How do you stop the craving?

[Hobbit]

I'm really craving for a quick shag but don't really want to go over my budget and don't have much left until payday next week. It would be great if there were more options for handjobs for £50 or so but some may argue that even that is too much. I don't really want to pay for a full session due to financial constraints this month and have some bills coming up that I need to save for. I asked around some girls for a massage and HR and was quoted silly rates like £150 that I'm not paying for a handjob. I know times are tough but some of these girls must think we are stupid or desperate.

So how do you get your mind off it? Apart from having a wank how do you get this mind to stop thinking about it? It's like having a monkey on your back that won't get off. 

[JontyR]

Do something else that you will lose yourself in - you'll know yourself what may tick your boxes.

An acquaintance of mine overcame their cravings for opiates by playing online backgammon.

[EUGENE TACKLEBERRY]

Mr H

You've answered your own question,  just wait its nearly the end of the month, the bills you mention are more important! When its 50nfor just a HJ I'm gonna pack in!

Xnxx, search your fave porn lady and have a steady pull off

Research and enjoy the deserved next one

 

[Jonestown]

So how do you get your mind off it? Apart from having a wank how do you get this mind to stop thinking about it? It's like having a monkey on your back that won't get off. 

You might start taking your mind off it by avoiding spending time on websites that have sex or punting as significant themes.

[stevedave]

Just wank.

If it makes you feel better, hand place £50 on your bedside table first, then once you've finished, put it back in your wallet 

[Hobbit]

You might start taking your mind off it by avoiding spending time on websites that have sex or punting as significant themes.

True. But sometimes I feel like when the valve is open too much there is no way of stopping it apart from letting it open completely. If you get my point.

I don't know what else I could do to get my mind off it. Bloody Boris has closed everything and normally I would go to the pub and have a drink and chill. But nothing is open!

[Hobbit]

Just wank.

If it makes you feel better, hand place £50 on your bedside table first, then once you've finished, put it back in your wallet 

So, I could pay myself £50 for a handjob.  I'd be a millionaire in no time. 

[Mr Sinister]

Punting is like being a vampire you can never stop the craving. £50 for a HJ what type of high class girls are you seeing? There are girls on VS who charge £30 for a P&D If you really need to let off some steam especially just getting HJ.

[Hobbit]

Punting is like being a vampire you can never stop the craving. £50 for a HJ what type of high class girls are you seeing? There are girls on VS who charge £30 for a P&D If you really need to let off some steam especially just getting HJ.

i'm just quoting a random figure and would happily pay less.

[mradventures]

maybe try buying a tenga egg or other male mastibator thing

[itk]

Best thing I’ve found to do if I get the urge is to have a wank, and as I already have the cash stashed away at home ready for punting is to buy something that I need. (ie DIY tools if needed, or fishing gear that I want to upgrade.) What I’ve also done the last year with so few punts is put that £100/ £200 a month aside into an ISA. At the rate I’m currently saving it’ll be something of significance I can buy myself.

[Crockers]

Yep. Whereas last year I would. Spend £120-£150 on a punt just because I wanted to rather than needed to, I now just put that money into my punting cash. So not having 4 punts gives me approx £500.

That money I can spend when I really need to, and on something special. Maybe a duo or all dayer with a reg.

Sometimes I'll even draw the cash out of an ATM and keep it in my stash thinking that will come of good use at the right time, rather than just going on another here-today-gone-tomorrow shag.

Got a hefty bundle now.

[BJrimmer]

Alice in Rotherham is a good option. £45 for a 1 hour sensual massage with HR.

[Payyourwaymate]

Will power and discipline, or find something that takes a higher priority than sex.

[Dipper]

Just wank.

If it makes you feel better, hand place £50 on your bedside table first, then once you've finished, put it back in your wallet 

That’s not a bad idea. 

But I’d probably just see it as future spare punt money

[Payyourwaymate]

I can testify that wanking more than needed does not help. It makes it worse, plus you lose vitality/energy and feel groggy for an extended period of time. Well, I do anyway.

[Bru1901]

A good shag leaves you craving more

A bad shag leaves you wanting a break

[Kelgon85]

Have a wank. God knows how much money I've saved over the years by rubbing one out.

[isaac_gauss]

Cold showers.

Edited to add: go look up what people recommend for dealing with porn cravings from the nofap/porn addiction recovery community. That's where I found the above.

