrange a meet

and Guy you think by reading 1 line what I wrote you can fully analyse my state of mind and compare me with serial killers?

[contentguy]

The frustration was because of the time and effort you put in to arrange a meet

and Guy you think by reading 1 line what I wrote you can fully analyse my state of mind and compare me with serial killers?

It was your line, are you proud of it?

[Tun210]

I thought they were all negatives until I saw the bold bit.

At which point I came to the conclusion that you're a disrespectful wanker and the SPs who cancelled on you had a lucky break.

 

Registered for 6 years and 17 reviews, looks like you have used up a lot of tissue boxes and I was trying to be nice but dont think I have to be anymore
I dont care what you think of me so you can toss off to the hole you came from
As far as escorts/WG's/SP's/Prostitutes are concerned they are the last people on this planet I will trust

[Tun210]

It was your line, are you proud of it?

Are you proud of comparing me with likes of serial killers?
It was a moment of frustration, I wrote what I wrote.
and if you want to keep banging about it, you can kiss my, you know what

[Dh200]

No one even made a guess , I think the JCB was innocent Angel and the niece was honey 69

[Dh200]

Another guess, number 1 is lushbutt?

[Tun210]

Another guess, number 1 is lushbutt?

You got 2/3 not telling which ones, well done

[fastcar669]

You got 2/3 not telling which ones, well done

She has stated shes getting over neurological issues perhaps

[sensualencounter]

Well done contentguy for calling out this misogynistic, sexist, superior bullshit. It's such a shame that Tun210 and his equally ignorant mate Dirty_Parry are too uneducated to realise what they are saying.

Hey, I wonder if Tun210's attitude had something to do with all these escorts cancelling on him? Just maybe they've picked up on his superior, arrogant and ignorant attitude and don't want to be treated as less than a human being? But of course, he's way too smart and lovely and nice for that to happen  so it must be their fault and they're all to blame.

Tun210, go away and educate yourself on respect and treating people equally. It's going to be hard to change your mindset but you have the capability to do it if you really want to. Open your eyes. There are plenty of us out there who were the same as you but got educated and opened our minds. And maybe take your mate Dirty_Parry along too.

And as for the reference to rapists and serial killers - It's a trait that they have which makes them believe they are superior and hence anyone else is inferior. It's an analogy that Tun210 & Dirty_Parry's attitudes are similar and AT AN EXTREME this could end up like this. There, I'll give that one to you for free.

[contentguy]

Registered for 6 years and 17 reviews, looks like you have used up a lot of tissue boxes and I was trying to be nice but dont think I have to be anymore

You've done well, 10 reviews in 6 months.
I contribute what I can.

If I compare myself to the mods on here (though I'm not worthy), they've all been here longer than I have.
Some have posted more reviews than me, some have posted less.

In that context, would you care to explain the tissue box comment?

I don't care what you think of me so you can toss off to the hole you came from

It really sounds like you do care what I think of you.

You have anger issues don't you?

As far as escorts/WG's/SP's/Prostitutes are concerned they are the last people on this planet I will trust

I think we could tell that from your macho bollocks:
"...they are all whores and nothing more than that"

Are you proud of comparing me with likes of serial killers?
It was a moment of frustration, I wrote what I wrote.

Now you're using the "frustration" excuse that Dirty_Parry suggested above.

Anger issues again I think.

"I didn't mean to write something so nasty, it was my frustration wot did it m'lud."

and if you want to keep banging about it, you can kiss my, you know what

I'm really not at all surprised that you're getting cancelled.
It sounds like you're on a list somewhere.

 

[Tun210]

You've done well, 10 reviews in 6 months.
I contribute what I can.

If I compare myself to the mods on here (though I'm not worthy), they've all been here longer than I have.
Some have posted more reviews than me, some have posted less.

In that context, would you care to explain the tissue box comment?


It really sounds like you do care what I think of you.

You have anger issues don't you?

I think we could tell that from your macho bollocks:
"...they are all whores and nothing more than that"


Now you're using the "frustration" excuse that Dirty_Parry suggested above.

Anger issues again I think.

