I have been on and off there for a few years and have had several meets, you just have to persevere.
And Im no oil painting, Im 61 and a few stone overweight.
I have a liking for larger mature women so the fact that a lot of the women on there are not young stunners doesnt bother me at all, although one woman I met was absolutely stunning, mid 30s and a gym toned body to die for,sadly it was a one off but Im still seeing one woman regularly for the past 3 years or so. And yes just like anywhere you will meet you fair share of nutcases, always meet for coffee first - a lesson I learned the hard way