Escorts vs prostitutes

[bristolqwerty]

  Next it’ll be a “date” as in “I enjoyed our date, and it seemed she did too” 

[Doc Holliday]

Few years ago I saw an English girl off aw. Her services were massage and HR. I can't remember the exact conversation during the massage, think I asked her how long she'd been escorting. She didn't like being called an escort, and told me quite sternly "I'm not an escort, I'm a masseuse!" Then I gave her a good fingering and she wanked me off. 

Love it 

[brandonpete]

One of the very first W/G's I saw,incall, said,when I talked about her and her mate Escorting,"I'm a prostitute,and I like to be called a Prostitute.it's how I get through the day,letting you blokes s..g me"! Sabrina and June of Coventry circa 1988.

[Hobbit]

I don't think it's a pointless thread and I see what the OP is aiming to convey.

I think though that some of the labels/tags (and they are just that) we afford these girls are either incorrect or interchangeable though and it very much depends on both the girl in question and what the guy is looking for IMO.  For example I would never refer to a drug addict street walker as an escort or SP, same for a pimped girl or a pump and dump establishment - not that I would ever visit either, personal choice and all that.  But I'm happy to differentiate between that type of WG and a relaible, clean, independent well established and well reviewed girl and use the term 'escort'. In my view it is earned and warranted. Again, my personal choice.

The bottom line is it all falls under the umbrella of 'prostitution' but there is a big difference bewtween girls, services, client requirements, delivery and above all quality. And for me personally the quality girls have earned the right to be separated from the 'pack' and if that is done via a noun, name, label or tag, then it's fine and makes sense to me.

I see what you're saying and yes all the various names will fall under the umbrella of Prostitution. You could also argue that everything falls under the word Prostitution as we are all selling our services for money.

But for me it doesn't matter what word you give it or how you paint it, a turd is always a turd, an apple is always an apple and a rose is always a rose. 

[Mr_Shins]

I see what you're saying and yes all the various names will fall under the umbrella of Prostitution. You could also argue that everything falls under the word Prostitution as we are all selling our services for money.

But for me it doesn't matter what word you give it or how you paint it, a turd is always a turd, an apple is always an apple and a rose is always a rose. 

There's a matter of how they perform their job, but there's also a matter of how they sell themselves.

We all know that good sales is important as well as good performance.

For me, one who bares it all in public media doesn't appeal.

[Hobbit]

For me, one who bares it all in public media doesn't appeal.

I agree! I have always said that there are women that you would marry and women that you would fuck. Marriage material women are hard to come by nowadays they seem to get snapped up quite quickly.

[bristolqwerty]

Escorts vs prostitutes
Love to see this on tv, maybe Quest 
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[mikexxlong]

no fucking difference between so called escorts and prostitutes
or any of the other fucking names meaning the same thing

they are all professional sluts ,they get paid to do their thing

but just like everything else there is variation amongst the whoring ranks
,some are better looking have more 'class' ,better conversationalist are more 'cultured'
or otherwise know how to handle various social environments without embarrassing the client/punter or themselves ,
those are the preferred ones to hire to escort/accompany you in public

[JonasG]

Nothing wrong with dinner first if they enjoy spending their time that way. Many guys enjoy a bit of company first before getting down to business. Some guys are lonely and just fancy a bit of friendly company without the hassle and headache of trying to date, some are probably very busy and don't have the time to date, some are visiting different cities and want the company for dinner rather than eating alone, of course followed by a guaranteed shag. There are many reasons.
I'm sure most people outside of punting would think you're sad because you pay for sex.

Always find it funny how judgemental so many punters are. What difference does it make as long as that person is happy with how their money and time is spent?

I suppose from my POV, one of the biggest reasons guys punt is cos it's hassle free, no strings attached, cuts the bullshit out with dating etc.

So going to dinner with them before for a hour with a stranger doesn't make much sense to me, when mostly guys punt for the sex to cut any nonsense before hand.

I get why someone would do it cos it makes it seem more "real", being seen with someone fit etc. But it's all for show and it's delusion.

At least with actual punting, it's behind closed doors, nothing is for show and we know it's not real.

[king tarzan]

I suppose from my POV, one of the biggest reasons guys punt is cos it's hassle free, no strings attached, cuts the bullshit out with dating etc.

So going to dinner with them before for a hour with a stranger doesn't make much sense to me, when mostly guys punt for the sex to cut any nonsense before hand.

I get why someone would do it cos it makes it seem more "real", being seen with someone fit etc. But it's all for show and it's delusion.

