How much did your first punt shape your future perceptions?

[Jeff_withpetersen]

Time to get deep and philosophical, gentlemen. My question - how much did your first punt shape future expectations and how much have subsequent punts exceeded/been worse than that first punt? I'll keep my thoughts on this brief via bullet point

1) My first punt had great communication with me, including an AW email and text on the day checking if I was still coming and talking about how much she was looking forward to it (I have subsequently learned WGs rarely bother pretending to give a shit and often leave driving the communications to the bloke willing to drop over £100 on spending time with them rather than even attempting to be professional about things)

2) First punt was an incredibly attractive young woman with a decent personality, a real 10/10. I wouldn't expect her to even acknowledge I exist in normal life, let alone get jiggy wid me. I wouldn't say I've ever really subsequently been with an 'unattractive' WG but not found another 10/10 scorcher since then. Yes I said scorcher.

 So basically after my first punt I was walking on air thinking punting was about laying down money in exchange for insanely gorgeous young women  bending over backwards to get me in the door in exchange for the money I'm dropping. Needless to say, my subsequent experiences have been somewhat disappointing! I wonder though if it's best to start with a great punt so you always have something great to aim to match, or if it's better to start with a lukewarm one that gives you just enough to look for better punts going forward?

[vw]

Mine was in a back alley in Liverpool 20 years ago, caused me to strive to progress and punt in a bed in future.

[Tiger63]

Did a bit in the late 80s early 90s then had a complete break but have returned to the fold in the last few months.
First punt back was a wg the same age as me (51). Told her how nervous I was and she was great.
Hooked again

[threechilliman]

First punt about 15 years ago was so bad I still have nightmares about it. Took me 14 years to get back in the saddle last year. Glad to say my reintroduction was much better - indeed she remains a favourite even after half a dozen visits. Sadly some of my punts since haven't matched the standard she set, but with UKP's help, I've not done too badly at all this year.

tcm

[Dee4cumalot]

I am still new to punting as was in a very long relationship that ended last year
But with the need to bang one out other than with my right hand I found escorts

I came on here a lot to be noisey but also to see what the punting world was all about (after 17years with one woman) I needed advise 

My first punt was in May and than shortly after I visited with a lady in June and another in the same week but have since found myself back to back with the same girl as I have come to realize I like what I like and she does it for me so I have no problems
All communication was spot on and wasn't disappointed with how either of the girls went about business

So all in all I haven't had any issues but I'm not fishing much

[tantric talents]

My first punt wasn't even in the UK but it was fun and of course memorable.
Yes I do think if it had been a really bad one it would probably would have affected my future in punting.
It is nice though when you do finally meet a 10. Just very important not to get EAS.
I try to that avoid that where possible through variety. 

[rubric]

First punt was .. some years back . It was before (just) the initial EE invasion. I saw an attractive mixed race woman in her mid to late 30s, who was very well groomed, and very professional who didn't kiss ("It's too personal"). She did OW with and I was unable to come in her mouth.

The main thing was that both her and the parlour itself were very clean by the standards of parlours generally - I suspect if my first experience had been a dive, I might not have stuck around. As it was even though sexually it wasn't the most exciting experience, there was enough appeal and excitement around the event (I was shaking like a leaf and my teeth were chattering as I walked up to the parlour) that I stuck with it.

[smiths]

Time to get deep and philosophical, gentlemen. My question - how much did your first punt shape future expectations and how much have subsequent punts exceeded/been worse than that first punt? I'll keep my thoughts on this brief via bullet point

1) My first punt had great communication with me, including an AW email and text on the day checking if I was still coming and talking about how much she was looking forward to it (I have subsequently learned WGs rarely bother pretending to give a shit and often leave driving the communications to the bloke willing to drop over £100 on spending time with them rather than even attempting to be professional about things)

2) First punt was an incredibly attractive young woman with a decent personality, a real 10/10. I wouldn't expect her to even acknowledge I exist in normal life, let alone get jiggy wid me. I wouldn't say I've ever really subsequently been with an 'unattractive' WG but not found another 10/10 scorcher since then. Yes I said scorcher.

