now whilst i do agree with the fact the op is silly for shagging his wife before getting a std test , i do think he does sound genuine.
This girl hasnt listed bb yet has unprotected listed, and i guess quite easy to miss and very sneaky of her.
im actually fuming one of my regs saw her last month , lucky for me i got tested literally the same week and it was clear, but as i know some take 4 weeks to show il have to be retested, even though i know he is a clean safe old guy who doesnt even do full sex, im guessing he hadnt seen the unprotected either listed.
Op get tested asap