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Online MissWolf

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Indeed, if you’re of a mind to leave your wife do it and set up on your own, then see how the relationship with this SP looks, otherwise it could be out of the frying pan and into the fire tout suite. If the phone activity is irking you now, imagine what the whole set up would be like full time.

This is 1000% the best piece of advice please listen to it

Never leave one for another no matter who they are or what the situation, always have a period of separation so you can step back and regroup for clarity

Offline Doc Holliday

If the phone activity is irking you now, imagine what the whole set up would be like full time.

Yep

BOGMF - Buy One Get Many Free. I can't see the point of buy one.

Whatever the actual arrangement, it is still a business one and has a poor prognosis

Offline PaulRuff

I went through something similar and looked to leave my wife - let me just say when it all blows up and comes out in the open its not nearly as much fun ... and i assure you the SP will loose interest as its not 'naughty' or 'exciting' any more ... pls pls pls don't - others , like me, have been here and its not good.

+1.  Keep her very much on the side, she could well be saying what she's saying to you to other 'special' regulars - and you WILL eventually be bothered by her sucking and fucking other guys most days of the week.

The situation will look & feel very differently in six months if you progress things any further with her than you have now.

Tread carefully.

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

It can work but only if you accept her for what she does. I belive some of the ladies who post here are married or in relationships etc.

Theres a woman here near cambridge, often her bloke answers the door and ushers you upstaris to see his missus if you can accept that well;!..

Offline tomnash1971

Thanks for your advice guys !!
Was a way to see her more but it is a fucked up situation tbh

Online RandomGuy99

I have this happen all the time, but I usually wake up just before the good stuff happens.

Offline mh

Dressing the customer at he end of a punt is a basic part of course 101 at the Chinese sex-gang whoring academies.
It's forced into them as part of their happy-smiley indoctrination training

That's comforting, I've never been assisted with dressing by any of the Chinese SPs I've met in London, so perhaps they're all free-trading, self-possessed, indie tossers.
Similarly present generation of Thai's have not been so hospitable, whether escorts, parlour girls or genuine masseuses.

I've punted in what were probably "Chinese sex-gang whoring academies", in several cities in China plus HK and I don't recall being dressed at the end, certainly not on any regular noticeable basis.

But on my most recent punt in the UK with a Thai girl, she "dressed me like a hand maiden" (to quote from my review) and it was a lovely touch.

Offline SimonSays2108

Thanks for your advice guys !!
Was a way to see her more but it is a fucked up situation tbh

Speaking from experience the sex doesn't get better when its for free - she then doesn't need to 'work for it' and it can become, as it does in most relationships, mechanical / mundane.

Offline Doc Holliday

Speaking from experience the sex doesn't get better when its for free - she then doesn't need to 'work for it' and it can become, as it does in most relationships, mechanical / mundane.

My experience is exactly the opposite.

Offline willie loman

my advice is to always pay for it, no matter who is the keener, infauation eventually wears off, and clarity begins.

Offline tomnash1971

Apologies I don't know how to reply to an individual reply but most answers make sense.

JonesTown & miss Wolfe replies were very relevant and made me think. Clean break and re evaluate seems best way forward.

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Apologies I don't know how to reply to an individual reply but most answers make sense.

JonesTown & miss Wolfe replies were very relevant and made me think. Clean break and re evaluate seems best way forward.
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Apologies I don't know how to reply to an individual reply but most answers make sense.

JonesTown & miss Wolfe replies were very relevant and made me think. Clean break and re evaluate seems best way forward.
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Offline tomnash1971

My experience is exactly the opposite.
no exact opposite,  sex has got better and more personal

Offline Doc Holliday

no exact opposite,  sex has got better and more personal

But from your post, you are still have a business arrangement with her and at her bequest? The nature of that was what I questioned.

Offline Lastfour1479

Don’t do it! That nice effect can wear off and then you’ll be stuck with her while she still gets ploughed daily.

Don’t think with your dick. Think long term

Also, you will never see her made up and in all that sexy underwear. You get no make up, PJs and having to listen to her go on about who's done what.
Oh and BJs go out the window.
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Online RandomGuy99

.. BJs go out the window.
Do you need a ladder or scaffolding for those?

Offline Fence Post

Don’t do it! That nice effect can wear off and then you’ll be stuck with her while she still gets ploughed daily.

Don’t think with your dick. Think long term

Also, you will never see her made up and in all that sexy underwear. You get no make up, PJs and having to listen to her go on about who's done what.
Oh and BJs go out the window.

There's a difference between what she'll do for money and what she actually enjoys doing in private

Offline Doc Holliday


There's a difference between what she'll do for money and what she actually enjoys doing in private

There is and equally she may well enjoy a great deal more in private.

There is an inevitable jaundiced view from many of sex in relationships, which is why they punt.

« Last Edit: April 01, 2023, 10:58:07 am by Doc Holliday »

Offline Southernbloke

In fantasy land it sounds great living with a sex worker . What happens when you moan once too often about her working and she gives it up with the question of you then covering her lost income ?


