Yes, everything's black and white and it really is that easy
FFS they have to deal with thousands of parents who behave badly every day. If they took kids away from every parent who behaved badly then we'd need 100,000s more kids' homes places. Social workers tread a fine line between keeping kids with parents who are a bit crap, rather than going into care for their whole childhoods (which is rubbish too), and taking kids away from parents who they think might do something very serious one day, like the sad case above.
They are on good money indeed .
Many go under the radar.
I was told Friday by an SB for want of a better description, of her brother, history of mental health and violence, 3 kids 3 years old and below, clumped the 3 year old and he required hospital treatment, the dumb mother covered for him and said the kid fell.
Putting her in the awful predicament of turning on family or trying to protect the kids.
Education has improved in recent years, but years of poor education, lack of industry and unskilled jobs or the opportunity to get a job and learn because you cannot get past the CV keyword check to even get an interview, add to that little job security these days and there is somewhat a lost generation that rely solely on benefits and pass that on to their kids.
I am sure, like me, there are lots of us that have never had a CV, got first jobs on a straight interview and remember a more industrial Britain where you could leave a job on Friday and start another on Monday if you were that way inclined.
To put perspective on my thoughts, my eldest could easily have been one of them, poor education and undiagnosed dyslexia, from a broken family from a young age and born to parents far too young, addicted to computer games, smoking dope in the park if he did go out, the thought of doing a CV more demoralizing.
It took several years, calling in lots of favors and buying some dubious certificates to change that around, not everyone has someone who bothers.
Before you state my negligence, I am well aware of it, I believed everything his mother told me until she could cover no more and was wrapped up in my own lunatic life.