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Offline Rodney you plonker

would like some thoughts off you experienced punters!Due to personal illness and disinterest at home and the fact that at 58 I’m not prepared to just fade away and never sample female company again,I’ve decided to try a punt and see where it takes me.
   What do you reckon I should do?Start with just a massage and HE...or a well reviewed cheapish WG,maybe start with a more expensive better know porn star type?Seems to be so many different trains of thought and very confusing...logically I would read as many reviews of girls I “fancy” and pick the vfm option...but is this false economy?Does seem to be some ripping off going on and to the uninitiated is it hard to spot?Im not taking the piss...genuine question!


Offline Malvolio

There's a section on scams in the punting wiki for the OP to read - be forewarned but don't let this put you off.

I suggest you only book half an hour for your first punt as you're bound to be nervous as hell.  Read the reviews board in your local area and take your pick from there.


Offline Logamimo

If I was going for my first punt again I would go to an established massage parlour where you will be less likely to be ripped off and you will also be in a safer environment.

In my experience many massage parlours offer fair value for money. Some offer a standard service of a massage to get you warmed if you are nervous, and if it's your first punt you can have covered oral and sex for 30 min for about £40 - £50.

 Most parlours have a website where you can see the girls and read reviews and when you arrive many will give you the choice of lady for your first experience. In my experience most of the lady's in parlours have been friendly and accomodating if you treat them right, and in my 30 years of punting only a very small minority have not been amiable. I've had some good experiences over the years and some really good punts in parlours.  :hi:

Offline s0whatsnew?

I would agree with all the advice so far.   For me, the discovery  was not so much the sex itself but seeing what the issues are for both sides in the booking process and the lead-up to the final door opening to the meet itself.   Just as you yourself may be nervous beforehand, so also will the lady who will most likely have several escape options lined up in case of anything untoward.

 So, yes, start with massage parlours for a couple of times, graduate to independent masseuses, work out the differences in how they operate and what their logic is, and work up to the 'real deal'.

Enjoy!

Offline OakTree

To be honest mate there is no sure fire way to start. Some are telling you to go to a parlour first or massage. Others will say find a good reputable Indy. Book an hour, book half hour. It’s up to you to find out what you like and prefer. Some people can’t handle a parlour with all the other punters there. An Indy might be too expensive. And whereas some might be fine with half hour or even fifteen minutes others need an hour or even two. It really is horses for courses.

Offline Rodney you plonker

Thanks guys,plenty of food for thought...in west mids area so seems plenty to choose from...should I be put off by what I consider to be “cheap” options?does seem to be a vast difference in prices and no logical reasons...I realise anyone can put any pic up but I’ve seen “stunners”looking anywhere between 18-60 with same price,older WG some charge more than younger ones presumably because of experience,some less maybe because of looks or age...yes I realise a younger girl may have more experience than older depends how hard they’re working!Has anyone had any experience with the Kommons web site?cant seem to find any reviews so stay clear?
I did contact two WG(before I found these pageslol)one didn’t even reply...that was before Xmas!and she has a web page full of etiquette for how to behave lol...the other was exact opposite,and soon as I mentioned i hadn’t seen an escort before immediately she said not to book over an hour maybe even better to just try the half...so no prizes who wins that one!

Anyway thanks again for your thoughts...much appreciated.
« Last Edit: January 12, 2019, 10:17:26 am by Rodney you plonker »

Offline LLPunting

Thanks guys,plenty of food for thought...in west mids area so seems plenty to choose from...should I be put off by what I consider to be “cheap” options?does seem to be a vast difference in prices and no logical reasons...I realise anyone can put any pic up but I’ve seen “stunners”looking anywhere between 18-60 with same price,older WG some charge more than younger ones presumably because of experience,some less maybe because of looks or age...yes I realise a younger girl may have more experience than older depends how hard they’re working!Has anyone had any experience with the Kommons web site?cant seem to find any reviews so stay clear?
I did contact two WG(before I found these pageslol)one didn’t even reply...that was before Xmas!and she has a web page full of etiquette for how to behave lol...the other was exact opposite,and soon as I mentioned i hadn’t seen an escort before immediately she said not to book over an hour maybe even better to just try the half...so no prizes who wins that one!