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There is an inevitable jaundiced view from many of sex

Especially if you have a Simpsons fetish.

Offline Mr Farkyhars

I don't buy the argument that it was to reward being a good customer, unless she explicitly said so.

There might well be a downside to an SP being explicit about that kind of thing, because after all she doesn't really know the punter, and who can tell what might be the reaction.. as they probably say over at SAAFE, "don't give them ideas above their station"..

Offline Doc Holliday

What happens when you moan once too often about her working and she gives it up with the question of you then covering her lost income ?

Then as with most things in life you talk it through and reach a decision. It could be ...

You go your separate ways.
You make her a 'kept woman'.
She finds/returns to other employment with your assistance and support.

The third option puts you in the same position as most modern day couples.

Offline Southernbloke

Then as with most things in life you talk it through and reach a decision. It could be ...

You go your separate ways.
You make her a 'kept woman'.
She finds/returns to other employment with your assistance and support.

The third option puts you in the same position as most modern day couples.

Just making a point that maybe the other member hadn’t thought of but yes of course you are correct Doc

Offline Lastfour1479

Do you need a ladder or scaffolding for those?

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Offline JustaPunter

Let’s be brutally honest.

Very few will ever be in a situation where the SW gets EAS or even considers a relationship with a client.

They are out of our league otherwise we would have been able to pull them in real life.

It’s a nice fantasy but unless they come out and tell you to your face they have feelings for you then they don’t.

Sometimes life hurts, but living in hope that something will develop will likely hurt more.
« Last Edit: April 01, 2023, 06:02:06 pm by JustaPunter »

Offline alabama1

Let’s be brutally honest.

Very few will ever be in a situation where the SW gets EAS or even considers a relationship with a client.

They are out of our league otherwise we would have been able to pull them in real life.

It’s a nice fantasy but unless they come out and tell you to your face they have feelings for you then they don’t.

Sometimes life hurts, but living in hope that something will develop will likely hurt more.

They might be out of yours.  :rolleyes:

Offline Doc Holliday

They might be out of yours.  :rolleyes:

 :lol: That's probably because he's just a punter

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Let’s be brutally honest.

They are out of our league otherwise we would have been able to pull them in real life.
That's a rather sweeping statement, how do you know what others are capable of pulling or why they chose to pay for that matter?   :unknown:

I for one punt because I have no interest in having a relationship so therefore no interest in pulling anyone and I'm sure I'm not alone.

Offline JustaPunter

So you have no problem pulling 23 year olds that are attractive enough to turn every head in a Mayfair restaurant ?

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

In fantasy land it sounds great living with a sex worker . What happens when you moan once too often about her working and she gives it up with the question of you then covering her lost income ?

Simples! she'll start charging YOU!....

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So you have no problem pulling 23 year olds that are attractive enough to turn every head in a Mayfair restaurant ?
Read what I posted and stop trolling. I have no interest in pulling anybody and I don't punt 23 year olds who would turn heads in Mayfair.

Speak for your self and not others that you have no idea about.

BTW I have no interest in going to a Mayfair restaurant either, in fact I have no interest in going to London full stop.

Out of curiosity tell me something about me, what I do for a job, what sort of house I live in, who I associate with or anything like that.

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That's a rather sweeping statement, how do you know what others are capable of pulling or why they chose to pay for that matter?   :unknown:

I for one punt because I have no interest in having a relationship so therefore no interest in pulling anyone and I'm sure I'm not alone.
You're not alone

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I for one punt because I have no interest in having a relationship so therefore no interest in pulling anyone and I'm sure I'm not alone.

This, 100%

Offline JustaPunter

Read what I posted and stop trolling. I have no interest in pulling anybody and I don't punt 23 year olds who would turn heads in Mayfair.

Speak for your self and not others that you have no idea about.

BTW I have no interest in going to a Mayfair restaurant either, in fact I have no interest in going to London full stop.

Out of curiosity tell me something about me, what I do for a job, what sort of house I live in, who I associate with or anything like that.


Why do assume that somebody that has a different opinion to yours is trolling?

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Why do assume that somebody that has a different opinion to yours is trolling?
Because you keep repeating the same thing no matter how many people tell you you are wrong.

Your statement - "They are out of our league otherwise we would have been able to pull them in real life."  then you go on to say some crap about being able to pull 20 something year olds. You can't accept that people punt for different reasons and booking someone 'out of your league' is only one of them.

You can only speak for yourself so why do you continually speak for all punters, punters you know nothing about.   :unknown:

You have no idea what sort of escort I look to book or indeed if I would be able to pull them in real life so how can you say they are out of MY league.   :unknown:

The 2 posts above your's agree that they have no interest in a relationship so 'pulling' doesn't come into it.

BTW my last wife was 20 years my junior so don't tell me who I'm capable of pulling.



« Last Edit: April 02, 2023, 12:30:17 pm by daviemac »

Offline JustaPunter

Because you keep repeating the same thing no matter how many people tell you you are wrong.

