Are massages worth it

[shagmore]

The answer to the above is of course yes, if you just want a massage but thats not where I am coming from

What brought this question on is that I was looking for a massage recently, looked on here for recommendations etc, and after looking at costs associated with it, ended up going for a full on punt

With the massages, all are reasonable fees but when you start to add on the HE, b2b etc it gets into the realm of being able to have a proper punt. Some massages you go for you are never 100% sure you will get what you want
I know not everyone wants full sex, but surely it would be better to say to the WG you only want massage / body contact etc and you know full well you will have her naked or in bra and pants, will be able to have a good feel and touching session yourself and walk away with having relief.

Realise that this is very subjective

[daviemac]

This has been discussed many times on here, it all boils down to want you want, if you want an escort who's untrained as a masseuse rubbing a bit of oil over you then go for that. If you want a quality massage from a trained practitioner then go for a well reviewed masseuse.

Personally speaking, and I don't think I'm anywhere near alone, if I want a massage the quality of the massage is the the main thing, any extras are in addition to what I went for. Part of the fun of a massage is the WSWS aspect.

If I want sex I go to a well reviewed sex provider. However the two are totally different services. 

There's a couple of positive reviews here for totally legit massages.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=387148.0
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=387172.0

 

[90125]

Maybe we should introduce a prize each week for the most useless new thread and the winner gets a permanent ban

[RedKettle]

You say massage as if it is a uniform experience.  It is so varied and you seem to be taking about an untrained woman waving her hands over you before wanking you off.

I go for a proper full on massage that is very firm and really does me some good on its own.  Something that I go on occasion to a legit massage establishment for.  However I find it great to go where the woman is naked and at a point in the massage provides a happy ending.  For me that combination is great and a unique experience that I do not compare to a FS punt - in fact value wise I compare to the massage only experience.

[daviemac]

Maybe we should introduce a prize each week for the most useless new thread and the winner gets a permanent ban

Too difficult to decide on a winner. 

[90125]

Will definitely be many candidates 

[jesse4585]

The answer has to vary massively depending on the punter & the massage skill of the WG.  (As per my reviews, several of my recent WGs had near pro level massage skills - but think that was just a lucky streak, most WGs probably arent that good at massage.)

For me the answer is a big fat yes - even if the WG isn't good at it.  Im a GFE punter who almost always books for 1 hour, as I like some time to build a connection.  Even on the rare occasions where I'd be capable of more than 15 mins of sex I'd generally not consider that fair on the WG especially if she's high volume.  I'm not a big one for giving RO & anyway I think many WG's get more than that than they want. With some exceptions, I'm not normally a big one for chat.  So massage is the best way to fill some time & build a connection in a non verbal way.  Even if the WG has good massage skills, I normally like to spend most of the massage time with me doing the giving. 

Massage is one of the few sex skills I'm good at , and several WG's have told me they hardly ever get one from punters. But they generally really like it. I think the fact I normally spend 10-15 mins giving a massage at the start of a punt if the main reason I normally get an excellent service,  even though otherwise I'm a quite unremarkable middle aged man.

One of these days I may even create a 'Slam boy' style post with details of the techniques for giving a good massage.

[southcoastpunter]

Maybe we should introduce a prize each week for the most useless new thread and the winner gets a permanent ban

Too difficult to decide on a winner.

why limit yourselves to just one winner?

[speedygonzal]

For me in Uk are not worth it because I love the sexual aspect of then. My Favourite place for massage is Romania, perfect balance of sexy and therapeutic usually without sex but when someone allow sex it feel like you won the lottery it happened to me a few times.

[Retep64]

I only tend to have massages now. Personally I enjoy the massage for relaxation and therapeutic benefits for my back. Obviously the HE is the icing on the cake. I now just go one place too so know the standard of both massage and HE.
I do get tempted to have FS and perhaps that will win me over in future but for now it is enough for me.

[RandomGuy99]

If you want a shag book an SP.

If you want to pay £50 for a massage and enjoy seeing what extras you can get then get a non-legit massage. I've tried a couple of massages and they seemed expensive for what you would get, so I declined the extras. I got quoted between £90 to £200 for B2B and that seemed to be a lot to have a woman rub their naked body on yours. For that kind of money you could have a shag, but I guess it depends what you want. Some guys in relationships don't go for shags as that would be cheating whereas having a naked woman rub her body on you apparently isn't. They are obviously pals of Bill Clinton.

