EP_X - Meet didn't happen Bristol Tour

[simping]

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Okay this one is frustrating as hell.

Coms were really good untill she decided to drop off the face of the earth. Arranged for a meet yesterday, found her to be very responsive in a timely manner. Well till today that is. Woke up to a text from her this morning to confirm if we were still on, sent a reply confirming that all was good. Then the first red flag came through, she asked if I was still wanting an early morning meet for the next day, I clarified that no our meet was for today. She apologized for the mix-up and I thought all was well, coms at this point we're still good, we managed to sort out dress requests and services. Then she hits me with the second red flag, she couldn't do the original time and had to move it to two hours later — assumed it was due to travel but no she mentioned that was when her next availability was going to be. Hang on a bloody second, we just agreed and secured a time slot already, where the hell is this coming from? Clearly she double booked! Couldn't do the revised time, she then moves it to closer to our original time slot..well 15mins later but couldn't just start to our agreed time???

Getting closer to the new start time and I shoot off a message asking if we were definitely still on but got no answer, decided not to risk it; got the lawnmower out and cut the grass in the garden to the annoyance of my neighbours. Never received a call/text asking me where I was. Still haven't heard from her lmao.

Took a day off as well lool least the garden looks good 👍

[WARSZAWA16]

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[Pawgylove]

Had my eye on this one! Thanks for the warning. Double bookers =   

Glad your garden looks good (hope it wasnt a euphemism)

[Magic500]

Either double books or gets a longer booking than yours and prioritises that one over yours.

[Ckumms]

We didn’t have a confirmed booking. I know exactly what this refers to. I’m more than happy to post the message thread where I offered you a discount as I felt is was miscommunication. You told me to go fuck myself.

[Cunning Punt]

The review is very detailed and makes clear the booking was confirmed, and what's more, there was a lot of further discussions about changing times. It's not a miscommunication, either it was as described or the OP is lying.

Most people will believe the OP. He doesn't have to, of course, but it's up to him whether he wishes to post screenshots of the message thread.

[simping]

Yes I still have our texts messages

[Cunning Punt]

Yes I still have our texts messages

Well up to you whether you want to post screenshots of them, and it seems the SP is happy for them to be posted.

[Jonlove69]

You told me to go fuck myself.

At least he didn’t say “go fuck yourself hun” 

[Ckumms]

I’m not able to message admin due to my account restriction but did comment on the comment via report to make sure it was ok to post screen shots but OP seems fine with that .

Here’s the screen shots - I’m not looking for a full blown row but I stand by the fact it wasn’t a confirmed booking therefore shouldn’t be a review. This is what I wanted to clarify before commenting again. I have blocked out number & hotel name for discretion.



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[Ckumms]

Unfortunately one uploaded in the wrong place due to my edit. Shouldn’t be too hard to work out where it goes. Apologies

[SWAaron]

What happened to the 3pm booking...
Op said I'll make a booking request for 3pm day before.
Provider said yes.
On the day provider asked do you want the booking at 3pm.
Op said yes.

Was op supposed it put booking in via AW?
Somehow it shifted to 3:30pm due to a train?

[Ckumms]

I asked him to put booking in the night before then I messaged in morning to see if he wanted booking. No request went in from night before and I assumed he would be putting one in when he said he wanted the 3pm appointment. I didn’t hear anything until the outfit requests message 4 hours later. (St that point he didn’t know where I was either) and I was travelling so when I arrived I took a short notice booking meaning I was free from 3.30. Then I didn’t hear from him for 20mins after my message offering 3.30 so I took another appointment. It is miscommunication as he thought we had it booked in and I should have been clearer which is why I offered the small discount as an apology. I didn’t bump his booking but when I’m on tour I need to maximise my time and when I finally said 3.45 was free he took another half hour to reply. I understand things happen but both of us could have been clearer.

I felt the negative was harsh after being told to fuck my self & Also there was no text asking if we were still on, the last message was sent from me (bullet dodged) so I’m reading ‘no text to ask where I was and still heard nothing’ after how the exchange panned out is frustrating.

I’d just wanted to share this info as I felt it was exaggerated that’s all.

[Pawgylove]

Definite miscommunication/misunderstanding, but I don’t think OP has exaggerated (my opinion).
Thanks for the clarification though EP as it adds insight for anyone reading the thread in future.

