ParisB on Mumsnet helping wives catch their husbands

[smiths]

Reading her post and particularly the line I have quoted, if you take it as I have, she is suggesting she doesn't even know it was her sister. She is just guessing it was her.

Today she is on tour in Birmingham so she is not home right now. So you would think she has phoned up her sister and asked - did you do this. If not then how long has she known? And what is she saying, she hasn't yet phoned her sister to ask this or she has phoned her and her sister has denied it?

Her sister is hardly going to say, yep sis I posted in your name revealing details of clients, as any sane person would know that is something that will get her immediately chucked out of the flat. She would have (if this is true) swore blind it weren't her to Paris.

And if she had done this, then Paris would have posted, "I phoned her and my sister admitted doing this to me"

So therefore Paris is a pretty poor sister to then publicly post this accusation about hers. And to then say 'I think she did it and would enjoy it'

So either way.

1. Paris did this and she is thus a terrible person.

Or

2. Paris did not do this and from the way she has treat and accused her sister with no proof (by her own admission in her post) she is a terrible person.

Weird, why does this post of yours not have the name Paris in its title like the others since it was added earlier, or my reply as i just checked.

[AnthG]

Weird, why does this post of yours not have the name Paris in its title like the others since it was added earlier, or my reply as i just checked.

It will be because I quoted Paris's post at the beginning which was still using the old topic title

I cannot seem to change it manually on trying now.

[OldAdmin]

Weird, why does this post of yours not have the name Paris in its title like the others since it was added earlier, or my reply as i just checked.

It will fix itself later as I have update scheduled everyday 2am when it comes to post titles.

[fredpunter]

I've never been one who supported the banning of all prossies from this forum, but I'm starting to wonder ...

[Curious6705]

Deleted - as some topics I just don't want to be involved in.

[smiths]

It will fix itself later as I have update scheduled everyday 2am when it comes to post titles.

Cheers for that.

[Hellraiser]

I've never been one who supported the banning of all prossies from this forum, but I'm starting to wonder ...

Honestly, I totally agree with you.

Reading Dani and Strawberry's posts is fucking irritating. They are either thick as shit or simply being whores sticking up for other whores, even when the lies are staring at them right there in the face. They should both fuck off to SAAFE with their bullshit.

The best thing ParisB can do right now is delete her profile and vanish. Forever.

Because what if there is a punter, a lurker, who is reading this thread right now. He remembers seeing ParisB around the time she was posting on Mumsnet. He remembers his wife suddenly catching him out and asking him about Adultwork around the same time too.

And all of a sudden he is able to connect the dots and sees that ParisB may be the one who destroyed his life. Righly or wrongly, he may be thinking she is the prime culprit of his punting activities being exposed.

[vorian]

I've never been one who supported the banning of all prossies from this forum, but I'm starting to wonder ...

Look at it this way, the fact she was a UKP member did not contribute to her posting on Mumsnet but the fact she was a UKP member did mean she got caught. A thousand prossies could be doing the same, it was only her membership here and her posts which could be cross referenced that meant she could be identified.

[Festisio]

Legendary thread.

Sadly I don't think her fall from grace will have a massive impact on her livelihood, ukpunting referrals are only ever going to be a tiny fraction of her business.

I like the idea of linking feedback to this thread - what's her AW profile?  This way she will have to either hide her feedback (terrible for business) or delete her profile and start again (will make a dent in short term earnings)

The most insulting thing of all isn't her cuntish betrayal of the people who pay her way in life, but that she thought anyone would believe that nonsense story (aside from Anthg who has wasted some energy on supposing that it could potentially be true)

[Kram]

What a massive turn up for the books

Great work by our resident Sherlock hats off to you whoever you are 

Paris always seemed sensible from what she posted here but turns out she was pretty much the lowest of the low ... "I'll take your husbands money ..fuck him ..then help you fuck him over "

Well Paris I have a funny feeling and I hope it comes true ... You might be needing your sisters help on finding the best corner you can on the streets because ukpunting has clout now and I think your career is going to hit a sudden downturn

[AnthG]

aside from Anthg who has wasted some energy on supposing that it could potentially be true

You've misread my post. I was breaking down what she was saying to say its not feasible. Nobody would accuse their sister in the manner she has if she did not even know for certain.

