nervous about seeing "young" escorts as I'm an old guy.....discuss (please)

[somersetsecret]

I'm 59.  Not bradd pitt but have been very occasionally described as easy on the eye, so not ugly.  Overweight but not obese, bald goatee geezer

I like slim, pert, and tend to go for older ladies because I like to feel that there's some sort of spark - or that's what I'm looking for; rather than just being serviced.

So I've avoided under 40's for that reason

what do you think?  experiences?  i'm south coast - southampton way

Ta v much

[Munter84]

I think that's nothing to be worrying about. Your money is as good as any other client's! Unless the WG's profile specifically gives an age restriction, consider it a green light. Also you know there are plenty of girls who actually prefer older guys, right?

[Al R]

I’m 62 - haven’t punted with WG’s for a good while as I gave Seeking a try. I’ve seen WG’s & SB’s in their 20’s & 30’s - never really had a problem. Been seeing a 26 year old off Seeking regularly for a couple of years and we get along just fine.

I used to let the WG know my age when I booked, no one ever knocked me back

[Caratacus]

I’m kind of in the same boat. Early 60s but in good shape for my age - not bad looking, but I’m aware that I’m now getting on a bit and past my best. But I prefer younger women, those of my age or slightly younger just don’t do it for me - I prefer a firmer body. I’ve been off the punting circuit for a few years but now need to scratch an itch again but getting an erection isn’t as easy now…another reason that I need a WG that can really turn me on. Like you though, I’m worried that a younger WG will just see me as a ‘wrinkly’. I need proper full on gfe, not some half-hearted effort.

[daviemac]

I'm 59.  Not bradd pitt but have been very occasionally described as easy on the eye, so not ugly.  Overweight but not obese, bald goatee geezer

I like slim, pert, and tend to go for older ladies because I like to feel that there's some sort of spark - or that's what I'm looking for; rather than just being serviced.

So I've avoided under 40's for that reason

what do you think?  experiences?  i'm south coast - southampton way

Ta v much

To be honest it's only a question you can answer, you have to decide what age of escort you're comfortable seeing. I have no qualms seeing younger escorts who are happy to see me but that's me, other people aren't and stick to older ones.

If you're concerned ask if they're ok seeing older guys when booking.

[Southernbloke]

I usually see ladies 40+ but on the on the odd occasion I see a lady younger than 35 I end up a bit bored or disappointed as while I know it’s about the money , it can be hard work conversation wise when I have absolutely nothing in common to talk about.

[bender999]

I'm quite a bit older than you and have faced the same dilemma.  Although younger girls are 'happy' to see older guys I have tended to feel that they are a bit turned off by the age gap in the same way I was turned off by a much older WG I once saw. I have always felt more comfortable and had better experiences with WG's nearer my own age bracket and there are some cracking women in that category.  When we are not as young as we once were and sex becomes a bit more of a challenge all these little worries add up to the point where sometimes you cant perform. To me feeling comfortable and relaxed with the WG is very important.

[Colston36]

I'm 59.  Not bradd pitt but have been very occasionally described as easy on the eye, so not ugly.  Overweight but not obese, bald goatee geezer

I like slim, pert, and tend to go for older ladies because I like to feel that there's some sort of spark - or that's what I'm looking for; rather than just being serviced.

So I've avoided under 40's for that reason

what do you think?  experiences?  i'm south coast - southampton way

Ta v much

You have it wrong, really. These ladies are not looking for true love, or your entertaining company, but money.

I am 87. I may have been turned down because of age in the 9 years since I began paying but if so they never said so. In fact I don't recall being turned down for anything save my occasional bizarre desires.

I am extremely fit which helps and fairly good company (I only say this because I have over 150 good fb from assorted trollops, but I don't think they give a damn about my wit, charm and good looks. Just money.

It's the same reason you go to work. And they all call it working, by the way.

