by chance meeting etiquette

[budz]

I did a search but can't find the answer to my dilemma.  A WG I saw a few weeks ago lives in the next street to where I am currently working and I'm not sure what to do if we were to bump into each other whilst I was going to or from my van. If she were to see me at my van that's all my cover blown but there is no where else to park. Do you say Hi and chat or ignore each other and get on with your life?

[vw]

Up to you really, would always ignore if they are with someone though.

[Yeboahsleftfoot]

If you are comfortable saying hi, do it, if she wants to have a conversation she'll likely start it, if not she'll walk on, either way I reckon its better to be civil than ignore her.

[budz]

If you are comfortable saying hi, do it, if she wants to have a conversation she'll likely start it, if not she'll walk on, either way I reckon its better to be civil than ignore her.

That's what I thought as would like to fuck her again! 

[Silver Birch]

If I bumped into a wg in public, I would expect her to completely ignore me & I would do the same. Neither of you can know if her/your partner is following just around the corner.

If that happens, and as you say you want to fuck her again, simply contact her afterwards, thank her for her discretion, and make another booking.

[stevedave]

Ignore her, she will probably do the same - it's in her interest to maintain her discretion and anonymity.

[budz]

4 responses, 2 for the say hi and 2 for ignoring and I understand both points of view.  I suppose it's best to ignore her unless she says hi, I can get away with speaking if had OH with me as I have many work clients which we keep bumping into when out and about.

[claretandblue]

Don't go out of your way to speak to her but if you are walking along the street and she sees you I would say hi,unless your with the other half of course!

[tarkus]

I would acknowledge her with a smile and by making eye contact, it should be fairly easy to gauge if she wants to talk or not by her reaction.

[webpunter]

where I am currently working

I'd go for it.  You ain't gonna be there 4ever.  I doubt if she'll clock your van / even less care or remember

[threechilliman]

If I bumped into a wg in public, I would expect her to completely ignore me & I would do the same. Neither of you can know if her/your partner is following just around the corner.

If that happens, and as you say you want to fuck her again, simply contact her afterwards, thank her for her discretion, and make another booking.

+1. Discretion

tcm

[Silver Birch]

I can get away with speaking if had OH with me as I have many work clients which we keep bumping into when out and about.

I assume she knows your real name then? Could get awkward if she bounces over saying "Hi Budz" when your OH calls you 'Kevin' 

[OakTree]

If I bumped into a wg in public, I would expect her to completely ignore me & I would do the same. Neither of you can know if her/your partner is following just around the corner.

If that happens, and as you say you want to fuck her again, simply contact her afterwards, thank her for her discretion, and make another booking.

Totally agree  I've never bumped into WG I've seen before but there is who lives in the same town as me. If I did see her out and about I'd just ignore her.

[Spunky34]

Just obey normal rules of politeness - sometimes you walk past people you don't even know in the street, give them a nod, a smile and a 'hello' in passing.  At other times you don't.  Even if you're with your other half there is nothing suspicious about simply saying hello and walking on - she could very plausibly be someone you know by sight from the office or the pub.

[budz]

I assume she knows your real name then? Could get awkward if she bounces over saying "Hi Budz" when your OH calls you 'Kevin' 

First name only, life is complicated enough without having a fake name as well lol

[smiths]

I did a search but can't find the answer to my dilemma.  A WG I saw a few weeks ago lives in the next street to where I am currently working and I'm not sure what to do if we were to bump into each other whilst I was going to or from my van. If she were to see me at my van that's all my cover blown but there is no where else to park. Do you say Hi and chat or ignore each other and get on with your life?

Totally ignore each other is what I have done in this scenario which has happened a number of times near sex party venues I was on my way to over the years.

[DG]

Depends on the circumstances, who you are with, who she is with, the venue etc. The general rule is to uphold the mutual agreement for discretion and say and do nothing. However depending on your relationship with the girl eg. is she a regular, do you communicate out with bookings? In this case a discrete nod or smile may be acceptable. It would be hard to imagine an occasion when a full blown "hi how are you?" would be appropriate as even if you thought nobody was around, you can't be too careful, unless you have both agreed a cover story should the situation ever arise. But I doubt many WGs would do this.

[Dani]

If I bumped into a wg in public, I would expect her to completely ignore me & I would do the same. Neither of you can know if her/your partner is following just around the corner.

If that happens, and as you say you want to fuck her again, simply contact her afterwards, thank her for her discretion, and make another booking.

This.  Even if you said hello in all likelihood she will ignore you then may well refuse to see you again as she would be under the impression that discretion is not a priority for you whereas it most likely will be for her.  You have no idea who maybe around even if it looks like she is alone. She could be meeting her partner/mother/sister just up the road and her stopping to talk to a tradesperson may cause questions she doesn't have a ready answer for.
A quick smile and a wink or nod is more than enough if you feel you can't ignore her but anything more than that just isn't on
How would you feel if the roles were reversed and she happened to tour in the street next to you and saw you out and about when you could be with family or friends who may not be next to you but in ear shot of anything said?

[jame75]

I met a WG i had seen a week earlier in a shop, we looked at each other and quickly looked away.

