Due to a bad experience I will no longer be seeing……

[Pompoy123]

Yeah and what is that all about black girls not seeing black guys??? Any black escorts on here want to contribute a comment??

[vorian]

Yeah and what is that all about black girls not seeing black guys??? Any black escorts on here want to contribute a comment??

I don't think ParisB is planning to post on UKP again, anytime soon. 

[Andre 3000]

Yeah and what is that all about black girls not seeing black guys??? Any black escorts on here want to contribute a comment??

It's because any black male they see could potentially know them or their family and the risk is much to high especially if they escort locally. Same with Asian escorts usually refusing to see Asian men.

Slightly older white guys are very unlikely to be in their day to day social group which probably makes it easier for them to manage.

[Ali Katt]

It's because any black male they see could potentially know them or their family and the risk is much to high especially if they escort locally. Same with Asian escorts usually refusing to see Asian men.

Slightly older white guys are very unlikely to be in their day to day social group which probably makes it easier for them to manage.

That's at best a half truth. Many escorts don't work in the area they live in. It's like saying if I meet a white guy of the same age he is automatically known to me or in my social group.

[NinaBlack]

As a black escort I have had problems with guys of every race so the idea of banning a whole race is pointless really! I don't get WGs that say I'm not attracted to black guys as attraction doesn't play a part in our work all she should care about is giving the punter his moneys worth. Personally I'm not attracted to white guys but I'd lose a whole lot of work if I didn't see them I would never go out with a white guy in my personal life but you have to separate your personal preferences to your work because if you can't you will lose alot of money, more fool them because what their losing out on another WG is benefiting from.

[Pompoy123]

It's because any black male they see could potentially know them or their family and the risk is much to high especially if they escort locally. Same with Asian escorts usually refusing to see Asian men.

Slightly older white guys are very unlikely to be in their day to day social group which probably makes it easier for them to manage.

Come on that is like saying a white girl should not date white guys incase it turns out to be Uncle Frank, mum's bit on the side who offered out worthington originals to her in exchange for a sit on the knee after college lol

[Pompoy123]

As a black escort I have had problems with guys of every race so the idea of banning a whole race is pointless really! I don't get WGs that say I'm not attracted to black guys as attraction doesn't play a part in our work all she should care about is giving the punter his moneys worth. Personally I'm not attracted to white guys but I'd lose a whole lot of work if I didn't see them I would never go out with a white guy in my personal life but you have to separate your personal preferences to your work because if you can't you will lose alot of money, more fool them because what their losing out on another WG is benefiting from.

Thanks Nina for giving us your view in relation to this. I count myself as being a very nice person and treat people both male and female how I would like to be treated.

So all you WGs out there who don't want to see me due to my chocolate coloured buns your loss

[smiths]

I'm new to this punting lark and I've seen a lot of this on AW and can't really get my head around that comment.

I can totally understand if someone said I'm not into a certain race for whatever reason but the cope out line is annoying as it kind of makes out all black guys are shit heads when in fact there are shit heads in all races.

Anyhow rant over. What are your views on this??

Pompoy.

This subject comes up time after time. The point is a WG can choose who she wishes to punt with race wise and who she excludes. Punting isnt regulated so a WG can do as she pleases on this.

As i see it excluding a whole race or races due to a bad experience with 1 person or more people of a particular race isnt viewing people as the individuals they are.

I dont see no whites welcome on profiles, what this tells me is WGs can financially afford to exclude certain minority races by cant whites, and white punters have caused as much trouble as other races over the years as i have read on punting forums.

[Dani]

I've always found that the most fascinating aspect of it. As soon as I see that legend 'Due to a bad experience...'

I always thought that quote was just crap until New Years eve. I was attacked and beaten quite badly by an African Deaf man who could not even do BSL so I now have the same quote that due to a bad experience I will not see deaf people who cannot either lip read or do BSL.  As we cannot communicate neither of us can get across what we want or wont allow and it leads to frustration and in this case the guy completely lost it.
I don't however say I wont see black men as it was not because he was black but because he could not communicate in any way and became very frustrated which turned into him getting aggressive then violent. 
If I blocked races due to behaviour then I would not be seeing any white men at all as have had more issues with them than any other colour

[vorian]

I always thought that quote was just crap until New Years eve. I was attacked and beaten quite badly by an African Deaf man who could not even do BSL so I now have the same quote that due to a bad experience I will not see deaf people who cannot either lip read or do BSL.  As we cannot communicate neither of us can get across what we want or wont allow and it leads to frustration and in this case the guy completely lost it.
I don't however say I wont see black men as it was not because he was black but because he could not communicate in any way and became very frustrated which turned into him getting aggressive then violent. 
If I blocked races due to behaviour then I would not be seeing any white men at all as have had more issues with them than any other colour

I have seen on a number of profiles including ones from WG who I personal consider to be "Gold Standard" a note saying "Must be able to speak good english".

I have never considered this to be racist but more so about as Dani said the importance of communication. Conversely I have seen many bad reviews from punters saying the prossies lack of english makes it difficult for them to get the most out of a punt.

[_Bender_]

Thanks Nina for giving us your view in relation to this. I count myself as being a very nice person and treat people both male and female how I would like to be treated.