Your statement - "They are out of our league otherwise we would have been able to pull them in real life."  then you go on to say some crap about being able to pull 20 something year olds. You can't accept that people punt for different reasons and booking someone 'out of your league' is only one of them.

You can only speak for yourself so why do you continually speak for all punters, punters you know nothing about.   :unknown:

You have no idea what sort of escort I look to book or indeed if I would be able to pull them in real life so how can you say they are out of MY league.   :unknown:

The 2 posts above your's agree that they have no interest in a relationship so 'pulling' doesn't come into it.

BTW my last wife was 20 years my junior so don't tell me who I'm capable of pulling.

It’s called having an opinion, why should everybody have the same opinion ?

You disagree with mine which is fine.

I disagree with yours, which is also fine.

Offline alabama1

It’s called having an opinion, why should everybody have the same opinion ?

You disagree with mine which is fine.

I disagree with yours, which is also fine.

Having your own opinion is fine. Just stop trying to represent the rest of us !

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It’s called having an opinion, why should everybody have the same opinion ?

You disagree with mine which is fine.

I disagree with yours, which is also fine.
You are stating what should be put over as your opinion as a fact, you assume every punter wants to book someone way out of their league when the truth is there's loads out there who don't, they want to book escorts nearer their own age because they feel more comfortable in their company and those are the escorts that quite possibly could be pulled in normal life, if they were that way inclined.

You are trying to speak for all punters and that is not expressing an opinion. That is what you are failing to grasp.

Offline Belgarion

First off, this may sound like a brag, but I don't  intend  it as such, and I'm a bit troubled  by it.

Booked to see a regular.  Booked by text in the morning for an evening appointment.

When I got there, she said "oh, I've been waiting  all day to see you", which I took as usual  SP flattery.

Great session, mix of PSE and GFE. Afterwards, she cuddled up to me and there was some chit-chat including some quite personal stuff.

Eventually got up to dress, 45 minutes into a 30 minute booking. She helped me dress, buttoned my shirt  tied my laces and so on. In between,  she was kissing me.

Took my wallet out (I've  always paid at the end) and she refused the money ("no, no you don't need to pay".)

Now it's all very well getting a freebie, but her behaviour  bothered  me like SHE had EAS on me.  What do you chaps reckon? I don't want to stop seeing her but only as a SP not a "girlfriend".

It is called "WAS" Wallet Attachment Syndrome.

She's preparing you for the big con.

Offline hermanmunster

Maybe, I am being naive, but I assumed that everyone would have had WGs falling for them at some point. I assumed it was a common thing - i had one on Saturday almost pleading with me to let her cook me a meal. I declined. Most girls suffer from loneliness in some way.  I cannot review yet for obvious reasons.

Offline petermisc

Maybe, I am being naive, but I assumed that everyone would have had WGs falling for them at some point. I assumed it was a common thing - i had one on Saturday almost pleading with me to let her cook me a meal. I declined. Most girls suffer from loneliness in some way.  I cannot review yet for obvious reasons.
I suspect it depends on what type of punter you are.  If you are the kind that goes for the quick, wham-bam-thank you mam type of session, I suspect that it happens less often than if you are the kind of punter who enjoys a longer, more relaxed session where you get time to chat.  I also suspect that it happens more with those who make repeat visits, where the girl gets to know the punter.

Over the years, I have had several WGs fall for me, and initially it can feel quite flattering.  However, get her hopes up, and then dash them, and you may lose any chance of her seeing you again.

Several have cooked for me, some have asked me to stay the night.  One even asked if I was ready to settle down and get married (She didn't actually say "with me", but the inference was clear enough.  Anyway, I never got to see her again, after I answered "no"!).  Unfortunately, many WGs come with a lot of baggage of one kind or another, and you can find yourself spending a lot of time listening to tales of woe, rather than enjoying yourself.  And sooner or later, she is going to want to know if you are seeing anyone else, and if so, why.  Unless you are ready to give up punting, and are prepared to support the girl (and probably some of her family too), it is best to make it clear from the outset that you are not interested in a relationship.

Offline JonasG

Yeah, I'd agree with that.

I only ever do 30 minute punts and the chances of EAS from either mine or the WGs side is pretty low.


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Does it happen? Yes.
How often does it happen? A lot less than you think.

I got given a real name by a girl. I hadn't asked for it. She must be madly in love with me.  :D

Offline alabama1

Does it happen? Yes.
How often does it happen? A lot less than you think.

I got given a real name by a girl. I hadn't asked for it. She must be madly in love with me.  :D
A visit to Dunelm must surely be on the cards next mate, choosing curtains.  :D

Offline Munter84

A visit to Dunelm must surely be on the cards next mate, choosing curtains.  :D

He wanted beef curtains, but ended up getting sash curtains.

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Offline Shagswell2001

Reading through this thread, I recall a fairly well reviewed Thai escort who is actively seeking a husband, even willing to pay for one. I wonder is this a pretence for a similar situation..