 So basically after my first punt I was walking on air thinking punting was about laying down money in exchange for insanely gorgeous young women  bending over backwards to get me in the door in exchange for the money I'm dropping. Needless to say, my subsequent experiences have been somewhat disappointing! I wonder though if it's best to start with a great punt so you always have something great to aim to match, or if it's better to start with a lukewarm one that gives you just enough to look for better punts going forward?

Not at all seeing as I cant recall it clearly as its over 30 years ago and I was both pissed and stoned at the time, It didn't put me off though so couldn't of been too bad. In those early days I didn't need to fancy a WG to punt with them, nowadays I do or its no erection plus I have evolved and am more fussy overall.

[cueball]

My first punt was a covered blow job in a dingy flat in Bradford with a street girl twenty odd years ago, a few more street girls followed but very soon I decided this is not the way to go.

Started with incalls with indies out of the back of the local rag and the sport. Safer than on the streets but Christ I've seen some scary girls when those doors open, totally blind out of the back of the paper.

Aw changed me a lot and ukp changed me again. I wouldn't dream of going punting on the streets and I need some pics and feedback too.

The older I've got the more cautious I've become.

[tintin054]

My first punt was with a Russian girl that lived local to me. I only opted for 30mins but afterwards wished it had been longer. That particular punt didn't shape my perceptions, that came later. After some good and few bad punts i met an English wg who i started to see regularly and she set the bar that high that it has yet to be beaten. Unfortunately she stopped escorting or should i say fortunately as i was spending far too much money.

[johnbanebridge]

What an excellent thread.

My first attempted punt was terrible, the pictures of the woman were photo shopped she looked like my gross, fat, saggy aunt and the lady smelled strongly of cigarettes as well. She wasn't particular intelligent either to put it mildly, the agency said she was French... she had a Yorkshire accent  . I didn't want to go through with the punt so I just talked to her for the whole hour while the 'beast' slothed on my bed I made some silly excuse so I didn't have to go through with it. That experience left me very frustrated at the time and still annoys me to this day. The sensible thing would have been to send her away so I could keep my money but I was inexperience and felt responsible for my bad time as I did not do my research properly. 

My first actual punt was average, much better than my first attempt. Average looking lady but had a nice personality, so things were better, actually went through with the punt this time  . However I knew I could do better with punting so I buckled down and did through research for my second punt and refined my method.

My second punt I had found the winning formula and it has not failed me since. Very attractive woman, great personality and met all of my preferences. It took me a while to find my feet but in the end I got there and have many good and excellent punts since. 

[DG]

My first punt was just over a year ago with a 27ish year old local girl who worked as a pole dancer and escorted on the side. She lived in a manky flat, wore too much make up and fake tan but had a cute slim body. But the simple fact that a young, good looking sexy girl would have sex with me, suck me like it was going out of fashion and rim me into the bargain, I thought it couldn't get any better.  Even the £100 for half an hour followed by a return visit for £150 for the hour didn't make me doubt what an incredible experience it was.

That was until I made my first foray into AW and met a couple of better looking, sexier looking, cleaner, more obliging and cheaper young women. Although I can't say my first punt wasn't good, I would never go back to her knowing what I know now. The second of the AW girls, also a local girl, has become my most prolific regular, seeing her about once a fortnight for the past year. She is incredibly sexy, pretty, amazing petite body, ultra clean and gives me a fantastic  experience every time I see her, to the extent that I haven't seen another WG for the past three months.

So I guess to answer the OP's original question, my perception after my first punt was that I had achieved Nirvana, but in reality, it was a mediocre punt with a bit of a skank.

[Juankerr]

Had my first punt around 20 years ago with a slim athletic blonde called Amber in a shared house fairly local to me. She wasn't great looking facially but I can still see her pert bum and boobs to this day!! The punt itself was quite good although I was pretty inexperienced at the time.
I subsequently visited Amber a few more times along with around 5 other ladies that worked at the same venue before I started to branch out.
It was a lot more difficult to do research back then so I had plenty of good and bad punts after my debut but it was a good first introduction to punting. 

