Non Punter Mentality vs Punter Mindset

[GreyDave]

shagged two girls both twins after......

  well as those of us that know....after doing your reserch on UK Punting and finding them on AW 

There have been two brace of twins to shoot the load in   recentley the Apple twins and the Carrie and Clara at Niki`s place in HA3 

[Plan R]

Thanks for sharing Jindy. You don't sound unlike me. With civvies I think I was quite lucky in my late teens and early 20s, but it seems to get harder since and it's an issue in itself, but I think things like #metoo don't help.

If even Henry Cavill (who must get more ass than a toilet seat) is confused by the #fuckmetoo movement - things must be bad..

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[jimbobted]

First few times I was nervous, didn't perform well and felt guilty afterwards. But I became aware I wasn't feeling guilty because I was ashamed, but because that's what society conditions us to do. I also had a punt (reviewed) that just didn't feel right, she wasn't into it. I think in hindsight that may have been my anxiety.
I took a break for a while and chose very carefully for my next punt, which was a couple of weeks ago and was absolutely fantastic. Don't feel guilty about it at all.
Don't get me wrong, Mrs Jimbobted wouldn't see it the same way, but like others for me it's no different to procuring any other service EXCEPT I want the girl to genuinely enjoy what we do. It's one thing getting a haircut from a bored 19 year old, quite another screwing a bored 19 year old who doesn't really want to be there.
I will review the punt above shortly, already booked another longer session...

[misterali]

It’s kind of like if a man told me he’s had Botox or has his eyebrows done or wears make up, its a bit weird for me. I’m not one to judge but it’s almost extreme and wrong. I guess punting would be same to those others.

Now that I think about it, who wouldn’t want wrinkle-free perfect skin and shapely eyebrows??

[gordoncharles]

The best advice I ever read in a book was from P J O'Rourke:   If it floats, flies or fucks - rent it

[charger70]

It has already been said in this thread, but l view whores as just one more specialist who attends to bodily needs - like the dentist, the doctor, the barber

Quote above , below my thoughts, sorry , seem to have cocked up the copy and paste system!

That’s very true, but it’s not the only profession with a stigma! How many people would volunteer that they have paid to visit a shrink even a councillor? 

I’me not saying I’d volunteer that I visit WG’s but I think by visiting them, ive avoided the need to see either of the others! ( wife not showing any interest for many years now!)

The hourly rate for all professionals is much the Same, so meeting with WG’s maybe not such an expensive therapy after all!

[shagmore]

Going back to the original thread, those that say they don't have to pay for it, Oh yes they do, they have to take the wife / GF out for dinner, holiday, cars etc and this ends up much more than paying your amount for 30mins or an hour with a WG, and you know you are going to get a blow job, fuck her, (pussy or arse) or come over her face. You can not say that with the wife or GF.
Non punters are trapped in un happy marriages in most case. I know I was, until the happy day of divorce.

[Ali Katt]

Going back to the original thread, those that say they don't have to pay for it, Oh yes they do, they have to take the wife / GF out for dinner, holiday, cars etc and this ends up much more than paying your amount for 30mins or an hour with a WG, and you know you are going to get a blow job, fuck her, (pussy or arse) or come over her face. You can not say that with the wife or GF.
Non punters are trapped in un happy marriages in most case. I know I was, until the happy day of divorce.

I know it is an inconvenient truth for many people, but this is what we say to justify the obscene amount of money we spend. Let's face it though the people that often say that would be more likely to find a three headed unicorn than a sympathy fuck.

[Slowjoe]

I don't think there is much of a difference and the vast majority of men would punt but many don't because they are scared of getting caught, robbed or catching something. Punters know with care those risks are low. The odd person may have other moral type reasons or be skint.

[Danger!WillRobinson]

I started punting early (18), simply because I was as randy as fuck, bored and lacking in choice of available women/girls. I continued on and off, but have given up when in relationships, other than over the last 4-5 years when late wife's health issues meant punting was a more obvious/kinder avenue than an affair - I did not want emotional attachment, I just wanted physical intimacy.

Whilst the late OH from time to time discussed that I should perhaps visit WGs, I don't know if she suspected or knew that I was. However, she recognised that I had a physical need, which she, sadly could not provide. Would be great if more women were like that.

Whilst visiting WGs clearly falls into the infidelity bracket, I think there's a definite punter mentality that enables some people (self included) to seek physical thrills elsewhere, yet still manage to be invested in a loving relationship, just one that doesn't necessarily provide as much intimacy as we would like. Certainly I'm one of those who views it very much as a service akin to visiting the barber, etc.

[jimbobted]

Whilst visiting WGs clearly falls into the infidelity bracket, I think there's a definite punter mentality that enables some people (self included) to seek physical thrills elsewhere, yet still manage to be invested in a loving relationship, just one that doesn't necessarily provide as much intimacy as we would like. Certainly I'm one of those who views it very much as a service akin to visiting the barber, etc.

This. Mrs Jimbobted would chop my knackers off and divorce me on the spot. She'd also ask rhetorically if I'd be ok with her seeing a gigolo and call me anlying bastard when I said I would (it's true).
Should have heard the fuss and tears when she "found out" we'd been to a strip joint on my stag do! 

I nearly started punting years ago but she found the evidence before I took the plunge. I just about managed to convince her that I was just curious. I'm much more careful these days - what was a thinking having AW send stuff through to an email address that pushed notifications up on my phone  .

But I don't feel at all guilty about seeing an escort. I'm looking for thrills I can't get or don't want to ask for at home, not someone to take Mrs jimbobteds place in my affections.
I'd feel guilty if I was caught, because I know how much it would upset her.

[django0700]

Its an adrenaline rush+ the fact that we get to fuck different girls without the rigmarole of wining and dining,taking them out, chatting them up, emotional BS  etc etc....punters know they  can get a better/comparable girl with the surety that they will be fucking her after the initial financial outlay.

[jimbobted]

Yes, there is certainly a huge rush in getting through the door and finding what stands before you to be even hotter than you thought she would be. "Oh YES, in 10 minutes I'm going to be balls deep!" 
I'm such a dreadful chap up artist, there's absolutely no way I'd be able to fuck some of these beauties on civvy street (not these days anyway, I had a couple of pretty hot GFs in my university days).
Also far less risk of being caught than there is with an affair. Turn up, pay the money, have a fun time, go home or back to work or wherever. No furtive phone calls or texts. No unexplained trips out in the evening etc...

And frankly I struggle to keep it together just having the wife to worry about keeping somewhere above permanently pissed off (no chance of keeping her happy). No way I'd be able to handle two relationships. Fuck that for a game of soldiers!