[Mara]

IF a WG, for whatever reason, feel the urge to help out the ladies on mumsnet who are complaining about their cheating husbands, the ONLY honest and reasonable advice to give them would be to prepare a proper meal at home so their partners don't have to go for a meal out if they are hungry.

In my experience, this is the most common reason why guys in long term relationships are looking for our services.

[Dani]

Reading Dani and Strawberry's posts is fucking irritating. They are either thick as shit or simply being whores sticking up for other whores, even when the lies are staring at them right there in the face. They should both fuck off to SAAFE with their bullshit.

Where did I say I believed Paris.  In fact I said it looks as if it was written by her by her writing style and I also stated she would have known if it was not her as she would have received email notification of the pms sent her as when you get a pm on MN you get email notifications
I also said it wouldn't be just because she fell into mumsnet frame of mind as they hate all rpossies on there

Perhaps read a post before saying I am either thick as shit or sticking up for other prossies

[Hellraiser]

Legendary thread.

Sadly I don't think her fall from grace will have a massive impact on her livelihood, ukpunting referrals are only ever going to be a tiny fraction of her business.

I like the idea of linking feedback to this thread - what's her AW profile?  This way she will have to either hide her feedback (terrible for business) or delete her profile and start again (will make a dent in short term earnings)

The most insulting thing of all isn't her cuntish betrayal of the people who pay her way in life, but that she thought anyone would believe that nonsense story (aside from Anthg who has wasted some energy on supposing that it could potentially be true)

This is her profile:

External Link/Members Only

I am going to put on some feedback tomorrow. Unfortunately, Adultwork can sometimes remove feedback, so if they remove mine, I am going to regularly keep posting the warning feedback with multiple  new accounts over the coming weeks anyway.

[Dani]

to help, a desperate need for acceptance seems to be a motivating factor here.

I would rather be hated and vilified than want acceptance from that bunch of angry bitter feminazis

[Kram]

External Link/Members Only

That's Paris's home site

[fredpunter]

External Link/Members Only

That's Paris's home site

I see it contains links to many other punting related web sites, pity we can't add a link to this thread

[Kram]

I see it contains links to many other punting related web sites, pity we can't add a link to this thread

She has a yahoo group once you go onto the site is post the link but I'm on my phone

That group needs to be flooded with links to this thread

[Hellraiser]

Where did I say I believed Paris.  In fact I said it looks as if it was written by her by her writing style and I also stated she would have known if it was not her as she would have received email notification of the pms sent her as when you get a pm on MN you get email notifications
I also said it wouldn't be just because she fell into mumsnet frame of mind as they hate all rpossies on there

Perhaps read a post before saying I am either thick as shit or sticking up for other prossies

This is you being thick as shit:

I doubt it however this thread regardless of what is or what is not true should serve as a warning to other women in the job to never allow anyone regardless of who they are, be it, Mum, partner, sister or best friend, access to any details.  To ensure their passwords are never given to anyone and that only they have access to their PC or Laptop by setting it to autolock everytime they close it so a password is needed to start it again. If you have to allow access start up a new user and only allow them to use that. They should also ensure no details are kept on a phone incase it gets lost or stolen.

If you have to keep clients details as in what they like etc then keep it in a separate folder on your laptop that is always kept locked.

Allowing access to any of these details can not only ruin your business it can ruin other peoples lives

As others have explained, that isn't the damn point and, no, this thread doesn't serve as a warning to that at all. The only warning this thread serves is that Paris is a lying bitch and everyone should steer clear of her.

She lied again with that bullshit story to Adam and Daffodil. She got busted, should have admitted that it was her. Not pretend it was someone else.

The point is none of us can know for certain although the posts do read like Paris writing style which is very unfortunate if it was her sister however I do not think it was as when I got a pms from Mumsnet I get an email to my email address telling me about them and more than one person on that thread had said they have pmd her so she would have had email notifications and if she knew she had not posted on there would have logged on to find out what they were about and would have known straight away.

The point isn't 'none of us can know for certain'. It IS Paris. Why the fuck would her sister go through the trouble of impersonating Paris, pretending she has breast implants, pretend she also has 2 dogs, pretend she has had laser eye surgery, pretend she has a Mazda, be an expert on the ins-and-outs of Adultwork even though she is supposedly a street walker...