[Jayne_cobb]

It’s an interesting question- if I don’t rub one out in the morning I find myself regularly checking aw and ukp through out the day to see if anyone tempting has arrived. I’m lucky I live in a punting desert with very little that is tempting

[Straightsix]

I like chatting women up in supermarkets. The rejection puts me off for about 2 days.

[centry]

Invest in a flesh-light, it's about £60 - £70 and let the imagination run wild.

[anonymouse72]

Just keep repeatedly asking yourself the following question then have a wank.

How crap will I end up feeling if I spend £50 on a punt that turns out to be shit?

Quality over quantity mate. Save up so you can treat yourself to a positive punt with a well reviewed SP. Punting is a luxury and not an essential. You need to get your priorities right. I wasted loads craving a quick p&d when I was younger and had less disposable income. Spent lots of time afterwards feeling guilty that it could have been £50 less on my credit card balance.

[Vic69]

I like chatting women up in supermarkets. The rejection puts me off for about 2 days.

That's so funny!

It always fascinates me the difference between the sexes, if I'm horny I have a play with my toy, i just think for a woman, an orgasm is an orgasm no matter how its delivered, before I was a SP I thought it was the other way round....women looking for the more sensual side and guys look just for a quick release. Dont get me wrong I love the sensual aspect of it, but I would never get the urges that have been described on here....I would just get my toy out and satisfy myself and that need would then go for a couple of days lol

[JonasG]

Nothing beats a good old wank.

You'll soon exit AW and get on with your day lol.

[Straightsix]

guys look just for a quick release.

Which is why I only book 15 minute appointments. I wanna shoot my load and get on with my day as I always have more important stuff to do. The innate desire to procreate really is a massive load of overrated tosh.

[Stevelondon]

Invest in a flesh-light, it's about £60 - £70 and let the imagination run wild.

Can I get one of those in B&Q or.......

Oh I see.
Flesh.     

[Plan R]

Ground the charge by having a tug.
Alternatively, be over 50

Gone are the days when I would be foaming at the mouth and had to have a punt that day.
Now I can delay and plan a punt days in advance. It's still on my mind during that time, just not compelled to act on it.
Makes me laugh compared to the old 20s/30s me.

(to be honest I'd rather still be that lust crazed idiot)

[the_exile]

I think one of the other contributors has said to find something else that you can lose yourself in - that works for me, being busy stops me sitting around, thinking about sex.

Wanking can sometimes sort things out, but other times it only takes the edge of it - like having a carrot when what you really want is a Mars bar, you still want the Mars bar later! I've had it where i've felt really worked up, had a wank and came, but still ended up visiting a WG later. Would have been better (cheaper!) If i'd found something else to do for the day and got busy with that instead.

[Moby Dick]

Ground the charge by having a tug.
Alternatively, be over 50

Gone are the days when I would be foaming at the mouth and had to have a punt that day.
Now I can delay and plan a punt days in advance. It's still on my mind during that time, just not compelled to act on it.
Makes me laugh compared to the old 20s/30s me.

(to be honest I'd rather still be that lust crazed idiot)

This ^^^^^^

I would like to think I can make better decisions as I get older.

I look back to not so long ago and I was not in control of my urges.

Last couple of years the only thing I CBA with is a gangbang/MMF/FFM.
COVID has put a stop to that (for now).

[Whiteknight]

Have 2 wanks

[the_exile]

2 wanks - damn, why didn't I think of that?!

 

[adamza]

Having a wank usually does the trick for me - primarily due to the "release", but also as it helps me to trick myself into thinking "if I have a punt today, it won't be that good because I had a wank this morning". 

Which is utter shite as I know that I can produce several large loads a day, and I've had some great punts shortly after having a wank...but it still seems to work 

[Urban_G]

... It's like having a monkey on your back that won't get off.

Spank the monkey! That should help.

[Bd4u247]

Nothing beats a good old wank.

You'll soon exit AW and get on with your day lol.

A nice soapy one at that, MrJ 

[victor989]

Why spend £50 for a only a HJ/blow from a WG, when you can spend an 'evening in' with Pornhub and your right hand. The advantages are:

1) The WG is always beautiful (if you want)
2) It's very cheap and convenient.
3) You can't catch anything.

[Jonestown]

Spoonful of bromide in your morning cuppa does the job.

[vindici]

I can testify that wanking more than needed does not help. It makes it worse, plus you lose vitality/energy and feel groggy for an extended period of time. Well, I do anyway.

I don't know. I feel the same sometimes and other times it really helps.

It depends on what else is going on in life.