[mikef2008]

I'm late 50s and I usually only ever see girls in their 20s (occasionally early 30s). It's what turns me on and this hobby allows me to do that. In my experience many girls feel an older guy treats them better than younger guys

[somersetsecret]

yeah my experience is the same - in that it's more difficult sometimes to "perform" and I only really enjoy it if the SP is engaged and looks to be enjoying it herself - and I've had a few amazing ones....sadly the best lives 300 miles away; but that's how it goes I guess

I wonder, when looking at the slim fit 25 year olds how they feel and if it's the same as me thinking about a 75 year old!

and having a meeting with someone younger than the kids - although they do have great figures

[somersetsecret]

I'm late 50s and I usually only ever see girls in their 20s (occasionally early 30s). It's what turns me on and this hobby allows me to do that. In my experience many girls feel an older guy treats them better than younger guys

maybe I should choose carefully and give it a go

[somersetsecret]

You have it wrong, really. These ladies are not looking for true love, or your entertaining company, but money.

I am 87. I may have been turned down because of age in the 9 years since I began paying but if so they never said so. In fact I don't recall being turned down for anything save my occasional bizarre desires.

I am extremely fit which helps and fairly good company (I only say this because I have over 150 good fb from assorted trollops, but I don't think they give a damn about my wit, charm and good looks. Just money.

It's the same reason you go to work. And they all call it working, by the way.

t's the same reason you go to work. And they all call it working, by the way.- point taken and understood - I never harboured any illusions, but I think, perhaps, stop being a "dick" and give it a go

[Dipper]

I’ve no strict preferences.. but to me things such as great, smooth ,non sagging or wrinkled skin for example can only ever be a good thing. Pert tits, more mobile … the list goes on.

[scutty brown]

There's a simple rule: Fuck what you fancy.
Ignore what anyone else thinks.
It's your time, your money, your choice.

[mikef2008]

maybe I should choose carefully and give it a go

yes, go for it. Think you might be surprised.
One extra tip, if you're married, leave your wedding ring on. I always used to take it off (guilt, i suppose) but one punt many years ago I accidentally left it on. The Wg clocked it and said, "Oh, you're married?" And I was caught off guard and started waffling and she said, "I love watching married men cum". Cor! That was it for me, the wedding ring stayed on after that!

[Kingfisher]

I found that most WG’s had no problem with my age and look, especially the ones above a certain age, say 28+. So don’t worry too much and go for it!

[RandomGuy99]

I wouldn't worry about it. Experienced SPs see all sorts of people. I think some SPs actually prefer the older SSs as we're unlikely to try to cum 15 times in an hour, cum less, not hard work and we're more easy going.

I don't really look for a spark. It's paid sex. I look for enthusiasm and an interest in pleasing me.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

It seems to me that quite a few girls like seeing older guys as they tend to treat them that  bit better:)

Probally that means their not hammering away all the time thery're with her;!..

[RedKettle]

Similar age to you and never concerned what the WG thinks about my age, unless they put a restriction on their profile.  I tend towards older, say 35/40 plus, because I enjoy them but no issue with younger.

My self imposed restriction is to stick with WGs who are at least a few years older than my daughter - just does not feel right to be fishing in her age group.  No particular reason, just how I feel about it.

Go for what you want to do.

 

[badsin]

I used to use SA quite a bit and met some great SB from there.
Around 4 years ago I asked a 20 year old, the oldest sugar daddy she'd been with, she said she'd seen a few well into there 70's.
Therefore don't worry about it, mention it to the SP who you might be seeing, I'm genuinely thinking you won't have an issue.
 

[MrMatrix]

I’m kind of in the same boat. Early 60s but in good shape for my age - not bad looking, but I’m aware that I’m now getting on a bit and past my best. But I prefer younger women, those of my age or slightly younger just don’t do it for me - I prefer a firmer body. I’ve been off the punting circuit for a few years but now need to scratch an itch again but getting an erection isn’t as easy now…another reason that I need a WG that can really turn me on. Like you though, I’m worried that a younger WG will just see me as a ‘wrinkly’. I need proper full on gfe, not some half-hearted effort.

