The Good Ol' Days.....The 00s

[Skills]

This is a familiar topic, I know but was punting a better experience ten / fifteen years ago!

The problem with AW and easy accessibility via our smartphones is that the whole process is becoming so mechanised and 'business-like', (yeh, I appreciate it's the world's oldest profession!).

There's so much choice and access now but as we all know from other things in life, more choice doesn't always translate into a better experience. Are the majority of WGs now simply 'on the make' looking for a 'fast buck' and don't care about what they offer and the attitudes behind this?

In the mid to late 00s and early 10s I had some great experiences incl. being offered a cup of tea after sex with a WG who sat there naked whilst we chatted, another who invited me to watch TV with her for a while afterwards, being asked 'if I liked what I saw' before being asked for the money, chatting about religion and children with others. A lot of the WGs seemed to be nurses or carers too who seemed to understand people. I remember I had a WG spend 24H at my house for £200; we had a great time; it didn't seem to be ONLY about money!

Whilst it wasn't always easy to find WGs before AW, (maybe it was around fifteen years ago but I wasn't aware of it then), but when you did they seemed to genuinely appreciative the custom you were giving them.

I dunno...maybe I'm looking at it through rose coloured glasses.

[vt]

Just a thought...but maybe you were a bit more of a 'catch' 10-15 yrs ago! Age is rarely kind to us and with many girls their service/attitude can be more personal/intimate/involved if they are naturally attracted/closer in age to the punter, I have noticed differences like that at parties. 

The world does seem to be ever more money-obsessed, so there's probably some truth in the idea that we're all just viewed as walking wallets to most young girls these days.

[Home Alone]

Just a thought...but maybe you were a bit more of a 'catch' 10-15 yrs ago! Age is rarely kind to us and with many girls their service/attitude can be more personal/intimate/involved if they are naturally attracted/closer in age to the punter, I have noticed differences like that at parties. 

The world does seem to be ever more money-obsessed, so there's probably some truth in the idea that we're all just viewed as walking wallets to most young girls these days.

And I'm sure that, essentially, even MILFs see older punters who visit them the same way, vt.

But, as a MILF recently said to me as I was getting dressed to go home at the end of our second meet, she enjoyed seeing older punters not only because they're closer in age to her but she also felt that we "know how to treat a woman".  I felt sure she was using the word "treat" in the sense of conduct during the meet, rather than in terms of buying presents.

I know that reads fluffily; but before anyone "flames" me, I was well aware she was hinting that a third payment from my wallet would be welcome in the weeks to come!

[Skills]

Yes, I agree with what you say to a certain extent; perhaps being in my 40s now doesn't 'do it' for a lot of WGs but the attitudes do seem to have all changed for the worst. It's a crowded market full of the latest economic migrants with their pimps.....that sort of approach I think changes the overall culture and starts to impact on other WGs.

Generally, my experiences in the past were mostly good;now they're mostly negative. It's just about sex and not about the experience of meeting a new person.

Perhaps the punters have become more disloyal with more choice around so the WGs are just responding to that. I'm not sure I was such a good catch fifteen years ago; one WG thought I wasn't clean enough so promptly hand washed me in the shower but we had a good time.

Maybe I was more naive then and more jaded now. Happy memories though

[vt]

I know that reads fluffily; but before anyone "flames" me, I was well aware she was hinting that a third payment from my wallet would be welcome in the weeks to come!

Yes, any good prossie knows what to say to get a walking wallet to make a repeat visit!! 

No doubt that with age does come experience. My bedroom skills have certainly improved as I've got older and worked out how women's bodies work. I've had young prossies also complain that some young guys can be clumsy and hurt them as they try to re-enact their favourite porn scenes, so a defter, more experienced touch is often welcome.

[Skills]

I often find a return visit is never as good as the first...a bit like going back to the same hotel / restaurant.

Anyway, we digress: this post is about the Good Ol' Days, not about ages of punters / WGs.

Anyone else with experiences based on the 00s / early 10s?

[Home Alone]

Anyway, we digress: this post is about the Good Ol' Days, not about ages of punters / WGs.

Anyone else with experiences based on the 00s / early 10s?

Ahh, but isn't that the thing about a thread on a Message Board, Skills?

You make the OP and hope that everyone who follows will stay on what you see as 'on-topic'.  But the thread then goes the way it does, as much because of the thoughts that your OP provokes in others.  I write that as one who's started threads on a number of different MBs which haven't gone the way I hoped they would/wanted them to.  Once you've made the OP, it stops being "your" thread, imo.

Anyway, with respect, isn't this thread a bit like https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=126231.0 , which seems to have a bit of life left in it?

Still, as you say, I "digress".

[Skills]

Yeh, you're right. I can live with that.

[southampton.guy]

I have to agree in general terms that it does seem to be more "mechanical" these days but it does still very much depend on the girl.......and in my view, dare i say it, how we (as a client) treat them. As a newcomer to this site, one of my early impressions was of the general disrespect that many members (well from those that comment/post) seem to have towards escorts. If (and I stress if) that attitude is taken to an actual meeting, then i.m not surprised many guys get treated as a "walking wallet" as they seem to regard the ladies like a piece of meat rather than as a real person.