[Darren101]

Massages can be worth it but only if the massage itself is good.  The ‘extras’ that get offered at the massage places are often not worth it but that depends where you go, as I’ve been to the odd place where I did enjoy myself and didn’t feel like I was ripped off after despite paying the equivalent of a punt with a SP. There are some enthusiastic providers out there that offer a good service but there are still those greedy ones that think a 30 second tit rub while standing on the side of the table followed by a handjob counts as a B2B experience and justifies a £60 tip.  There are also those that think too highly of themselves and charging crazy prices for extras. They tell me that’s what others pay but I’m guessing they sometimes see guys with deep pockets.  As mentioned, money better spent elsewhere. I’ve escaped those by saying no or got them down to £20, which they’d rather get than nothing.

These days, I’ve cut down on these massages and would rather find a good legit provider that can actually do a proper massage to sort out sore muscles.  Any recommendations in London south of the river? 


I’ve also had the odd reflexology / foot massage.  They can be great.

[Thephoenix]

If you want to pay £50 for a massage and enjoy seeing what extras you can get then get a non-legit massage. I've tried a couple of massages and they seemed expensive for what you would get, so I declined the extras. I got quoted between £90 to £200 for B2B

Blimey chum! Where do you go for your massages?..... Beverley hills?

Age & performance issues have meant I've mainly restricted my punts to fbsm for the last 20 years.
The most I've paid extra for B2B is £60, and quite often less.

[JontyR]

Personally speaking, and I don't think I'm anywhere near alone, if I want a massage the quality of the massage is the the main thing, any extras are in addition to what I went for.

You aren't alone.

If the massage is that good the euphoric bliss and endorphin rush can lead me actually not worry about any extras.

I do take them if offered .... but only because the folks on here would object to me leaving a tip.

[Munter84]

What brought this question on is that I was looking for a massage recently, looked on here for recommendations etc, and after looking at costs associated with it, ended up going for a full on punt

Well, exactly. Only you can make that call and it's proabbly based on a lot of factors, price is an important one but it's not the be all and end all. How important is the massage, is the sex a "must have" or a "nice to have", do you want guaranteed services or WSWS, etc.

I recently turned down a massage provider when I realised that their hourly rate plus extras was well into FS pricing territory - and, if I'm going to pay that kind of money, then I either want an EXCELLENT masseuse (she isn't) or else I may as well go to a FS provider who will deliver sexual services for the duration, not just 10 minutes at the end.

Despite the obvious overlap, sensual massages aren't escort meets, so it's a bit like comparing apples and oranges.

[Trpy]

Blimey chum! Where do you go for your massages?..... Beverley hills?

Age & performance issues have meant I've mainly restricted my punts to fbsm for the last 20 years.
The most I've paid extra for B2B is £60, and quite often less.

I suspect he is talking about the Nuru thing

[Trpy]

For me in Uk are not worth it because I love the sexual aspect of then.

Don't quite get that

[scutty brown]

What is important to point out is that many of those who prefer massage/FBSM sessions are those whose age and health prevent or make difficult full service sessions.
For someone in their sixties with a debilitating disease such as Parkinson's (which reduces both nerve sensation and muscle control), full active sex is damned difficult if not impossible. Massage sessions are all that work.
It would be interesting to know the age profile of the members of the site, but I suspect the number aged over 60 is fairly high.

[Jonestown]

Don't know about other folk but I think options and choices are good, life gets boring if there is only one way of going about things. For me its about finding a girl who floats my boat, whether she's massage or escort orientated is not such a big deal, although of late Its tended to be more on the massage side for the reasons outlined by Scutty above. As to whether massage is worth it, obviously not if penetrative sex is your main objective, but most escorts are hopeless at massage.

[Thephoenix]

What is important to point out is that many of those who prefer massage/FBSM sessions are those whose age and health prevent or make difficult full service sessions.
For someone in their sixties with a debilitating disease such as Parkinson's (which reduces both nerve sensation and muscle control), full active sex is damned difficult if not impossible. Massage sessions are all that work.
It would be interesting to know the age profile of the members of the site, but I suspect the number aged over 60 is fairly high.

I'm well into the 80+ bracket (ol'codgers section).
I'd fall apart if I tried FS.
It takes me ages to even turn over on the massage bench.  

[Stevelondon]

Last time I looked I was definitely over 60.
No debilitating stuff (as yet) that gets in the way of things, so fingers crossed.

I do enjoy a massage n relief every so often as well as a bit of kink and sex etc.
as to the OP question.
I don’t there is an answer.

[shagmore]

Hay sorry guys if this has been done to death, I did a search and nothing came up - hence the post.

Also can not recall seeing any questions like this recently

[8MillionDollarMan]

Hay sorry guys if this has been done to death, I did a search and nothing came up - hence the post.

