(Apologies if this is a bit of a long post but it was quite a boring Sunday afternoon and I thought I would ask a question which I have been pondering for many years).
It doesn't matter what you call them, whether a prostitute, an escort, a hooker or a whore, the underlying premise of their job and their role doesn't really change. They are there to provide us sexual satisfaction and a service where we feel liked and wanted back. But how many do actually provide a level of service where we can say "I left 99% or a 100% satisfied"?
In my experience of punting over the 20 years, I've only come across 3 or 4 girls where I left feeling close to 100% satisfied. But a lot of them just scratched an itch which only returned a few days later and even though I returned to them, it was mostly because there was some degree of satisfaction there to be content with but not anywhere close to 99%.
Now obviously, this varies from punter to punter as everyone is different and we have different needs and desires. One person's nectar could be another ones' poison. But that's the beauty of the punting world as it provides so much choice and variety.
So I guess the question that I'm asking is how many of us can TRULY say that we have left close to, let's say 100% or 99% satisfied? For me, to feel that kind of satisfaction requires a few things which I tend to find lacking in many hookers, such as, engagement; which for me is extremely important in any relationship let alone sex work and yet so many girls provide a mechanical kind of service which is quite telling at times.
I always say that if you are going to do something then you should always do it wholeheartedly and do what you love. But the feel of a transactional session seems to raise its ugly head more often than not. I could say and I have said many times, that hookers only do this for money, and to some degree that is very true but yet I have experienced some very enjoyable sessions with some girls that have been engaging, passionate and left me feeling very satisfied.
Is it just that some girls enjoy sex more than others? Or whether they are holding back a more engaging and real experience for their partners and boyfriends and we are just getting a semblance of that? I understand chemistry is important and if a prostitute doesn't like a client, she may provide a lack-lustered performance but the best girls don't think like that and try to provide a satisfying experience to all clients.
Whatever it is, I can wholeheartedly say that it is quite common in my experience, simply because out of let's say the 100+ girls I have seen over the course of time, I would only go back to around 10 or 12 of them, and only 3 or 4 of them have truly left me feeling satisfied.
