Genuine casual sex site?

[Deepstroker]

Fabswingers is a complete con. Its awash with fake profiles,fake verifications, the odd tart and a few prima donnas,,totally fake,rubbish

[willie loman]

You are spot on, and most on here wouldnt waste theri time. 

Some 50 yrs ago at grammar school, a sweet 16 y/o delivered a wonderful put down to a 6th former who thought he was God's gift, lifting her skirt and annoucing "if you've got one of these, you'll always be able to get one of those", pointing to the guy's dick area.  He never bothered her again.

It always amazes me , that men think woman have the upper hand, most woman will tell you there are hardly any decent blokes about. Staggering home with a drunk is ok in your early 20s, who the fuck wants to do that all there life. I am 60 and get hit on by woman plenty, females my age have a lonely old time, and that starts when they are 40.

[billybobsmith]

It always amazes me , that men think woman have the upper hand, most woman will tell you there are hardly any decent blokes about. Staggering home with a drunk is ok in your early 20s, who the fuck wants to do that all there life. I am 60 and get hit on by woman plenty, females my age have a lonely old time, and that starts when they are 40.

I find that a lot of women just want someone the same as the ex that apparently treated them like dirt.  Then they moan about how they want a decent bloke etc. yet constantly go back to the same type and ignore anyone who might be decent.
Look at POF.  Some of them have been on there for years and some come back after a few weeks from a failed relationship as men probably don't want to take their shit and go elsewhere.
A lot of decent men probably know what to expect so would rather be shagging some 19yo.
 

[BigBoi1955]

Fabswingers is a complete con. Its awash with fake profiles,fake verifications, the odd tart and a few prima donnas,,totally fake,rubbish

I don't agree. There are a fair number of fake profiles but the biggest problems are that there are too many single men and those single ladies that are willing to meet are at least 30lbs overweight and not going to be able to celebrate their 50th birthday again.

If you have a fuck buddy or swing partner the site is very good for arranging foursomes but other than that it isn't worth the effort.

[inxs950]

I don't agree. There are a fair number of fake profiles but the biggest problems are that there are too many single men and those single ladies that are willing to meet are at least 30lbs overweight and not going to be able to celebrate their 50th birthday again.

If you have a fuck buddy or swing partner the site is very good for arranging foursomes but other than that it isn't worth the effort.

Completely agree. Im on there and am a decent looking guy but being single male is so hard. Ive had to resort to seeing a 44yr old size 12 (attractive though) just to get into the threesomes and swing clubs. You really need a fb or fwb to get anywhere on there.

[Diehard]

Fab swingers is awful, most women on there are fugly and it just is best avoided.

POF is full of women with confidence issues. I've had a few first dates off there but even at that stage it's clear many are psychotic or manic depressives. On there they do seem to want to have a date before fucking which contrasts to tinder where I have managed a couple of times to be fucking a good looking girl literally within minutes of meeting. However those incidents were over a year ago and I've noted tinder seems to have changed with more girls looking for more than a random hook up.

When tinder first started that is all it was about...casual sex and quickly arranged. It's morphed into a more traditional dating site now though as it has got bigger.

However as others have noted it is full of deranged crazy unstable women. I treat tinder like I do punting...tell the girls bull shit.

Basically it's simple logic. Why would a normal, nice intelligent half good looking young lady ever need to go on a dating site? Simply no need as those girls will be snapped up at university or in a nightclub or on holiday.

No matter what way anyone looks at a casual hook up, the best way is to punt. The medium to be used to punt is only realistically this site nowadays. Do your homework on here and you can't reallly go wrong.

Anybody who pays for access to stuff like adultfriender etc needs a shrink asap.

[inxs950]

Ive been on tinder 3 days and was expecting more women after casual meets.
Its now maybe 90% after relationships but I just use the line that Im not after hook ups or a relationship but something inbetween. You just have to try and plant the seed in their mind that a fb or fwb can be a good thing and they still keep their bungalow and independence.