[Ben4454]

My first punt was with an Irish woman. Communications were fantastic. I had booked 30 minutes and it went well over an hour before I left. I was 18. She provided beer and porn movies while me and my mate fucked her. She did oral without and CIM. Definitely would have been a hit on the board but has retired.

I thought punting was great and I thought all escorts were like this.. until we saw this older lady. She stopped mid-punt giving me a BJ and went and watched some TV. She then said 'you and your friend can bare back me if you like' and started taking the condom off me and spread her legs.

I was young and a idiot but so glad i did not BB her - my friend however did.

[iloverachelv]

The first there was only a handjob.

I got her fully naked in about 1 minute of meeting her.  She was very attractive.

She gave me a blowjob first and I ended with a handjob, I was only there 20 minutes max.  I really wasn't sure what I was entering into but after the first visit I had the confidence to go back to the same place without fear of something odd happening.

Not yet been with the same girl since, I travel a long way to do my meets and im still trying the whole menu.

[itk]

My first few pints were pretty average to awful. From a hand job in a pitch black room, where I'm certain she dozed off, to rushed OW in my car. Didn't care back then as it was cheap, exciting and there were so many WG's to pick up.

[willbred]

As it happens my first punt was with an attractive mature lady who gave me a mild dom session with sex. Generally, I enjoy nothing better some 30 years later.

[threechilliman]

.....where I'm certain she dozed off....

Oh fuck!

tcm

[Shrubby]

My first punt felt like the most exciting and dangerous thing I've done in my life.

For not that much cash in the grand scheme of things the most attractive woman I'd ever seen with her kit off rubbed her tits in my face then sucked me off.   I couldn't believe it was happening, I felt so so nervous, guilty, shamed, yet thrilled and alive.

Subsequent visits to WGs haven't felt the same.    That blew my mind, now I know what can be experienced and how easy it is to experience it it's all a bit more matter of fact.  That level of excitement won't be revisited, I know that.

Don't know whether she's still working with a different profile but FWIW External Link/Members Only is the best £70 I've ever spent.

[Cuntminion]

Nope

[Mr Br1ghts1de]

Mine was with an Agency girl called Honey who I called out to my home of the time about 12 year ago.

She was excellent. Blonde, sexy as fuck and gave me a great time. I told her it was my first time and she rewarded me greatly.

It gave me confidence that booking escorts was not as sad, desperate and dispiriting as I may have imagined. There were perhaps girls out there that enjoyed sex.

I suppose I have been seeking such girls ever since.

[howrude]

My first punt went well. It was in a decnet place. The girl was good looking and did a good service. It gave me the insight that it was possible to have sex with good looking girls in a cleane, secure and discreet enviroment and for an affordable price. And it certainly exceeded my initial expectations as the girls have been hotter and ruder.

[Smoking joe]

I was terrified going to my first meet, I decided I wouldnt want a 10 out of 10 stunner, I would be nervous enough anyway! Got in, polite hello to a chunky giirl with a sweet face. Took a shower, asked for a back massage,  turned over, and got blown like a dyson to one of the strongest pops of my life in about 5 minutes! Glad I didn't start with a super hot girl, I have seen a few of those since though!

[Quesadilla]

My first punt was some 15 + years ago now, very blah, not all that to look at - pre-AW so reliant on local newspapers.  Subsequently only bothered to punt once in the UK, then had some punts in Amsterdam's RLD where at least you could see the merchandise before sampling. 

Punting for me achieved the desired end of giving me more confidence with women, resulting in my getting married for 12 years. 

After separating I started punting again with a totally different perception - I had some decent punts through AW and then found this site due to a Romanian B&S. Since then I've had 95% + positive punts and ticked off loads of items on my sexual bucket list - so I would say definitely my first punt bore no relation to my future punting habits. Thankfully. 

[Horizontal pleasures]

When I was a lad civvies were trained to keep their legs closed so my first punt was a little over 50 years ago with a plump Jewish 'auntie' figure with red lipstick on the edge of Soho. I was awestruck and had a great voluptuous time and been looking for something like that ever since.

