Im not saying that punters shoudnt be discreet , like if im sat in a doctors waiting room i dont want to be talking to a hooker so i turn my phone on silent, im saying that it is responsibility of punters to take care of their own discretion and safety not shift it unfairly onto hookers. I take care of my own discretion on here by using the name cotton which isnt my real name. If anyone is scared of their kids looking at their phones then they should passlock their phones at least.
If you shift the responsibility of punter discretion onto hookers then - 1 - hookers are unfairly burbened with the responsibility of punters safety and unfairly have there ability to contact people as normal impinged and 2 - if punters rely on hookers to be discrete it is a recipe for disaster anyway as alot of hookers dont accept this responsibility for being discrete in communication , so its a recipe for disaster.
Also i feel its discriminatory in a way - some punters have an acute need for discretion and because of this hookers suposedly shoudnt contact anyone, including people who want to be contacted , how unfair is that the problem lies with certain punters behaviour , ie , cheating etc , i dont have a problem with cheating but i think its unfair to throw the burden of responsibility to keeping it secret onto a third party , hookers arnt cheating so why stigmatise them with it.
Like i asked before - if im lying to my wife that ive quit gambling and the booky sends me a promo text or call is that bad form or wrong on the part of the booky I would say not as its not the bookies responsibility to know individuals personal circumstances and needs , its up to the individual to do what is necessary for their own safety and discretion.
The booky is just doing a normal behaviour of contacting a potential customer - should hookers be any diferent , should hookers be considered a separate category of people in society
Some hookers like Misswolf may pro-actively try and be discreet and thats to be commended but i dont think you can critiscise other hookers who dont have this level of awareness or just choose to behave in a normal way and reply to peoples text inquiries like anyone else would and just behave like they are a normal person in society just doing a job and an honest days work.
We shoudnt be loading our problems onto hookers , hookers are stigmatised enough already so personally id support them communicating just like anyone else rather going down the route of marginalising and stigmatising them due to what are individual punter issues.
You are being deliberately antagonistic, you are twisting words, try reading my posts again.
I'll see if I can explain once again in a way you can understand.
I did not say that escorts should not contact anyone.
I said that due to the nature of the game they should not contact punters without permission.
The OP of this thread was contacting the SP via txt message, the SP should have replied via txt message NOT by an unsolicited phone call.
By making contact by txt message the OP was being as discreet as he could, by replying to the txt message with a phone call the SP was not being discreet.
Had the OP said in his txt message when and how he could be contacted or that a phone call at any time was OK there would not be a problem and a call would be acceptable. He didn't so it wasn't.
I have given one example of why unsolicited calls are unacceptable but you don't seem to be able to differentiate between the reaction others would have if an unidentified female phoned compared to a company selling something.
Why do you think AW have a specific section where punters state a date and time to be contacted, it's because they understand the need for escorts to be discreet.
Hidden Image/Members OnlyJust to reiterate so you don't misunderstand again.
Had the SP in this case replied to the OP by txt message there would not be a problem it is the fact she telephoned that caused the issue. So note I'm not saying she should not have replied but she should not have replied in the way she did.
To expand it a bit to cold calling, unsolicited telephone calls from ANYONE are unacceptable and are generally classed as a nuisance and in some cases are illegal. That is why you can register your number with the Telephone Preference Service -
External Link/Members Only - when registered it allows you to opt out of receiving unsolicited sales and marketing calls, therefore it could be argued that it would be illegal for an escort to 'cold call' any punter who's number is registered to offer services.