Its obviously a numbers game but I do like the way it works with the mutual swipe.

[Markus]

I did chat with woman in neighbourhood who sent me naked pics of her hairy bush etc. We arranged to meet, for cash, then that day she said her service would just be basic touching and intimate stroking. She wanted 100 for HJ and I told her to walk. Pity as she had quite a bod and seemed more civvie than usual WG.

My advice in a situation like this would be to negotiate a better rate and go for it. The problem you have is that you are looking at it like a punt. More often than not, you will get more than you bargained for because they are civvies and its not a set agenda list of services like a WG.

Thats my experience anyway 

[BogBog1]

A few years ago I got lucky, just the once, on Craigslist with a hot Indian girl. It quickly went south but I got a night of shagging without resorting to AW. I posted about it on here a while ago - I'll see if I can dig it up and re-post it. Fun, but also a cautionary tale.

[BogBog1]

Here's my original post about this: back in September 2013 (but the event itself happened before that):

It wasn't really a no-strings sex website, but I replied to an ad about 4 years ago that was in the "casual encounters" section of Craiglist (which doesn't exist any more). Whatever I wrote must have worked, because I got a reply, we exchanged a few emails, and arranged to meet that Saturday evening. I turned up, expecting either a no-show, or a complete minger to appear. The girl that appeared was genuine, Indian, petite, sexy, intelligent (a doctor). We had some drinks, some dinner, we snogged, I took her back to my place, we shagged a couple of times (for the record: 6 out of 10), and she spent the night . She left the next morning to go to work. All good so far.... she then proceeded to bombard me with text messages and emails wondering why we weren't meeting up again, how she thought we got on really well, how she couldn't believe I was just after one thing, blah blah.... I did point out to her that that was what the "casual encounters" section of Craigslist was generally meant for, but she was having none of it. Eventually I had to change my mobile number and disable the email address I'd been using for such things, so she couldn't get hold of me. I don't live in London anymore, but for a couple of years I was always slightly on the lookout in case I ran into her.

So anyway, in short: I am living proof that these websites - Craigslist at least - CAN be genuine, maybe very occasionally. But if there are any genuine girls on there, they are probably total nutters. So the conclusion still ends up being: avoid! 

[HighlyMotivated]

Here's my original post about this: back in September 2013 (but the event itself happened before that):

It wasn't really a no-strings sex website, but I replied to an ad about 4 years ago that was in the "casual encounters" section of Craiglist (which doesn't exist any more). Whatever I wrote must have worked, because I got a reply, we exchanged a few emails, and arranged to meet that Saturday evening. I turned up, expecting either a no-show, or a complete minger to appear. The girl that appeared was genuine, Indian, petite, sexy, intelligent (a doctor). We had some drinks, some dinner, we snogged, I took her back to my place, we shagged a couple of times (for the record: 6 out of 10), and she spent the night . She left the next morning to go to work. All good so far.... she then proceeded to bombard me with text messages and emails wondering why we weren't meeting up again, how she thought we got on really well, how she couldn't believe I was just after one thing, blah blah.... I did point out to her that that was what the "casual encounters" section of Craigslist was generally meant for, but she was having none of it. Eventually I had to change my mobile number and disable the email address I'd been using for such things, so she couldn't get hold of me. I don't live in London anymore, but for a couple of years I was always slightly on the lookout in case I ran into her.

So anyway, in short: I am living proof that these websites - Craigslist at least - CAN be genuine, maybe very occasionally. But if there are any genuine girls on there, they are probably total nutters. So the conclusion still ends up being: avoid!

How come you didn't want to meet her again? A petite sexy intelligent doctor... sounds like quite the catch!

[Diehard]

Ive been on tinder 3 days and was expecting more women after casual meets.
Its now maybe 90% after relationships but I just use the line that Im not after hook ups or a relationship but something inbetween. You just have to try and plant the seed in their mind that a fb or fwb can be a good thing and they still keep their bungalow and independence.