THINK FOR A SECOND!

There is no 'none of us can know for certain'. There are no fucking debates about whether she is telling the truth or not. She is a liar, pure and simple.

[vorian]

I would rather be hated and vilified than want acceptance from that bunch of angry bitter feminazis

I never thought it would apply to you Dani, I would not think for a second that you would be as stupid to bite the hand that feeds you. However the psychological imperative to follow the herd and the look for a communal identity is very powerful and been shown in numerous experiments over the years. People have been shown to act in a way they know to be truly wrong if the majority tell them it is right. ParisB was not honest about who she was on Mumsnet and seemed to crave acceptance from that bunch of angry bitter feminazis.

[Jackjones]

Just pointing out that alot of you seem to be asking "WHY" she did it but can't come up with a reason... Money.

Tailpipe said it "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" how much do you think she could charge a wife for irrefutable proof of adultery? my guess is a lot more than what she can get from a single guy escorting.

[Hellraiser]

ParisB was not honest about who she was on Mumsnet and seemed to crave acceptance from that bunch of angry bitter feminazis.

Or maybe that really is her, a bitter feminazi, who was actually not honest about who she was on UKP and is actually a man-hating whore. Wouldn't be the first prostitute who actually hates the men who pay her wages.

[vorian]

Just pointing out that alot of you seem to be asking "WHY" she did it but can't come up with a reason... Money.

Tailpipe said it "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" how much do you think she could charge a wife for irrefutable proof of adultery? my guess is pocket change next to what she can get from a single guy escorting.

That is an interesting point of view, I wonder if some private surveillance companies would employee someone with insider knowledge of AW. I have heard about honey traps being set up on dating sites. Lot of money can change hands in divorce proceedings. 

[vorian]

Or maybe that really is her, a bitter feminazi, who was actually not honest about who she was on UKP and is actually a man-hating whore. Wouldn't be the first prostitute who actually hates the men who pay her wages.

You make a good point.

[Rochdull lad]

I've been out at meetings for most of this afternoon so I missed things on here when they were really "kicking off".

Having read through the thread, I'd like to express my respect firstly to Admin and Daffodil for their work on identifying ParisB; then to those other members on here who, when I've read through the "lunchtime" bit of the thread [when the guilty woman had just been exposed], provided a really entertaining sequence of posts, while they waited for her to apologise for what she or "her sister" had done.

I suppose the worrying thing about this thread is the way in which it reinforces a lack of trust between the two parties to a meeting such as we usually enjoy.  We have a number of WG Members on here who "know the rules"; and until today, I'd have thought that Paris was one of those.  Obviously I was wrong; I just hope that people won't tar ALL "Pro$$ie" members with the same brush.  Having read through the thread, it seems clear that not all the WGs who post on here support her.

One other thought occurs to me.  If I remember correctly, Paris B used to be someone who boasted about working abroad [in Australia, if I remember correctly].  Is there any way in which Admin can liaise with [e.g.] the ISG to let their punters know how unreliabe she is?

[Dani]

The thing is many bite the hand that feeds them.  Have you read Saafe?  Blogs on AW?  there are so many that don't think before they act.  It is as if some forget it is a business and as such you treat your clients well, including not slagging them off on public forums or in this case helping  women find out how to see if their partners are booking prossies.
It seems some forget all this as soon as the stockings and make up come off and don't realise that everything done or written or even said in public can come back and bite you on the arse.

I used to often pm people elsewhere and tell them exactly this but was always told I was being stupid and that is what those forums were for so I stopped bothering. 
I don't get why anyone would think they could get away with any of it as even using a different name you will be caught out eventually as your posting style doesn't really change from site to site even if the content and attitude does

[CatBBW]

Just pointing out that alot of you seem to be asking "WHY" she did it but can't come up with a reason... Money.

Tailpipe said it "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" how much do you think she could charge a wife for irrefutable proof of adultery? my guess is a lot more than what she can get from a single guy escorting.

I thought about this. But LONG TERM? OK, wives want info of how to catch him out. All the info on how to catch him out is (was) already on that thread for free, so where's the incentive to pay for more info?