[wasox]

Thought-provoking topic, hadn't really thought about this until I saw this thread.

First punt was with a more experienced woman (~10yrs older than me - I was in my mid-20s).  Wanted a confidence booster as was going through a prolonged dry spell following a messy break-up.  Made a conscious decision early on not to see someone that could be viewed as 'dream-fulfilment' or who was dramatically out of my league, as I was nervous enough to begin with without facing a porn-star-esque woman who I was certain, in my first punt panics, would judge me and shatter my self esteem.  Ended up seeing a plain, though not unattractive woman with a fair amount of curves, but an excellent personality.  Booked a 90-minute session as I was worried about being rushed in and out. 

The session itself went reasonably well, though I spent the entire time worrying about my performance rather than actually enjoying the events.  The game changer for me though came after the conclusion of the festivities, as I still had time left.  We sat and had a fantastic chat, and that, more than anything else, gave me the confidence boost I was looking for.  I even got some honest feedback from her, which has actually been really useful since!  I've since been a lot less nervous in meets, and have even started seeing some more 'fantasy' WGs. 

I guess my first punt really opened my eyes to what was really out there if I looked for it, and how much fun could be had by taking a (well-researched!) leap of faith!

[unclesweetheart]

My first punt was in January 2014. I did it because I was sexually inhibited and my brother, whose wife had died a year or so previously, had been seeing escorts and had confessed to me. This led the way. I had been puritanically dismissive of his explaining to me how marvellous the girls were, how it wasn't as simple as I thought...

I saw a girl in my home town. I didn't realise escorts kissed: I was that naif. So within a minute of our meeting, with this beautiful virtually naked girl kissing my face off and me finding her pussy wet, we went incredibly quickly into PSE mode.

I left the meet - it was only an hour - more stunned than I'd ever been in my life before. For a couple of days I didn't eat. I kept running the session through in my head - it had been VERY PSE - and I absolutely couldn't believe that what had happened had happened. I sent the girl a text apologising for the hardness of the session, and she was good enough to reply reassuring me that it was fine and she'd had a great time.

So I saw her again and the same thing happened. Pure filth. At the end she gave me a spliff she'd been rolling - we'd smoked one together in the previous session - and it was so strong that when I smoked it at home I almost passed out.

But in our first session she'd allowed me to fuck her bareback. I'd been so overwhelmed by this whole new thing that at the time I'd gone along with it - for the first spooning bout. However, nonplussed as I'd been I sortve knew this was wrong, so insisted on a mac for the rest of the session.

So then I started to do my research, found UKP and SAAFE and my local punters' site. Told the girl that I couldn't see her again because she was still doing BB and did she really think that was a good idea? Got tested: fine.

Then, thanks to UKP and a few kind souls on here, I started to see the Queens of the Scene: firstly Adele and Lily Hart, latterly the phenomenae(?) which are Lindsey and Little Katie and Ellie Rose and Kavita.

In retrospect, I realise that the first session wasn't, really, that special. But at the time it was the most fantastic time I'd ever had sexually. So I'm really grateful to the girl, who's no longer working. She gave me more than a little taste of how much pleasure there is to be had, started to erode my previously moralistic objections to prostitution and initiated me on a journey which has not just been (mostly) incredibly enjoyable, but has also led to me meeting some off-the-scale, extraordinary women. And it's not over yet.

If it had been a bad or medocre experience I probably wouldn't have continued. But to the small-minded, relatively inexperienced guy I was then, it was like discovering a whole new world.

[tantric talents]

Really great post uncle S. I think you have hit the nail on the head certainly for many here. 

[Mr Sinister]

1st punt about 4 years ago up in Manchester on a stag do large group which just disintegrated left, right and centre as the night wore on, came up to the time when the club was closing so I just slipped out the group went up to a taxi and asked for a brass jumped in and off we went just outside the town centre. Got there paid the entry fee walked into a large premises like a pub with TV and pool tables there were other punters in this reception area just going about their business which made me feel relaxed.