[Cheltclient]

I think it’s prob just about a justifiable negative for the OP as ultimately there was miscommunication and he didn’t get his booking. And it seems clear he thought he had one for the 3pm and he did confirm a couple times in the exchange. For balance, it also seems the SP requested a booking request on AW and if that didn’t arrive, it seems somewhat fair that on her part she didn’t consider it a firm booking. Guess she could have been a little clearer on that part. No booking request this evening, not a confirmed booking. I always think that if an SP requests an adult work booking, one needs to be sent for everything to be confirmed. Also when I’m texting and arranging something, I try and be swift with responses otherwise I accept the SP may book someone else in. Again, I do think the OP was within his right to think he was good to go here. And also think the SP was right to think it wasn’t firm. How about that for sitting on the fence? Mind the splinters hey!

SP - I wouldn’t worry too much about the negative, although I can imagine it’s frustrating. I always pay attention to red reviews and I don’t see anything here that would pose as big red flag. I doubt many clients would be put off by a miscommunication and your texts seemed pretty polite during the discussion. You also offered a small discount and it was the OP who told you to go fuck yourself. Nothing here would put me off booking.

[updownandaround]

Maybe I am just dim (highly probable) but why do SPs confirm a booking via text/phone/Whatsapp/whatever and then ask you to make a booking for the same time on AW? Is it for the reviews? To keep everything organised in one place or as a security measure? Or all of those?

[Cheltclient]

Maybe I am just dim (highly probable) but why do SPs confirm a booking via text/phone/Whatsapp/whatever and then ask you to make a booking for the same time on AW? Is it for the reviews? To keep everything organised in one place or as a security measure? Or all of those?

I suspect it’s for the reviews but also that a confirmed AW booking probably reduces the chances of a time waster or a no show. If a booking is on the system, and you didn’t show up, you’ll end up with negative AW feedback. Could be wrong though but I imagine that’s it. I certainly don’t want negative AW feedback to hamper future bookings

[dubs]

Also allows the girl to check the punters aw feedback if the comms has just been by phone or text

[Bat]

If an SP asks me to “make a booking” after we’ve confirmed by txt, or call, then I always know that’s an AW booking that’s required.

I will do this straight away, wherever I am as it’s so easy by phone using the optimised mobile site.

The SP will then confirm the booking on AW and I know it’s all ‘official’. I guess this gives both of us something to rely on and there’s a mutual element of trust involved. I realise that both punters and SPs can still cancel or ‘ghost’ each other but it does then mean there’s the opportunity to follow up with feedback.

Comms purely by txt can so easily lead to confusion on either side, which seems to be the case here.

Of course, many SPs don’t ask for an AW booking but, if so, I will send one simple txt with a message clearly stating date, time & duration of the booking and ask for confirmation. It’s always worked for me

[updownandaround]

If an SP asks me to “make a booking” after we’ve confirmed by txt, or call, then I always know that’s an AW booking that’s required.

I will do this straight away, wherever I am as it’s so easy by phone using the optimised mobile site.

The SP will then confirm the booking on AW and I know it’s all ‘official’. I guess this gives both of us something to rely on and there’s a mutual element of trust involved. I realise that both punters and SPs can still cancel or ‘ghost’ each other but it does then mean there’s the opportunity to follow up with feedback.

Comms purely by txt can so easily lead to confusion on either side, which seems to be the case here.

Of course, many SPs don’t ask for an AW booking but, if so, I will send one simple txt with a message clearly stating date, time & duration of the booking and ask for confirmation. It’s always worked for me

Maybe if the AW booking system was better and actually managed time completely, i.e. it shows available slots vs unavailable it would be a better all round booking platforms for the SPs. Whenever I've used it and proposed a meeting time, 9/10 times I see the request has been viewed or read but not confirmed.

[southcoastpunter]

Maybe if the AW booking system was better and actually managed time completely, i.e. it shows available slots vs unavailable it would be a better all round booking platforms for the SPs. Whenever I've used it and proposed a meeting time, 9/10 times I see the request has been viewed or read but not confirmed.

to be fair to AW, it does. Its the WG's that do not use the system fully or correctly. But you are right, the result is the same - often the booking is not confirmed by the WG. perhaps its that way so that if the meeting didn't go well, us punters can't leave negative feedback on AW - only "feedback only" comments.

But back to this thread - i think there was some genuine mis-understandings in comms and therefore think a "negative" rating is perhaps a little harsh on the WG. It, by itself, won't stop me see her if i wanted to.

[updownandaround]

to be fair to AW, it does. Its the WG's that do not use the system fully or correctly. But you are right, the result is the same - often the booking is not confirmed by the WG. perhaps its that way so that if the meeting didn't go well, us punters can't leave negative feedback on AW - only "feedback only" comments.