I find that if I can make myself busy with other priorities, the urge can be put off, same with the odd wank here and there. However the fantasies of meeting "the one highest on the HL" keep resurging, and it is hard to push that completely away.

[Malvolio]

Having a 'meh' punt puts me off organising the next one - so deliberately TOFTT with a Romanian whose profile was created in the last week.

[SamOmar]

I'm really craving for a quick shag but don't really want to go over my budget and don't have much left until payday next week. It would be great if there were more options for handjobs for £50 or so but some may argue that even that is too much. I don't really want to pay for a full session due to financial constraints this month and have some bills coming up that I need to save for. I asked around some girls for a massage and HR and was quoted silly rates like £150 that I'm not paying for a handjob. I know times are tough but some of these girls must think we are stupid or desperate.

So how do you get your mind off it? Apart from having a wank how do you get this mind to stop thinking about it? It's like having a monkey on your back that won't get off. 

You seem like an experienced punter / person. I am rubbish with finances and have a very laid back attitude with life. Sometimes I don't punt for months and other times 5 times a week and for me there is nothing wrong with taking a break, my craving is the same if I punt often or sparsely. Negotiating with girls never goes down well and you may loose credibility when trying to book them in future. With anything to get your mind of it you need to keep yourself occupied. Take up another hobby even its temporary and your mind will be occupied with something else.

Some things I do when I feel like I am going down a slippery slope;

Go to stay with relatives / friends in another city
Do some gardening
Learn some new cooking techniques / recipes and intern visit unique shops and markets put a dish together
Some reading or writing
Go through music albums you have not listened to in years
Attempt a craft or DIY project
Go for long walks in the city and listen to a walking tour
If your single its quite fun to join a foreign website and talk with ladies all over the world

[Mr_Shins]

Just wank.

If it makes you feel better, hand place £50 on your bedside table first, then once you've finished, put it back in your wallet 

Spend the £50 on a good bottle of whisky. Or wine or something else that really takes your fancy.

Then wank.

Then sit back and enjoy your drink.

[Stevelondon]

I am a chocoholic. Just love the stuff.

But as I’m getting on a bit and want to eat better, drink better, exercise better etc etc.

I decided to only buy dark chocolate high in cocoa (Better for you or so I have been told)

It’s working great. Feel better already.
But now I’m starting to crave punts with black girls and ebonies.

What’s wrong with me 

[SamOmar]

I am a chocoholic. Just love the stuff.

But as I’m getting on a bit and want to eat better, drink better, exercise better etc etc.

I decided to only buy dark chocolate high in cocoa (Better for you or so I have been told)

It’s working great. Feel better already.
But now I’m starting to crave punts with black girls and ebonies.

What’s wrong with me 

I've recently had the same craving

[Payyourwaymate]

I don't know. I feel the same sometimes and other times it really helps.

It depends on what else is going on in life.

I find that if I can make myself busy with other priorities, the urge can be put off, same with the odd wank here and there. However the fantasies of meeting "the one highest on the HL" keep resurging, and it is hard to push that completely away.

I think the most appropriate comparison I can liken the urges to are like watching a pressure gauge fluctuate. It starts off at zero and slowly builds up towards 100, wanking takes the pressure down to a range of 40-60 but now when the pressure goes back up, it increases at a faster rate towards 100 negating the previous slower rate increase of the urge pressure levels due to the wanking providing a temporary release, but leaving more to be desired. It's like water or air rushing into an empty space where there is no water/air to fill it, almost like a form of diffusion. Visual activity, unsatisfactory punts and and an extended period of no release, can also lead to urge pressure levels increasing at a faster rate. Only actual sexual activity resets the urge pressure levels to zero before the cycle starts again. Rinse and repeat (That is how it feels for me anyway).


EDIT: The gif illustrates what I am trying to express in words much easier, not sure if it is working though.

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[Thephoenix]

I am a chocoholic. Just love the stuff.

But as I’m getting on a bit and want to eat better, drink better, exercise better etc etc.

I decided to only buy dark chocolate high in cocoa (Better for you or so I have been told)

It’s working great. Feel better already.
But now I’m starting to crave punts with black girls and ebonies.

What’s wrong with me 

You should be careful about mixing your chocolate 😁



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[vindici]

I think the most appropriate comparison I can liken the urges to are like watching a pressure gauge fluctuate. It starts off at zero and slowly builds up towards 100...

Totally agree with you, much of the time it feels the same for me.

[Stevelondon]

You should be careful about mixing your chocolate 😁



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