Its obviously a numbers game but I do like the way it works with the mutual swipe.

I think all of the filthy ones after casual fucks got pissed off with so many blokes putting fake pics up. Those who want to have sex that day, which was what tinder was originally designed for, are not likely to be requestiing loads of pictures or asking loads of questions as girls who actually want a date tend to.

I used to simply message what time can you get out of work, and which hotel we going to. Back in the day that was all that was required (their reaction to the reality turning up was often legendary but I digress) but if you try that now with matches, even if your pic is of a male model, you will get ignored on most occasions. It's definitely a more mainstream site now.

[BogBog1]

How come you didn't want to meet her again? A petite sexy intelligent doctor... sounds like quite the catch!

Simple - had recently gone through a break-up and I wasn't in the market for a girlfriend!

[Lizzie_Lockhart]

I was on Sex In The UK when I was 19, had a lot of fun NSA meets.  Mostly one offs but there was one guy I saw a few times, we'd have sex in his car, outside or on one occasion his living room floor in the middle of the night while his "mum" (probably wife when I think back) was asleep upstairs...

It seems that sites gone or changed names now though

X

[Citybased]

I have had lots of fun meets off fab....singles and the odd couple...it takes some work but by being respectful and non pushy then success can be achieved....most of my meets were not with stunners but then when I look in the mirror I don't see a hunk. Some of the meets took sometime to arrange but also  I have intially messaged a lady and been spraying her face inside three hours at the other end of the scale. I would say if you were prepared to have a 1 meet for every 100 approaches then Fab will deliver.

[bigmanbigman]

Sorry i think fab is shit and you have been v lucky

[nervous1]

Went through a period at the end of last year when I joined Fab and POF.  The latter was a complete waste of time messaging every half decent looking women within 100 miles with my crap pic.  The few I received interest from just not good looking at all.  Think I paid about £30 for certain site features and forgot to cancel and didn't realize it was recurring 

Fab was a waste of time but I did visit one of the advertised swinger meets, got stuck in and was verified by the guy who organized it.  Have noticed more interest from couples since I was verified.  Unless your fit & handsome then you've just got to try and get yourself to a meet.  Whole thing is not for me but being patient and genuine will bring rewards.

Does anyone here just go into the busiest part of town on a busy night on a pub crawl by themselves?  Something I keep meaning to do but don't really have the bottle.  I mean, who wants their friends & family seeing their pics and personal details on one of these sites when you could just go out and do it the old fashioned way?  Women seem to always check these sites for people they know so it must put other women off.

[mediumjoe]

Back of the local paper, advert from nsa , example. Lisa 37  voluptuous seductive and very saucy seeks male for no strings fun, then one of those £1.50 per sms numbers. There are also some women actually looking for a partner/ husband.
 I know I'm a little bit naive sometimes but Lisa 37, is it a scam is she actually a prostitute or what?
Just curious really .

[Citybased]

Sorry i think fab is shit and you have been v lucky

Not lucky at all...just choosy about who I contact and how I conduct myself, I am a gentleman at all times, I got chatting to couple and after a lot of massages, moving on to a short phone chat and then a Skype chat and a social in a public park before finally playing together after a second social meet for a meal/drinks...all in all it took five months from first message...but I have been invited around to there place a few times now...so patience and non pushy essential.

[silver rider]

The three "free" myths - there is no such thing as..

1. A Free Lunch
2. A Free Ride
3.  Free Sex...)
(no.4 could be Free Love )

If you do attain any of these for little or no cost you are very lucky man indeed! I've never done it, the free lunch usually resulted in doing a rotten job for the boss, the free ride there was always a favour to be done at the end of it, and the free sex/love always ended up costing  thousands more than what the average WG charges(they are excellent VFM hope none see this post!), usually a house and a wedding or alimony...so there yer go...

