I have never done this before, I used to take my first regular flowers, a bottle of wine on visits and I bought her some gin for a birthday. Now thinking about it now as she retired a few years ago and I still see her for a coffee and an odd meal as friends. I buy her a Christmas pressie since I stopped the sex visits lol , hey ho
I do intend buying my new regular a pressie a light projector with lasers and a bottle of baileys, she loves that.