I really want to tell someone I see escorts!!

[DragonAgeInquisition]

Hi All,

Does anyone else have the urge to tell a friend that they "see a few escorts here and there". I really want to tell someone about the insanely hot women i have had the chance to be with.

Tinder is a lot of effort and cold approach even more so! Not to mention the chances of securing solid 9/10s that way and the immense amount of effort required. I mean a threesome for example - I know if i bought it up with a prior gf it would the doghouse or worse. With awork its a few messages away at a time and place to suit!!

[sparkus]

You've told me.  Better?

[tynetunnel]

I’ve nearly mentioned it to my older brother a few times, but in the end I never do. As much as I’d like to shout about my hobby sometimes, it’s best I don’t. It’s bound to backfire, so I think it’s an itch that is best not scratched!

[Metalgear2018]

I told my friend at lunch. He looked at me and than looked at his food and continued eating.

The following day he described not to join me at lunch.

[Fuzzyduck]

I told my friend at lunch. He looked at me and than looked at his food and continued eating.

The following day he described not to join me at lunch.

Not much of a friend.

[MrMatrix]

I told my friend at lunch. He looked at me and than looked at his food and continued eating.

The following day he described not to join me at lunch.

The guys a cunt. I told two of my closest friends and they were positively hostile, they've since conceded I had good cause. These two have been off the rails but felt they could judge me. I've told two others and they are jealous as fuck. 
My advice OP is NEVER NEVER tell any one. If things go tits up between you and your confident they have leverage. I wish I'd never told any one.
I do talk to fellow punters though, that in itself is a blessing.

[Grumpy Pumpy]

Mr M, I'm with you on this. Tell no-one in "real life". But this site is a great way to "virtually" share experiences.

[ShadowProclamation]

Yes, particularly after a good punt. However, such information might not be contained, particularly in an age of social media. What if your employer eventually found out and you lost your job? It might also be very difficult to get another. Never mind not having the money to pay for further punts. You might not have the money to survive. Your best outlet is on here where you are anonymous.

[Zidane18]

Just stick to telling escorts you see escorts 

Safer and less judgment

Unless your in the game no one outside of it can understand it the same way

[Formicahunt]

What we do is not viewed positively by most people, you'd taken a big risk sharing with even your closest mate. You could engineer a shared punt experience, away day to Hamburg or Amsterdam, drunken shall we? Then compare war stories.

[Belgarion]

Hi All,

Does anyone else have the urge to tell a friend that they "see a few escorts here and there". I really want to tell someone about the insanely hot women i have had the chance to be with.

Tinder is a lot of effort and cold approach even more so! Not to mention the chances of securing solid 9/10s that way and the immense amount of effort required. I mean a threesome for example - I know if i bought it up with a prior gf it would the doghouse or worse. With awork its a few messages away at a time and place to suit!!

Why? Why does anyone need to know?

[latecomer]

Mr M, I'm with you on this. Tell no-one in "real life". But this site is a great way to "virtually" share experiences.

+1

[MT balls]

Some friends have told me they see escorts , and why they do .I have listened and agreed with them about their reasons for doing so .But I kept quiet about myself , some people have big mouths and love to spread the gossip .I think its best to just keep it to yourself .This is a secretive hobby ,which I knew nothing about when I started , Ive learnt a lot .I think 50%of the population havnt a clue what goes on ,they just believe what sensational crap  they read in the tabloids .
 Keep schtum .
  MT .

[OakTree]

Over the years I’ve told people but I keep it to myself these days. Occasionally someone will ask if I’ve dabbled lately but I tell them I’ve knocked it on the head. There really is nothing to be gained by letting on and it is best kept to yourself.

The OP sounds to me he just wants to show off. No one really gives a fuck about who you’ve shagged especially if you’ve had to pay for it.

[bigjohn1987]

Hi All,

Does anyone else have the urge to tell a friend that they "see a few escorts here and there". I really want to tell someone about the insanely hot women i have had the chance to be with.