[bigmanbigman]

I think if we did a string pole about fab swing ers it would end as good 1 shit 999

[Sir Lance-a-lot]

For Fabswingers, it probably depends on what you're into.  If you're into shagging fat middle-aged munters, or being the meat in a granny-and-grandpa sandwich, then you're probably OK with it.  For the rest of us, it's maybe not so appealing.

I did look into it awhile back.  If you're a single hetero male with reasonably normal tastes, you need verifications to get anywhere.  You can photo-verify yourself, but you can't pick up a meeting-verification except by being given one by someone else who already has one - so you can't just create a dummy account to verify yourself, as neither account would have one.

So you have to meet a verified member to get started.  And basically that means going to a swingers club and shagging someone, I guess - or maybe just following people around like a sad autograph-hunter.  Once you have one, there must be a temptation to start faking the rest!

Too much hassle for me.

[peter_bungee]

Iv had lots of luck on tinder but you obviously have to go on dates and pretend you wan a relationship first

Id ratHer do that than punting these days which i find too impersonal

[Xxxcarne]

Fabs ok if you are patient

I have noticed a lot of women fantasising tho
They like the idea but shit out when its time for business i have had 4 couple meets in one month on their 2/4 where good

[bigmanbigman]

whats 2/4 ? On fabs comments above ?

[BigBoi1955]

whats 2/4 ? On fabs comments above ?

I think he  is repeating the fact that 2 out of the 4 meets were good

[BP96]

Iv had lots of luck on tinder but you obviously have to go on dates and pretend you wan a relationship first

Id ratHer do that than punting these days which i find too impersonal

You should try seeking arrangement then, somewhere between the two.

[Citybased]

For Fabswingers, it probably depends on what you're into.  If you're into shagging fat middle-aged munters, or being the meat in a granny-and-grandpa sandwich, then you're probably OK with it.  For the rest of us, it's maybe not so appealing.

I did look into it awhile back.  If you're a single hetero male with reasonably normal tastes, you need verifications to get anywhere.  You can photo-verify yourself, but you can't pick up a meeting-verification except by being given one by someone else who already has one - so you can't just create a dummy account to verify yourself, as neither account would have one.

So you have to meet a verified member to get started.  And basically that means going to a swingers club and shagging someone, I guess - or maybe just following people around like a sad autograph-hunter.  Once you have one, there must be a temptation to start faking the rest!

Too much hassle for me.

I smiled at your meat in the granny/grandpa line when I think back to one of the couples I met, they were mid 30's and she was a slim stunner dressed in Victoria secrets undies under classy clothing, I still get hard thinking about her standing in front of her very relaxed hubby as I run my hands over body and slowly undress her...btw I am 58 but still not a grandad in legal terms. Fab was indeed Fab on that occasion :-)

[cash2spare]

The women who I've met on POF all seem to have issues as stated elsewhere in this thread. Got a few decent no strings shags from hooking up with ladies in chat rooms believe it or not, they were married but gagging for it, filthy as well 

With punting you do your homework, find what you want, pays yer money and fucks, simples! No mither, no emails, no phone calls, no threats, no aggro, no worries.

[bigmanbigman]

Had a  pof meeting ok shag etc
But
Constance texting from then every 10 mins
Just hell
A wg takes your cock and shuts the fuck up
No payback needed after.

[TPreston]

The groundwork and texting needed on POF, Tinder and Fab just makes them not worth the hassle IMO. No guarantees and the photos are often beyond flattering.

SA has worked a treat for me. But im youngish, average sized and not ugly. The fact they deem you successful turns you from a run of the mill 6 into a 9 and the nature of the site and the messages they receive from others mean sex is part of the plan when you meet. Most active users of the site have had a freebie or at very least an incredible value for money punt with a little less clinical nature.

[3HK]

Craigslist has been really good for me, I have had 4 meets from there in the last year. All girls in their twenties, nice bodies.

Pof was better a few years ago, I was recently on there but wasn't impressed with the quality but you can find girls up for fun.