But back to this thread - i think there was some genuine mis-understandings in comms and therefore think a "negative" rating is perhaps a little harsh on the WG. It, by itself, won't stop me see her if i wanted to.

We all know that the WGs are often pretty piss poor at time management and comms so I think you go into it with your eyes open.

[Bat]

Maybe if the AW booking system was better and actually managed time completely, i.e. it shows available slots vs unavailable it would be a better all round booking platforms for the SPs. Whenever I've used it and proposed a meeting time, 9/10 times I see the request has been viewed or read but not confirmed.

Maybe weird, but this has never happened to me. Whenever I've used the booking system it's always been viewed & confirmed by the SP. Maybe I've just been lucky.

[Cunning Punt]

The SP asked him to put in a booking request, which it appears he didn't, so at that point it's not a confirmed booking. She said she would text in the morning which she does at 7,11 asking him if he wants the booking. It appears he replied straight away though can't see a time or for the SP's reply message most of which is cut off apart from yes.

[sensualencounter]

It does appear that a booking was never confirmed. And it also appears that the OP accused her of double booking him when he never had a confirmed booking, so it can’t be a double booking.

There also seems to be a bit of miscommunication about times of the booking both ways and OP got shirty that the escort didn’t get back to him straight away at one point. He then didn’t read “half hour”, continued to complain about the double booking that never was and then told her to go fuck herself. And all the while the escort was still polite and even offered a discount.

So first of all, imo this can’t even be a review as it wasn’t a confirmed booking. And secondly the OP seems to have been overly aggressive and confrontational. I can see that comms do appear to be a bit jumbled but nothing to get so arsey over. No need for it. If he wasn’t happy, then just move on. Plenty more fish in the sea.

[Billy no mates]

I think it’s clearly a miscommunication thing, and neither are really to blame.

What it does show is the EP-x is polite and tried her best to put things right, and comes out of this in a positive light.

[LipLover]

The SP will then confirm the booking on AW and I know it’s all ‘official’.

Many SPs won’t confirm the booking until after it has taken place - the confirmation being that the meeting happened. Otherwise any punter could leave feedback, even if they don’t turn up for the booking.

[scutty brown]

Many SPs won’t confirm the booking until after it has taken place - the confirmation being that the meeting happened. Otherwise any punter could leave feedback, even if they don’t turn up for the booking.

If they do that they're abusing the system. "Confirmation" means "confirmation of booking".

[southcoastpunter]

If they do that they're abusing the system. "Confirmation" means "confirmation of booking".

that maybe so but it happens - some also use it as a tool to ensure they only get positive ratings - they will confirm the booking on the AW system after the meeting takes place provided they feel the meeting went well, that the punter was happy and will leave a "positive".

Yes its "abusing the system" but no one monitors it and as far as i know, Escorts are not required under AW T&C's to use it


PS - BTW, in case the OP wonders,  a Mod moved this thread from the "review" section to this "discussion" board

[daviemac]

PS - BTW, in case the OP wonders,  a Mod moved this thread from the "review" section to this "discussion" board

OP asked SP for a booking at a given time SP said to put a booking request in, OP didn't so no booking for her to agree to or for him to review.

[Cunning Punt]

I think it’s clearly a miscommunication thing, and neither are really to blame..

Well, not quite. The SP asked him to put a booking through and if there was any doubt, she did tell/remind him that no booking had been confirmed. Most of us would have then at that point checked ourselves, looked back at the messages and realised the situation or asked for clarification and then got it.

Instead the OP got aggressive and then came on here still insisting a booking was confirmed.

Though neither of them were as clear as they might have been in how they phrased their messages.

[Ckumms]

Well, not quite. The SP asked him to put a booking through and if there was any doubt, she did tell/remind him that no booking had been confirmed. Most of us would have then at that point checked ourselves, looked back at the messages and realised the situation or asked for clarification and then got it.

Instead the OP got aggressive and then came on here still insisting a booking was confirmed.

Though neither of them were as clear as they might have been in how they phrased their messages.

Agreed, I should have been clearer, it was miscommunication and I offered a small discount as an apology. Thanks you to admins for moving from reviews & allowing me to defend myself, I’ll fuck off now x

[Nirvanian]

Agreed, I should have been clearer, it was miscommunication and I offered a small discount as an apology. Thanks you to admins for moving from reviews & allowing me to defend myself, I’ll fuck off now x

Could you confirm the fucking off by email please?