Can't decide if I've been ripped off or not

[ali2112a]

Right so a few weeks ago I fancied a shag and it just turns out that a WG that I met at a party a few years ago was available that night.And few emails back and forth and before I know it I'm sitting beside her drinking wine  (that I bought ).and having a great time
.Things  move into the bed and we're kissing DFK like there is no tomorrow. With the exception of my wife there is no one is have ever kissed like that it's a real fight for oxygen with both of us surfacing to get air. So after that it moves onto RO and then she finishes off with a long BJ with CIM and a bit more kissing (not only the mouth  ,I'm not that stupid! )
So I finish the session after 90 mins and very happy but on the way to the car thing's started to fall into place, I paid for 90 mins and that's what I got in total despite the fact that 40 mins of that was chatting / drinking wine /mucking about.
Also if she wasn't that into dick then getting a mug like me to Kiss her instead of fucking her might be a better option for her. TBH Im
a bit screwed up over this ,have I met a truly amazing WG or someone who sees my weaknesses and exploits although TBH that might be the same thing  Anyway thanks for reading? I'll get around to posting a review and links etc once I work out whether I enjoyed myself or not

[Spacecowb0y]

You spent close to 90 minutes with a girl.
Enjoyed her company and bought wine
Kissed each others faces off and had sex
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What's the issue?

Next time hold the wine, forget the chat and fuck her brains out twice or thrice

[Thecunninglinguist]

The Pro$$ie mantra, to be remembered at all times :-

Note: Any money paid to the adult escorts listed on this website is for their time and companionship only. Whatever else that may occur if and when contact is made is the choice of consenting adults.

Always read the small print. It's how they get away with things like that.

Having said that. It does sound like you had a great time and the time you spent drinking and chatting made the encounter all that much better. You might be being a little picky?

[Rochelle]

You haven't been ripped off. You paid for 90 minutes and got 90 minutes and it sounds like you really enjoyed yourself. If you want less talking then move things along more quickly. It sounds as though you enjoyed the drink and the chat before moving on to the other stuff, so what's the issue?

[Steely Dan]

You had RO and CIM? Better than many.  I suspect she spent 90 min pleasing you.  But I was not there.  Anyway fucking is only one thing to do with an escort.

You decide.  Please review.  Your review your rating. 

[Plan R]

If you had a good time and left satisfied then I'd say you haven't been ripped off.
If you just wanted 100% penis in vagina then maybe - but who wants just that?*

Approximately 70% of my punts are proper rude and have no GFE element
about 30% of my punts I fancy more of a GFE type time
But I leave happy and don't feel ripped off by either because I got what I came for


*(Ans: me at 13)

[northernerjames]

Only punted for a few month now but even still, does sound like you had a pretty decent time with the lass even if you didn't have full blown sex. As others said, if you want to move things along quicker next time, then initiate. WG probably assumed you were enjoying yourself as was. They're many things but not mind readers. 

[JonasG]

Some escorts don't lead.

You have to bring up the services you want. 

[myothernameis]

I'm sitting beside her drinking wine  (that I bought ).

Things  move into the bed and we're kissing DFK like there is no tomorrow

So I finish the session after 90 mins and very happy
but on the way to the car thing's started to fall into place,
I paid for 90 mins and that's what I got in total despite the fact that 40 mins of that was chatting / drinking wine /mucking about.

Seems you at fault, you brought the wine, and both of you drinking, and when drinking, you cant help but talk

You have said after a wine of glass and your time was up, you went to your car, so drinking and driving, are you mad, clearly not thinking straight 

[MelissaHoney]

Right so a few weeks ago I fancied a shag and it just turns out that a WG that I met at a party a few years ago was available that night.And few emails back and forth and before I know it I'm sitting beside her drinking wine  (that I bought ).and having a great time
.Things  move into the bed and we're kissing DFK like there is no tomorrow. With the exception of my wife there is no one is have ever kissed like that it's a real fight for oxygen with both of us surfacing to get air. So after that it moves onto RO and then she finishes off with a long BJ with CIM and a bit more kissing (not only the mouth  ,I'm not that stupid! )
So I finish the session after 90 mins and very happy but on the way to the car thing's started to fall into place, I paid for 90 mins and that's what I got in total despite the fact that 40 mins of that was chatting / drinking wine /mucking about.
Also if she wasn't that into dick then getting a mug like me to Kiss her instead of fucking her might be a better option for her. TBH Im
a bit screwed up over this ,have I met a truly amazing WG or someone who sees my weaknesses and exploits although TBH that might be the same thing  Anyway thanks for reading? I'll get around to posting a review and links etc once I work out whether I enjoyed myself or not

 
For a moment, I thought you were writing a positive review there! What's wrong man?!? Even I enjoyed what you wrote there! So just convert this to a review 

[MelissaHoney]

You haven't been ripped off. You paid for 90 minutes and got 90 minutes and it sounds like you really enjoyed yourself. If you want less talking then move things along more quickly. It sounds as though you enjoyed the drink and the chat before moving on to the other stuff, so what's the issue?