Fabswingers was crap, majority fat old women. I joined late last year, had 5 meets (not great quality), found a couple of girls on fab who were also on adultwork, i wanted to meet one in particular but I deleted my account when we were trying to arrange something. I think I will rejoin fab in a few months to see her as she specialises in rimming.

Profilepic.com is a good site, been using that on and off for years, so easy, Tinder is also easy once you get past the initial vetting stage.

Is Adult friend finder still going?

[billydrummer]

I use Tinder when I am out of the country working, and have fantastic levels of success - I think it's probably down to the fact my bio goes along the lines of 'British guy here for the week, looking for someone to hang with for drinks'... like the expectation of getting into anything long term is ruled out from the start.  I haven't used it over here (much harder to manage due to family circumstances).  Also what surprised me was that I previously thought Tinder was a young'uns thing, but it turns out it's not - I'm the wrong side of 40 and when I use it seem to get most matches from people 8-12 years younger than me.

I don't mind putting in a bit of leg work with messaging back and forth etc as my issue comes from not being able to handle anything remotely regularly (and neither would I want to). So reading what you guys are all saying, if it's short term no-strings then there is no real solution than to punt?

[dieseldriver]

Craigslist has been really good for me, I have had 4 meets from there in the last year. All girls in their twenties, nice bodies.

So how you get that? Since I discovered CL some years back, just one. And she wasn't in her twenties either. Late sixties not getting it from her hubby. Out of the multitude of replying to posts, and replies to my posts, all I ever get is you can chat with me here, for my safety need to verify yourself here, and so on and so on. Giving up on CL. Too much hassle trying to get a fuck......

[Deepstroker]

Although i said fab was mostly shit and fake and notice i failed to qualify my comment by saying that over the years i have fucked two girls off there. One was totally random. Right place right time. Early morning, got chatting she gave me her address.Couldnt believe it. Went round thinking it had got to be a scam,,she had left the door slightly open as requested. Went in,she was in dressing gown,dropped it,totally naked,,,debauched her. Another,got invited round on two separate occasions. Milf type/husband "away" type of story,,totally hot and horny on both occasions...so yes, it can work,,but it requires either random luck or massive massive effort. Me, i think i just got lucky twice but i maintain its mostly faked and most of the veris are faked also..just my opinion.

[Citybased]

Although i said fab was mostly shit and fake and notice i failed to qualify my comment by saying that over the years i have fucked two girls off there. One was totally random. Right place right time. Early morning, got chatting she gave me her address.Couldnt believe it. Went round thinking it had got to be a scam,,she had left the door slightly open as requested. Went in,she was in dressing gown,dropped it,totally naked,,,debauched her. Another,got invited round on two separate occasions. Milf type/husband "away" type of story,,totally hot and horny on both occasions...so yes, it can work,,but it requires either random luck or massive massive effort. Me, i think i just got lucky twice but i maintain its mostly faked and most of the veris are faked also..just my opinion.

I agree entirely and have similar experience...hard work but bloody fun when you manage a strikeout, I walked away after one similar encounter absolutely buzzing an still get hard thinking about it...one for the wank bank lol

[sparkus]

There was a bird on tube this morning, big rack and arse but nowt flash looks at all, fiddling with Match.com app on phone. I'm guessing if her profile pic only showed the face then blokes would miss out on potential fun with the cracking bod.

[jusintime]

Best to book a classy escort i would say.  I can let you know of some.

[Home Alone]

Best to book a classy escort i would say.  I can let you know of some.

Can u really? So why haven't you reviewed any of them on here?!

[TPreston]

Although i said fab was mostly shit and fake and notice i failed to qualify my comment by saying that over the years i have fucked two girls off there. One was totally random. Right place right time. Early morning, got chatting she gave me her address.Couldnt believe it. Went round thinking it had got to be a scam,,she had left the door slightly open as requested. Went in,she was in dressing gown,dropped it,totally naked,,,debauched her. Another,got invited round on two separate occasions. Milf type/husband "away" type of story,,totally hot and horny on both occasions...so yes, it can work,,but it requires either random luck or massive massive effort. Me, i think i just got lucky twice but i maintain its mostly faked and most of the veris are faked also..just my opinion.