Tinder is a lot of effort and cold approach even more so! Not to mention the chances of securing solid 9/10s that way and the immense amount of effort required. I mean a threesome for example - I know if i bought it up with a prior gf it would the doghouse or worse. With awork its a few messages away at a time and place to suit!!

Tell the next escort you FUCK   

[Squire Haggard]

I've told people over the years. Long ago, one person that I know of blabbed to others and made a joke of it. He was a bit of an arsehole. Its best kept quiet, except maybe  for a few close confidants. I have not had a punt for over 3 years, hence no reviews. At the moment, I'm looking for someone worthwhile to end my longest ever punting break with, but she must match my more memorable punts. 

The Rolling Stones, Bob Dylan, and Simon and Garfunkel have mentioned the hobby in their songs. Maybe we shouldn't be ashamed after all.

Full blown sodomites are coming out today, so why should we be so ashamed. 

[hullad]

No way

Do you need the notriety because people will be interested for a while and that will soon turn against you.

I have told no one and never will, it goes with me to the incinerator

[Spunky34]

Keep it to yourself.  There’s no good which can come of anyone else knowing.  At best, you’ll just be aware that people are judging you for it, at worst people may be openly hostile. 

[NigelF]

Hi All,

Does anyone else have the urge to tell a friend that they "see a few escorts here and there". I really want to tell someone about the insanely hot women i have had the chance to be with.

Think long and hard about why you feel this way. It surely can't be just because you want to suggest something helpful to a mate (or mates) or so you can share potentially mutually beneficial information. For many people, I think that urge more relates to your ego and subconsciously wanting to show off, much in the same way someone who buys a really nice designer item of clothing or accessory (e.g. watch), would get the urge to tell others that it's Armani or a Rolex etc, especially when no one seems to notice/ask.

As far as I can see there is no real benefit to me in telling others that I punt. Potentially, we could end up sharing info but I think that's very unlikely, especially since I don't imagine many of my friends or family punt or at least they probably don't do it very often. To be fair, they'd all probably say the same about me 

There do however seem to be plenty of risks, as others have suggested. As such, I've never told anyone I know that I punt and I'm perfectly happy that way. UKP is my way of sharing with others.

The guys a cunt. I told two of my closest friends and they were positively hostile, they've since conceded I had good cause. These two have been off the rails but felt they could judge me. I've told two others and they are jealous as fuck. 
My advice OP is NEVER NEVER tell any one. If things go tits up between you and your confident they have leverage. I wish I'd never told any one.
I do talk to fellow punters though, that in itself is a blessing.

Cheers for sharing. I'll try to remember you if I ever get asked about it in person and feel the temptation to spill the beans/help them out.

Some friends have told me they see escorts , and why they do .I have listened and agreed with them about their reasons for doing so .But I kept quiet about myself , some people have big mouths and love to spread the gossip .I think its best to just keep it to yourself .This is a secretive hobby ,which I knew nothing about when I started , Ive learnt a lot .I think 50%of the population havnt a clue what goes on ,they just believe what sensational crap  they read in the tabloids .
 Keep schtum .
  MT .

+1

Lots of people have big mouths and occasionally it's people you really don't expect. I've learnt this in regard to other "secrets", fortunately either just minor stuff or about other people.

[sparkus]

It's not something I've ever felt the need to share.  The closest was one night me and best mate were out very much the worse for wear, it was about 3am, he was pretty down in the dumps about not pulling (tell me something new) and we were streets away from several 'saunas' (I'd just 'discovered' them).  It was hanging on my lips to say 'Well, you don't need to go home without a sniff of pussy tonight' but thankfully nature kicked in and I began to slightly soil myself.

[cunningpunt]

I understand the desire to share but the advice on here is sound. This is a great forum for that reason and no good can come of it. That said I share with one trusted friend of 25 years standing and it's enabled us to meet up in Thailand and enjoy some shared experiences.

