Friends who rip on you for punting

[Hotpocket]

Having said that I do worry that when Im a semi-senile old git I’ll end up blabbing all the shit I did in my life and then Im in big trouble 

This reminded me, when i was in hospital years ago after an operation when coming round after being sedated i remeber asking the nurse how much all the girls were ? She replied your on a male ward. Bit embarrassing looking back but no harm done.

[Link7]

I'm pretty open about my punting adventures IRL so pretty much all my mates know. I regularly show them pics of WG's I've shagged and tell them my stories.

Don't know why you feel the need - it's certainly not increasing your social standing so what is there really to boast about. If it's just for the banter and to re-live your experiences, you can do all that on the forum. For the reasons everyone has explained, you're assuming fairly large risk for no reward.

[Boundless]

A bit of the opposite of this thread.
I used to work with a guy that was a pathological liar, we've all met someone like him probably.
The stuff he came out with was ridiculous, things he'd done and excuses not to come into work, his Dad died at least 3 times, relatives rushed into hospital etc etc.

Anyway he assumed I was just a quiet, mild mannered colleague and started bragging about local brothels that he'd visited and how much it cost and what was on offer etc, all absolute total bollox. It was so hard not calling him out but I just nodded and said "wow" and "bet that was great" in the right places.

[Iceman90]

Judging by the amount of people and lurkers on this forum and the amount of messages escorts get, I’d say a lot of these “non punters” are liars. I don’t know the stats but I’d say punting is far more common than people think. Those same people ridiculing you for punting are probably hitting up hookers themselves...

[bossrossi477]

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She is in Brighton now, pretty Bulgarian and with new bigger tits

but poor service. for the price

[Cunning Punt]

It's better to keep your mouth shut and thought of as a possible punter, rather than open your mouth and remove all doubt.

[RedTillDead]

To be honest I don't usually post in discussion but I was so horrified at the naivety of the OPs post that Im commenting now,  as many before of a certain age have said.  Loose lips sink ships.

No one but me and my business transaction.... and I mean no one... knows about this side of my life.  Thats why this forum is so useful. That recommendation from a valued member here...the professionalism from an SP that knows her trade and the value of discretion is worth the money we pay out at the start of a session.

Honestly,  the youth of today.... just as well their isn't a bloody war on.

Say Nowt.

RTD

[chocolategiver]

To be honest I don't usually post in discussion but I was so horrified at the naivety of the OPs post that Im commenting now,  as many before of a certain age have said.  Loose lips sink ships.

No one but me and my business transaction.... and I mean no one... knows about this side of my life.  Thats why this forum is so useful. That recommendation from a valued member here...the professionalism from an SP that knows her trade and the value of discretion is worth the money we pay out at the start of a session.

Honestly,  the youth of today.... just as well their isn't a bloody war on.

Say Nowt.

RTD

Well said Red, it will only come back and bite you in the arse hard. Remember the Italian code of silence "Omerta, it was him!".

Btw, youth is wasted on the young!

[dizietsmae]

To be honest I don't usually post in discussion but I was so horrified at the naivety of the OPs post that Im commenting now,  as many before of a certain age have said.  Loose lips sink ships.

No one but me and my business transaction.... and I mean no one... knows about this side of my life.  Thats why this forum is so useful. That recommendation from a valued member here...the professionalism from an SP that knows her trade and the value of discretion is worth the money we pay out at the start of a session.

Honestly,  the youth of today.... just as well their isn't a bloody war on.

Say Nowt.

RTD

Spot on 

[Jimmyredcab]

Loose lips sink ships.

No one but me and my business transaction.... and I mean no one... knows about this side of my life.  Thats why this forum is so useful.

In over 40 years of punting I have never kept it a secret, my mates have always been aware of my "hobby" even though they are not punters, I have also never felt the need for a "punting phone" --------------- of course I accept that everyone's circumstances are different.

[dizietsmae]

In over 40 years of punting I have never kept it a secret, my mates have always been aware of my "hobby" even though they are not punters, I have also never felt the need for a "punting phone" --------------- of course I accept that everyone's circumstances are different.

