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Offline KKDD18

So been offered the opportunity to go to a stingers club with a WG I have used several times. We have discussed the swining side of her personal life before and mentioned I'm intrigued by it. Booked her for a meet and she mentioned that she was going to a party that evening and if I want can go as well and there is a good financial arrangement in place.

Anyways looking forward to it but have 2 concerns which some may find funny and a dream but not for me.
1st one is the raging boner. Even just being with the WG for a couple minutes chatting ect I've got a serious semi on and once we start things it's as hard as titanium. Even if we stop midway for a drink or anything it doesn't get any softer.
As such think this maybe a tad inappropriate at the party as well as embarrassing. Does anyone have any sensible suggestions on ways I maybe able to control this more?

2nd is the 2 stroke wonder. Normally can handle this as get it out the way and carry on. But what about at parties. Is it a case of take myself off to the bathroom and finish myself within minutes of getting started or is it acceptable/ normal to have quick pops just never see them in videos ect??

Any advice on the above would be great.

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If you can't control yourself in a social situation I doubt very much you are old enough to be a member here.

Offline jamiekinkxxx

I just don't understand the post/thread at all?  :unknown: 

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I just don't understand the post/thread at all?  :unknown:

I’m kind of baffled to 🤷‍♂️

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So been offered the opportunity to go to a stingers club


Whats a stingers club  :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

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I just don't understand the post/thread at all?  :unknown:
I’m kind of baffled to 🤷‍♂️
He wants to know how he can stop getting a hard-on when he stands next to his favourite SP when he goes to a party. You must remember what it was like when you first reached puberty and got the horn at inopportune moments.   

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1st one is the raging boner. I've got a serious semi on and once we start things it's as hard as titanium. Even if we stop midway for a drink or anything it doesn't get any softer.

I been to a few greedy girls party scenes, and no one cares that your walking around with a boner, as everyone walking around with a boner  :yahoo: :sarcastic:

Offline KKDD18

If you can't control yourself in a social situation I doubt very much you are old enough to be a member here.

Can happily control myself. Just not sure on what the norm is at these places. Don't want to do something which will spoil the evening.
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Offline shed

Better being able to have a raging boner than walking around with a floppy all night  ;)

Offline KKDD18

I been to a few greedy girls party scenes, and no one cares that your walking around with a boner, as everyone walking around with a boner  :yahoo: :sarcastic:

Cheers for the sensible reply. Was told that ticket only event so its normally closer to 50/50 split but sometimes 1 or 2 more women.
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Offline jamiekinkxxx

Cheers for the sensible reply. Was told that ticket only event so its normally closer to 50/50 split but sometimes 1 or 2 more women.

Mine was a sensible reply!

Offline KKDD18

He wants to know how he can stop getting a hard-on when he stands next to his favourite SP when he goes to a party. You must remember what it was like when you first reached puberty and got the horn at inopportune moments.

Puberty was a long time ago. Closer to middle age now!

Out in opblic I'm fine no problem but second we are in the hotel room / bedroom and i know sex is going to be involved it's different.  Been like this with all my partners be it normal or with WG. Unfortunately I don't relay do semi hard its all or nothing which is a pain I'm some situation and blessing in others.
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Offline KKDD18

Better being able to have a raging boner than walking around with a floppy all night  ;)

Very true and fairly amazed giving my unhealthy lifestyle that I'm able to get a good hard on.
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Offline akauya

Swingers parties are pretty chilled. Just relax and enjoy the party - don't be too hard on yourself  ;)

Offline Moby Dick

I read the title and thought this would be about the small obnoxious over eager hogger of a gobshite you often get turning up at parties.
Only to find out OP is on about his “willy”
« Last Edit: December 06, 2023, 11:05:06 pm by Moby Dick »

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Can happily control myself. Just not sure on what the norm is at these places. Don't want to do something which will spoil the evening.
If it's a swingers party they aren't allowed on here, only sex parties where punters pay.

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I would suggest that as the wg you are going with is a regular swinger,  ask her  :unknown:

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I would suggest that as the wg you are going with is a regular swinger,  ask her  :unknown:

You mean talk to and listen to a woman? Now that is a new thought….  :D :D :lol:

Offline jamiekinkxxx

I would suggest that as the wg you are going with is a regular swinger,  ask her  :unknown:

Wisdom and clarity of thought!  :thumbsup:

Offline Doc Holliday

I read the title and though it was about a drunken Dwarf attendee.

I would suggest that as the wg you are going with is a regular swinger,  ask her  :unknown:

How would that go?

"Hope you don't mind me asking but would it be ok if I got an erection at the party?"

" Eh?"