I think most of them know the etiquette outside of their work.

[RedKettle]

I ignore but might just give a look or slight nod.  Just as if you think someone might be familiar but you are not sure.

Any sort of conversation is dangerous, especially as probably neither of you know the correct name or occupation (real or cover) for each other.

[pking_paul]

I was sitting in a well known Bristol bar on Sunday evening when all of a sudden this girl sat down on the chair on the other side of the table. I've never punted with her but I recognised her arm tats from AW.

Chat was really free and easy, I guess she was a seasoned pro at that. I now wish I'd said something 

[maxxblue]

I was sitting in a well known Bristol bar on Sunday evening when all of a sudden this girl sat down on the chair on the other side of the table. I've never punted with her but I recognised her arm tats from AW.

Chat was really free and easy, I guess she was a seasoned pro at that. I now wish I'd said something 

Like what?

[Dogsbody42]

Like what?

As Maxx says, you were never going to get anything for free and you'd seen her profile on AW so you know who she was?

[Neal69]

Pulled up at Traffic Lights today alongside one I have seen a number of times. FFS I almost waved 

Thankfully she was concentrating on the traffic rather than the odd bloke in the car next to her who was craning his neck to see if it was really her 

Discretion discretion discretion at all times.

Had the shock of my life a while back when a WG I had seen appeared in my local when I was with Mrs Neal but she was as good as gold and all that was done was a little eye contact when she came up to the bar in a very quiet country pub.

N

[webpunter]

Had the shock of my life a while back when a WG I had seen appeared in my local when I was with Mrs Neal but she was as good as gold and all that was done was a little eye contact when she came up to the bar in a very quiet country pub.

4 questions:

A/ did you start firming up [not immediately after initial contact / shock, but a while later] ?
B/ did you think through your last session whilst still in the boozer ?
C/ did you bash one out thinking about her when you got home - or think about her when banging MrsN [presuming still on the menu] ?
D/ have you made another booking ?

I'd be answering four 'yesses'.  Just like on BGT 

[Neal69]

4 questions:

A/ did you start firming up [not immediately after initial contact / shock, but a while later] ?
B/ did you think through your last session whilst still in the boozer ?
C/ did you bash one out thinking about her when you got home - or think about her when banging MrsN [presuming still on the menu] ?
D/ have you made another booking ?

I'd be answering four 'yesses'.  Just like on BGT 

A/ No Too busy bricking myself.
B/As Above
C/ Yes but after a while
D/ No. No Reason other than soo much pussy , sooo little time. She was an early punt for me and although good she is not too high up my "must return list"

WTF is BGT? New one for me.

N

[vw]

WTF is BGT? New one for me.

Britain's Got Talent

[Neal69]

Oh Thanks VW

 

N

[Nagilum]

I would perhaps offer a smile if eye contact was made, if not walk on. 

[budz]

I asked her yesterday as I sometimes work near where she lives and also use the same supermarket. She said will use her discretion that if I was with someone she would walk by and say nothing or if alone would speak. She is a single independent WG with no bf (or so she says) and all her friends know what she does.  Her family live up North too.  I have the perfect excuse if I did get caught out as being self employed I have/see lots of past/present clients whilst going about my day to day life and most say hello.

[SophieScott]

If I bumped into a wg in public, I would expect her to completely ignore me & I would do the same. Neither of you can know if her/your partner is following just around the corner.

If that happens, and as you say you want to fuck her again, simply contact her afterwards, thank her for her discretion, and make another booking.

This.  As others have said you never know who is around even if it looks like she is alone.

I've seen clients in random situations twice in my time working and have ignored them, as they have me.  It's the best way for all concerned.

[hayneplane]

I was out in my town high street on Saturday morning and am 99% sure that across the road I saw Lexi Ryder the Yorkshire based pornstar/escort heading into and then out of her bank and into a very nice car. I have had about 4 meets with her so if I had been nearer I would have felt ok to say a simple hello and see what happened from there. Have to say she was looking in great shape.

[RedKettle]

my problem now is that getting older my brain does not always catch up quickly enough - I could well register a familiar face and smile, say hello or perhaps wave whilst thinking where the bloody hell do I know her from!!

[Diehard]

This.  Even if you said hello in all likelihood she will ignore you then may well refuse to see you again as she would be under the impression that discretion is not a priority for you whereas it most likely will be for her.  You have no idea who maybe around even if it looks like she is alone. She could be meeting her partner/mother/sister just up the road and her stopping to talk to a tradesperson may cause questions she doesn't have a ready answer for.
A quick smile and a wink or nod is more than enough if you feel you can't ignore her but anything more than that just isn't on
How would you feel if the roles were reversed and she happened to tour in the street next to you and saw you out and about when you could be with family or friends who may not be next to you but in ear shot of anything said?

Hookers and punters must always ignore each other unless it is a booking. This is the golden rule. There is absolutely no reason to engage a hooker in conversation. The girls will almost certainly be from completely opposite ends of the social ladder so most punters will have nothing to talk to them about and it just risks the punters anonymity.

The punters discretion is the priority, so always better to ignore escorts if you see them out and about.

