Reasons Not To Quit Punting Please

[Skills]

After a number of disappointing experience, incl. one today, (see my review of Kama in London), I just want to quit this punting scene for good.

I'm not expecting support on this: quite the reverse, I'm looking to be persuaded to stay as I'm seriously fed up of paying to have some nice memories when I'm old and grey and simply just throwing money down the drain instead.

Help!

[Steely Dan]

See my last review.  Road trip to Nottingham.  You wont quit.

[Jonestown]

No need to make a big thing of it, just stop for a day, a week, a month, see how it goes, maybe you won't want to come back, maybe you will.

(Just don't check in here every day, or we all know what will happen, you'll be back punting at the weekend)

[mrdiamond77]

Just take a break from punting for about a month or two and then see how you feel.

[Redbull4]

I took a break for six months. Now im wanting to punt again. Hopefully this weekend!!

[anonyorks]

Take a break. I've not punted for 6 weeks due to losing the buzz of it since my reg retired

[bod666]

Alternatively make a booking with a girl you find attractive who has good feedback on here. Having a great experience reinvigorates you to want to do it more. Shitty experiences make you wonder what the fuck you're doing wasting the money.

You're only wasting it if you're having bad experiences.

Alternatively if you can't have a good time with one of the known good service providers then punting isn't for you and you should quit.

Just read some of the ops reviews - you're having a lot of bad luck and I'd say there are warning signs there if you're having bad experiences with well reviewed girls. If youre clean, respectful and friendly you should have a good time with a good service provider.

[cueball]

Pack it in or take a break, it's up to you but this hobby is far too expensive to not enjoying.

[Georgejetson]

Reason number one. You will die someday. And shortly before that you will think back to these years. And You will remember one or two of the outstanding punts. None of the bad. Frankly you might remember 10 of anything that happened this last 12 months. But if you had ONE outstanding punt you will remember it vividly with a smile on your face as they replace your colostomy bag. Then you can tell Odin about it in Valhalla.  Yet there  will not be 5 of your neurons left for Kama 5 years from now.

[twwb]

your post in the 'road to punting' thread seems to say that you build up each punt too much, so much so that they might struggle to live up your expectations. As others have said, maybe take a break, and a break from the porn while you're at it.

[Spacecowb0y]

Porn and self pleasuring will reduce your sensitivity to sex with a SP. Take a break from that and punting,then see how you feel in a months time. If you come back to punting,go see a sure thing girl and have a great time. If it's not great,then this is not for you,and quit

[catweazle]

I think it was the late Kenneth Williams who said (and OK, it was said about gay sex, but the sentiment is valid for straight, too):

"You wouldn't want to go to your grave regretting that you didn't have more fun with your genital organs"

[smiths]

After a number of disappointing experience, incl. one today, (see my review of Kama in London), I just want to quit this punting scene for good.

I'm not expecting support on this: quite the reverse, I'm looking to be persuaded to stay as I'm seriously fed up of paying to have some nice memories when I'm old and grey and simply just throwing money down the drain instead.

Help!

If my punting was as bad as you are experiencing I would of quit already. If you aren't enjoying it punting is far too expensive to carry on doing in my view, so my advice is quit or take a break.

[OakTree]

Reason number one. You will die someday. And shortly before that you will think back to these years.

I use to think that would probably be the case but I've come to realise that is unlikely. I've had many outstanding punts but I can't say I ever sit there in a quiet moment dreamily thinking of them. I don't even use them as wank bank fodder. Although fair to say I'm not at this moment about to breathe my last.

Fucking hot women (and the only way I can do that is by paying for it) is a short term scratch for a long term itch. That's not to say I don't enjoy it but the idea that it will bring peace of mind to yearnings of a carnal nature is to my mind unfounded.
 

If you need a reason to not quit then I would happily accept I'm free of this cash draining, potential family wrecking and shaming spectical (if found out).

There is far more to life than fucking for cash. This pastime can make you lose sight of that.

[vt]

Yes, punting is a short-term scratch for a long-term itch.

But, if you're not currently feeling the itch, don't waste your cash scratching it. 

Take a break and I'm sure the itch will come back at some point, just make sure you find a well-recommended 'backscratcher' when it does. 

[tantric talents]

make a booking with a girl you find attractive who has good feedback on here. Having a great experience reinvigorates you to want to do it more. Shitty experiences make you wonder what the fuck you're doing wasting the money.

