Losing virginity to an escort

[innateimmunity]

Hi folks. I'm a virgin, horny 1st year university student (living in university residence) hoping to get away from the masturbation by booking an escort. The only thing I have come close to intercourse was dry humping with the girlfriend during sixth form.

Over the past week, I have read you catch stds even with protection (herpes, hpv etc). Recently I found out that one potential lady was actually a man (post TS, i think). Is it worth the risk? The guilt? Will escorts contact you on your phone after making an enquiry? There's so much to consider and just need some sense of guidance. 

Apologise for using this platform. I welcome any responses.





 

[scutty brown]

What are you reading at university?
Trolling 101?

[teddyking]

Your young .. you should try dating first, loads of single girls looking for relationships. I am a few years  older than you , maybe a few year and I punt and see a different girl almost every week. Goal is to punt for 1-2 years and fuck as many girls as possible before I go into another long term relationship and then a marriage. I noticed even with a civvy relationship and friends with benefits I still spend money on pizza , Uber’s and chocolates etc. Punting is so much better. Anyway It’s better to have sex first time with someone you actually love. Be patient

[PepelePew]

It's got to be hard having your first year of uni under current conditions, as I doubt you're able to meet fellow students like you normally would.

Not knowing anything about you, I still reckon you've chance to meet someone at uni when you can, and have opportunity to do the deed with someone who may or may not mean a lot to you, I would wait. You may be in a rush but there'll still be this option in the future

[Horseman]

Hi folks. I'm a virgin, horny 1st year university student (living in university residence) hoping to get away from the masturbation by booking an escort. The only thing I have come close to intercourse was dry humping with the girlfriend during sixth form.

Over the past week, I have read you catch stds even with protection (herpes, hpv etc). Recently I found out that one potential lady was actually a man (post TS, i think). Is it worth the risk? The guilt? Will escorts contact you on your phone after making an enquiry? There's so much to consider and just need some sense of guidance. 

Apologise for using this platform. I welcome any responses.

You're better off talking to a medical professional regarding STD risks and all that. Short version - no matter what precautions you take there is always a chance you'll catch something if you partake in sexual activities (paid for or civie)

As to some of your other questions....

Is it worth the risk? Loaded question. You're on a punting forum the universal answer will be yes.
The guilt? I answer this with a question of my own. What guilt? Will you be cheating on a partner? I have no guilt in what I do. I am single and have no reason to have any guilt. If you think you will then perhaps this is not the route to take?
Wil escorts contact you? On the whole no. However there are one or two that will. Easy way round that is to get a punting phone.

[Whiteknight]

Go and find a girlfriend.  Come on, 1st year at Uni, they are all free.

[yorkstopguy]

Welcome.
I did what you are thinking about over 40 years ago and still going strong.
It is always possible to catch something but you could from any girl.
As far as being contacted on your phone most ladies will only contact you if they miss your call and that only a short time after yours or reply by text after seeing your message.
If you are concerned about this get yourself a separate phone for this use which I do and only have it on when you want to be in contact with a lady or waiting for a reply. Alternatively some of us have a separate sim card for this purpose.
All the best and enjoy your first venture into this world

[daviemac]

What are you reading at university?
Trolling 101?

I can't believe people are actually replying to this. 

[Horseman]

I can't believe people are actually replying to this. 

Stuck at home during a national lock down. What else am I going to do? 

Obvious troll - but on the outside chance it genuine, there's no harm in being helpful.

[senordingdongs]

Your young .. you should try dating first, loads of single girls looking for relationships. I am a few years  older than you , maybe a few year and I punt and see a different girl almost every week. Goal is to punt for 1-2 years and fuck as many girls as possible before I go into another long term relationship and then a marriage. I noticed even with a civvy relationship and friends with benefits I still spend money on pizza , Uber’s and chocolates etc. Punting is so much better. Anyway It’s better to have sex first time with someone you actually love. Be patient

Every man is paying for it one way or another, even those married for years. Do this, do that or your not getting any sex.

Why not go for a legit massages to build up some confidence

[innateimmunity]

You're better off talking to a medical professional regarding STD risks and all that. Short version - no matter what precautions you take there is always a chance you'll catch something if you partake in sexual activities (paid for or civie)

As to some of your other questions....