Exactly! 

[Rochelle]

Seems you at fault, you brought the wine, and both of you drinking, and when drinking, you cant help but talk

You have said after a wine of glass and your time was up, you went to your car, so drinking and driving, are you mad, clearly not thinking straight 

If he only had a small or medium glass of wine, then he'd still be under the limit after an hour and a half. On average it takes an hour for a unit of alcohol to leave your system.

[ali2112a]

Seems you at fault, you brought the wine, and both of you drinking, and when drinking, you cant help but talk

You have said after a wine of glass and your time was up, you went to your car, so drinking and driving, are you mad, clearly not thinking straight 

Good point - I drove there but didn't drive back when I work up town I sometimes leave the car at work if I go out with clients for a drink so its not that unusual and the missus doesn't get suspicious

[shagmore]

You paid for what you got, 90 mins of her time, its up to you what you do in those 90mins. If you decide to drink wine and talk fair enough, if you decided to shag her brains out 3-4 times great. But at the end of the day the service she provided appears to be good, as you said. So what is there to complain about.
I do not think you have been ripped off, I jus think you have been a tad naive, you thought as you bought her wine that she would stay longer - she didn't.  She stuck to her side of the margin, 90 mins.

[bearcat69]

Only you can decide whether she ripped you off or not.

If she deliberated chatted you up to waste time in an excessive manner and deliberately kept things away from penetrative sex, when that was something you were expecting to get or agreed upon, then yes she ripped you off IMO. If you just didn't move to have that with her, were enjoying the conversation, drinking and kissing and were happy to finish the 90 minutes with the oral sex, but just ran out of time to have penetrative sex and are a bit annoyed about it, then that's really on you IMO.

It sounds like you had a good time though. I mean, sounds a lot better than a lot of punts I had. Although I suppose the devils in the details to a certain degree with this kind of situation...

One thing I've gotta say though, I go to a punt with a prossie who offers full service, then that's what I make sure I get. When I want to fuck her I say so and make sure I say it with plenty of time left to do so. Also, I would never bring a bottle of wine with me. I know there are those that like to do that, and understand it's part of the excuse to the missus. But it is IMO kind of giving a prossie the impression that you are there for a more sociable service, rather that being there to just to fuck her and blow your load, and it does sound like that's the kind of service you got from her. Remember a prossie is a prossie, not you girlfriend, you don't have to impress her or anything like that if you don't want to. All she wants is for you to be respectful, clean, on time and paying.

[smiths]

The Pro$$ie mantra, to be remembered at all times :-

Note: Any money paid to the adult escorts listed on this website is for their time and companionship only. Whatever else that may occur if and when contact is made is the choice of consenting adults.

Always read the small print. It's how they get away with things like that.

Having said that. It does sound like you had a great time and the time you spent drinking and chatting made the encounter all that much better. You might be being a little picky?

I disagree, bad WGs get away with things because punting isn't properly regulated and punters can do little legally to get money back once paid if the WG fucks them over. UKP for those punters aware of it can help avoid some of the bad WGs about.

[smiths]

Right so a few weeks ago I fancied a shag and it just turns out that a WG that I met at a party a few years ago was available that night.And few emails back and forth and before I know it I'm sitting beside her drinking wine  (that I bought ).and having a great time
.Things  move into the bed and we're kissing DFK like there is no tomorrow. With the exception of my wife there is no one is have ever kissed like that it's a real fight for oxygen with both of us surfacing to get air. So after that it moves onto RO and then she finishes off with a long BJ with CIM and a bit more kissing (not only the mouth  ,I'm not that stupid! )
So I finish the session after 90 mins and very happy but on the way to the car thing's started to fall into place, I paid for 90 mins and that's what I got in total despite the fact that 40 mins of that was chatting / drinking wine /mucking about.
Also if she wasn't that into dick then getting a mug like me to Kiss her instead of fucking her might be a better option for her. TBH Im
a bit screwed up over this ,have I met a truly amazing WG or someone who sees my weaknesses and exploits although TBH that might be the same thing  Anyway thanks for reading? I'll get around to posting a review and links etc once I work out whether I enjoyed myself or not

Are you a man or a mouse, its up to YOU to assert yourself at a punt and move things on to what YOU want from which the WG offers as a service. If dis-satisfied with the punt you can do a review on here and say so and why and other punters will make their own minds up, you can do a review in any case obviously if you so wish.