At least with actual punting, it's behind closed doors, nothing is for show and we know it's not real.

Perfecto...👍👍👍👍

[imtheman]

What a nonsense thread..... absolutely ridiculous...

+1 Some people really over think this

[Ali Katt]

I might be wrong but i imagine the term "escort" started in the US where prostitution is illegal but it's fine to pay someone to escort you to an event or keep you company for the evening. Then anything that happens after is coincedental......wink wink etc.  Or it could just be a pretentious word for people who can't face reality.
   I have no issue being refered to as a prostitute but I found some clients (and other "escorts") got upset when i used the word so i usually use "escort", "working girl" or "sex worker" with people I don't know well. Its the same as some punters preferring the word "client". Although if you have joined this forum i guess you have made peace with that term.

I prefer to be called Sir and Fucktoy.

[mikexxlong]

perhaps here's the real difference ----"escorts" make more money for having less sex

as some punter will have them accompanying during a function or at some restaurant etc beforehand ,
and as whores are usually  paid for by the hour ,time is money etc

[The Owl]

The only real difference between escort and prostitute is that I prefer to use the word escort.

[JonasG]

Just call them whores, it's what I say.

Seems the most apt.

[Ali Katt]

Just call them whores, it's what I say.

Seems the most apt.

To their face?

[threechilliman]

Before I started punting I used to think an escort was a bird you took for dinner, a prostitute was a bird who stood on street corners. Now I understand there's no difference.

[bristolqwerty]

Prossies are harder 

[JonasG]

To their face?

Defo not lol!

Always say "escorting" or "escort" if the subject comes up with them during a punt.

[Mr_Shins]

Before I started punting I used to think an escort was a bird you took for dinner, a prostitute was a bird who stood on street corners. Now I understand there's no difference.

Some will offer a mix of social time and sex where the rate is relatively lower, and I have done that a few times as it is enjoyable.

Does that categorise the activity or the woman? What if she sometimes does dinner dates followed by going back to hers (or yours) for sex, but sometimes people just come over for an hour (or half an hour) of sex?

[Cupid Stuntz]

I'm not claiming to be a great cruciverbalist, but I do know that:

"courtesan" is an anagram of "a sore cunt"

Just thought I'd mention it.

Cruciverbalist.....

A new word for the memory bank but what crossword puzzles have to do with hookers vs escorts I'm not sure apart from they're both difficult to work out?

[JamesKW]

There can be a difference,you often see men that have hired girls for the night at fetish events or swinging events.In this case you will want to hire a dom who knows her stuff and what to do with you on the equipment provided,or a convincing or genuine sub.,you will get the best out of the event with these.At all this type of event you will want a girl who will be happy to swap with others so you can use other attendees escort girls.Some men may want a girl they can have a conversation with in a restaraunt,looks good on their arm or at a business event,I often see these types around.Personally I wouldn't pay the high costs this involves but I observe it happening in my travels.

[nixamer77]

Before I started punting I used to think an escort was a bird you took for dinner, a prostitute was a bird who stood on street corners. Now I understand there's no difference.

There’s no difference nowadays but, apparently, they used to be a diiference.
When I first heard about escorting it was like 20 years ago on a french TV documentary. And escort girls and escort boys were all hired through agencies to accompany their clients in some social events, dinners, clubbing etc. Most of the time the girls had already a good job but would escort so to increase their earnings so that they could afford some luxury goods that they couldn’t really inspite of their good jobs without ruining themselves. Escorts often needed to have university level education, good culture and sometimes speak foreign languages. So they needed to have some skills beside their good looks. Since prostitution, more precisely pimping, is illegal in France, it was out of the question that the girls/boys and agencies confess there was sex involved between clients and escorts. We could just assume that when the client wanted sex and was willing to pay a good price for it, many if not most escorts would accept to provide for sex. With time the nature of the contract probably change to make sex the main motive and soon the only one. Therefore, there’s no more difference between escorting and prostitution.

[nixamer77]

I suppose from my POV, one of the biggest reasons guys punt is cos it's hassle free, no strings attached, cuts the bullshit out with dating etc.

So going to dinner with them before for a hour with a stranger doesn't make much sense to me, when mostly guys punt for the sex to cut any nonsense before hand.

I get why someone would do it cos it makes it seem more "real", being seen with someone fit etc. But it's all for show and it's delusion.

At least with actual punting, it's behind closed doors, nothing is for show and we know it's not real.

