I have my own kit/kink bag with various toys, ties, oils, syrups etc, plus QoL stuff (my own toiletries, some comfy silky pjs, some painkillers, sports towel, blue pills, inhaler)
I tend to take choccies, pastries or ice cream to most meets. I like to see a girl eat.
Regulars, especially for longer meets, get gifts from me for sure. High heels, bodycon dresses, lingerie. Doesn't break the bank from somewhere like Asos or Lovehoney.