The point being that I know even if our relationship changed I have as much on him as he does on me and we've known each other forever

[tantraman]

Hi All,

Does anyone else have the urge to tell a friend that they "see a few escorts here and there". I really want to tell someone about the insanely hot women i have had the chance to be with.

I get this, OP ... after an incredible punt, part of me wants to shout about it off the rooftops ... but this must remain a secret hobby of ours ... 'ours', meaning UKP brethren, where at least we are able to share our exploits, whether they be P, N or N.

[DragonAgeInquisition]

Yes guys thanks for that I had a feeling the sensible thing to do was to keep quiet.

Reason being I have had a couple of good friends utter the desire (more than once). Especially when on tour (Prague, Amsterdam etc) but even back home. It is different when on holiday but yes.

Regarding the showing off, i never thought of it like that but when you think about it i guess you are correct, whether it is intended consciously or subconsciously. Now that you put it like that it does seem rather unbecoming.

Thanks all 

[jedi master]

I agree been punting all in for on and off for twenty years never told a soul about my secret expensive hobby.

I plan to keep that way and so should you as people will let slip in a joke and god forbid you end up getting blackmailed.

JM

[Stevensmiles]

Why? Why does anyone need to know?

Absolutely. Why the need to tell someone. For what purpose.
Is it some form of absolution. This inane quality that is always banded about. Honesty the best policy crap.


It gives out the message that paying for sex is somehow abhorrent. The need to open up to someone  so they can tell you it’s ok. There’s nothing wrong with you for fuck sake.

[anonyorks]

Nope, nope and nope

[themaserman]

I have told no one-it's the best way, as others on here have said someone
would love to let your secret out.

[blackburnian]

95% of my mates will always think I'm the boring twat that married a minger - if only they knew what birds I'd been through - and what I'd done that they'd never have tried   

I'll still be chortling to myself in my coffin - especially if they say they'll "have one for me" in the pub afterwards 

Keep your mouth shut OP - its best !

Bb

[ik8133]

I've had a few friends and workmates disclose to me that they've visited WGs, I've kept stum about my liaisons! 

[Dogbreath]

I haven’t even told my wife !

[Matium]

Hi All,

Does anyone else have the urge to tell a friend that they "see a few escorts here and there". I really want to tell someone about the insanely hot women i have had the chance to be with.

Tinder is a lot of effort and cold approach even more so! Not to mention the chances of securing solid 9/10s that way and the immense amount of effort required. I mean a threesome for example - I know if i bought it up with a prior gf it would the doghouse or worse. With awork its a few messages away at a time and place to suit!!

Join UKE, it has more of a chat atmosphere than UKP.

You can write about your experiences and chat to WGs too.

[DragonAgeInquisition]

Join UKE, it has more of a chat atmosphere than UKP.

You can write about your experiences and chat to WGs too.

Thanks I had no idea!

[nigel4498]

As I told you before on a previous post, discretion is the name of the game.
Tell no one.

[DragonAgeInquisition]

As I told you before on a previous post, discretion is the name of the game.
Tell no one.

Gotcha 

[nigel4498]

Gotcha 

Good man 

[MrMatrix]

I haven’t even told my wife !

I've not told your wife either..

[nigel4498]

I've not told your wife either..

I haven't told her either 

[s0whatsnew?]

I  told someone some years ago whom i only see once a year at a memorial dinner.   Afterwards we share a tube journey, i going home, he staying over with a female friend.   He's always very popular with civvies.   

His reaction was one of fascinated horror.  I never mentioned it again but every year there's a 'fumbling silence' in our conversations in which i can practically hear his brain scrambling to find a way of asking questions without admitting his interest.  I take an almost sadistic delight in not helping him out!   

[sparkus]

It's not like there's not similar awks between mates. One of mine once asked me to fuck his girlfriend while he watched. Needless to say they're not still together and I rarely see him.

[Gordon Bennett]

I cannot think of a single benefit from telling someone you visit prositutes. On the other hand, I can think of dozens of ways it would cause grief either now or down the line. Anyway, a gentleman never tells (read that in a field report don't you know!)

