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Author Topic: any tips for ease of climax?  (Read 4100 times)

Offline SamLP

A change in lifestyle could be an option, as you said lose a bit of weight, go running and get your blood pumping, lose the cigarettes, start eating more fruit and veg, eat less junk. That in itself will boost your energy and make you feel good too.

Energy supplements, someone mentioned menergy which I haven't tried but looking at the ingredients which include ginseng & gingko biloba they both help with getting hard-ons. I've taken them before and have felt a difference. Drinking fresh ginger should get you randy too.

Psychological is probably half the problem if not more. Worry, anxiety about performance or keeping a hard-on. Think positively about how you want to bang her hard or make sweet love (whatever works for you). Putting a condom on is a skill not all girls have. Some stop and fiddle for one, and by the time they have it out of the pack you've gone limp whereas a good one will have it ready, keep you stimulated and put it on seductively or with her mouth. Could be something for you to ask the girl you see.

I went through a period where I too would go limp when a condom was put on, but that was usually after the first pop and when ready for round two. I would ask the girl to wank me to hardness while in DFK as my played with her tits or fingered her, usually did the trick. Also lay off porn and try not to wank 3-4 days prior to a punt. For some, 1-2 days is enough (find your limit).

Finally, the excitement of seeing a new or different girl is a factor. Familiarity no matter how good she is can play its part. As suggested, broaden your horizons a little. Olivia is a minutes walk away and not only is she really good looking, she turned me on massively. Friendly, smiley & a sexy girl. Maybe think about it and give it a go, it is punting after all.
« Last Edit: July 16, 2015, 08:55:32 am by SamLP »

Offline Stapler

A change in lifestyle could be an option, as you said lose a bit of weight, go running and get your blood pumping, lose the cigarettes, start eating more FRUIT and veg, eat less junk. That in itself will boost your energy and make you feel good too


Not too much fruit! It's full of sugar! A handful of berries/nuts is better.


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Offline Thepacifist

My advice is ask her to put it on when she thinks your hard enough. If she can do it with her mouth even better. Get to to ride you cowgirl. Try lots of kissing and cuddling. Try some tie and tease, i feel like the sight of the condom may be triggering it and the anxiety of the wait to get it on causes it to go floppy. If you're blindfolded or have your eyes closed i feel this would help. It's happened to me a few times but mainly after a first pop..  Good luck  :hi:

Offline Marmalade

It's not the girl or being predictable

The frustrating part is that she is stunning and makes me aroused so I don't think it's the girl or changing to a different sp would help
It took me maybe three trips to get over nerves

The situation has been the same from punt 1, I'm not embarrassed over my lack of experience I just find it hard to go in depth over I think I fleetingly mentioned it to her once but maybe be more descriptive in a future meet? I sort of put off trying different positions because I don't want to add something whilst working through this

Honestly till two months ago I had no idea what owo dfk ro pse all meant abbreviations were like Spanish too me

The OP is getting a bit trollish about this.

I'm not saying it is a troll but if not it's a brilliant topic for some troll to clone and milk for all it's worth on a pussywhipped pinnywank site.

The advice given has been good. Even with a civvie, if she doesn't do it for you, in or out of her lubetube, it would be time to switch. An erect penis belongs in a warm wet cunt. If it goes soft, take it out.

If she has a face like a movie star, teach her to suck then spray her Estee Lauder (or whatever crap she spends your money on) with some nice big gobs of cum. An exquisite site, spunk wads all over her cheeks and delicately once-lipsticked mouth.

That works even if the pretty-faced cow has a fanny like a bottomless bucket.

Fuck all that macho shite about never touching pills you silly tosser. So you never take anything even if the doctor prescribes it?? Sleeping tablets are chemically addictive. Viagra isn't. 

It doesn't matter how old you are. If your big rod of iron is melting when you don't want it to, put some temporary muscle. It won't affect future relations and natural hard-on ability (if you can wean yourself off your silly whore).

Cialis gives a more 'natural' feel to many people as it lasts longer. Girls that are enthusiastic with their cunts instead of just the shop windows can also be better fun.
« Last Edit: July 16, 2015, 11:09:13 am by Marmalade »

