In these days of being totally honest, I thought I'd see if anyone has any advice here...
I've done pretty well in the past with regular SPs (many becoming friends - though I've avoided this for the last 10 years or so as I now prefer to keep my regular and punting life completely separate), SBs (on SA) and with women generally (when I was "single again" 5-6 years ago, there were nearly 10 different women that made it clear that they were interested in me - pretty much all of whom were "my type").
My Pros:-
- tall
- athletic/toned
- well groomed
- handsome (for my age - ~40)
- intelligent
- amazing sense of humour
- decent tan
- modest
Cons:-
- often I will "pop" too quickly ... as evidenced again in my recent FFM threesome...
- once popped, takes me too long to recharge - and I often feel drained for the rest of the day
The cons, now, are starting to bother me ... it's been an issue for a long time, on and off.. it gets better if I have sex 1-2 times per day - but, yeah, that's not happening right now... and it seems like a poor solution - numbing him through overwork surely isn't a good fix?
I'd expected that the problem would decrease with age - but it hasn't (yet at least). If anything, it's happening more often. I've seen my current SB 4 times - and every single time I've popped much sooner than I would've hoped... ridiculously early on two occasions :-(
I've never taken drugs, never smoked and have hardly drunk alcohol in the last 2 years (probably something like 5 pints in that whole time?) .. pretty much my only vice right now is that I drink coffee..? (which I may give up too) .. for years I'd drink 7-8 cups per day - but I'm currently down to something like 3-4.
Anyone got any advice? I've thought about talking to the GP - but have never yet gotten around to making an appointment... if it's that young American lass that they make me an appointment with again I'll likely just end up flirting with her again and not talking about my problem :-(