[Fuzzyduck]

Unless this is problem that needs sharing, it counts as boasting. IMO, if you boast about something, it gives people carte blanche to tell anyone and everyone.

The only time I have even considered doing something so foolhardy was when some guys were talking about porn stars: a name was mentioned and many agreed she was filthy. The urge to divulge that I'd fucked her was very strong. However, I knew the moment of triumph, flag waving and awe would quickly pass, and I'd be left with the fear that they'd go blabbing. People will judge and that judgement can define relationships.

[Derrick101]

I haven’t even told my wife !

Your wife knows I punt.... I've booked her 

[Waterhouse]

Whether it be SPs or SSs, discretion is key for most involved in this walk of life.  A lot of civies won't understand it and be too quick to judge.

Best just to enjoy it for the reasons you choose to do it and keep schtum.

[Ali Katt]

Hi All,

Does anyone else have the urge to tell a friend that they "see a few escorts here and there". I really want to tell someone about the insanely hot women i have had the chance to be with.

Tinder is a lot of effort and cold approach even more so! Not to mention the chances of securing solid 9/10s that way and the immense amount of effort required. I mean a threesome for example - I know if i bought it up with a prior gf it would the doghouse or worse. With awork its a few messages away at a time and place to suit!!

I've had doubts about you for a while now. Either you are very young or a troll, if it wasn't for the reviews I would seriously doubt your credibility.

[myothernameis]

Hi All,

Does anyone else have the urge to tell a friend that they "see a few escorts here and there". I really want to tell someone about the insanely hot women i have had the chance to be with.

Sell story to newspapers, and everyone will get to here, and you even get some more money, and go to see more hot women

[myothernameis]

I told my friend at lunch. He looked at me and than looked at his food and continued eating.

The following day he described not to join me at lunch.

Someone in my work, told some of us this, and before he knew, it got round the work place, he became the laughing stock, of the work, and some female colleagues kept away from him

[Mr Sinister]

Some of my closest friends are punters, we've been on lads "punting holiday's." Work wise I'm in square mile guys get up to all sorts of sordid shit, only a couple of guys I've talked to on it mainly holiday stuff no big deal.

[poundstock]

Under what circumstances could it be sensible to tell a friend. How do you know your friend won’t tell someone else either immediately or sometime in the future. Good job you’ve got “friends” on here to slap some common sense into you.

[signy]

You have two sensible choices. Either (1) Tell no-one, or (2) Think long and hard, and then tell no-one.

Alternatively, If you would like to appear on the TV a lot, put a big sign up in your garden saying "I fuck whores" abd you will be all over the media in no time.

[A Decent Fist]

I agree completely that punters should tell no one about they get up to, but sometimes I'm sorely tempted to help out a single mate who freely tells his male friends about a Romanian hooker he'd been seeing maybe four times a year for a very long time until recently.

He had the full Emotional Attachment Syndrome – paying for five-star hotels on top of her fee for their all-night liaisons, exchanging regular personal emails, giving her extra money "to help her family" when she asked (he's not rich), even wanting to believe her when she claimed she didn't see other guys.

He says this was all worth it because she was one of the most beautiful young women he'd ever met and the sex was always out of this world. Like me, he's a guy in his 60s.

He finally told her no when she asked him for a five-figure sum to deal with some alleged crisis in her life and she told him he was "dumped". We shall see. For the moment, he needs a replacement and he doesn't know how to find one. I don't know how he found the Rom girl in the first place but not through online channels.

I always told him he was a fool for giving her extra cash and believing her stories, but from the perspective of a non-judgmental friend with no special knowledge. Now there's a part of me that really wants to point him in the direction of Adultwork and UK Punting to let him know there are ways of paying beautiful women for fabulous sex without being taken for a mug.

Maybe there's some credible way to achieve this without giving myself away, but in all honesty I probably won't say a damn thing. He knows my GF and it would be such a hostage to fortune – one of those tough choices where you simply have to put your own interests first.