[Diehard]

I was out in my town high street on Saturday morning and am 99% sure that across the road I saw Lexi Ryder the Yorkshire based pornstar/escort heading into and then out of her bank and into a very nice car. I have had about 4 meets with her so if I had been nearer I would have felt ok to say a simple hello and see what happened from there. Have to say she was looking in great shape.

What car was it? I've always assumed escorts would have nice cars but of all the hundreds I've seen over the years it amazes me how many either have no car or drive a complete heap.

It's a bit off topic but from a business point of view you would think escorts would turn up to outcalls in something decent as it adds to the sex appeal, well for me it does anyway.

Back on topic, would you really have wanted to chat to her? Surely you run the risk of her watching what car you get into and noting your registration. You never can be too careful, many hookers don't like it when a regular no longer is a regular.

No matter how good the service is or how well you appear to get on with her in a booking, remember it isn't reality, she is likely to be totally different outside of booking time. My advice would be to never ever even think about approaching an escort you see in public.

[mh]

What car was it? I've always assumed escorts would have nice cars but of all the hundreds I've seen over the years it amazes me how many either have no car or drive a complete heap.

I think I've only seen the cars of three escorts.

1. A BMW X6. You know, the expensive but absolutely stupid one that only a pimp would drive.

2. A Peugeot 307, quite new but also very basic. Certainly flying under the radar in that!

3. A Nissan Micra. A very old, crappy, unreliable tinny shit heap. £120 per hour she was charging. 

[vw]

I think I've only seen the cars of three escorts.

1. A BMW X6. You know, the expensive but absolutely stupid one that only a pimp would drive.

2. A Peugeot 307, quite new but also very basic. Certainly flying under the radar in that!

3. A Nissan Micra. A very old, crappy, unreliable tinny shit heap. £120 per hour she was charging. 

One arrived at mine driving a transit van !  Good punt though !

There is a diverse selection of cars

[5th Musketeer]

One arrived at mine driving a transit van !  Good punt though !

There is a diverse selection of cars

Maybe she does "van" meets? 

[RedKettle]

The girls will almost certainly be from completely opposite ends of the social ladder

You must always be slumming it then   

There are a few that I see that are very much middle class in manners and conversation.  Not found a really posh upper class bird yet, but I live in hope...

[Diehard]

You must always be slumming it then   

There are a few that I see that are very much middle class in manners and conversation.  Not found a really posh upper class bird yet, but I live in hope...

Care to add their links?

I must admit I fail to see how any woman with class would be an escort unless she is in absolute financial dire straits.

I haven't met any to be fair who have class but maybe location is the key? London maybe a different punting game to the north and coastal areas.

[5th Musketeer]

Care to add their links?

I must admit I fail to see how any woman with class would be an escort unless she is in absolute financial dire straits.

I haven't met any to be fair who have class but maybe location is the key? London maybe a different punting game to the north and coastal areas.

I have met a good middle class woman who is a WG (not 100% of the time) because she really enjoys sex with lots of different people, and the extra cash isn't unwelcome.  I have also met a nice middle class woman who lost her job and since the job market at the time was so horrendous, she was desperate, and meeting her you would never have guessed that she was a WG, though she got out of it once she found a new job and could earn her own income.  I think that the days when all WGs were low class has gone, since sex is more acceptable.  When you think of it, they get paid to do something that we would probably LOVE to get paid for!  That said, I know there is still the bottom layer which is where it has been all the time.

[Neal69]

Seen one who was driving a works transit from her day job.  Complete with company name splashed all over it. 

So she either was not lying about being part time or its her BF/Pimps van.

Sadly gone now off AW.

N

[vw]

Maybe she does "van" meets? 

Unfortunately not, problem with tranny vans you can't fuck over the bonnet !

[James999]

I have met a good middle class woman who is a WG

In Pro$$ie terms Middle class probably means she smokes roll ups as opposed ot a pipe 

[5th Musketeer]

Unfortunately not, problem with tranny vans you can't fuck over the bonnet !

Just open the back doors and do it over the floor 

[mh]

Just open the back doors and do it over the floor 

You mean smash her back doors in? 

[5th Musketeer]

You mean smash her back doors in? 

[hayneplane]

What car was it? I've always assumed escorts would have nice cars but of all the hundreds I've seen over the years it amazes me how many either have no car or drive a complete heap.

It's a bit off topic but from a business point of view you would think escorts would turn up to outcalls in something decent as it adds to the sex appeal, well for me it does anyway.

Back on topic, would you really have wanted to chat to her? Surely you run the risk of her watching what car you get into and noting your registration. You never can be too careful, many hookers don't like it when a regular no longer is a regular.

No matter how good the service is or how well you appear to get on with her in a booking, remember it isn't reality, she is likely to be totally different outside of booking time. My advice would be to never ever even think about approaching an escort you see in public.

It was a silver Mercedes no idea what model and certainly did not attempt anything uber stalkerish like getting the registration number.

LOL I was on my bicycle so with my helmet on it is fairly unlikely she would have spotted me. Personally I just don't see the harm in exchanging pleasantries.