[smiths]

I thought about this. But LONG TERM? OK, wives want info of how to catch him out. All the info on how to catch him out is (was) already on that thread for free, so where's the incentive to pay for more info?

Perhaps Paris arranged for the punter/s to be caught in the act with her so the wife had positive proof bringing a female mate along as a witness, even took photos so he would be fucked if he tried to deny it. In a divorce a LOT of money and assets could be at stake of course, paying Paris and others like her a few hundred could be well worth it to some wives, very well worth it in fact.

[vorian]

I thought about this. But LONG TERM? OK, wives want info of how to catch him out. All the info on how to catch him out is (was) already on that thread for free, so where's the incentive to pay for more info?

Again I very much doubt she was getting paid by them, she probably and perhaps subconsciously wanted to offer her unique knowledge and skills to help ingratiate herself into the middle class dog (I see the jokes coming) breeding circles. 

Just read smiths post and as usual he is right a lot of money can change hands.

[Jackjones]

I thought about this. But LONG TERM? OK, wives want info of how to catch him out. All the info on how to catch him out is (was) already on that thread for free, so where's the incentive to pay for more info?

Was it?

Note: Any money paid to the adult escorts listed on this website is for their time and companionship only. Whatever else that may occur if and when contact is made is the choice of consenting adults.

As any legal eagle will point out, unless there is a post/e-mail that rightly says "thanks for committing adultery with me" they have nothing soild

[cornbeefinspector]

lets look at the facts

she says it was her sister, a street walker that also runs newspaper adds, I doubt any druggie street walker wastes money running adds when the money could be used for drugs

the poster stated that she has great knowledge of how AW works, so why would a street walker have this inside info not using AW herself, if she has such great knowledge of AW , then like her sister should could have a great life style with a little cash left over for her drugs

Fact....................... Paris made the posts not her sister, if indeed she even has one

[smiths]

Again I very much doubt she was getting paid by them, she probably and perhaps subconsciously wanted to offer her unique knowledge and skills to help ingratiate herself into the middle class dog (I see the jokes coming) breeding circles.

I am not so sure, it could be a very lucrative sideline for her and others of her ilk. Who knows.

[CatBBW]

Perhaps Paris arranged for the punter/s to be caught in the act with her so the wife had positive proof bringing a female mate along as a witness, even took photos so he would be fucked if he tried to deny it. In a divorce a LOT of money and assets could be at stake of course, paying Paris and others like her a few hundred could be well worth it to some wives, very well worth it in fact.

OOh. OK, never thought of it like that.

[SirFrank]

Does anyone know parisb personally? If so have they pm'd her to ask wtf is going on? I imagine she is currently crying her eyes out. In this biz reputation is everything for WGs and when that's gone its game over.

[cornbeefinspector]

I am not so sure, it could be a very lucrative sideline for her and others of her ilk. Who knows.

I doubt she was being paid cash, her payment would be the other women on mumsnet  thinking  what a wonderful helpful person she was, and how smart she is, the more I read about this Paris, the more I realise how full of her own self importance she is , its all me me me me me look at me

example the latest entry in her blog about her months holiday in mexico, Paris no one cares !!!!!!!

[James999]

This thread needs to be linked far and wide over as many other punting sites as possible

[vorian]

I doubt she was being paid cash, her payment would be the other women on mumsnet  thinking  what a wonderful helpful person she was, and how smart she is, the more I read about this Paris, the more I realise how full of her own self importance she is , its all me me me me me look at me

example the latest entry in her blog about her months holiday in mexico, Paris no one cares !!!!!!!

Yep that's the thought I'm leaning towards, I have met many social climbers and believe me they would do anything for approval.

[vorian]

This thread needs to be linked far and wide over as many other punting sites as possible

I agree James but I was under the impression all other punting sites were either afraid of, or threatened by UKP at best. Or hated UKP with a passion at worst.

[Gigabyte]

whats the chance of this thread being mentioned on %%% with their mods?

[vorian]

whats the chance of this thread being mentioned on %%% with their mods?

Zero, they could not give a fuck about punters.

[berksboy]

Just had a look at her AW profile and ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

This Member has chosen not to allow their Ratings and Feedback to be viewed.

You should exercise caution when considering the authenticity of their service offerings.

[vorian]

Just had a look at her AW profile and ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

This Member has chosen not to allow their Ratings and Feedback to be viewed.