Blast from the past, you OK.
Im with you, but they advertise their services so I'm happy to pitch up. They must see a lot of 60 year olds and older, So I have no problem with responding to their advertising
MM

[Jonestown]

Make sure your eyebrows, nostril & ears all all trimmed and there are no sprouting hairs and you'll be fine.

[Colston36]

t's the same reason you go to work. And they all call it working, by the way.- point taken and understood - I never harboured any illusions, but I think, perhaps, stop being a "dick" and give it a go

I was very lucky when young - had a big job, whizzed around the world at clients' expense and got loads of free sex. But I have had glorious times and done outrageous things I never would have dreamt of in the last few years. Choose carefully, do your research and only settle for what you really want. It's your life and your money, The saddest words are "if only" ...

[Corus Boy]

No preferences and always let my age, older, known before booking.

A few age related refusals before booking.

Only one everr at the door.  Then an early 20s lady apologised and explained that I was the fourth apointment of the day and the fourth who was older than her grampy and she didn't feel that she could continue!

It was an honest comment and I reckoned that making a fuss would not lead to an enjoyable meet, so I left with good grace.

[scutty brown]

Make sure your eyebrows, nostril & ears all all trimmed and there are no sprouting hairs and you'll be fine.

And touch up the pubes with boot polish to hide the grey

[Stevelondon]

No preferences and always let my age, older, known before booking.

A few age related refusals before booking.

Only one everr at the door.  Then an early 20s lady apologised and explained that I was the fourth apointment of the day and the fourth who was older than her grampy and she didn't feel that she could continue!

It was an honest comment and I reckoned that making a fuss would not lead to an enjoyable meet, so I left with good grace.

You did the right thing.

As Davie says. If you’re not comfortable about seeing a younger SP……… then don’t. It’s very simple.

I usually mention my age when booking someone I have not seen before. Just in case.
Of course I steer clear of those SP’s who have an age restriction.

Funnily enough, quite some time ago I got in touch with a lass who said she only saw men under 55.
I was nearly 60 at the time and told her I was young at heart.
She agreed to see me and I saw her several times after that first encounter.

But I always remember her saying to me that I had never really grown up.
Which is absolutely correct 😂

[Dipper]

And touch up the pubes with boot polish to hide the grey

 

[mr.bluesky]

Make sure your eyebrows, nostril & ears all all trimmed and there are no sprouting hairs and you'll be fine.

And if you wear a wig make sure it's firmly attached incase it becomes dislodged during throes of passion 

[Atrueyorkie]

Go for it!

Listen, the only thing that’s going be judged is how many notes you have in your hand.

Unless you’re not dangerous or dodgy you shouldn’t have anything to worry about or be nervous.

One of the main reasons to punt apart from nsa, is to going for stellar girls.

Your paying, why limit yourself

[Gch1965]

I'm late 50s and although prefer the middle aged ladies do go for a 20s girl now and again esp Thais with no problems.

[wirehair]

I‘m knocking 70 and still see girls in their 20s from Seeking. I remember well my first „millennial“ - 50 years younger than me who appreciated getting a good seeing to and a bit of sexual education from someone older than her grandpa!

[alabama1]

I‘m knocking 70 and still see girls in their 20s from Seeking. I remember well my first „millennial“ - 50 years younger than me who appreciated getting a good seeing to and a bit of sexual education from someone older than her grandpa!

This is what punting is all about 

[Sparta Prada]

When I contact someone on AW for the first time I always mention my age (not much different from the OP). Most (I’d say 95%) reply that my age is fine.

No one has said my age is an issue for them. Anyone that doesn’t reply, just move on. Everyone has a choice whether you are a punter or a SP.

[versace]

Don’t be nervous. Just try to remember that they have seen it all before twice over. It’s like going to a doctor, they don’t care what you look like or how old you are. All they care about is money.

[stampjones]

Im the same age as OP. Im on seeking a lot and seeing pretty much exclusively girls in their 20s. A lot of the girls there actively prefer older guys for lots of reasons. I and others have even had free meets there so its not even about money sometimes. Im certainly no adonis and have less hair and more waist than I might like but Im regularly fucking girls 35 years younger and they are either great actors or are enjoying it ad much as me. One girl loved snogging me in public as she liked all the looks we got. Point is go for it. Some wont care, some will actively prefer it. What you lack in toned physique you gain in experience

[holeymoley]

You have it wrong, really. These ladies are not looking for true love, or your entertaining company, but money.