Also can not recall seeing any questions like this recently

Seemed a fair post to me,I've had a couple of massages with HR and frankly they were far too close money wise to a FS meet.
The massages were good and I know a good massage,I've also had great massages if brief in FS meets although most are a bit of rubbing.

[RandomGuy99]

Hay sorry guys if this has been done to death, I did a search and nothing came up - hence the post.

Also can not recall seeing any questions like this recently

There's not really that much to say. It's personal preference. Some prefer massages. Some don't. If you like massages you'll probably think they're worth it.

[daviemac]

Hay sorry guys if this has been done to death, I did a search and nothing came up - hence the post.

Also can not recall seeing any questions like this recently

The trouble is you are trying to compare two completely different services, I think someone said it was like comparing apples and oranges and that is true.

The starting point for an escort is to provide the advertised sexual services and value should be judged on how well those services were delivered. If a massage is offered it is normally to fill a bit of time between the sexual services you are there for.

The starting point for a masseuse is to provide a massage, if any extras are offered then they take up a small proportion of the booking length and value should be judged with the emphasis on the advertised service.

The 'why pay for a massage when you can get FS for the same price' makes as much sense as saying why go for the Indian meal you really want when you can get a Chinese one cheaper. 

[rhinot]

I am relatively new to this. Less than a year since first ever massage with HE.
My Mrs got my started on legit massage and thinks that's where I still go every couple of weeks.

I do like a good massage. Some are better than others.
Also like the WSWS element. Although, most I have visited I knew something extra was likely to be on offer but you never know what.
Pay around £100/hour total for B2B in Manchester area. Brilliant massage/HE for £50/hour.

There is a degree of feeling massage with HE/B2B/BJ/RO is a lesser crime than booking FS. Have never been for FS.
'She slipped and fell onto my penis with her mouth. Not my fault, I only went for a massage'.
Complete rubbish of course.

[JontyR]

If you are moaning about the overall cost of a massage plus extras compare to a visit to an escort, the chances are you are paying a lot for a massage that you don't want.

[Stevelondon]

There is a degree of feeling massage with HE/B2B/BJ/RO is a lesser crime than booking FS. Have never been for FS.

I bet there are blokes out there who might think along those lines 😂

[Colston36]

Maybe we should introduce a prize each week for the most useless new thread and the winner gets a permanent ban

Seconded.

[DastardlyDick]

If you are moaning about the overall cost of a massage plus extras compare to a visit to an escort, the chances are you are paying a lot for a massage that you don't want.

Agree
 As DavieMac said, you can't (or shouldn't) compare the two types of service.
I used to go to Escorts for sex and enjoyed most of the punts I had.
Now, one nasty divorce (not for playing away) and Type 2 Diabetes later, I go for massages, mainly because I don't see the point in paying for a service, sex, that I won't be able to use if Mr Happy decides not to work, as he often does these days  I also get a slight ache in my shoulder which a massage will generally sort out albeit temporarily, and having a woman wank you off is better than DIY 

[pewpewpew]

I pay my regular £60 for half hour, so cheaper than a 1 hrs massage with a handjob (£45+20), but sometimes I like the sensuality of a massage so go for that

[mr.bluesky]

I like a nice relaxing massage ( with a happy ending) after a gym session , I don't think I'd have the energy for a full service punt with shag

[Chief_smasher]

This was a good read.
I get what some of you are saying it’s two different services and it’s like comparing apples and oranges, that is true…But what about some of us who are looking for half apple and half orange in a booking lol.

Seriously though apologies in advance if a thread like this has been up before haven’t done my due diligence.

I get looks/service levels will be subjective.

Would love to hear people recommendations for girls who can specifically tick these boxes. Massage/deepthroat/fuck.
Someone who’s fit can give a Decent/good/semi pro massage, can deepthroat and fuck!!

I’ve had girls who can do all of the above but they are few and far between obviously.

Anywhere in the country and any nationality.

If anybody shares the same interests in a meet would love to share intel.

[Mij]

I enjoy going for massages, but for me I treat it as a challenge to see how much I can get in the way of extras. The thrill of the chase, if you like. The challenge of being able to just walk into a shop on the 'high street' and get anything from a HJ right up to FS I'm finding is a bit addictive.....maybe I go too much!

As mentioned earlier above, it's completely different from just booking a standard SP. If I want a guaranteed shag or whatever I'm in the mood for, I'll book someone who clearly provides it.

With shops, especially the high-turnover-of-staff ones, it's much more hit and miss.

Each to their own....

 
Mij