Do you add to the list or not?

[Metalgear2018]

Do you add escorts to the number of women you slept with or not?

 I'm only counting civie women on my list. I'm not sure if I should add escorts due to the ease of just arranging and paying for the service. Where as with civie girls it's all about the chase and attraction.

[David1970]

Why do you have a list?

[daviemac]

Why do you have a list?

+1

Sounds like a thing a 16 year old would do.   

[mr.bluesky]

+1

Sounds like a thing a 16 year old would do.   

You mean a bit like train spotters 

[B4bcock]

The only list I have is my hotlist and that is all about quality, not quantity.

[Metalgear2018]

Why do you have a list?

I have a target

[GingerNuts]

I have a target

Why? Are you going to stop when you reach it?

[Punterperson1971]

Why? Are you going to stop when you reach it?

His target is probably 10,he’s on 9 already.

[Metalgear2018]

Why? Are you going to stop when you reach it?

Yes, I have set it too 100

[Metalgear2018]

His target is probably 10,he’s on 9 already.

No! 100 I'm on 15 at the moment. But, I don't think its achievable. That is why I want to add escorts to the list as well to boost the numbers.

[GingerNuts]

That is why I want to add escorts to the list as well to boost the numbers.

As far as I'm aware there are no official rules for counting the number of women you've fucked so do whatever you like.

[OakTree]

A fuck’s a fuck wether it’s paid for or not.

[theoldmaggot]

Do you add escorts to the number of women you slept with or not?

 I'm only counting civie women on my list. I'm not sure if I should add escorts due to the ease of just arranging and paying for the service. Where as with civie girls it's all about the chase and attraction.

How do you keep track of this list?

[David1970]

Why set a target?

Whats the point?

What age are you FFS?

[Punterperson1971]

Why set a target?

Whats the point?

What age are you FFS?

Think the 9 in his reviews may be his mental age 

[Metalgear2018]

How do you keep track of this list?

By memorizing the number of women I slept with

[Metalgear2018]

Think the 9 in his reviews may be his mental age 

Not funny. But I guess my question will attract humor

[Metalgear2018]

Why set a target?

Whats the point?

What age are you FFS?

I'm 31. The target is due to peer pressure from society and the lad culture. The point is to appear cool.

[GingerNuts]

The point is to appear cool.

How does counting the number of women you've slept with achieve that?

[David1970]

I'm 31. The target is due to peer pressure from society and the lad culture. The point is to appear cool.

So everyone keeps a list and have a target, so they look cool?

I think you got the digits the wrong way round when you quoted your age.

[daviemac]

I'm 31. The target is due to peer pressure from society and the lad culture. The point is to appear cool.

* Monumental fail on that score mate.

31 and you feel the need to bow to peer pressure.     It's one thing keeping score and trying to outdo your mates on a stag week in Magaluf or Benidorm but in normal life??  Have the self confidence to do your own thing and fuck what others think. 

[theoldmaggot]

By memorizing the number of women I slept with

How many WG's have you seen so far then?

[David1970]

Is it school holidays somewhere, between this thread and the one about falling in love with a whore                   (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=248096.0 ) it's like 13 year old trolls have taken to starting threads on UKP.

[Metalgear2018]

* Monumental fail on that score mate.

31 and you feel the need to bow to peer pressure.     It's one thing keeping score and trying to outdo your mates on a stag week in Magaluf or Benidorm but in normal life??  Have the self confidence to do your own thing and fuck what others think.

I'm not confident but I have to put on a front when I'm with my mates. Put it like this. I lacked confidence during my teens. Now I'm making up for it.

[OakTree]

I'm not confident but I have to put on a front when I'm with my mates. Put it like this. I lacked confidence during my teens. Now I'm making up for it.

Do you tell your mates you fuck prostitutes?

[Metalgear2018]

Do you tell your mates you fuck prostitutes?

No not directly. I did show them adultwork but dismissed it as a laugh.

[daviemac]

I'm not confident but I have to put on a front when I'm with my mates. Put it like this. I lacked confidence during my teens. Now I'm making up for it.

FFS why??? they can't be very good mates if they can't accept you the way you are.

In my younger days when 'knocking around' with a group of mates we all had different personalities, some 'jack the lad' types some quiet and a bit shy. We were all accepted for who we were though and the shy ones were helped and encouraged as and when it was needed. Everyone had the piss taken out of them at some stage as per normal with a group of lads.

[tynetunnel]

This is not a boast at all, but I really have lost count. The answer I guess is that I’ve had “plenty but not yet enough” 

[Metalgear2018]

FFS why??? they can't be very good mates if they can't accept you the way you are.

In my younger days when 'knocking around' with a group of mates we all had different personalities, some 'jack the lad' types some quiet and a bit shy. We were all accepted for who we were though and the shy ones were helped and encouraged as and when it was needed. Everyone had the piss taken out of them at some stage as per normal with a group of lads.

