Any advice for a first time punter?

[NottsGuy0811]

Good afternoon

I was just looking for some advice as a 'first timer'. I've been keen to know what the experience is like for a while now, but haven't been able to bite the bullet lol... Mainly down to the fact that I'm a slightly 'larger' guy and worried what some escorts may think of me. Normally I have the "don't give a shit, get on with it" approach to new things and go for it, but this seems different... Don't ask why! 

Any advice would be helpful. Also, how long was your first ever punt with an escort? 30/60/90 mins etc.

Thanks! 

[NigelF]

Good afternoon

I was just looking for some advice as a 'first timer'. I've been keen to know what the experience is like for a while now, but haven't been able to bite the bullet lol... Mainly down to the fact that I'm a slightly 'larger' guy and worried what some escorts may think of me. Normally I have the "don't give a shit, get on with it" approach to new things and go for it, but this seems different... Don't ask why! 

Any advice would be helpful. Also, how long was your first ever punt with an escort? 30/60/90 mins etc.

Thanks! 

Have a read of this: External Link/Members Only

I'd also recommend having a read of at least some of the other "featured" topics on this page: External Link/Members Only

As for being a larger guy, don't worry about it. There's loads of threads about it, most recently this one: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=226523.0

But also many others (hence you should make use of the search function on here):
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=16982
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=13389
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=56320.0

After you've had your first punt, make sure to do a review (External Link/Members Only).

I can't exactly remember if my first punt was 30 mins or an hour, I think it was 30 mins. In terms of what I'd recommend, certainly no more than an hour for a first visit (mainly because she might be rubbish and you don't want to have to spend more than you need to to find that out). Indeed that applies to first visits with all girls not just your first ever punt.

[4xvx]

1 hour, and it's only 1 hour of your life you have lost if it's shit.

[Sonny Crockett]

I would start with shorter and cheaper punts with well reviewed WGs.

[nodough]

For my first punt I booked an hour with a well experienced SP, ended up staying 1hr 45mins and had a wonderful experience start to finish. That said, if you can go in with enough confidence (not be awkward and nervous) then just go for 30mins as you'll be less likely to regret it if things don't go amazingly and if they do you'll know it's worth going back for longer next time.

[fairfield]

....."don't give a shit, get on with it" ......

Hi Mr D,
If you don't mind me saying - your own advice is as good as any i've heard on here. Or maybe you could say "if at first you dont succeed - try, try and try again ?
Bcs in my (limited) experience, with punting you're gonna have to be prepared to face as many ups as downs - and i dont mean the ones of the  bedroom type of action.

And shouldnt be trying to put you off before you've even started - but my own first "punt" was 40 mins of no sex hiding in a dilapidated room with some young rom kid who was terrified of her madam. (i was all geared up to confront the hag, bcs all the pro$$ies were busy and she'd sent in some emaciated waif instead. The kid was so frightened that she convinced me to wait for the madam to push off before i left. i got so bored i even fell asleep.)   

[threechilliman]

Good afternoon

I was just looking for some advice as a 'first timer'. I've been keen to know what the experience is like for a while now, but haven't been able to bite the bullet lol... Mainly down to the fact that I'm a slightly 'larger' guy and worried what some escorts may think of me. Normally I have the "don't give a shit, get on with it" approach to new things and go for it, but this seems different... Don't ask why! 

Any advice would be helpful. Also, how long was your first ever punt with an escort? 30/60/90 mins etc.

Thanks! 

No more than an hour for your maiden punt and pick someone who's got plenty of green reviews then you have a chance of a good time. Take yer own advice though and get on with it.

[Stevensmiles]

Em!!!!     When you say your large.

Don’t worry. There’s lots of us blokes on here with big knobs. 

[NottsGuy0811]

Em!!!!     When you say your large.

Don’t worry. There’s lots of us blokes on here with big knobs. 

Made me laugh more than it should of 

[NottsGuy0811]

Thanks everyone, and to those with detailed responses... Wasn't expecting that much effort lol. It's much appreciated though!

I think I'll just bite the bullet and go for it, after checking out AW and seeing who tickles me pickle

[blackburnian]

Thanks everyone, and to those with detailed responses... Wasn't expecting that much effort lol. It's much appreciated though!

I think I'll just bite the bullet and go for it, after checking out AW and seeing who tickles me pickle

Others advice is generally sound - just don't overthink or over plan , some of the best punts I've had are where we've both just gone with the flow .
If you have zero expectations for punt number 1 other than having empty balls at the end then not too much can go amiss .

Bb

[Charliehutton]

Forget this talk of an hour, Mr D. That would be ridiculously expensive, and leave you 35 minutes to read the paper. Half an hour is plenty.

[hillingdonpete]

Don't buy her flowers.

[Token]

Over 10 years punting (on and off) experience and my advice is start with 30 minutes at most.
Go with decent SP unless you've got thick skin. it's way easier to get disappointed at the start.

[blackburnian]

Don't buy her flowers.

Or bring presents 

Bb

[lewisjones23]

remember to treat her well

[OakTree]

Personally if it was me I’d book an hour. That gives you plenty of time to get a grip of what’s going on. It’ll give you time to settle your nerves and then have a no rushed period of time to fuck around. You can have a five minute chat at the end, shower and fuck off.

If you’re punting in the NW this May narrow down your search a bit.
External Link/Members Only.

Pick a girl that’s well reviewed and don’t turn one down because she looks way too fit and out of you’re league. In punting none of that bullshit counts. If you’ve got the money, she’s got the time no matter how good looking she is.