Is it worth the risk? Loaded question. You're on a punting forum the universal answer will be yes.
The guilt? I answer this with a question of my own. What guilt? Will you be cheating on a partner? I have no guilt in what I do. I am single and have no reason to have any guilt. If you think you will then perhaps this is not the route to take?
Wil escorts contact you? On the whole no. However there are one or two that will. Easy way round that is to get a punting phone.

Yes, it is. Thank you for your response

[Shel1234]

Hi folks. I'm a virgin, horny 1st year university student (living in university residence) hoping to get away from the masturbation by booking an escort.

LOL that first part sounds like an AW Ad.

Mate if you are serious why tf would you say you’re a “horny student”, you do realise 99% of the people on this platform are men right ? Unless you swing that way.

[innateimmunity]

It's got to be hard having your first year of uni under current conditions, as I doubt you're able to meet fellow students like you normally would.

Not knowing anything about you, I still reckon you've chance to meet someone at uni when you can, and have opportunity to do the deed with someone who may or may not mean a lot to you, I would wait. You may be in a rush but there'll still be this option in the future

Thanks Teddy.

[innateimmunity]

Thanks Teddy.

Lol at the first part.

I'm just telling you how it is. 

[innateimmunity]

Wrong quote. 

[JontyR]

Hi folks. I'm a virgin, horny 1st year university student (living in university residence) hoping to get away from the masturbation by booking an escort. The only thing I have come close to intercourse was dry humping with the girlfriend during sixth form.

Over the past week, I have read you catch stds even with protection (herpes, hpv etc). Recently I found out that one potential lady was actually a man (post TS, i think). Is it worth the risk? The guilt? Will escorts contact you on your phone after making an enquiry? There's so much to consider and just need some sense of guidance. 

Apologise for using this platform. I welcome any responses.

Stop being so weird, get out of your bedroom and make some friends. Get ready for the lifting of lockdown, join a load of university societies ... especially ones with lots of women that have parties....and practice putting on a johnny so that when you do get the chance you won't fuck it up.

Oh and get ready to make a load of mistakes that you will look back on in years to come and laugh at yourself. Don't treat the first chance that comes along like it will be the only chance you ever get, there will be loads.

Get a wide circle of friends so that there won't be a Friday or Saturday night where you won't be short of someone to go out to a bar with.

Talk to lots of women, about anything, at every opportunity. Be friendly, smiley and at ease with yourself.

Just for reference the only STD I ever caught was in my first year of uni.

[Link7]

I am a few years  older than you , maybe a few year and I punt and see a different girl almost every week. Goal is to punt for 1-2 years and fuck as many girls as possible before I go into another long term relationship and then a marriage

  you have no interest in monogamy and that's unlikely to change once married. The simple truth is that men who are faithful in long term relationships did not ever want to do what you are doing now.

[Apu]

Simple advice

Virginity is for girls. You don't have a pussy that's gonna get popped . Guys fucking first time is the same as banging a lubed lose moisturised hand .

Now, book a sexy bird . Older I would say . Hey I would say go to the deep end and find a top reviewed pornstar.

Have a good time . Wear a condom for oral if you want .But have fun kid .... Give them the dick .

[scutty brown]

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[teddyking]

you have no interest in monogamy and that's unlikely to change once married. The simple truth is that men who are faithful in long term relationships did not ever want to do what you are doing now.

Lol... you’re making me doubt myself

[teddyking]

As everyone has said , don’t cuck yourself while at university. Everyone wants to get laid at uni. Find some friends , speak to people , join societies and go to clubs (obvs after lockdown.)

[CatBBW]

Virginity is a social construct to keep women under control; if you're a standard 1st year uni student you are only 18/19.

My advice is to learn how to interact with people, learn how to flirt and how to read the signs of attraction (when someone is attracted to you), and just have FUN. Much of the enjoyment of having civvie (in real life/not escort) sex is the thrill and *ping* of the initial attraction, the spark, the lead up, the conversation, the getting to know each other, and the wondering and hoping that sex will actually happen.

If you think you are going to "get away from masturbation by booking an escort" then you are very much mistaken. Let me tell you: you have genitals and a sex drive, the urge to masturbate will continue for many many (many) years yet.

[SpaceRaiderDave]

I can't believe people are actually replying to this. 