Where the women attractive?

I had my first ever FAB meet last week. A girl invited me to hers for a brew and a social meet, she was nice if unattractive. Had a chat for a couple of hours, I asked to go for a piss and she refused to let me use her loo.

[fredpunter]

Back of the local paper, advert from nsa , example. Lisa 37  voluptuous seductive and very saucy seeks male for no strings fun, then one of those £1.50 per sms numbers. There are also some women actually looking for a partner/ husband.
 I know I'm a little bit naive sometimes but Lisa 37, is it a scam is she actually a prostitute or what?
Just curious really .

£1.50 per sms .... is it a scam ? ... yes I think you probably are a little naive sometimes 

[3HK]

So how you get that? Since I discovered CL some years back, just one. And she wasn't in her twenties either. Late sixties not getting it from her hubby. Out of the multitude of replying to posts, and replies to my posts, all I ever get is you can chat with me here, for my safety need to verify yourself here, and so on and so on. Giving up on CL. Too much hassle trying to get a fuck......

I reply to posts, send a pic and take it from there.
Met up with another from Craigslist in the week who responded to my ad.
Try not to make you reply too long, obviously the site is full of bots and spammers but some real gems in there too

[bigmanbigman]

So op whats this magical ad
Sex for a present ?

[Randy Mcknob]

Where the women attractive?

I had my first ever FAB meet last week. A girl invited me to hers for a brew and a social meet, she was nice if unattractive. Had a chat for a couple of hours, I asked to go for a piss and she refused to let me use her loo.

So she was into watersports and this ended with you hosing her down with a tank full of the amber nectar?

[bigmanbigman]

So she was into watersports and this ended with you hosing her down with a tank full of the amber nectar?

she did think you wanted to take the piss but was not having it.

[peestee]

If you are a decent looking guy Tinder works a treat. If you are not a good looking guy but have adequately low standards it also works a treat.

sure?

i hardly get paired, tried few times...
and im decent...

so im doubt it...

[bigmanbigman]

Tinder worst than pof
Very limited .

[sharklaser]

Been using tinder and POF on and off for ages, not a chance you will find a genuine relationship on there in my opinion. Even the fat ones on it think they are supermodels as so many guys are messaging them.

Shagged a young woman (early 20s) a few times in her flat from a tinder meet up...but it got strange in the end up. She was set on me being a catfish...i.e being married and having kids which are untrue all because we agreed to meet up then I had to cancel...obviously never took it well!

Thought I had genuinely won the lottery on POF when I met a stunning young mixed race woman (mid 20s) for a few drinks. She said she was in my home city for work around once a month for a few days. In my head, I was thinking that as she is only here for work it must be short term casual fuck she is after which could be unbelievable if she is here regular and has a hotel room in the city centre. Said she was looking for long term though which I thought made no sense due to the geography involved.

It is a difficult one...we all want to meet a woman for a fuck but I am not sure if casual hook up sites is the answer...I am a decent enough looking guy and I get next to no luck most of my friends are in the same boat...most are paranoid about being catfished and want you to invest time in them before they give anything in return. Crawling pubs and clubs can also be soul destroying unless you are highly skilled in flirting etc but probably more beneficial if you know the right places to go and what to look for etc.

[mediumjoe]

£1.50 per sms .... is it a scam ? ... yes I think you probably are a little naive sometimes 

Fair point but used these  back of the local paper hookups regularly 10 years ago, to find a full time partner and had a lot of success, probably 14 regular sex women in 18 months (a lot cheaper then )
There are still a lot of adverts for women seeking partners in the paper now.

But it's the other ads mixed in, could some of them be amateur WG's ?  Anyone tried ?

[itk]

Don't waste your time with these sex sites.
Pay to punt and you get to fuck girls who are normally way out of your league.

+1.