Spending The Money On Something Else

[MJ.spritzen]

I've really cut back on my punting. The last few were forgetful experiences and to be honest i think a combination of porn and deathgrip have effected my performance. Like i rarely cum during sex. It has to be off my wanking onto her tits, ass or face.

So... rather than wasting £60 every week or two, i decided to use it on something worth it - and at the same time get my sensitivity back to normal so i can enjoy sex properly again. I bought a fleshlight a week ago and have been using that instead of wanking off when i feel the need. It does feel a lot like a real pussy. So here's hoping i re-condition my little fella to normal sensations again.

Also, whenever i've felt the urge to see a WG i've instead went out and bought some decent clothes with the money instead. Since two weeks ago alone i've become a much better dressed man.

Looking back, it seems i've been punting out of boredom, or the thrill of actually fucking a stranger. Im more turned on by the walk up to the door than the actually experience of shagging her. Which is a bad sign. I tried to tally all the WG's ive been with, and it must be over 120 over the years. I can only remember the faces/experiences of about 25 of them. The rest are just a blur but i remember the hotel/apt.

[AgedCases]

After a punt, I always feel like I've wasted money. Like I may as well just viewed porn and wanked. Blowjobs now hurt, kisses don't feel as good anymore. I really am considering quitting.

I'm happy that I spent my punting money on a high-end laptop and a camcorder.

[LL]

OP, is there a red light district near your stomping ground?
When I've been skint I've still gotten a kick out of talking to street hookers. Gives me the same buzz I get from approaching the door of a prossie I've booked except you don't have to take it any further than that. I've done this at Edgeware Road, London. Notorious spot for skanky streetwalkers. Then there's the walkups of Soho, London. You can walk up, chat to a prossie, make an excuse - then walk down. And before anyone cries foul play and time waster!  I've only done this once or twice and the same prossies have gotten my cash on a subsequent visit, shortly afterwards when I've been flush enough to give 'em a good seeing to

I agree with you OP, when trying to cut down on punting it's a good idea to take that money you're saving and spend it on something tangible that will give you some pleasure. I've learnt not to  just transfer it into the joint account where it will just disappear as it's gobbled up on heaven knows what.

[threechilliman]

I've learnt not to  just transfer it into the joint account where it will just disappear as it's gobbled up on heaven knows what.

  Completely agree. Nails, hair, make-up, shoes, clothes blah, blah, blah. I consider punting to be similar therapy, but I doubt the Mrs would see it like that

tcm

[Mr Sinister]

Decided to take a hiatus from punting, after a couple of wasted  punts with money thrown down the drain.

Focused on me spending and saving my disposable on things I like,  moved into the world of dating having fun, success finding more exciting than a punt.