So all you WGs out there who don't want to see me due to my chocolate coloured buns your loss

  Happy punting Pompoy123..

[vorian]

So all you WGs out there who don't want to see me due to my chocolate coloured buns your loss

Think of it this way you have your own built in shit prossie filter, as the prossies who won't see black punters are probably useless, lazy, crap ones anyway. Their loss and certainly not yours.

[Pompoy123]

I always thought that quote was just crap until New Years eve. I was attacked and beaten quite badly by an African Deaf man who could not even do BSL so I now have the same quote that due to a bad experience I will not see deaf people who cannot either lip read or do BSL.  As we cannot communicate neither of us can get across what we want or wont allow and it leads to frustration and in this case the guy completely lost it.
I don't however say I wont see black men as it was not because he was black but because he could not communicate in any way and became very frustrated which turned into him getting aggressive then violent. 
If I blocked races due to behaviour then I would not be seeing any white men at all as have had more issues with them than any other colour

I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. Not because I'm a fellow black guy but just as a fellow human being. The guy was bang out of order so what that he was deaf he had no right to beat on you.

 

[sarahjayneleeds]

I have no discrimination for race or age on my profile simply because each person is an individual. I live in between Leeds and Bradford which of course has a large Asian community. Of the ones I have seen I have never had a bad experience with them I have had the odd "wanna be a gangster " type and haggler but they don't really make it to the door just as they wouldn't if they were white. So I see no need to exclude a particular community. Maybe it helps that I am the older end of the scale and the younger ones get more hassle.

As for the age thing I do feel a little uneasy seeing younger guys mainly because I have a teenage son and the mum side of me wouldn't like to think of him punting two faced I know given my job but at least I'm honest and I do give this reason when people tell me they are young or ask if I have a problem with it.

 I have personally had more issues, rows and time wasting from  what a lot of girls advertise they would really want to see the older, more mature, middle class gent than any other people. I find some of them can be obnoxious, the most likely to ask/ try for stuff you don't do, or try to push boundaries generally. They are also the ones in my experience who are most likely to ask for BB as they seem to think because they talk posh when they tell us "I'm clean honestly" that we will somehow think oh yeah you speak properly so you must be. Give me a Builder over a Banker any day of the week. 

[Honestsaintpaul]

. Plenty of fish in the sea for everybody of all tastes.

Matty is absolutely right .
It's may feel offensive and personal but forget about it and just move on and find another girl .

It's not always a racial slur or unfounded prejudice .

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[broksonic]

I believe  it's  entirely up to  the Wg who  she wants  to  see

[squeezebox]

I always thought that quote was just crap until New Years eve. I was attacked and beaten quite badly by an African Deaf man who could not even do BSL so I now have the same quote that due to a bad experience I will not see deaf people who cannot either lip read or do BSL.  As we cannot communicate neither of us can get across what we want or wont allow and it leads to frustration and in this case the guy completely lost it.
I don't however say I wont see black men as it was not because he was black but because he could not communicate in any way and became very frustrated which turned into him getting aggressive then violent. 
If I blocked races due to behaviour then I would not be seeing any white men at all as have had more issues with them than any other colour

Sorry to read that.

I appreciate you may not want to dwell on it, but was there any warning sign before it happened?

As many have said, it is fair and reasonable to see only those you want to.

[Cornish sub]

I believe  it's  entirely up to  the Wg who  she wants  to  see

[Cornish sub]

I believe  it's  entirely up to  the Wg who  she wants  to  see

You're right, it is. But they should just say they simply don't want to see black/Asian/whatever men, not come out with the 'because of a bad experience' crap. As I said earlier in this thread, it's strange how it's always black or Asian men they've had bad experiences with, never white men. To me, this means one of two things; either all white men are, well, whiter than white and never cause problems, or that they can be just as problematic as any other race, but because they make up the vast majority of an escort's custom they simply can't afford to ban all white men, but banning black or Asian men has minimal impact on their income. And Dani, this has nothing to do with your experience. I totally get that your decision wasn't based on the man's colour.

[mattylondon]

Matty is absolutely right .
It's may feel offensive and personal but forget about it and just move on and find another girl .

It's not always a racial slur or unfounded prejudice .

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Very true but my personal punting 'tests' would apply equally to this black woman, who also specifies racial preferences. I care not for their 'reasons'. It doesn't interest me. What interests me is that it exists on their profile. I'm glad they state it but I rail against any form of prejudice, wherever and whoever it comes from. 

As you say, plenty of fish in the sea. 

[Rochdull lad]

I agree with everything you've said and find the age thing equally as odd? There's no animation for glasses of wine!

I could be wrong but I think there's an arrogance amongst a small number of punters on here because they feel that none of the discrimination applies to them. I just wonder if say hypothetically, a significant number of prossies under 30 stated that they didn't want to take bookings from men between the ages of 50 - 70. How would those men feel then, knowing that they couldn't punt young prossies?

I don't think many would be happy about that! 

As a punter coming to the end of his 60s, it's my experience that some of the WGs who won't see blokes over 60 are in their mid-40s.

My attitude is that while I can't understand that attitude, I respect their right to make that choice and thank them for allowing me to find three Regulars, none of whom has such a problem.