"I didn't mean to write something so nasty, it was my frustration wot did it m'lud."



I'm really not at all surprised that you're getting cancelled.
It sounds like you're on a list somewhere.

 

Oh wow, looks like I've hot a nerve there, you are taking this too personal and blowing it out of proportion.
Is it because
You are in love with a WG?
Someone close to you is a service provider, perhaps a family member?

I too would be fuming if someone calls my gf/wife/sister/daughter a WHORE.
You can defend them for all I care but end of the day that's what they are and I stand by my comments.

[joninbristol]

You've done well, 10 reviews in 6 months.
I contribute what I can.

If I compare myself to the mods on here (though I'm not worthy), they've all been here longer than I have.
Some have posted more reviews than me, some have posted less.

In that context, would you care to explain the tissue box comment?


It really sounds like you do care what I think of you.

You have anger issues don't you?

I think we could tell that from your macho bollocks:
"...they are all whores and nothing more than that"


Now you're using the "frustration" excuse that Dirty_Parry suggested above.

Anger issues again I think.

"I didn't mean to write something so nasty, it was my frustration wot did it m'lud."



I'm really not at all surprised that you're getting cancelled.
It sounds like you're on a list somewhere.

 

Got to say, I'm 100% with contentguy on this.
A delightful quote such as "...they are all whores and nothing more than that" is completely indicative that you consider fellow human beings as throwaway, disposable objects that are there to be used and have no other value. THAT is one of the pillars of psychopathic thinking, hence the comparison that has been drawn. I have to admit I found it equally disturbing, regardless of your state of mind/frustration levels.

Again, I don't attach any offence to the word whore. It can be applied to men and women equally, and not just those who are active sex workers. It's the "nothing more than that" which reflects the attitude inside YOUR mind that is most likely at the core of your cancellations. Word gets around, especially amongst women who tend to have wider social support networks than us blokes. They share notes, especially about us, as a small percentage of us are sadly complete f*cked up weirdos who treat women like their personal toys. That's the lay of the land. Live with it.

For reference, I've had not one single cancellation imposed upon me in years (a single re-arrangement is all I can recall, due to childcare). I often see the same SP regularly, hence my relatively low review count, so don't think of that as a "measure" of any reviewer's worth - it's not. Quality and honesty over quantity. But more importantly, and returning to the issue under debate, I treat women as equals and fellow human beings who deserve the same respect as anyone else. Maybe that's why I have regulars, and also why I've not had five cancellations in two weeks, which does seem extreme. I never think of any of them as "nothing more than whores". Ever.

If I did? I'd question myself and my own actions, and how I treat other people first, rather than ascribing the blame to them.

 

[wombat]

Have to say, when I saw the words "nothing more than that" I thought the OP meant he was paying for sex with them and not wanting to marry/be in a relationship with them...

[southcoastpunter]

Have to say, when I saw the words "nothing more than that" I thought the OP meant he was paying for sex with them and not wanting to marry/be in a relationship with them...

yep - interesting that noone having a go at Tun210 bothered to check what HE actually meant by the words but rather just put their own interpretaion on it and went from there.

[luv2kiss54]

Not going to get involved in all the toxic arguments just comment on the initial post.

5 cancellations in 2 weeks does seem extremely unlucky you must have kicked a black cat somewhere along the way !. At least all the cancellations were before you travelled, there is nothing worse than getting a very late cancellation whilst you are on your way (which happened to me recently)or even worse phone goes dead when your outside. Some of your cancellations could have been genuine we will never know. If i get a cancellation i remove the escort from my HL and move on, she obviously doesnt want my money so i will give it to someone who does.

[Whiteknight]

Girls 1 to 4 worth giving another chance if you really wanted to see them.  Just don't bother with Girl number 5, as she has already messed you many times.

Very frustrating when they cancel last minute, especially most of us would have put aside a time for it and in doing so would have made some lies to either our partners or employers of our whereabout.

 

[Dh200]

Come on tun play the game and give us answers , innocentangel23 , lushbutt, Englishhoney69 ?, this is like a pub quiz with no meat raffle prize