Peer pressure is the worst.

[daviemac]

Peer pressure is the worst.

Between troll and attention seeker, my opinion of you is erring on the side of troll.

[David1970]

Between troll and attention seeker, my opinion of you is erring on the side of troll.

+1

[SlamBoy]

I'm 31. The target is due to peer pressure from society and the lad culture. The point is to appear cool.

I tell you what is cool - when you are secure and confident enough to not let peer pressure influence you into doing completely ridiculous things and behaving in ways you otherwise wouldn't. Master that, and you will not have to "appear" cool, you will be cool.

[B4bcock]

Peer pressure is the worst.


6 out of your 9 reviews are negative which suggests you are throwing yourself into punts without doing much research.    You seem to be throwing away cash just to keep up with your "mates".
Most 31 year old men are looking to find someone special and settle down.    If your "mates" are of a similar age you will probably find them settling into domesticity well before any of you have reached your silly target and the whole thing will fizzle out.

[justdesserts]

FFS if it's peer pressure just make the fucking number up!!

[Bogof60]

Snowflake
Said it before
And again
Snowflake
Just not cut out for,  I was going to say punting, but actually adult life.

[Waterhouse]

Oh FFS... I thought you'd stopped posting these childish, fuckwit, attention-seeking threads.   

You clearly need to be 'positive-stroked' for many aspects of your life, or what little of one you appear to have judging by the threads you've started previously.

I honestly don't think you're cut out for this game - do yourself a favour and go and get a life and stop making yourself look like a pillock everytime you throw something like this on the boards.

[Waterhouse]

PS. No it doesn't count if the girl is an Escort... it's a paid for service, not something you've manged to "achieve" in a normal, civvy fashion and therefore would not tick the 'cool' box with your mates (if in fact you have any).

 
 

[Colston36]

I'm 31. The target is due to peer pressure from society and the lad culture. The point is to appear cool.

The lad culture? Cool?? 31??? How very, very sad.

[tesla]

I'm 31. The target is due to peer pressure from society and the lad culture. The point is to appear cool.

some advice

External Link/Members Only

[David1970]

I also have stated a list, its tilted
"Pointless threads written by attention seekers"

1 Do you add to the list or not?   https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=profile;u=221432
2 Falling in love with a WG          https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=profile;u=233389

[Charliehutton]

I'm not quite sure why the OP has had such a hostile reception to what seemed a fairly innocuous post.

Not only do I have a target, I also have a list - sort of, anyway - which according to several respondents puts me on a par with juvenile adolescents, and to an extent they're right. I'm in my 60's, and haven't been so excited by sex since I was a juvenile adolescent.

I've set myself a target of seeing 100 different girls in my first 3 years of punting. After every one I copy one of the girl's profile pictures and add it to my collection. I get a lot of pleasure from occasionally scrolling through my 'Bullingdon Club' file - it's just my little joke - and I can remember all their names, where the punt took place, how it went, what I paid and, often, even details of the conversation.

From what I remember, according to one respondent that makes me an 'attention seeking fuckwit' - I've been called worse - but for me it adds to the fun of the whole punting experience.

[jeanphillipe]

I'm not quite sure why the OP has had such a hostile reception to what seemed a fairly innocuous post.

Not only do I have a target, I also have a list - sort of, anyway - which according to several respondents puts me on a par with juvenile adolescents, and to an extent they're right. I'm in my 60's, and haven't been so excited by sex since I was a juvenile adolescent.

I've set myself a target of seeing 100 different girls in my first 3 years of punting. After every one I copy one of the girl's profile pictures and add it to my collection. I get a lot of pleasure from occasionally scrolling through my 'Bullingdon Club' file - it's just my little joke - and I can remember all their names, where the punt took place, how it went, what I paid and, often, even details of the conversation.

From what I remember, according to one respondent that makes me an 'attention seeking fuckwit' - I've been called worse - but for me it adds to the fun of the whole punting experience.

it appears he has riled members as he has done several topics like this .

i only have my hotlist in aw.

[daviemac]

I'm not quite sure why the OP has had such a hostile reception to what seemed a fairly innocuous post.

Not only do I have a target, I also have a list - sort of, anyway - which according to several respondents puts me on a par with juvenile adolescents, and to an extent they're right. I'm in my 60's, and haven't been so excited by sex since I was a juvenile adolescent.

I've set myself a target of seeing 100 different girls in my first 3 years of punting. After every one I copy one of the girl's profile pictures and add it to my collection. I get a lot of pleasure from occasionally scrolling through my 'Bullingdon Club' file - it's just my little joke - and I can remember all their names, where the punt took place, how it went, what I paid and, often, even details of the conversation.