IMO if smart a punter takes control of their punt and ensures they get what they want out of it.

[mrfishyfoo]

IMO if smart a punter takes control of their punt and ensures they get what they want out of it.

This ^^^^^

[JamesKW]

If you had a good time and left satisfied then I'd say you haven't been ripped off.
If you just wanted 100% penis in vagina then maybe - but who wants just that?*

*(Ans: me at 13)

If you have an O/H,which many punters do, that's exactly what you want,you can get the kissing and banter etc. at home.

[JamesKW]

Some escorts don't lead.

You have to bring up the services you want. 

I agree most will try and get away with as little as possible,but there is a fine line with going in with a list of pre conceived demands (then every punt will be the same) and spontanity.I have found at parties that every WG has different ways of doing things,so you are always open to new ideas.

[Batfink]

Personally I think I'd have been quite happy with that punt myself... but i suppose it depends on what you wanted what you got and did you make it known what you wanted?

[JonasG]

I agree most will try and get away with as little as possible,but there is a fine line with going in with a list of pre conceived demands (then every punt will be the same) and spontanity.I have found at parties that every WG has different ways of doing things,so you are always open to new ideas.

From my experience most escorts will initiate something to begin with whatever that maybe (kissing, BJ, caressing etc) but after that I've found it's down to you to change it up.

But this just comes naturally when you punt, you get more confident in the punts.

[TTGR]

Summary on this OP is I’ve had a far crappier time in a punt than what you just described!

No way that was a rip off. 

[AllenTheMan]

Jesus, if that's being ripped off wait until you meet a Rom!

[Hectorshouse]

Ali - sounds like you had a good experience and then reflected on what others may have told you what to expect or reading some reviews on here.

What you must do is be clear about what you want when you book - you are paying the money.

Have a drink, wine, tea, coffee whatever AFTER you have done what you needed to do.

WG's know why you are there, yes it is good to be pleasant, but don't be distracted from your goal.

Personally I always lead, get stuck in with DFK then onto business - keep going until you are satisfied whether half hour, hour or longer.

You paid the money - make sure that you are satisfied.

Don't be put off, but this punt sounds like it was good for you!

HH

[hungrypunt]

If you got what you wanted out of the punt then you wernt ripped off.

If you didnt get what you wanted you virtually ripped yourself off.
By the sounds of things you loved it, so make review and crack on.

[Longlife]

Sounds like you had a good time and enjoyed yourself so whats's the problem?

[Northerndave666]

I'll help you decide  You weren't ripped off, sounds like you had a bloody good time.

However to avoid future doubts of this sort. Hire her again and instruct her to be waiting, legs akimbo, on the bed for when you walk in.  Enter premises, Insert Cock into Vag, Start stopwatch, 89 mins later remove Cock, Blow beans, Depart. Max value, min fun!

[bearcat69]

If you have an O/H,which many punters do, that's exactly what you want,you can get the kissing and banter etc. at home.

I like a bit of kissing and banter during a punt, but personally I'd rather do it more as something to do as a pleasant kind of thing between rounds...

But last thing I personally want is a lengthy conversation with a prossie, as I can indeed get that at home from the missus, but getting along with a prossie, being able to talk in a fun and flirty way, and maybe even find some common interests, is certainly something I think can often contribute to what constitutes a good punt. A good bit of kissing, a good bit of flirting and banter, a good bit of foreplay/oral sex, and a good bit of sex, then I've had a great punt... Sounds like the OP had three out of four of those key components. That's much better than what you might get with some prossies, but not what I would personally call the complete package for a good time. If I spent 90 minutes in a room with a prossie and the corresponding cash and didn't actually fuck her, I would be kicking myself. But that's just me.

Preferences and likes/dislikes vary though. I mean, of course they do, I would assume that goes without saying. But, personally, I don't actually necessarily even see it as a "he should have lead an escort that needs leading" kind of thing. As some punters are, well, shy, or are less or more experienced, and prefer not to or just don't know how to lead... But then again, in that kind of circumstance a certain onus is one him to pick the right kind of prossie to suit him.

Like I said earlier, it really is down to him to decide whether he thinks he got what he wanted or was expecting. As has been said a good few times, OP could man up, come to a conclusion, write a review, and we can read it and decide if we agree. Certain details being provided by him would help us in making conclusions. It could even lead to offering, what is probably an inexperienced punter, some useful advice that could help him get more what he wants from future punts. Part of the beauty of the review system here IMO. Something tells me that is unlikely to happen though, as OP seems to have gone very quiet, and that and the general conclusion from most posters here speaks for itself.

[Cupid Stuntz]

Pop down to the Temples of Syrinx and ask one of the Priests there. I bet their answer will be ASSUME CONTROL .