[blackburnian]

remember to treat her well

And with respect 

Bb

[Stevensmiles]

Oh absolutely spot on

Every good review should finish with “Treat her with respect chaps” 

[Silver Birch]

I booked 1 hour for my first punt but was out within 30 mins (my choice).

After my first pop the wg went to clean up and was gone about 5 mins, by the time she came back for the 2nd round I was dressed and ready to leave.

The whole scenario seemed sordid and tacky and I decided punting wasn't for me after all.

As we all know, once you step over that line, there is no going back. Once a punter, always a punter.

[Jonestown]

30 minutes before lunch, just to get a taste for it, then 30 minutes after lunch, with another girl, just to correct any mistakes, then you should be fit to fly solo any time you want.

[tynetunnel]

Personally if it was me I’d book an hour. That gives you plenty of time to get a grip of what’s going on. It’ll give you time to settle your nerves and then have a no rushed period of time to fuck around. You can have a five minute chat at the end, shower and fuck off.

I agree. You need time for a chat, and to steady your nerves at the start, a good WG will know how to do this and know when you are more relaxed. Tell her when you book, it’s your first time and you’ll be nervous.

Pick a girl that’s well reviewed and don’t turn one down because she looks way too fit and out of you’re league. In punting none of that bullshit counts. If you’ve got the money, she’s got the time no matter how good looking she is.

Again, I agree. Pick someone you fancy the pants off and would NEVER stand a chance with in real life, make sure she is positively reviewed, and book her! Enjoy 

[Ali Katt]

I agree. You need time for a chat, and to steady your nerves at the start, a good WG will know how to do this and know when you are more relaxed. Tell her when you book, it’s your first time and you’ll be nervous.


Again, I agree. Pick someone you fancy the pants off and would NEVER stand a chance with in real life, make sure she is positively reviewed, and book her! Enjoy 

I agree 100% with the second paragraph. The first one I disagree with, why state the obvious if he is nervous she will know instantly, if he says it's his first time it sets him for being taken advantage of, having his time talked away, 20 minute massage, handjob at every opportunity to make him cum faster.

[NigelF]

I agree 100% with the second paragraph. The first one I disagree with, why state the obvious if he is nervous she will know instantly, if he says it's his first time it sets him for being taken advantage of, having his time talked away, 20 minute massage, handjob at every opportunity to make him cum faster.

I agree. However the risk of that can be mitigated by choosing a well reviewed girl (on here) but it could still happen. I'd also add that telling a girl it's your first time can unfortunately be a bit of a red flag to them, for a variety of reasons, mainly because because it often signals a timewaster or someone who's likely to flake. I suppose once you arrive it doesn't really matter (as long as they didn't double book because they thought you weren't likely to show) but some girls may still think you're "playing games" or something. Others may just get a bit more nervous because of the added pressure (as they know or will at least assume your first punt is more of a "big deal" for you).

IMO, there's no need to tell a girl it's your first time. As you say, most WG's (especially the good ones) will be able to detect and deal with nervousness anyway.

[Rochelle]

I agree. However the risk of that can be mitigated by choosing a well reviewed girl (on here) but it could still happen. I'd also add that telling a girl it's your first time can unfortunately be a bit of a red flag to them, for a variety of reasons, mainly because because it often signals a timewaster or someone who's likely to flake. I suppose once you arrive it doesn't really matter (as long as they didn't double book because they thought you weren't likely to show) but some girls may still think you're "playing games" or something. Others may just get a bit more nervous because of the added pressure (as they know or will at least assume your first punt is more of a "big deal" for you).

IMO, there's no need to tell a girl it's your first time. As you say, most WG's (especially the good ones) will be able to detect and deal with nervousness anyway.

Sometimes it's better to mention it...
In comms, I've had guys tell me that they're shy, or they've never done it before and they'll need me to take the lead. I tell them that I'm not the type to take the lead and maybe they should find someone else.

[NigelF]

Sometimes it's better to mention it...
In comms, I've had guys tell me that they're shy, or they've never done it before and they'll need me to take the lead. I tell them that I'm not the type to take the lead and maybe they should find someone else.

As I alluded to in my posts and as is included in the links earlier, the importance of doing your research on here is paramount, if he does that, he should hopefully know to avoid WGs like you.

Even so, just because you don't like taking the lead doesn't necessarily mean he'd have a bad time. Also, being new and nervous isn't exactly the same as needing to be led, nor does it necessarily mean they're shy. Indeed there are slight hints in the OP's posts:

Normally I have the "don't give a shit, get on with it" approach to new things and go for it

Also, your honesty is extremely rare. Most girls don't try to put off punters. For example, I often ask for "plenty of Deep French Kissing" during comms and it's very rare for a girl to be honest and say they don't offer that or to temper my expectations. It is much more common for them to say they do/fully agree to it and then only deliver FK or just closed mouth/lip kissing (and/or only do it fairly briefly/it's not plentiful like they agreed) - even with girls who are fairly well reviewed on here.

[NottsGuy0811]

Think it's always better to tell someone you're a little bit nervous, then they can accommodate for that when meeting. If I was the one giving out the advice to myself anyway lol.

Just having a good rummage around AW and such like, hot listed a few that take my fancy... Planning on having my first 'punt' next week as a birthday treat to myself

Thanks again to everyone that's replied on here, much appreciated!

[tynetunnel]

Good lad! Enjoy your birthday punt and just go with the flow. Provided you pick a well reviewed girl who floats your boat, I guarantee you’ll walk away with a grin wider than the river Trent!