Anyway thanks again for your thoughts...much appreciated.

As you say there's plenty on offer in the Midlands and plenty that have been well reviewed here.  I would strongly suggest you look through the reviews and any threads about establishments and see who catches your eye, so look for ones where you can see real pics of the ladies.  Pick ones who seem to have the personality that you think attracts you.
Try chatting to some of the wise heads on the region board to learn more about the girls and the operations in the area(s) you're considering.

I wouldn't try unknowns, streetwalkers or locations that are too exposed or in rough areas until you're sure you're into this lark and don't mind dealing with the extraneous shit and the aggro.
If you've always been a bit of a cocksman and a charmer then you can play as riskily and blindly as you like but unless you're begging for a fight with the missus be sure to set yourself a limit on how often and how close to home you want to chance it.

GET A PUNTING PHONE, if you've got an old handset lying around use that because its presence is easier to explain to the missus.  If you have to get something new then nothing that's going to unduly attract her attention.  Lock it with a code she won't guess.  If you use a smartphone with biometric locks then use them.  If you don't normally use phone security then best to get in the habit and also activate it on your real-life phone too.  If the missus asks say you got sick of the work mates or drinking buddies fucking about with it when you're away from desk/table.

If you're going to be driving and you share a car will she notice the extra mileage clocking up?  Can you easily explain your absences (that she can't check up on) or is this going to be a very furtive thing when she's away?

Unless she's used to you coming home smelling fresher, fouler or fancier than you went out be sure to work out how you will deal with odours and perfumes (and make-up) that might linger after an encounter.  Perhaps bring your own shower gel/soap that she's used to smelling.  If you're a smoker or a vaper then that might make things easier.  If you're one for catching a swift one at a bar/pub then that also might make things a little easier to mask your quickies but don't mix punting with getting smashed if you don't want to be found out, unless you're a drunk who can always keep your wits about you with strangers and the OH.

Unless you're very nervous about meeting new women the real challenge will be concealing your new hobby, unless her indoors has already given you permission to indulge.  Can you explain/conceal/absorb the financial outlay?  Do you have a separate account that she doesn't see the statements for?

Offline piotrskut

Unless she's used to you coming home smelling fresher, fouler or fancier than you went out be sure to work out how you will deal with odours and perfumes (and make-up) that might linger after an encounter.  Perhaps bring your own shower gel/soap that she's used to smelling.  If you're a smoker or a vaper then that might make things easier.  If you're one for catching a swift one at a bar/pub then that also might make things a little easier to mask your quickies but don't mix punting with getting smashed if you don't want to be found out, unless you're a drunk who can always keep your wits about you with strangers and the OH.

when i was married i used to have to go quite extreme, as the bitch had a nose like a bloodhound.  i always put some petrol in the car after a punt and managed to "spill" some on my shoes or whatever, smell masked practically everything else

Offline Jeremy

i always put some petrol in the car after a punt and managed to "spill" some on my shoes or whatever, smell masked practically everything else
she must have thought you were a right clumsy bastard :D but whatever works!


Offline LLPunting

she must have thought you were a right clumsy bastard :D but whatever works!

That said, if she ever got sick of you it would be a very easy accident to drop a match on him.

Offline Logamimo

Thank God I'm single and can go where I want when I want with who I want, all that furtive activity would drive me nuts  :scare:

Offline cueball

This is your very first go?

This is the advice I'd give....

Buy a punting phone.

Book in with a well reviewed lass from here.

Speak on the phone.

Book one hour. The cost doesn't matter to you, it's your first time and you don't need clock pressure. You can think about costs and times in subsequent punts.