From what I remember, according to one respondent that makes me an 'attention seeking fuckwit' - I've been called worse - but for me it adds to the fun of the whole punting experience.

What you are doing in keeping track of the escorts you've seen is totally different to what the OP is doing, he is keeping track of the number of women he's shagged in order to bow to peer pressure and to 'look cool', he also started this thread to ask if he should include prossies in that list.

It appears you are quite capable of deciding for yourself what to include in your list, the OP, on the other hand, is not.

I've made my thoughts on the OP clear in a previous post and his subsequent posts on other threads are doing nothing to make me change my mind.

[Waterhouse]

I'm not quite sure why the OP has had such a hostile reception to what seemed a fairly innocuous post.

Because he's an insecure moron who persists in starting pointless and idiotic threads.

From what I remember, according to one respondent that makes me an 'attention seeking fuckwit'

Maybe, maybe not... but I for one haven't seen you seen you openly demonstrate that by posting insecure waffle most of time, unlike the OP.

[Marmalade]

I'm not quite sure why the OP has had such a hostile reception to what seemed a fairly innocuous post.

Not only do I have a target, I also have a list - sort of, anyway - which according to several respondents puts me on a par with juvenile adolescents, and to an extent they're right. I'm in my 60's, and haven't been so excited by sex since I was a juvenile adolescent.

I've set myself a target of seeing 100 different girls in my first 3 years of punting. After every one I copy one of the girl's profile pictures and add it to my collection. I get a lot of pleasure from occasionally scrolling through my 'Bullingdon Club' file - it's just my little joke - and I can remember all their names, where the punt took place, how it went, what I paid and, often, even details of the conversation.

From what I remember, according to one respondent that makes me an 'attention seeking fuckwit' - I've been called worse - but for me it adds to the fun of the whole punting experience.

I don’t think there was anything wrong with the question. Members simply noticed, correctly, that the person asking it was a fuckwit with ludicrous reasons for asking.

I once kept a list, for many many years, of civvie fucks, purely out of scientific interest, noticing what seemed to me the qualities I was drawn to and occasionally noting an EAS that was out of all proportion to their looks or personalities. It was for my own interest, not anyone else's. It also helped me recall who, several years later, I had had sex with and how long the relationship, if any, lasted. I don’t still do it but it seemed an entirely healthy thing to do. I never told anyone except one girl I stupidly revealed it to. (My life situation at the time helped, together with Ross Jeffries’ teaching on game). My initial punts were very infrequent so I kept a page for each prossie in exactly the same way. Eventually I got into longer relationships and got bored with the list, but it was a high number. I kept a slightly different sort of record when I went abroad and found SPs that were almost as cheap as a can of lager. Most of them allowed photos and I suppose it was partly sentimentality and remembering who I shagged and what it cost and my state of mind at the time. It was also a long list. Today I keep a list of AW prossies in a hotlist called ‘shagged’ simply so I don’t confuse them with ones I haven’t.

I think it’s healthy to examine what one does and thinks. But it’s not anyone else’s business. In the OP’s case he’s examining what others think, rather than examining why he’s bothered. A bit like desperately trying to get you review count up. A bit silly.

Enjoy.

[Payyourwaymate]

I'm 31. The target is due to peer pressure from society and the lad culture. The point is to appear cool.

I'm actually quite close to your target and I never talk about sex at all in real life discussions, I try to avoid it. If someone asked me I would lie and say only 6 girls and that they were all relationships. Nothing cool about sleeping with a lot of women, it's only lust.

Your friends in your age group should be more concerned about making money, not having sex with a lot of chicks.

[Silver Birch]

I started to count at the very beginning, but in the 2nd column of my spreadsheet  I could see how much fucking money I was blowing  That stopped me carving any more notches a bit sharpish.

Nobody knows how many women I have fucked, not even me!

[Home Alone]

I started to count at the very beginning, but in the 2nd column of my spreadsheet  I could see how much fucking money I was blowing  That stopped me carving any more notches a bit sharpish.

Nobody knows how many women I have fucked, not even me!

+1.

I knew I was entering a new world when I began punting - & yes, I had been a trainspotter back in the late-50s/early 60s - so I was determined to keep a list of all the girls I'd seen. That resolution lasted perhaps a month.

Now, I haven't a fucking clue how many girls I've seen; or even, in the cases of those I've seen more than once, how many times I've seen them.

In the great scheme of things, does it matter? I think not.

[wristjob]

+1

Sounds like a thing a 16 year old would do.   

+1

It's not a competition for quantity, it's about having fun and experiences.

[Home Alone]

Spot on, wristjob. The OP's almost taken the approach: "Never mind the quality; count how many I've seen." Whereas for many of us, especially the more mature punters, know that the best SPs provide a quality service.

Okay; lots of SPs provide a low quality service but that wasn't the issue the OP raised.