 

 

[puntingpumping1920]

My friends introduced me to punting 
 
We went to Soho walk-up when I was 17

[Fuggedaboutit]

I have a very close friend who knows and thinks it's priceless, but he's the one who'll come round and dispose of the evidence of a dissolute lifestyle...

[dizietsmae]

My friends introduced me to punting 
 
We went to Soho walk-up when I was 17

Bet you don't tell everyone you meet that your a punter now your an adult though..............

[puntingpumping1920]

Bet you don't tell everyone you meet that your a punter now your an adult though..............

 
 
Correct
 
I don't tell anyone about my punting habits

[Jimmyredcab]

Bet you don't tell everyone you meet that your a punter now your an adult though..............

I certainly don’t tell everyone, my 92 year old Aunt would not be very impressed.     

[CigarSmoke]

Anyone else had this before? I'm pretty open about my punting adventures IRL so pretty much all my mates know. I regularly show them pics of WG's I've shagged and tell them my stories. Some of them don't agree with it but others are genuinely intrigued and curious about my 'hobby' and are always asking me questions about punting.

Had a clique of people from my college course laugh at me and made jokes at my expense when it comes to prostitutes, especially the pussy eating aspect. This was back in 2005. It was when college organised a weekend trip to Amsterdam and I lost my virginity to prostitutes there. Those people who laughed at me came to Amsterdam with me, but more interested in smoking weed rather than visiting prostitutes. 40% of me regrets performing oral sex on a Amsterdam prostitute, consider how many customers she's had. The other 60% of me doesn't regret doing that.

I work in a supermarket, a few colleagues knew about my punting hobbies but not the Amsterdam story, because thats 15 years ago, its pointless talking about the past. I'll bring it up if relevant. Anyway we always had laughs when we talk about my punting stories and not care if other customers on the shop floor walk past me and heard me. Also had a laugh listening to his story where he slept with girls the normal way.

Other than that, I never dated nor had a girlfriend ever and had no luck whatsoever so I just pay for sex. I would extremely likely be a virgin today if it weren't for prostitutes in Amsterdam nor the girls on Adult Work...

[Mr Doodle]

I live in a deadbedroom relationship and every time I go drinking with a mate of mine who knows about the deadbedroom, he says I should just bite the bullet and see a hooker to get what I want. My response is usually to pick up my pint while leaning back into the chair, sip it and then exhale, "Yeah.. Yep.. you're right.. Maybe one day, I will!"

[Mr Doodle]

This reminded me, when i was in hospital years ago after an operation when coming round after being sedated i remeber asking the nurse how much all the girls were ? She replied your on a male ward. Bit embarrassing looking back but no harm done.

I couldn't help thinking maybe she SP'ed on the side.. but she would have handed you her calling card, I guess..

[dizietsmae]

 
 
Correct
 
I don't tell anyone about my punting habits

 

[Home Alone]

Had a clique of people from my college course laugh at me and made jokes at my expense when it comes to prostitutes, especially the pussy eating aspect. This was back in 2005. It was when college organised a weekend trip to Amsterdam and I lost my virginity to prostitutes there. Those people who laughed at me came to Amsterdam with me, but more interested in smoking weed rather than visiting prostitutes. 40% of me regrets performing oral sex on a Amsterdam prostitute, consider how many customers she's had. The other 60% of me doesn't regret doing that.

I work in a supermarket, a few colleagues knew about my punting hobbies but not the Amsterdam story, because thats 15 years ago, its pointless talking about the past. I'll bring it up if relevant. Anyway we always had laughs when we talk about my punting stories and not care if other customers on the shop floor walk past me and heard me. Also had a laugh listening to his story where he slept with girls the normal way.

Other than that, I never dated nor had a girlfriend ever and had no luck whatsoever so I just pay for sex. I would extremely likely be a virgin today if it weren't for prostitutes in Amsterdam nor the girls on Adult Work...

Superb story, CigarSmoke. Wish I'd visited Amsterdam with a crowd of mates in the way you did. When I was the age you seem to have been at the time, I was as inexperienced as you were, and I'd have realised that even I could shag wimmin for a price I could afford. And I wouldn't have begun the misguided chase that led me to finding the OH.