So true.
Apart from some lucky Toftts most of my best experiences have been with girls well recommended here! Don't give up just yet 

[SirNigel]

Try FBSM - just lay back, and let them do all the work. I hit that point some time ago. I find more often than not, I walk away happy/content, and rarely feel like I've wasted my cash.

[Redhead Lover]

Instead of trying to get a quickie from a non-WG after hours of buying her drinks, small-talk, etc, etc, seeing a WG who'll let you put your cock right down her throat and cover her face with your cum. 

[lewisjones23]

havent punted since about September

sometimes think i'll book something in but got bigger fish to fry at the minute - if this years current hot model stops working then soon enough the next one will be along

££££ too big a pull

[Skills]

Thanks for all the advice; all very valid and thought provoking. Much appreciated.

[peter purves]

I use to think that would probably be the case but I've come to realise that is unlikely. I've had many outstanding punts but I can't say I ever sit there in a quiet moment dreamily thinking of them. I don't even use them as wank bank fodder. Although fair to say I'm not at this moment about to breathe my last.

Fucking hot women (and the only way I can do that is by paying for it) is a short term scratch for a long term itch. That's not to say I don't enjoy it but the idea that it will bring peace of mind to yearnings of a carnal nature is to my mind unfounded.
 

If you need a reason to not quit then I would happily accept I'm free of this cash draining, potential family wrecking and shaming spectical (if found out).

There is far more to life than fucking for cash. This pastime can make you lose sight of that.

Philosophical musings 

[OakTree]

Philosophical musings 

Yep, thats all they are. It won't stop me.

[peter purves]

Yep, thats all they are. It won't stop me.

  ...No off course not.

However, back to the philosophical musings. I think this is where I am at - and have been here for perhaps most of my punting life - that at a fundamental level it is not bringing me happiness - almost like drug use (ie a substitute). Though of course there are good times like you say.

 

[GreyDave]

Instead of trying to get a quickie from a non-WG after hours of buying her drinks, small-talk, etc, etc, seeing a WG who'll let you put your cock right down her throat and cover her face with your cum. 

As you get older and things start to wane ( yeah yeah there maybe a few still in their eighties going at it but most will slow up /stop)
You might regret not seeing x type of girl and y type etc and doing DP, DVP Anal and not even sucking some cock ..

But the line from Redheadlover sums it up best its cheaper and quicker 

[Georgejetson]

Ok. Here is another reason. Haven't you always wanted superpowers? I have. When I close my eyes and imagine superpowers I imagine I can open my arms, face the wind , and fly! Or I can blink 3 times and be invisible! Or I can live forever!  Or I can I can fuck anyone I want! Well... only the last of these is semi-possible. You can fuck any of some 200,000 working women (basically "anyone" in any real sense).  That's what punting is. A superpower. And let's face it...the only reason you want to be invisible is to see hot women naked or having sex and jerk off anyway. And you wanted to fly to go see them.  Punting is better than that.  So keep punting. It is the only superpower available. If one of those 200,000 women didn't work out....you have 199,999 to go. That's on you. Not fate.

[SELLOUT]

If you feel like you have had a not so good punt...Take a long break (2-3 months) Come back refreshed.

[BlueRock]

Take a break, I have a few times. There's some top ladies out there not just looks but some are genuinely a good laugh always put a smile on my face not just with the sex.
Tend to stop when I meet someone but to honest its dating I quit as too many damaged goods and insanity cases out there!

[Georgejetson]

Your personal instructions are in The Clash's lyrics for the Song "Should I Stay of Should I go".  They wrote those lyrics with you and this matter in mind.

[Skills]

Er, thanks for that?

[Bangers and Gash]

Reasons Not To Quit Punting? 

How about: If you don't spend it on pro$$ies the chances are your other half will waste it on shoes, clothes and other miscellaneous crap.

[RobbieLondon]

Sorry to go all deep on you but:
Ask youself some simple questions:
1) why did I start has that changed?
2) are there alternatives for the same price, personal price, emotional price, fiancial price.
3) is the problem my selection process

[SELLOUT]

I had a utter and disgusting punt yesterday.

Punts like that definitely want to make you quit. I can understand where your coming from OP.

[The_Don]

I had a utter and disgusting punt yesterday.

Please share via a review, if and when you have the time 

[SELLOUT]

Yes will do. Currently in the process of getting over it. 

[The_Don]

Yes will do. Currently in the process of getting over it. 

That Punting:
 

is wondrous, with treasures to satiate desires both subtle and gross. But it's not for the timid