Take you time through the punt and finish when you're ready, don't worry about finishing early, it's your first time.

And most of all.... It's all about having fun.

The first punt is more about dipping your toe than diving straight in.

And... Report back your findings

Adam1990

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I totally agree with LLpunting on the phone aspect. Get a punting phone as a start.

My only advice would be to see a Thai to start with. They are very accommodating and good at what they do. They seem to be (my apologies if this seems racist) geared towards pleasure for men.

One final thought is to make sure you don't feel that this is somehow deviant behaviour. It isn't. You go and have fun my friend and let us know how it goes.

 :hi:
« Last Edit: January 12, 2019, 04:19:34 pm by Adam1990 »

Offline unclepokey

I started when I was 53 - not much different. I agree on the matter of a punting phone.
Who to see first? My view is it's worth focusing on an independent  woman of say 30 to 50 who has been around the block a while and knows how to give a newcomer a gentle introduction.
Be open about your 'newness'
Be sure to treat the woman with kindness and respect. As ye sow so shall you reap and bearing in mind you're using your hard earned that is an entirely sensible, commercial point not the silly utterances of a fluffy.
Have a careful look at AW. Do the research.

Take a deep breath before either phoning the woman concerned or writing an email. Take time and work out what you'll say.

I wish you joy. I've certainly had much of that whilst a-shagging the ladies of the night.
UP

Offline piotrskut

she must have thought you were a right clumsy bastard :D but whatever works!

i am  :lol: :lol: prob why it worked

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would like some thoughts off you experienced punters!Due to personal illness and disinterest at home and the fact that at 58 I’m not prepared to just fade away and never sample female company again,I’ve decided to try a punt and see where it takes me.
   What do you reckon I should do?Start with just a massage and HE...or a well reviewed cheapish WG,maybe start with a more expensive better know porn star type?Seems to be so many different trains of thought and very confusing...logically I would read as many reviews of girls I “fancy” and pick the vfm option...but is this false economy?Does seem to be some ripping off going on and to the uninitiated is it hard to spot?Im not taking the piss...genuine question!
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Offline thumbspot

+1 on a punting phone. Cheapest effort from Tesco’s with cash.

Personally I’d book a british girl doing hotel Incalls, in her 30s and we’ll reviewed. Tell her it’s your first time and I’m sure she’ll put you at ease. Start with a massage, move to oral then sex if it feels ok.

If you get cold feet half way through then stop - but don’t expect a refund!

Post links here of who you are considering, and the forum will flag any obvious ones to avoid.

Book one then get your fill and post a review back here :)

Happy punting!

Offline nbarnes

Ignore all adultwank feedback because it is a waste of time.

Always put the user id in the search function here - do your due diligence and you are unlikely to be ripped off.

Before you call - plan what you are going to say and ensure services offered on AW are available.
Don't be afraid to ask for exactly what you want - WGs have heard it all.

+10,000,000 on Get a punting phone. You would be AMAZED how easy it is to find someone on the internet using a mobile phone number.
« Last Edit: January 12, 2019, 06:04:36 pm by nbarnes »

Offline m4rmite

Be on time.
Have the right fee.
Wash your knob,  top hygiene is a must (both ways)


Offline LLPunting

Thank God I'm single and can go where I want when I want with who I want, all that furtive activity would drive me nuts  :scare:

Zig-a-zig ahhhh...

Offline Home Alone

This is your very first go?

And... Report back your findings

Not just because it's 'Ukpunting ettiquette'. Though it is - we don't like leeches, for some reason! ;)

But because it'll help you settle your mind after the event.

And, more importantly in a way, there may be, for all you know,, another nervous 58-year-old - the same age I was when I had my first punt in 2004, without the benefit of Adultwork or this wonderful site - wondering how he should go about things. Your report on your first punt could help a bloke you'll never meet.

And so on, and so on.