Anyhow a line up of girls came out chose a very busty Hungarian went to the massage room undressed and down to business OW then she propped up and rode me hard came and that was it, paid for 1/2 hour but was told 1 pop was new to this so was like ok. Cleaned up walked out had spent all my money for the night was in the middle of nowhere so I just walked it back to my hotel as I had been mapping the distance and area in my mind when in the taxi earlier. Took me 40 minutes returned to the hotel got into room friend was crashed out slept and that was it, when he asked me where I disappeared off to the previous night just said I went back to couple of strip bars as I had free strip vouchers given to us.

I spoke to other close friends who broke their punting duck in parlours too another rites of passage into that grey morale area. One of my reasons for punting was my part obsession for large breasts like FF onwards. Civvy wise I've been unlucky on that front up to my 31 years only had 1 girl who I can say had very large breasts. Found AW after trawling through other sites it was like a goldmine when I first saw it was like facebook for punting in terms of the search function. 1st punt off there was some chubby GG+ polish girl she was 23 good punt it was, after that I started delving more into the world of punting on how everything operates getting the knowledge not to be scammed and so forth. Found that other fluffy forum first never posted on there but the fluffiness towards prossies who posted there and banning of links/mention to AW found off putting, came across UKP by random like 3 years ago or so by then had my wits about me but this place sharpened them even more.

[Horizontal pleasures]

Thought-provoking topic, hadn't really thought about this until I saw this thread.

First punt was with a more experienced woman (~10yrs older than me - I was in my mid-20s).  Wanted a confidence booster as was going through a prolonged dry spell following a messy break-up.  Made a conscious decision early on not to see someone that could be viewed as 'dream-fulfilment' or who was dramatically out of my league, as I was nervous enough to begin with without facing a porn-star-esque woman who I was certain, in my first punt panics, would judge me and shatter my self esteem.  Ended up seeing a plain, though not unattractive woman with a fair amount of curves, but an excellent personality.  Booked a 90-minute session as I was worried about being rushed in and out. 

The session itself went reasonably well, though I spent the entire time worrying about my performance rather than actually enjoying the events.  The game changer for me though came after the conclusion of the festivities, as I still had time left.  We sat and had a fantastic chat, and that, more than anything else, gave me the confidence boost I was looking for.  I even got some honest feedback from her, which has actually been really useful since!  I've since been a lot less nervous in meets, and have even started seeing some more 'fantasy' WGs. 

I guess my first punt really opened my eyes to what was really out there if I looked for it, and how much fun could be had by taking a (well-researched!) leap of faith!

beautiful. who was it, is there a link?

[Hatcher]

A street hooker in Rotterdam. She looked good from a distance, not quite so good close up, and when she got naked in the room she turned into Wilfred Bramble on a bad day. Didn't try again for about 20 years. My lesson? don't punt unless you need to. (These days I need to)

[wasox]

beautiful. who was it, is there a link?

Sadly I can't find her any more. Was a couple of years ago and, if I'm honest, the name escapes me. Sarah? Sophie? Something with an 'S' anyway! Found her on AW but I didn't have a profile so don't have a record of her. Tried tracking her down through a couple of sites a few months back but doesn't look like she's working these days. Sorry I couldn't help!

[anonyorks]

My first punt was really brilliant, everything I hoped for and she's the only girl I've seen more than once and still see too. I did spend forever researching so I'm claiming some of the credit of it going well 

[KingAlpha]

Not much! It was a quickie suck and fuck in the Amsterdam RLD about 15 years ago. But I guess I got an inkling that amazing looking girls don't always (or even often) give great service, and that encounters of that kind are seldom much more than a cartoonish wank which also happens to involve a nude lady and 30 euros.

[scorpion61]

23 years ago this month - know this because wife was pregnant with our first. Still not sure why but after a few drinks with an old work colleague I went to Kings Cross looking for some action. Almost gave up looking - it was raining so that might explain why it was quiet- when saw a young girl who I thought might be a hooker. She walked off and I followed her. As I got close she turned around and uttered those immortal words " do you want some business?". Before I could stop myself I had said " yes please" and followed her to a flat nearby.