I am aware that one of the main reasons some guys give for punting it’s because it’s hassle free (although I would say it’s less hassle but probably not hassle free and lot of the time it’s not a reason it’s the excuse many found to hide they just have zero skills to date women or else they would gladly do so).
The reality is some might find it a hassle to take a girl to dinner where many would enjoy it and don’t look at it as a hassle. As somebody pointed out, if one feels like going to a restaurant and they might enjoy going with a prostitute who has a great attitude rather than going own their own. Where’s the hassle ? Where’s the delusion ? It’s all about enjoying oneself and sharing that moment with a another person, be it a hooker.

The way I see it, when it comes to dating a hassle is anything one does nspite of themselves in order to get to a woman’s pants. But if one enjoys dinning, going to the movie, going to the bowling, etc. as a social creature there’s a chance they’d rather do that with people instead of their own. And prostitutes happen to be just that: PEOPLE. If one has no friend around there’s nothing wrong sharing those moments with a whore. There’s no need for every body to have the least interaction possible with prostitutes to prove themselves they’re not some pathetic losers who look validation from whores.

Like someone said above, when a punter is judgemental and looks down on another punter for doing some trivial stuff as dinning with a hooker, they need to remember that the vast majority of non-punters also look at them as pathetic losers for paying women for sex.

[riskytimes]

you have all left "the missus" out of this.... after all you shell out to keep her happy and hopefully get your leg over !! no ?

[threechilliman]

There’s no difference nowadays but, apparently, they used to be a diiference.
When I first heard about escorting it was like 20 years ago on a french TV documentary. And escort girls and escort boys were all hired through agencies to accompany their clients in some social events, dinners, clubbing etc. Most of the time the girls had already a good job but would escort so to increase their earnings so that they could afford some luxury goods that they couldn’t really inspite of their good jobs without ruining themselves. Escorts often needed to have university level education, good culture and sometimes speak foreign languages. So they needed to have some skills beside their good looks. Since prostitution, more precisely pimping, is illegal in France, it was out of the question that the girls/boys and agencies confess there was sex involved between clients and escorts. We could just assume that when the client wanted sex and was willing to pay a good price for it, many if not most escorts would accept to provide for sex. With time the nature of the contract probably change to make sex the main motive and soon the only one. Therefore, there’s no more difference between escorting and prostitution.

Maybe this is why I thought what I thought.

[JonasG]

I am aware that one of the main reasons some guys give for punting it’s because it’s hassle free (although I would say it’s less hassle but probably not hassle free and lot of the time it’s not a reason it’s the excuse many found to hide they just have zero skills to date women or else they would gladly do so).
The reality is some might find it a hassle to take a girl to dinner where many would enjoy it and don’t look at it as a hassle. As somebody pointed out, if one feels like going to a restaurant and they might enjoy going with a prostitute who has a great attitude rather than going own their own. Where’s the hassle ? Where’s the delusion ? It’s all about enjoying oneself and sharing that moment with a another person, be it a hooker.

The way I see it, when it comes to dating a hassle is anything one does nspite of themselves in order to get to a woman’s pants. But if one enjoys dinning, going to the movie, going to the bowling, etc. as a social creature there’s a chance they’d rather do that with people instead of their own. And prostitutes happen to be just that: PEOPLE. If one has no friend around there’s nothing wrong sharing those moments with a whore. There’s no need for every body to have the least interaction possible with prostitutes to prove themselves they’re not some pathetic losers who look validation from whores.

Like someone said above, when a punter is judgemental and looks down on another punter for doing some trivial stuff as dinning with a hooker, they need to remember that the vast majority of non-punters also look at them as pathetic losers for paying women for sex.

I just see it as an utter waste of time to be frank.

If you want to go out and socialise, you have your mates for that.

[Doc Holliday]

I just see it as an utter waste of time to be frank.

As do I .. but I wouldn't be judgemental about anyone who chooses to spend their money in this way. It is their money and they can spend it how they choose.

Let us not forget that the world of paid sex covers a massive spectrum of activity.

If just talking over dinner makes you happy then so be it.

If watching a girl crush a bag of insects with her stilettoes while you have a wank does it for you then also so be it. *

We all fit into that spectrum somewhere. You pays your money ......




* one of the more bizarre anecdotes I have come across.

[JamesKW]

Like someone said above, when a punter is judgemental and looks down on another punter for doing some trivial stuff as dinning with a hooker, they need to remember that the vast majority of non-punters also look at them as pathetic losers for paying women for sex.

Many are business men away from home,who have partners, but are looking for some extra company during a meal.Sometimes the company may also be picking up the bill.Alot that use WGs do also have partners.