I am 87. I may have been turned down because of age in the 9 years since I began paying but if so they never said so. In fact I don't recall being turned down for anything save my occasional bizarre desires.

I am extremely fit which helps and fairly good company (I only say this because I have over 150 good fb from assorted trollops, but I don't think they give a damn about my wit, charm and good looks. Just money.

It's the same reason you go to work. And they all call it working, by the way.

      Hats off to you Sir, at that age you make me feel quite young at a mere 75 years.

[Bonker]

Jus rock yer anno domino man.
Let your barnet grow, put it in a right pony tail. All your wrinkles will end up in your scalp.

[Waterhouse]

Jus rock yer anno domino man.
Let your barnet grow, put it in a right pony tail. All your wrinkles will end up in your scalp.

Hah..!  We used to call that a Streatham face-lift back in the day. 

[Thephoenix]

I generally don't bother booking WGs a lot younger than I, but I still like them to be a bit frisky........Say about 75+.

[Garage man]

A few years ago an SP told me not to worry about age as you are only as old as the woman you are feeling.

[PepeMAGA]

Think sometimes girls prefer clients to be older, Rather than guys their own age ( or younger) generally they'll state on the profile if they have a personal preference

[Stevelondon]

I‘m knocking 70 and still see girls in their 20s from Seeking. I remember well my first „millennial“ - 50 years younger than me who appreciated getting a good seeing to and a bit of sexual education from someone older than her grandpa!

That’s what she told you of course.
Nothing like polishing the older ego 

[Captainhowdy666]

There's a simple rule: Fuck what you fancy.
Ignore what anyone else thinks.
It's your time, your money, your choice.

My mantra since the day I turned of legal age.
I’m in my 50’s now.
A few years ago I pulled a 22 year old in a bar and fucked the life out of her on a one nights stand.
Couldn’t care less if she was younger than my daughter.

[scutty brown]

And if you wear a wig make sure it's firmly attached incase it becomes dislodged during throes of passion 

But be careful.... If she gets carried away and tries to rip it off for a throw of passion it will hurt your neck

[wirehair]

That’s what she told you of course.
Nothing like polishing the older ego 

It was her responsiveness and cries of pleasure, not what she said! 

[The Monk]

I’m 60 slim build don’t drink or smoke in over 30 years been called Peter Pan a few times  and into slim to skinny of all ages. It’s only ever been an issue once with a 19/20 year black SP from GEA a Glasgow agency. Booked a hour she looked 18 or 19 but acted like a 16 yr old in her first date put me right off felt uncomfortable through out and was in and out in 15 mins.

Have a SP a see most months aged 29 she has a age limited of over 30 and she always says older men are the best punters they take their time experienced respectfully and don’t hash bang it

[Thepacifist]

I'm 59.  Not bradd pitt but have been very occasionally described as easy on the eye, so not ugly.  Overweight but not obese, bald goatee geezer

I like slim, pert, and tend to go for older ladies because I like to feel that there's some sort of spark - or that's what I'm looking for; rather than just being serviced.

So I've avoided under 40's for that reason

what do you think?  experiences?  i'm south coast - southampton way

Ta v much

You don’t need to justify yourself. If you want to shag some 18 year old go for it. It’s your money, it’s up to you how you punt. I’d be cautious about the spark. Take it as it is. A service. Hopefully a well provided one. Use this site to check reviews of girls you like. Write a review yourself and share your experience. Welcome 

[SonofAJohn]

If you are nervous before a punt
Drink some shilajit and take a shit

[Stevelondon]

If you are nervous before a punt
Drink some shilajit and take a shit

I’ve not heard of this particular method of relaxation but there’s always a first time for everything 

[SonofAJohn]

I’ve not heard of this particular method of relaxation but there’s always a first time for everything 

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