You should exercise caution when considering the authenticity of their service offerings.

It wasn't like that 30 minutes ago, she is obviously still reading this thread as a guest and is reacting to the suggestion by some members that they will put feedback and a link to this thread on her profile. She will have to explain why she has hidden her feedback now on her profile or blog as hidden feedback is viewed with suspicion by even the most fluffy and naive punter.

Bets on Stalker, ex boyfriend, indiscreet punter or those cunts at UKP any further suggestions.

[cornbeefinspector]

Just had a look at her AW profile and ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

This Member has chosen not to allow their Ratings and Feedback to be viewed.

You should exercise caution when considering the authenticity of their service offerings.

it was open an hour ago I looked , she must be reading this still , strange  behaviour for an innocent person

[vorian]

it was open an hour ago I looked , she must be reading this still , strange  behaviour for an innocent person

Just goes to show she is hardly sitting in a dark room crying her eyes out about mean UKP then. She is in full damage limitation mode.

[Roland D Hay]

I'm just surprised one or two wanted to hear more of her defence. Her drug addled street walking sister found time to log on and make perfectly coherent non-drug addled posts that showed an intimate knowledge of AW that a street walker doesn't know by very virtue of the fact that she's a street walker and one or two are considering that it might be true. Fuck me, it's the worst excuse I've heard since my mates wife found condoms in his wallet that he claimed he only bought for the occasional 'posh wank.'
Personally I think an immediate ban was the right thing to do, I'm not interested in hearing another word from her, she can fuck off and crawl back to her hole. She's a hypocritical cunt and we should all spread the word!

[jburke1215]

I have only just caught up with this thread, previously I had a good impression of her as she had good reviews from UKP members.

In a business where a good reputation makes so much difference, to do this….WTF 

I can only express my admiration of the detective work that was done, Sherlock will have to watch his back from now on, he has competition in town 

I liked the banter of the early contributors who were ordering popcorn, coke etc while they waited for a reply from ParisB

So she is now off my 'Hot/To See' List. I'm sure she will reinvent herself, after all as she makes clear in her blogs she has a very expensive lifestyle to maintain.....just not with my money.

Stupid woman 

[vorian]

I'm just surprised one or two wanted to hear more of her defence. Her drug addled street walking sister found time to log on and make perfectly coherent non-drug addled posts that showed an intimate knowledge of AW that a street walker doesn't know by very virtue of the fact that she's a street walker and one or two are considering that it might be true. Fuck me, it's the worst excuse I've heard since my mates wife found condoms in his wallet that he claimed he only bought for the occasional 'posh wank.'
Personally I think an immediate ban was the right thing to do, I'm not interested in hearing another word from her, she can fuck off and crawl back to her hole. She's a hypocritical cunt and we should all spread the word!

True, I just wanted to torture her a bit more before she got banned. I don't think I have seen anyone yet considering her defence might be true at least not once they have read the whole thread.

[cornbeefinspector]

I would take a guess that she has a ParisB persona which was for work and here. However she got sucked into the whole sisterhood Mumsnet thing and her escort persona slipped and her persona became a "Sister" against dirty cheating men.

That was her choice but she then decided to use her inside knowledge as a WG to help expose these men. Of course she never thought she would be caught or her working persona would have kicked in with self preservation. It was this use of inside knowledge that I personally find so offensive.

more to the point , people that throw stones should not live in glass houses, it would be very easy for any punter to get her address, and then write to all her neighbours, asking if they wanted to know about a prossie working in their area, and adding a link to  her web site and aw profilem , so very stupid of her to throw stones

I must add that I would not condone this as it would be crossing the line , we need to respect each other

[Roland D Hay]

Just goes to show she is hardly sitting in a dark room crying her eyes out about mean UKP then. She is in full damage limitation mode.

She is but she won't ever escape the damage from this. I've no doubt she'll continue but with her new reputation and hidden feedback she will lose a chunk of her earnings. Perhaps she can find part time work as a marriage guidance counsellor.

[cornbeefinspector]

True, I just wanted to torture her a bit more before she got banned. I don't think I have seen anyone yet considering her defence might be true at least not once they have read the whole thread.

 you're a bad man  vorian , I love it