Call me fluffy if you want, but i have had and still get some ladies doing some of the things "Skills" refer to in his original post above. And i.m well into my 50's and unfortunately not a George Clooney look alike. One example of me being treated as a client rather than a walking wallet... and its an extreme example and probably a one off with that one specific lady only, ...... was that on our second meeting, i was on my way home when i realised i hadn.t paid her. I stopped and called her to apologise and said i would come and pay her tomorrow and she said "don't worry. just next time will be ok".    Well as she was lovely in all the ways i like and with that sort of attitude,  I then saw her every week for about 3 months....then unfortuntately my financial circumstances changed and that meant i couldn.t now afford to see her so often.  When i told her, she  said to my amazment.... "thats ok, still come, i enjoy seeing you. just pay me in the future when you can"

 I have another lady who "retired" from being an active escort but continues to sees me and one other guy because she says she enjoys seeing us.

so there are a few lovely girls out there who are not just only after your money...... yes i agree they are few and far between. Maybe its in part because i like GFE (reather than PSE) and if i find a lady i like i return as much as i can. And i have always taken a lot of care and done a fair bit of research on them before seeing them. (and they have always been mid priced, not the expensive one)

I was punting 10 and 15 years ago and don.t remember anything like that happening to me then but do remember cups of tea/coffee being offered then and now but it does seem less nowdays.

[sushi]

TBF if anyone's criteria is to only punt with 18 year old size 6's you'll be disappointed more often than not.

[sushi]

I have to agree in general terms that it does seem to be more "mechanical" these days but it does still very much depend on the girl.......and in my view, dare i say it, how we (as a client) treat them. As a newcomer to this site, one of my early impressions was of the general disrespect that many members (well from those that comment/post) seem to have towards escorts. If (and I stress if) that attitude is taken to an actual meeting, then i.m not surprised many guys get treated as a "walking wallet" as they seem to regard the ladies like a piece of meat rather than as a real person.

Call me fluffy if you want, but i have had and still get some ladies doing some of the things "Skills" refer to in his original post above. And i.m well into my 50's and unfortunately not a George Clooney look alike. One example of me being treated as a client rather than a walking wallet... and its an extreme example and probably a one off with that one specific lady only, ...... was that on our second meeting, i was on my way home when i realised i hadn.t paid her. I stopped and called her to apologise and said i would come and pay her tomorrow and she said "don't worry. just next time will be ok".    Well as she was lovely in all the ways i like and with that sort of attitude,  I then saw her every week for about 3 months....then unfortuntately my financial circumstances changed and that meant i couldn.t now afford to see her so often.  When i told her, she  said to my amazment.... "thats ok, still come, i enjoy seeing you. just pay me in the future when you can"

 I have another lady who "retired" from being an active escort but continues to sees me and one other guy because she says she enjoys seeing us.

so there are a few lovely girls out there who are not just only after your money...... yes i agree they are few and far between. Maybe its in part because i like GFE (reather than PSE) and if i find a lady i like i return as much as i can. And i have always taken a lot of care and done a fair bit of research on them before seeing them. (and they have always been mid priced, not the expensive one)

I was punting 10 and 15 years ago and don.t remember anything like that happening to me then but do remember cups of tea/coffee being offered then and now but it does seem less nowdays.

I have the same set up she's all but retired seeing only seeing a few regular punters. Good attitude, friendly well organised, reliable, offers refreshment, has a laugh, doesn't talk the hind leg off a donkey, enjoys the punt and doesn't clock watch. I would be gutted if she every fully retired.

[Skills]

All very thought provoking posts and comments. Thank You.

As a final point: for me the advent of the smartphone and AW can turn any girl into a working girl and any man into a punter at a moment's notice. This has created a sex industry of almost  industrialised-proportions. This has, in turn, taken the 'work' out of finding WGs and Punters and consequently caused a degradation in the quality of the experience.

[Diehard]

I started in 2004 and the best times I had were between 2004-2011. Since then it's got progressively worse and now I am all but retired as there is just seems to be very few decent reliable English girls and it's too hard sifting through the thousands of crap hookers looking for gems. The English girls in the main left seem overweight and desperate due to debt or an addiction etc.

Things I've noticed are the influx of Eastern Europeans from 2010 onwards has driven the better quality young slim English girls away. A lot of the time they were being undercut by almost half of their rates so business must have dried up but for regulars so many I believe quit for a normal job.

A lot of English girls are now on seeking arrangements and sugar daddy arrangements seems the in thing now rather than traditional escorting.

I note above some guys think that as punters get older they noticed a deterioration in escort services perhaps because they are less desirable due to getting older and less attractive. This is wide of the mark. Hookers don't give a shit what a punter look so like as long as he has had a shower and is clean. Most hookers see a lot of men per day and simply don't get horny according to a blokes looks if they have seen 8 blokes beforehand. A good hooker will always put on a good act to ensure repeat business.