As those of you have read my book will know I am something of an aficionado and expert of this.
However I didn’t have my first experience until 1996 after well over a hundred punts. It was something that prior to that I’d never really thought about, never mind desired. I didn’t know it was a service that existed - I suppose it was a little like kissing in that respect.
I had read an erotic letter in a porn mag when I was sixteen or seventeen about it and found it a turn on, but I would have found anything a turn on back then.
As I say I barely thought about it again after that and had getting on for 120 punts when a girl in City Sauna Sheffield asked me out of the blue if I wanted to try it. She charged £10 extra that’s why she asked. It did turn me on coming as it did out of the blue like that, so I tried it and have been hooked ever since.
Being more submissive I have always received. The only time I have given was once with a regular, Jessica, whom I turned on to it. Once I got her into it, by showing her some lesbian w/s films which she loved!, she gave enthusiastically and wanted me to return the favour but I could only manage it on the one occasion. She however only received it from the neck down. In more recent years Charlie in Barking (a w/s expert) asked me to do it but I failed to oblige.
Giving doesn’t do that much for me, although if a girl really wanted me to I would certainly try.
What it is about it I don’t know. It’s just the physical sensation and the psychology of it I suppose.
As I say in my book believe it or not some
are better at it than others. It’s to do with the control and flow and I’ve also come across a lot who offer it but then can’t oblige.
The other problem as people have asked is when and where does it take place. Well firstly I hate it in the bath or shower. It’s uncomfortable. I much prefer it lying on a towel on the floor and all my best experiences have been this way. However some providers understandably will only do it in the bath or shower which these days tends to put me off. I even had one girl in a Sheffield establishment who soaked the fucking bed. She did say she was leaving the place!
When to receive it can also be a problem. The timing has to be just right. Sometimes I have climaxed whilst receiving, other times I’ve cleaned up and carried on. I have had a few girls offer to do it after I’ve climaxed, however I have always refused this as at that point it would do absolutely nothing for me.
The best girls I’ve seen for it were Tamara an attractive young dom in Covent Garden, Lee at Arabesque Bury, the ever reliable and versatile Amy in Paddington and Jessica herself, although she’d never done it until meeting me. I always remember an EE girl in Maida Vale gave an incredibly copious service, despite claiming it was her first time, although that was uncomfortably in the bath. It was just as well the w/s were good as the rest of her service was shite.
Of my two best girls Carla Louise did it as she was so obliging but didn’t really like doing it whist Nicoletta won’t do it, although as she gives such a great gfe I never miss it with her.
Although it’s not the be all and end all for me - hence Nicoletta - I always still try to seek it out. As it’s a service you usually have to book in advance I hate those useless parlours when they say ‘I think they do,’ when you ask about it.
I’m surprised so may of Max's Angels girls seem to receive – they have a whole page devoted to girls who give and receive, but I expect it’s mostly from the neck down. If my two disappointing experiences of them are anything to go by some will be lying. Most Anna’s Angels girls seem to advertise giving too and a good number claim to receive, however I am always sceptical about this.
Ironically on my last punt back in May, which may well be my last ever punt, certainly at least this year, I had one of the most extensive w/s experiences I’ve ever had with a woman at the London Retreat who claimed it was her first time; as she was new and hadn’t been there long this may well have been true. However because I didn’t remotely fancy her I didn’t enjoy it at all.
Jimmy thinks the best bit in my book was when the w/s went wrong.
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