Off came her top and leggings and she was naked. Can't remember much except it was my first BJ ( covered ) aged 30 and she was really sweet. And only the 2nd girl I had had sex with.

Didn't partake again until an affair fizzled out 4 years later and I realised I was hooked on illicit sex. Never looked back.

[AgedCases]

My first and only punt was back in February and I left disappointed because I never came and I felt that she needed some prompting to give me the service I wanted, of which I couldn't do through first-time nerves.

After discovering this site, I'm guessing that it never gets better (ie. she would be hard to beat).

[vw]

My first and only punt was back in February and I left disappointed because I never came and I felt that she needed some prompting to give me the service I wanted, of which I couldn't do through first-time nerves.

After discovering this site, I'm guessing that it never gets better (ie. she would be hard to beat).

This site should help you very much find what you are looking for.

Add that to confidence to prompt in future, a must everyone has different preferences.

[Malvolio]

My first punt was in a Shepherd Market walk up about five years ago and didn't last very long.  What it did do was bring home how easy it is to buy sex with attractive women in London.

[Marathon69man]

A lady named jean in 1982 in ran a house in old swan Liverpool. She got her friend Debbie to take me upstairs take her top down then give me an oily wank from which I shot a jet out so strong it hit the wall behind us .... 20 at the time but wonder sometimes what became of these two.

Debbie was 46 at the time ... Still fantasise about it now

[flybynightpm]

My first punt was last October (or 27 girls ago), I did my research on another site ( didn't know about this one) and booked her, had a brilliant time and paid a lot of money to Mr Divine over the following weeks.. It was a high standard to follow but have been more pleased that disappointed thanks to reviews.. Her name was Scarlett ,now an indy and was so friendly/natural it was easy.. 

[tonysoprano]

My first punt I came twice..then after that as I was still so horny I had to go and book my 2nd punt on the same day so I booked an hour during which I popped 3 more times.

It's never been quite like that again 

[Morpheus]

I was very lucky with my first punt. Three years ago, never heard of UKP, hadn't even heard of Adultwork and very naive about this business. I called a now defunct agency in London and a girl turns up at my hotel looking nothing like the girl in the picture, although pretty good looking anyway. I naively accepted an explanation that they don't use real photos to protect their privacy. She was Romanian, but before the great influx when the work permit rules changed. She was very good, and I still think that after 100 or so punts. Still my only decent Romanian. My second punt was average, third one was awful, one of my worst. If I had seen her as my first, it could well have put me off the whole game.

[tantric talents]

If I had seen her as my first, it could well have put me off the whole game.

Couldn't agree more and feel this especially applies to the older punter who is still feeling virile but no longer gets any at home 

[affric]

My first punt felt like the most exciting and dangerous thing I've done in my life.

For not that much cash in the grand scheme of things the most attractive woman I'd ever seen with her kit off rubbed her tits in my face then sucked me off.   I couldn't believe it was happening, I felt so so nervous, guilty, shamed, yet thrilled and alive.

Subsequent visits to WGs haven't felt the same.    That blew my mind, now I know what can be experienced and how easy it is to experience it it's all a bit more matter of fact.  That level of excitement won't be revisited, I know that.

Have lurked here since May, first meet was in June and your post almost exactly describes my experience, which was first sex outside marriage (valid reasons, so I keep telling myself) in over twenty years.

 I could not have been more nervous, but the experience was clean, safe, serene and absolutely sublime, although I was far too nervous for the sex to be good. Genuinely like losing my virginity again.

For that I have to thank this place (and awj for brilliant research, cannot begin to think Id have done it in pre Internet days.

What I didn't think through beforehand is that there is absolutely nobody to talk to about the experience afterwards. That has been resolved by now seeing a more local 'girl" regularly, who is not only wonderfully hot but who I have brilliant comms with pre, during, post and between meets. I honestly feel this has actually secured my marriage.

ps it will be pretty bloody obvious that I'm super fluffy.

[johnnyboy61]

Over twenty years ago, street girl who jumped in the car directed me to a tower block half a mile away. Took me to an empty flat a few floors up into a bedroom with nothing but a bare mattress on the floor.