Offline anyfucker

I agree it's probably nothing to do with the girl and I suspect the type of condom isn't relevant either. You're now almost conditioned to not perform and it really is something you've got to get your head round. It certainly will help if you can talk about it with girl you're seeing as that will take a lot if the pressure off. Spending periods of time using visualisation techniques can help, for example imagining the condom being rolled on your dick and it becoming rock hard. You really have to get over the moment of anxiety once the condom is on and stop the vicious circle.
Improving fitness will obviously contribute to a well being feeling and therefore confidence.
The blue tablet certainly is the easy course and is a dead cert of rock hardness but the trouble with them is you can become psychologically dependent on them and may never be able to perform without them.
Agree, comma gets hard so it's not ED as such just conditioning, sounds more like Pavlov's dog to me ring a bell the dog salivates, in your case at the touch of a condom you lose your stiffy.
As fraser says you need to re-condition yourself or train your brain to welcome the condom, it's gonna be easy for you, trust me  :cool:
For starters i would go out and buy a few different condoms and some lube.
No wanking or shagging for long enough so you are "gagging for it", since you're young that is probably less than a day, but maybe more we're all different.
Find yourself somewhere you can relax and be comfortable for a long wank without being disturbed, get yourself porn video or anything else you might like.
Open a condom, get a stiffy, put condom on, apply lube and wank yourself off into the condom or even over the condom to assert your mastery.
Rinse and repeat with other brands making sure each time you have abstained for long enough to be "gagging for it", no wanking in between.
Putting the condom on becomes associated with you cumming, a "reward", success.

Other points, getting fitter is no bad thing.

Whilst Khloe is great some variety would also be good, you already know where Olivia lives.

johnnyboy61

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The OP is getting a bit trollish about this.
I don't think that the OP is a troll,  but the OP is a prolific poster considering the short time he has been a member and he seems to not be short of opinions in other threads considering his self-confessed extremely limited experience, both with WGs and civvies.

On another thread in response to a similar statement by me he said that he enjoys posting and that on another site he had racked up 20,000 posts! He has been given plenty of good and varying advice on this thread, I suggest that we don't feed his addiction any further on this particular topic. If he chooses to ignore advice, fair enough, but I don't think we should boost his ego by continuing to feed his obvious addiction to the attention he gets by our responses.

Online PLeisure


Not too much fruit! It's full of sugar! A handful of berries/nuts is better.

Fruit contains natural sugars, ie. not the processed/ artifical rubbish
Berries are also categorised as fruit.

Online PLeisure

I don't think that the OP is a troll,  but the OP is a prolific poster considering the short time he has been a member and he seems to not be short of opinions in other threads considering his self-confessed extremely limited experience, both with WGs and civvies.

On another thread in response to a similar statement by me he said that he enjoys posting and that on another site he had racked up 20,000 posts! He has been given plenty of good and varying advice on this thread, I suggest that we don't feed his addiction any further on this particular topic. If he chooses to ignore advice, fair enough, but I don't think we should boost his ego by continuing to feed his obvious addiction to the attention he gets by our responses.
  :thumbsup:  :timeout:

Type_O_Negative

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Just asking if it was the same WG that you and the OP have both had problems getting it up with?


No, it was different prossie.

Offline lewishamguy

The OP is getting a bit trollish about this.

I'm not saying it is a troll but if not it's a brilliant topic for some troll to clone and milk for all it's worth on a pussywhipped pinnywank site.

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+1

Offline Cuntminion

Bollocks to it

Got a booking for a dif girl , only half hour mind ,to test waters


Report later

Offline OakTree

Bollocks to it

Got a booking for a dif girl , only half hour mind ,to test waters


Report later

Good man  :thumbsup:

Offline Cuntminion

Good man  :thumbsup:

This girl
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=61338.msg786159;topicseen#msg786159

Pint
Punt
Concert

That's my evening

One thing I notice I got that pre visit adrenaline back


Tried contacting Olivia no response then another wg same area but she not available but "had a friend" so no from me

3rd time lucky the Don reviewed this one well so having a crack only half hour though which I will do in all future first bookings if good go back for an hour next time

HornyByNature

  • Guest
Bollocks to it

Got a booking for a dif girl , only half hour mind ,to test waters


Report later

Good luck, and hope it goes well

HornyByNature

  • Guest
This girl
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=61338.msg786159;topicseen#msg786159

Pint
Punt
Concert

That's my evening

One thing I notice I got that pre visit adrenaline back


Tried contacting Olivia no response then another wg same area but she not available but "had a friend" so no from me

3rd time lucky the Don reviewed this one well so having a crack only half hour though which I will do in all future first bookings if good go back for an hour next time

She's a decent punt, very friendly girl, my review to go shortly on her, maybe my backlog will go up tomorrow night

Offline Hertsgent

Good idea, may sort it, may start you on a WG variety tour - before the months out you could be on the cialis and booking as many WGs as you can in the 36-48 hours it works for!

Offline Cuntminion

Job done she was a nice girl will see again

Offline Marmalade



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Offline temudjin

OP have you tried a cock ring?