"It's just that, as you know, I get this instant raging boner when I'm with you"

"Oh I see. It will be fine hun ... in any case you may find that when all the guys and grannies gather round and stare at you performing it quickly subsides .. especially when after 30 seconds you pop and they all cheer"

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I read the title and though it was about a drunken Dwarf attendee.

How would that go?

"Hope you don't mind me asking but would it be ok if I got an erection at the party?"

" Eh?"

"It's just that, as you know, I get this instant raging boner when I'm with you"

"Oh I see. It will be fine hun ... in any case you may find that when all the guys and grannies gather round and stare at you performing it quickly subsides .. especially when after 30 seconds you pop and they all cheer"


Sounds about right Doc  :lol:

If all else fails and the bones won't go down they can always stand him in the corner and use it to hang their towels on  :lol:

Offline mrwhite

If it's a swingers party they aren't allowed on here, only sex parties where punters pay.

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If you are paying an SP to go with you is it a punt or a swingers party?

Offline Doc Holliday

If you are paying an SP to go with you is it a punt or a swingers party?

The boundaries can be blurred.

(a) You can have a pure swingers party (say at someone's home) where like minded couples attend and there is no financial arrangement and the participants are usually all genuine couples.

(b) Then there are the swinging venues where the owners/organisers charge admission or membership fees but none of the participants have any financial gain although occasionally some of these clubs may pay SP's to attend. It is still classed as a swinging event.

(c) Then there are the purely financial organised sex parties which involve an organiser who hopes to make a profit together with all the female participants who attend having been paid by the organiser. The profit comes from the punters who all pay to attend. This meets all the UKP criteria of a sex party punting event.

In the case of the OP this would appear to fall into the category (b) where rather than attend as a single male, he has a seperate financial arrangement with an SP to attend with him.


« Last Edit: December 07, 2023, 10:07:19 am by Doc Holliday »

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So been offered the opportunity to go to a stingers club with a WG I have used several times.............


Stingers club?
As part of their bathing ritual some Romans used to get themselves whipped with stinging nettles.There's even a theory that they introduced nettles to the country specifically for this.
Is that what you mean by a stingers club - go to a bath house and get a girl to warm you up with nettles?

Offline pbrown355

It's all very well being curious about the stingers club but I'm more curious about the swining side of her private life. Should there be a section on here for that?

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If you are paying an SP to go with you is it a punt or a swingers party?
Don't try to complicate matters, if it's a swingers party it's it's a swingers party no matter how you secure a partner to go with you.

Swinging is not allowed on here, a party where all punters pay the same set fee.

Quick question as I've never been to either, at a swingers party are you guaranteed to shag all the women there like you can at a sex party.   :unknown:
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It's all very well being curious about the stingers club but I'm more curious about the swining side of her private life. Should there be a section on here for that?
Not allowed as the rules clearly state.

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Offline Doc Holliday

Davie, I think he was just jokingly picking up on the other typo?  :hi:

It's all very well being curious about the stingers club but I'm more curious about the swining side of her private life. Should there be a section on here for that?

So been offered the opportunity to go to a stingers club with a WG I have used several times. We have discussed the swining side of her personal life before and mentioned I'm intrigued by it.


Offline wilbers

Hmm, "swining", now why does that make me think of David Cameron?

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Davie, I think he was just jokingly picking up on the other typo?  :hi:
Doc, there's that many comments associated with slight typing errors who knows what anyone actually means.   :unknown:

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Hmm, "swining", now why does that make me think of David Cameron?

Makes me think of Tamworths, Saddlebacks, and Gloucester Old Spots

Offline signy

Makes me think of Tamworths, Saddlebacks, and Gloucester Old Spots

Now you're just making a pig of yourself.

Offline pbrown355

Yep, just a joke. Probably a poor one. Again sorry.

Offline mr.bluesky


Whats a stingers club  :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

It's where you get locked in a room naked full of angry wasps  :scare:

Offline Blackpool Rock

I wish I had the OP problems
Yeah all the threads about ED and how to overcome it etc and then the OP comes on moaning that he struggles to tame his raging boner  :dash:

Offline Southernbloke

Yeah all the threads about ED and how to overcome it etc and then the OP comes on moaning that he struggles to tame his raging boner  :dash:

My thoughts exactly 👍

Offline KKDD18

My thoughts exactly 👍

Could be worse. Before my mid 30s I could easily go 2 sometimes 3 rounds back to back with no stop. Now it's slightly different!!
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Offline KKDD18

Well had a good time, learnt some things, experianced somethings. Sorted one ofnthe 2 challenges out.
Was a good time and think I may go back for more if I can.
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