I'm also amazed there are so many and they being so sympathetic

Any intelligent uni student will be very experienced researching the internet for information and would never need ask such basic questions

[Payyourwaymate]

Don't do it if you cannot handle the potential financial and perceptual consequences of realising that access to sex is much more easier than is portrayed in societal norms for men and the subsequent effect that may have on your spending and/or your attitude towards women. I think you're trolling though, so I would say going for it and I hope you get EAS  .

[Munter84]

I'm a bit confused why people assume the OP is trolling, there's nothing particularly unbelievable about his situation. I spent the ages 18-21 at university in much the same state he describes: surrounded by people who seemed to be having loads of sex but unable to get any myself. I'm not sure if seeing an SP to break a dry streak is the "right" thing to do at a relatively young age, it's perhaps not anybody's romantic dream scenario for how losing the V-card will play out, but ultimately you have to do what you have to do. Even a shit first sexual experience is at least a start that you can build on and removes a layer of confusion/mystique.

Sex is a bit like money, food or water - it's not a big deal, as long as you have enough of it.

[scutty brown]

I'm a bit confused why people assume the OP is trolling, there's nothing particularly unbelievable about his situation. I spent the ages 18-21 at university in much the same state he describes: surrounded by people who seemed to be having loads of sex but unable to get any myself. I'm not sure if seeing an SP to break a dry streak is the "right" thing to do at a relatively young age, it's perhaps not anybody's romantic dream scenario for how losing the V-card will play out, but ultimately you have to do what you have to do. Even a shit first sexual experience is at least a start that you can build on and removes a layer of confusion/mystique.

Sex is a bit like money, food or water - it's not a big deal, as long as you have enough of it.

You've not been here very long have you?
Some of us have been and we've seen this kind of crap many times before.
I'm just surprised that Daviemac hasn't deleted the thread yet

[daviemac]

You've not been here very long have you?
Some of us have been and we've seen this kind of crap many times before.
I'm just surprised that Daviemac hasn't deleted the thread yet

There's a lot to learn about people from a thread like this.   

[Doc Holliday]

If you think you are going to "get away from masturbation by booking an escort" then you are very much mistaken. Let me tell you: you have genitals and a sex drive, the urge to masturbate will continue for many many (many) years yet.

  Yep I'm still waiting for the urge to wane. That said I hold the view it is medically beneficial to me, although perhaps no longer in line with a 'five a day' fruit regime 

[Horizontal pleasures]

I had my first go at age 21 with an 'auntie' sort of lady near Leicester Square. Loved it and have hardly ever stopped punting. So you will save yourself loads of money if you make new girl friends with someone from your own age group and social group.

[Punterperson1971]

Don’t these sort of posts normally pop up every now and again especially with the schools being out.

[Hobbit]

If you think you are going to "get away from masturbation by booking an escort" then you are very much mistaken. Let me tell you: you have genitals and a sex drive, the urge to masturbate will continue for many many (many) years yet.

Speak for yourself. I have no urge to masturbate. The only urge I have is to be deep inside a pussy.

[Doc Holliday]

Speak for yourself. I have no urge to masturbate. The only urge I have is to be deep inside a pussy.

Are you able to satisfy that urge every day? Or do you not get daily urges?

[SomeRandomGuy123]

I was in the same boat. Was about to go to university at 18, still a virgin. Payed some blonde prossie off Adultwork to lose it. £50 for half an hour. Some hugarian women named Sandra I believe.

I do regret it in some ways.

[Hobbit]

Are you able to satisfy that urge every day? Or do you not get daily urges?

I wish! Sex is a weekly thing at best. I do get daily urges but I just learn to tolerate it and try to keep my mind off it. But now I look like this...




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[hamchang]

Just find a prossie and fuck her. It's not rocket science. Then when you walk back to the halls you will find with your new found confidence having joined the grown ups club, you will be mobbed with pussy.

[Vic69]

Dont forget a lot of ladies wont see you because you are young.  We do get . emails from gents who tell us they are virgins (I think most SP take that with a pinch of salt and think it's a bit of a wind up).  My advice would be go on PoF or Tinder, you are entering dangerous territory thinking of seeing an SP, it can become a habit that is not good for someone of your age, it will give you false expectations and could damage future normal relationships.   Dont forget we are professional sex providers, paid to give you a good time.

[Thephoenix]

Dont forget a lot of ladies wont see you because you are young.  We do get . emails from gents who tell us they are virgins (I think most SP take that with a pinch of salt and think it's a bit of a wind up).  My advice would be go on PoF or Tinder, you are entering dangerous territory thinking of seeing an SP, it can become a habit that is not good for someone of your age, it will give you false expectations and could damage future normal relationships.   Dont forget we are professional sex providers, paid to give you a good time.