[houseboot]

I surprised it took until Reply 37 before we got to "whore".

Having explored all options for the OP, perhaps we should now consider an alternative userid for the  OP?

"pelvic thrust overdrive"   v    " - - - - - - "

[nixamer77]

Many are business men away from home,who have partners, but are looking for some extra company during a meal.Sometimes the company may also be picking up the bill.Alot that use WGs do also have partners.

Exactly.

Many clients with differents reasons, excuses, needs and wishes.

I was a member of a french speaking punting forum. One time they made a poll to find out how many were single, married, love partner and we found out the majority of the members were in a relationship.
I think this is the kind of result that would hurt the stereotype of people who think a punter must necessary be a “loser” who can’ get laid without paying.

[Moby Dick]

** do you have an aw link?

As do I .. but I wouldn't be judgemental about anyone who chooses to spend their money in this way. It is their money and they can spend it how they choose.

Let us not forget that the world of paid sex covers a massive spectrum of activity.

If just talking over dinner makes you happy then so be it.

If watching a girl crush a bag of insects with her stilettoes while you have a wank does it for you then also so be it. *

We all fit into that spectrum somewhere. You pays your money ......




* one of the more bizarre anecdotes I have come across.

[Bogof60]

When I first started this hobby I remember being quite shocked when a woman referred to herself as a Prostitute

[Moresomes]

I surprised it took until Reply 37 before we got to "whore".

Having explored all options for the OP, perhaps we should now consider an alternative userid for the  OP?

"pelvic thrust overdrive"   v    " - - - - - - "

Fiddlers elbow.

[Waterhouse]

I surprised it took until Reply 37 before we got to "whore".

Personally I don't like the word and not one I'd ever use. I think it's derogatory and not fitting for some of the more respected SPs.  And there in lies the difference - escorts provide a 'service', hence SP or service provider, where as a not all prossies or common WGs do, in fact a lot of them don't give two hoots and couldn't care less just so long as they get paid. Thankfully not all are made the same or think, act, and behave in that way.

[Waterhouse]

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Humper 

[Doc Holliday]

** do you have an aw link?

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[stockinglover]

You pay more for an Escort than you do for a Prostitute then again more for a Courtisane, Is there a difference in class 

[Waterhouse]

You pay more for an Escort than you do for a Prostitute then again more for a Courtisane, Is there a difference in class 

Codswallop.   First off WGs, SPs, Escorts are all prostitutes (or 'prossies' as I prefer); secondly 'Courtesan' is a BS tag which a few WGs and SPs like to use in a vain attempt to try distinguish themselves from the competition and look more upmarket.  I've seen plenty of bog standard profiles that charge more than other so called 'courtesans' on AW.

As for Class, it's very much the person themself who determines 'Class' by how they act and behave, not the label that may or may not be afforded them.

[DastardlyDick]

I always thought that "Escort" was just a term invented by prostitutes to avoid arrest for prostitution " no officer, he's only paying me for my company, the shagging is pure coincidence"

[bushman]

Occording to my regular. I pay for sex with prostitutes, she thinks of herself as an escort and call other WG's whores.
End of the day, they are all cum dumps. She still deserves to be treated with respect and I do just that.Why wouldn't I? She's a woman and someones wife.

[Wooderz]

a ho is a ho is a ho..

[bristolqwerty]

Escorts v prostitutes!! Is this a new Warcraft board game?

[Wooderz]

Occording to my regular. I pay for sex with prostitutes, she thinks of herself as an escort and call other WG's whores.
End of the day, they are all cum dumps. She still deserves to be treated with respect and I do just that.Why wouldn't I? She's a woman and someones wife.

Marraige vows never struck me as having much meaning.. 

[Ali Katt]

Escorts v prostitutes!! Is this a new Warcraft board game?

No it's obviously called Whorecraft. 

[Wooderz]

No it's obviously called Whorecraft. 

[bushman]

a ho is a ho is a ho..

I could have included that she's someones mum. The point is doesn't matter what you call her or think of her she or he(if you are that way inclined) should be treated with respect.Same way punters should be treated with respect.

[scutty brown]

Escorts v prostitutes!! Is this a new Warcraft board game?

Its the remake of the Alien vs Predator film

[nigel4498]

If watching a girl crush a bag of insects with her stilettoes while you have a wank does it for you then also so be it. *






* one of the more bizarre anecdotes I have come across.

The bitch, she promised me she wouldn't tell anyone 

[nixamer77]

No it's obviously called Whorecraft. 

You’re good sir, you’re very good )