Two more experiences with street girls followed, one who charged extra for everything and ended up costing me a fortune and another who had a kid in the next door room. Put me off for a while and got my kicks from parlours with massage and HE, until I started getting FS at some and then I was off again. Mainly using back page of local rag, but things have improved considerably with AW and UKP and I rarely have a bad punt nowadays.

Can't say that I pine for the tower block deserted flat bare mattress on floor experience. And being over twenty years ago, no kissing and OW.

[vw]

Over twenty years ago, street girl who jumped in the car directed me to a tower block half a mile away. Took me to an empty flat a few floors up into a bedroom with nothing but a bare mattress on the floor.

Nice to see someone did the same apprenticeship as I did.

[tantric talents]

Have lurked here since May, first meet was in June and your post almost exactly describes my experience, which was first sex outside marriage (valid reasons, so I keep telling myself) in over twenty years.

 I could not have been more nervous, but the experience was clean, safe, serene and absolutely sublime, although I was far too nervous for the sex to be good. Genuinely like losing my virginity again.

For that I have to thank this place (and awj for brilliant research, cannot begin to think Id have done it in pre Internet days.

What I didn't think through beforehand is that there is absolutely nobody to talk to about the experience afterwards. That has been resolved by now seeing a more local 'girl" regularly, who is not only wonderfully hot but who I have brilliant comms with pre, during, post and between meets. I honestly feel this has actually secured my marriage.

ps it will be pretty bloody obvious that I'm super fluffy.

Excellent first post. Please do consider posting a review of your regular. 

[anyfucker]

My first punt was in January 2014. I did it because I was sexually inhibited and my brother, whose wife had died a year or so previously, had been seeing escorts and had confessed to me. This led the way. I had been puritanically dismissive of his explaining to me how marvellous the girls were, how it wasn't as simple as I thought...
...
If it had been a bad or medocre experience I probably wouldn't have continued. But to the small-minded, relatively inexperienced guy I was then, it was like discovering a whole new world.

Uncle, you have come a long way in just 20 months and some amazing punts under your belt.

For me my first punt was ~30 years ago, a week in Bangkok on business staying in a 5* hotel. The local expats showed me the scene and i took a different girl "home" every night for a week, fecking brilliant 

[The Owl]

Many years ago in a dodgy south London massage parlour. The woman was hot, tattooed and sucked cock like a champ but it was a rush job. After that I did my research and screwed Melanie and Sam at the Cottage in Soho. I developed EAS with Sam so moved on. Ended my first foray with three great indies: Kim of Dartford, Jade of Welwyn City Garden and Emma Demontford of Birmingham before meeting a civvy and quitting.

I think I learnt that I had a habit of picking escorts with the Pisces starsign. Indie women were more fun and human (sex and a decent conversation). I should have fucked Jade a lot more as she was incredible in bed (beaten only by a one night stand who hooked up with me on a rebound before realising her mistake after we'd fucked like rabbits all night).

Tried not to come back to p4p but after a long time out of the dating game and being messed about by two women I gave in and booked an escort on impulse... now it's going to take an impressive woman to make me want to stop my fun and freedom.

[lonn]

Hi, this is my first post so it being about a first punt seems appropriate.

About 18 months back I had a health scare which luckily turned out not to have been quite so fatal as it could have been but left me with a bit of a different outlook on life. I realised how close I'd come to 'game over' and that if there's anything you want to do in life get it done now. So, in March last year, and after a load of false starts, I found AW and booked my first WG. What followed was one of the most incredible experiences of my life. Beautiful girl, incredible hour in her company - in fact the whole thing felt like it was happening to someone else, it was surreal. Since then I've seen her at least 20 times and it just gets better but I have tried other girls with less success. So my first punt was a bit like learning to drive in a Rolls Royce, a tough act to follow to which none of the other girls I've tried have come close.

That said, I now find myself up for anything. I'm having a 2 girl with my regular in April and toying with idea of a T-girl on the basis of try anything once and if you don't like it don't do it again.