The thing pretty much 95% of my social circle consists of typical 'lad' type guys so they have no moral obligation to seeing escorts and don't really treat me any differently because of my punting habits. Yeah some of them might think I'm abit of a sad cunt for it but end of the day I couldn't care less what civvies think when I'm shagging really fit birds with ease. It doesn't affect they're lives or mine.
If anything I'd say most of my friends are totally indifferent about punting, others have even told me that if they were single, they'd probably do it.
It's not like I tell every single person I meet or know, only people that I'm familiar with or close too except for family members.
Yeah I agree although I forgot to mention the friend who lately keeps saying I shouldn't be punting, only a few months ago he was asking me where to get escorts after he broke up with his misses. I told him the details although he never ended up going through with it so it makes him kinda hypocritical considering he was looking for a quick punt at the time.
Now that he's back with his girlfriend he's been trying to lecture me lmao.
The thing with guys and attitudes towards paying for sex I think it can be divided into these groups:
1. Men that are too scared to indulge but will judge those that engage in such activities even though deep down they would do it. In other words they are hypocritical pussies.
2. Those that do not understand enough about punting and will just straight up not do it at all due to the perception they have of punting from how punters and WGs have been and are portayed in the media.
(I used to be in this group).
3. Men who are high level white knights who condemn paying for sex along with the women that condemn paying for sex in hopes of being seen as a gentleman in those womens eyes
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4. Men who it's just not for them but they don't really care.
5. Men that pay for sex but feel guilty and feel the need for a relationship instead and attack their own self esteem for paying for sex with WGs or they convince themselves the WG is their girlfriend and have a "weirdo" aura about themselves.
(These examples are often seen in the media portrayal of punters, you look at them and think you sad bastard).6.Men that pay for sex and have no qualms with it, they either keep it to themselves or tell people.
(I am in this group now but don't tell a soul, I used to have a friend that I told but eventually stopped saying a word when I realised that our sex lives were starting to drift to polar opposites, this being he was barely having sex at all even though he had game to get girls due to the dating/hookup environment becoming rigged against average decent men and my frequency was going up because I was "cheating by pay to win" LOL. 7. I forgot this one. Men who don't pay because they feel that they don't need to and they'll feel like less of a man if they paid. They prefer the chase and the achievement of "getting the girl" like a hunt per say. They may or may not look down on men who pay for sex.
Your friend falls into group 1 and group 2. As long as you have social media and are free with telling your friends your exploits, there is a likelihood it will come back to bite you. There was a member here that got found out by his partner and he did not tell anybody. He just innocently posted a thread about his Mrs suspecting him and it got linked to mumsnet by women who lurked this site when threads were still open to guests....and his partner found out due to the specific details of his post. No one knows what happened to that member in the end.
Unless you are financially well off enough to deal with the potential consequences of people finding out you are a punter in your workplace or you are rich enough to be seen as a playboy that some women would give the blind eye to running through women like Dan Bilzerian, then I don't know about you continuing to be so free with your friends about this. All it takes is for one of them to slip up and that's your neck, not theirs.