[Barclay Spank]

You should read what some people say about us on mumsnet. Saying we're no better than rapists. That's why I don't tell people about my punting, in case I encounter one of these people.

There was a thread on mumsnet where a woman was saying that her husband didn't think that prostitution was such a bad thing. Other women said she shouldn't be with him. One woman said she was concerned about her safety, how can you live with a man who doesn't think as they do about consent?

[Fuggedaboutit]

You should read what some people say about us on mumsnet. Saying we're no better than rapists. That's why I don't tell people about my punting, in case I encounter one of these people.

There was a thread on mumsnet where a woman was saying that her husband didn't think that prostitution was such a bad thing. Other women said she shouldn't be with him. One woman said she was concerned about her safety, how can you live with a man who doesn't think as they do about consent?

It's amazing how many women are "pro choice" when it comes to a woman's right to have an abortion, but are vehemently against a woman choosing to sell her body.

OK, granted the "choice" aspect can be suspect with some Chinese/EE WGs in terms of trafficking, but there are plenty of WGs (and SBs) who entered the profession on their own terms.

I imagine none of these mumsnet types bat an eyelid going to a nail bar staffed by Vietnamese/Chinese....

[Bonker]

No, that would be at a make up artist. At a nail bar they would get their claws out.

[Henchmanlet95]

Bet you don't tell everyone you meet that your a punter now your an adult though..............

I don't tell every person I meet, only people that I'm actually close to or familiar with except for family members or civvie girls that I'm seeing for obvious reasons.

There's not many girls in my social circle and the ones that I do know I have no interest in, so personally I haven't got much to lose by telling my friends.

You should read what some people say about us on mumsnet. Saying we're no better than rapists. That's why I don't tell people about my punting, in case I encounter one of these people.

There was a thread on mumsnet where a woman was saying that her husband didn't think that prostitution was such a bad thing. Other women said she shouldn't be with him. One woman said she was concerned about her safety, how can you live with a man who doesn't think as they do about consent?

Anyone who thinks like that is a literal retard who's not even worth acknowledging. How can any sane person compare punting to rape?  I mean any sane person with an ounce of common sense sees it for what it is, a business transaction between two consenting adults.

I know there's issues with sex trafficking but any decent punter would avoid those situations and only go for WG that are 100% doing it out of there own free will.

[SamOmar]

I keep only a few friends, 2 of them are female and they know I punt. They have no issues with my lifestyle otherwise they would have stayed away from me.

[Fuggedaboutit]

I know there's issues with sex trafficking but any decent punter would avoid those situations and only go for WG that are 100% doing it out of there own free will.

Oh, no, no, no, no, no....even someone who enters it of their own “free will” is forced to do so because of economic conditions imposed on them by the patriarchy....c’mon, get with the programme...

[DouglasReynholm]

I have a very close friend who knows and thinks it's priceless, but he's the one who'll come round and dispose of the evidence of a dissolute lifestyle...

So how many bodies has he buried for ya, T?

[Fuggedaboutit]

So how many bodies has he buried for ya, T?

Like they say, a friend will help you move house, but a good friend will help you move a body...😉

More of a case of there being a bag with various “equipment” for more fetish oriented punts, which will need careful disposal 

[atmos]

As Edo244 said:
I live a private life. I would never tell people I punt. That would be the end of my career and my family would disown me.

I've no family to disown me, but I do have a 'public life' which I don't want to lose. People know I like a 'massage' - if anyone makes a comment I simply say 'Yes - these places exist, and I've been offered things I didn't want'. (But I've had a damn sight more legit massages than punting and yes, I could use a massage today).

[BillT]

Totally agree, I've seen it happen.
An immature guy I knew in his mid 20s went shagging prossies and bragging to his mates.
They told their GFs probably in confidence, maybe after a few sherberts or between the sheets.

Said immature guy got a bit older and started to "get serious" with someone.
And got dumped, the young lady's mates shared his stories of his exploits with her.

