Easy for me ! .. when she decided to stop ALL sexual contact two years ago .. she played right into my hands !
Firstly it made me determined to carry on punting and IF I got any nasties I wouldn't pass them on ...
As for the guilt .. never suffered from that .. after years of discussions , heart to heart talks , flowers , treats , being nice , being nasty ... yes we've probably all tried everything in the past .. I just decided to give up completely .. and carry on punting .
I have a nice lifestyle and love my wife .. BUT if the shit hit the fan I would not budge one inch that it was completely her fault that I got into punting through sheer desperation !
At my age I would of been quite happy with a handjob / blowjob every few weeks ....... and I probably would never of started punting.........but once you start ...........