Is Seeking worth the subscription?

[radman67]

Just looking for experiences from others on Seeking before I consider forking out for a subscription. It seems unbelievably high just to be able to message

[Paris69]

Just looking for experiences from others on Seeking before I consider forking out for a subscription. It seems unbelievably high just to be able to message

Depends what you're after.
It can be hard work, and frustrating sifting the wheat from the chaf.

Depends whether your really looking for cheaper punts; say all-nite PPM's for £250 or a long term SB.

I've been on 3-4 years. My subscription comes and goes as do my moods and energy levels.
It can be cheap(ish) and it can be expensive. From a one off £200 meet up, to living with your SB for, say a year and spending close on 6 figures.

Subscribe, give it a try and don't renew if its not for you. Put no small amount of effort in and you might find it's the 'addictive crack' of relationship building.

Treat and speak to the girls like WG's (and quite a few are) and you might as well be on AW.

I suspect you are gonna get wildly varying views on this one.......

[Jamandcream]

Join Fab Swingers no money to subscribe plenty of great ladies on there who with a little effort can be great meets.
Used to be a regular punter but since joining haven’t paid for a fuck since.
Meet some great looking ladies who are totally up for fun no fakes moans or clock watching.

[dunbusy]

I used to be an avid fan of SA, but lately it is extremely hard work. I personally wouldn’t at the moment while lockdown is on, I’ve found very few want to meet, and some of them are wanting eye watering figures. Give it a go, but be prepared to put the hours in, and there will be plenty of chancers on there using COVID as an excuse not to meet and trying to relieve you of your hard earned in the meantime, best of luck.

[southcoastpunter]

Op - there are a couple of threads already about SA, one here in the SW region (although mainly focused on the Bournemouth area - but lots of general information too) and pages and pages of info and views in the main general thread. If you are not up for reading all the existing comments then SA is not for you - it can be time consuming and hard work!

I agree with what Paris69 said - you are going to get lots of varing views. I also agree with a lot of his other comments but not his comment that "quite a few are WG's"....... i suspose it depends on your definition of a "WG". if you think that as a number of SA ladies end up in an arrangement and have sex with a guys that they wouldn't otherwise, makes them a WG, then yes a number of them are. But think of them as WG makes it very hard not to treat them as that and if you treat them like that, most will ignore you or ghost you.

Like all online sites, SA has a range of "types" from scammmers, to pic sellers to a few who are really WG's (ie just selling sex) but there are some ladies who want to be treated well, taken to nice places, do some fun things with someone they like and get a nice gifts and some money (whether by ppm or an allowance).

I have also noticed that a number of ladies have a genuine liking for "older guys".

As Paris69 said, there are some good session to be had that are good VFM but higher end (eg an over night for £250) but if you are looking for cheap sex, you won't find it on SA.

[bdyno]

Join Fab Swingers no money to subscribe plenty of great ladies on there who with a little effort can be great meets.
Used to be a regular punter but since joining haven’t paid for a fuck since.
Meet some great looking ladies who are totally up for fun no fakes moans or clock watching.

Just don't count on getting any success.  There are 100s of blokes on there for each woman, so if you get a single girl on there who's relatively attractive you can count on her getting over a couple of hundred messages a day.

I've been on there a while and have managed a couple of meets, but they are few and far between. 

You also have to consider what you want from the meet.  Booking an escort, you're there to get what you want.  They are there to give you it.  If you manage to meet a girl on Fabs, you are there to service her needs, not so much the other way around.  It's a very different experience to punting.

[Jonlove69]

I agree with all the comments in the above post. SA is marketed as a rich sugar daddy service. You need to put a price on the time and effort you will probably waste sifting through it. It is probably more of a solution for those guys looking for some bareback action than punting gives.

[Cornish_Wanderer]

Join Fab Swingers no money to subscribe plenty of great ladies on there who with a little effort can be great meets.
Used to be a regular punter but since joining haven’t paid for a fuck since.
Meet some great looking ladies who are totally up for fun no fakes moans or clock watching.

Told you! 

[Paris69]

I agree with all the comments in the above post. SA is marketed as a rich sugar daddy service. You need to put a price on the time and effort you will probably waste sifting through it. It is probably more of a solution for those guys looking for some bareback action than punting gives.

What a pile of bollocks....  No one i know, and i'm friends with 37 guys who use SA, is on the site to seek bareback.

In a long term relationship; its likely 'without' might become an option... if both agree. But thats no different to when you start 'seeing' someone through more conventional means..

That's my evidence... Where's yours, as from your statement you are not even on SA

[METEOR]

I join on and off a few times a year. My subscription is ending in a few days. I've had 2 free meets for sex and paid £100 for a few hours with another who I found very attractive. Usually get at least 1 free meet when I sign up.
Fab I've been on for a while. Its tough going I find but have met a few but never count on it.

[Jonlove69]

@Paris69. Have a look at the biggest topic on a site that is dedicated to that. Evidence provided.

[Paris69]

I can only go on real evidence, the group of guys i'm friends with; rather than the bare back crew on their auto-censored.
Those guys will seek BB wherever it is available. My over-arching point was that SA wasn't a forum for BB'ers: Though it's obvious we are talking of so many people, ofc some are on there for that reason; and will find it too.

But SA per se' isn't there to promote BB....

[Crackpot11]

Just don't count on getting any success.  There are 100s of blokes on there for each woman, so if you get a single girl on there who's relatively attractive you can count on her getting over a couple of hundred messages a day.

I've been on there a while and have managed a couple of meets, but they are few and far between. 

You also have to consider what you want from the meet.  Booking an escort, you're there to get what you want.  They are there to give you it.  If you manage to meet a girl on Fabs, you are there to service her needs, not so much the other way around.  It's a very different experience to punting.

This is very true. Seeking looks a waste of time unless you are single and loaded. Fab meanwhile is a minefield of fat munters with the odd bit of gold in there. The whole site is loaded in favour of women, so they can be choosy, also nsa attached is not what most women want. You will pay in some way more than you ever do for a normal punt on AW. It’s not worth it if you are attached, too much hassle.