Hello All, Hope you are doing great! Hoping you can help me please.
A little bit of an introduction...
I'm Vernon, 28 year old male from the south east of England. I'm currently a virgin looking to get the 'V' monkey off my back.
I'm a decent looking guy, good physique and had plenty of opportunities to lose it but declined these opportunities which now I really regret looking back on. I got it in my head that it would be best to lose it to someone that that I really cared about (soppy huh!!) but I've put my life on hold for this, people that I had the opportunity with in the past I didn't care about but I should have had fun and took these opportunities maybe, I wasted quite a bit of time clearly. I've realised I can't put life on hold in the hope of finding someone, got to enjoy the here and now and I realise this.
I want to make up for some lost time. I do not want to go to a club and pick someone up, I feel my lack of experience is really holding me back but feel after the first time or two I will be in a position to really move forward. I would like to get this monkey off my back once and for all before I hit my 30's.
I would like to meet someone who is understanding of the situation and who may have helped someone before in a similar predicament. I'm quite nervous about it so if anyone could please recommend someone decent in the SE area (Bournemouth, Portsmouth, Southampton, Brighton etc) I'd be very grateful. I would certainly be willing to travel a little further north up to London for the right girl. Money isn't really an issue either.
Thank you for reading,
Vernon.