Very similar story to me. A friend let it slip that he'd been to a local place and had a P&D. He then went a couple more times. He showed us the pics on "acemassage" The various ladies/other halves in our social groups were horrified and did exactly the same, sabotaged him when he met anyone they knew.

At the time, I'd had maybe 3 or 4 bookings with various girls. (over maybe 18months or so) and wasn't about to talk about it anyway, but their reactions cemented it in my head!

Also agree with the line above about it making you lazy. I find the girls I see on various dating apps (since I still hold a tiny hope that I'll meet someone and have a decent relationship one day  ) are often no where near as attractive as any number of Escorts.

Why go through the whole rigmarole of a few drinks, a meal or 2, a small gift and just wishing that she'd put out. In fact a while ago, I did have the beginnings of something, all that dating stuff, until she gave me the heave ho. I worked out that I'd spent over £300 over a few weeks. When you start looking at it financially, it makes you wonder why you bother with stupid questions about "where this is going" when the alternative is a case of firing up the punting phone and going to a cashpoint.

[JonasG]

It definitely makes you lazy and that's not a good thing!

Pre-punting when a 6 or 7/10 girl showed clear interest either in person or by text I'd follow though.

But since punting I fob them off and don't reciprocate the interest and then they move on.

It's not a good habit to have at all really. But that's the allure of punting. 😵

[victor989]

You should read what some people say about us on mumsnet. Saying we're no better than rapists. That's why I don't tell people about my punting, in case I encounter one of these people.

There was a thread on mumsnet where a woman was saying that her husband didn't think that prostitution was such a bad thing. Other women said she shouldn't be with him. One woman said she was concerned about her safety, how can you live with a man who doesn't think as they do about consent?

Completely agree with this - It mirrors my wife's attitude (and her female friends) to punters. One even said that she would only have sex with a punter for a million pounds,
even though she is middle aged and overweight  .

Don't tell anyone about punting. Even if they don't openly rip on you, the women friends will regard you as disgusting low-life behind your back and the non-punter guys as
sad and pathetic and start avoiding you.

[Jimmy83]

Only have one friend who knows and that's only because he brought up his own punting experience once. He immediately looked horrified afterwards, realising what he'd but I was quick to reassure him.

He's only had one punt and it was such a bad experience that he hasn't been since. Thought about trying to convince him but then realised the idea of me and him seeing the same girl would be weird.

There is literally no reason for any non-punter in your life to know that you punt. If you like bantering with friends, this is a shit thing to banter about. If they laugh and act interested, that's only because they're acting polite while laughing behind your back and feeling sorry for you. Let's not forget that no matter how close your friends are, secrets never stay secret for long. All it would take is one argument and next thing you know, your secret has been revealed to all of Facebook.

You might not care about that but any prospective employers would or even your current employer if you want a promotion.

Plus, all it would take is for one friend to get drunk, complain to his girl why he doesn't get to do Anal when you get to do it all the time because you pay for it. Suddenly, your Great Aunt Greta is on the phone reaming you out.

[jonnw16]

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Suddenly, your Great Aunt Greta is on the phone reaming you out.

Now that would be very odd, not to say physically impossible.    (Yes, I know another meaning of the word "ream" was intended.)

[Chazz]

Now that would be very odd, not to say physically impossible. 

You obviously haven't met my Great Aunt Greta and her 12 inch strapon!

[anyfucker]

A guy I know ended up almost bankrupt, after a very expensive divorce, because one of his mates got drunk at a Xmas party, started talking about this guy's affair, and word got to his wife.

1) you cannot predict what the relationship with your mates will be like in 10 years. Maybe you fall out, maybe one of them becomes a moralistic fanatic, who knows

2) even if the relationship stays the same and your mates wouldn't talk under torture, there remain situations where they can talk unwillingly (Eg when they are pissed)

But, OP, of course life is yours.

+1
I've never told anyone and never will, I've seen people fall out after being best mates for 30 years.

On the subject of civvies take a look at MGTOW or say ReplicantPhish on Youtube for a laugh

[vindici]

On the subject of civvies take a look at MGTOW or say ReplicantPhish on Youtube for a laugh

👎👎👎 I'm a punter not a misogynist.