Excellent advice!

[Iceman90]

Hi folks. I'm a virgin, horny 1st year university student (living in university residence) hoping to get away from the masturbation by booking an escort. The only thing I have come close to intercourse was dry humping with the girlfriend during sixth form.

Over the past week, I have read you catch stds even with protection (herpes, hpv etc). Recently I found out that one potential lady was actually a man (post TS, i think). Is it worth the risk? The guilt? Will escorts contact you on your phone after making an enquiry? There's so much to consider and just need some sense of guidance. 

Apologise for using this platform. I welcome any responses.

Just do it. I spent uni trying to pull girls on nights out and spent many nights frustrated at getting nothing. Wish I knew about punting and sites like AW back then. Why not lose your virginity to a 10/10 stunner? Also why not try a TS? They are hotter than most girls...

[Hobbit]

Just do it. I spent uni trying to pull girls on nights out and spent many nights frustrated at getting nothing. Wish I knew about punting and sites like AW back then. Why not lose your virginity to a 10/10 stunner? Also why not try a TS? They are hotter than most girls...

Do you actually know what a 10/10 stunner would be like? Have you ever heard about the concept of subjectivity?

[Doc Holliday]

I wish! Sex is a weekly thing at best. I do get daily urges but I just learn to tolerate it and try to keep my mind off it. But now I look like this...




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Thank god I'm a daily wanker then 

[Hobbit]

Thank god I'm a daily wanker then 

Nothing wrong with being a wanker. 

[winkywanky]

  Yep I'm still waiting for the urge to wank. That said I hold the view it is medically beneficial to me, although perhaps no longer in line with a 'five a day' fruit regime 

Now that is what I call admirable restraint Doc.

I don't know about the fruit though, when you do start you may find a banana up the bum might well heighten your orgasm (a friend told me that, obvs).

[luv2kiss54]

Excellent advice!

Yes i also agree -  excellent advice. My god i wish Tinder and the like were available when i was your age there is no way i would have gone to escorts.. There is no way you should be thinking of seeing an escort DONT DO IT. I know its difficult at the moment with the virus and the lockdowns so you cant go to bars etc and mingle as you would normally but losing your cherry to an escort is pretty sad to be honest at your age and as the other poster has said could harm future relationships. Since using escorts i have found it virtually impossible to form a meaningful relationship with a girlfriend as i was almost addicted to seeing escorts. Plenty of time in the future to go down the escort route if you decide to but I really hope you dont have to.

[scutty brown]

Now that is what I call admirable restraint Doc.

I don't know about the fruit though, when you do start you may find a banana up the bum might well heighten your orgasm (a friend told me that, obvs).

No, you need a cucumber
Bananas are bent, you'll never find a straight one
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[winkywanky]

No, you need a cucumber
Bananas are bent, you'll never find a straight one
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I didn't know you went back quite that far Scutty 

A banana is softer and shorter, and the bend will perhaps more likely hit the 'male G-spot' (prostate), but like I say, a mate told me 

[Hobbit]

I didn't know you went back quite that far Scutty 

A banana is softer and shorter, and the bend will perhaps more likely hit the 'male G-spot' (prostate), but like I say, a mate told me 

What if the banana breaks mid-way? That would be messy.

[winkywanky]

What if the banana breaks mid-way? That would be messy.

banana split 

[winkywanky]

Or perhaps your party trick could be to insert the banana, and then push it back out, skinned and ready to eat.

At this point I shall get my coat...

[Hobbit]

Or perhaps your party trick could be to insert the banana, and then push it back out, skinned and ready to eat.

At this point I shall get my coat...

I'll open the door for you. 

[Ossiris84]

Go for it! 

I wished I had lost mine a lot sooner than I did. I was 29 (two months from my 30th birthday) when I lost mine to an escort.

I remember the booking took a lot of arranging due to work commitments but we were finally able to arrange a time/date.

Just before the booking I was really nervous but when the time came it went fine. As these things go it couldn't have been better to be honest. I made the decision to see an older woman for my first time as there more experienced and would be a good teacher for a newbie. I've been with 20 escorts since and don't regret a thing. I've had some great times so go for it!