I'm not sure I like the sound of this post. I would question the OP's intentions and those of the only other respondent. Am I the only one ... ?
It didn't sound sinister or twisted to me. Some girls are genuinely sub and enjoy it.
I recently saw a girl who whilst adventurous, I wasn't sure about the degree of submissiveness she'd enjoy, so I arranged a quick call with her, laid out boundaries and everything went off just fine. Better than fine in fact. I'm due to see her again next week, so she clearly knows that she's not ACTUALLY being demeaned in any way, despite us getting very intense indeed.
I'm pretty experienced in domming with sub girls, but I operate a colour coded safe word system. If they don't mention any colour, then they are fine with it. If they say "amber" that means that she likes it, but if you are going to continue, do so with consideration. The instant she says "red" I stop.
No ifs, buts or others.
A good many girls say that I'm very good at helping them push their limits safely and with total trust, and I enjoy it hugely.
Being dominant is not about one person submitting others to their will reluctantly, it is about a mutual pleasure that comes from total understanding and trust.
I tell all girls that I would never dream of engaging in verbal abuse anywhere outside of the fantasy. In fact with a previous regular I ended up getting very close to, we'd have increasingly far out Dom/sub sessions, but afterwards conclude by having slow, intense, very loving and tender sex.
Make of that what you will...