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Offline bobdavid

In these days of being totally honest, I thought I'd see if anyone has any advice here...

I've done pretty well in the past with regular SPs (many becoming friends - though I've avoided this for the last 10 years or so as I now prefer to keep my regular and punting life completely separate), SBs (on SA) and with women generally (when I was "single again" 5-6 years ago, there were nearly 10 different women that made it clear that they were interested in me - pretty much all of whom were "my type").

My Pros:-
  - tall
  - athletic/toned
  - well groomed
  - handsome (for my age - ~40)
  - intelligent
  - amazing sense of humour
  - decent tan
  - modest

Cons:-
  - often I will "pop" too quickly ... as evidenced again in my recent FFM threesome...
  - once popped, takes me too long to recharge - and I often feel drained for the rest of the day

The cons, now, are starting to bother me ... it's been an issue for a long time, on and off.. it gets better if I have sex 1-2 times per day - but, yeah, that's not happening right now... and it seems like a poor solution - numbing him through overwork surely isn't a good fix?

I'd expected that the problem would decrease with age - but it hasn't (yet at least). If anything, it's happening more often. I've seen my current SB 4 times - and every single time I've popped much sooner than I would've hoped... ridiculously early on two occasions :-(

I've never taken drugs, never smoked and have hardly drunk alcohol in the last 2 years (probably something like 5 pints in that whole time?) .. pretty much my only vice right now is that I drink coffee..? (which I may give up too) .. for years I'd drink 7-8 cups per day - but I'm currently down to something like 3-4.

Anyone got any advice? I've thought about talking to the GP - but have never yet gotten around to making an appointment... if it's that young American lass that they make me an appointment with again I'll likely just end up flirting with her again and not talking about my problem :-(

Offline Redbull4

I think this is one for a GP. At 40 I'd imagine your body is changing. Natural cycle I guess.

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Offline bitofanovice

I have the same issue !

A little older (46) have no problem getting hard or staying hard but pop far too quickly !  And sadly yet to meet anyone who can coax a second dollop out of the little general.

Offline bobdavid

I think this is one for a GP. At 40 I'd imagine your body is changing. Natural cycle I guess.

I've had this problem on-and-off for much, much longer... it probably started when I was 25?

When my personal situation supports it, and I'm shagging every day (eg. before I had kids), it improves... when it's infrequent, though, the problem comes back.

Offline Cupid Stuntz

61 here and the same. Quick to pop the 1st time but thankfully no problems with a second and he'll always have a 3rd resurrection too but no g'tee of a 3rd pop shot. This is in a 1 or 1.5 hr booking for a 3rd try though. Did try some of that novocaine stud spray once to try and stave of the first coming but it made no difference. Still got the rest of it downstairs.

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Offline Cupid Stuntz

Sildenafil or Cialis always slows me down. Try Priligy (Dapoxetine) as well:

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Alcohol always did the trick in that respect but been on the wagon over a year now.

Offline windowlicker

Same problem here since I was sexually active and I am now 49.

For me I think it is nerves as if with the same person there is no real issues. Trouble is when meeting someone for 1st time. I have no chance and can pop in no time at all. If I go for a massage I can pop in face down mode from strokes to the thighs. If the meet is for an hour I can manage a 2nd go but not in a 30 minute session.

I have tried masturbating pre meet but this did not really help.

Also tried priligy which was not great at the 1st attempt but worked much better on the 2nd. Only problem was I was not able to pop twice in the hour although was hard again.

Offline Bangers and Gash

My Pros:-
  - tall
  - athletic/toned
  - well groomed
  - handsome (for my age - ~40)
  - intelligent
  - amazing sense of humour
  - decent tan
  - modest

 - full of shit



Offline JackoBoy69

I have the same issue. Im in my early 20's and have always suffered from premature ejaculation. Ive always been too embarrassed to go to the doctors about that stuff. I use delay sprays which I find works best for me.

A few squirts about 15-30 minutes before sex is enough to make me last, obviously you can go overkill and douse the fella for a whole night long of fun but you'll not feel a thing  :lol:

Ive looked into tablets, but never tried them. For me, I dont know when ill be having sex with the OH so taking one a few hours in advance is useless. When I know things are about to go down, a quick trip to the bathroom for a 'piss' is made and then 15 mins later, the spray will have done its magic. Ive tried different sprays over the years, the best one was Super Dragon 3000 or something? Cant buy it anywhere now, only knock offs, but it was the best. Now I use a delay spray from LoveHoney.

Im curious to know as well how other guys deal with the issue.

Offline threechilliman


vw

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In these days of being totally honest, I thought I'd see if anyone has any advice here...

I've done pretty well in the past with regular SPs (many becoming friends - though I've avoided this for the last 10 years or so as I now prefer to keep my regular and punting life completely separate), SBs (on SA) and with women generally (when I was "single again" 5-6 years ago, there were nearly 10 different women that made it clear that they were interested in me - pretty much all of whom were "my type").

My Pros:-
  - tall
  - athletic/toned
  - well groomed
  - handsome (for my age - ~40)
  - intelligent
  - amazing sense of humour
  - decent tan
  - modest

Cons:-
  - often I will "pop" too quickly ... as evidenced again in my recent FFM threesome...
  - once popped, takes me too long to recharge - and I often feel drained for the rest of the day

The cons, now, are starting to bother me ... it's been an issue for a long time, on and off.. it gets better if I have sex 1-2 times per day - but, yeah, that's not happening right now... and it seems like a poor solution - numbing him through overwork surely isn't a good fix?

I'd expected that the problem would decrease with age - but it hasn't (yet at least). If anything, it's happening more often. I've seen my current SB 4 times - and every single time I've popped much sooner than I would've hoped... ridiculously early on two occasions :-(

I've never taken drugs, never smoked and have hardly drunk alcohol in the last 2 years (probably something like 5 pints in that whole time?) .. pretty much my only vice right now is that I drink coffee..? (which I may give up too) .. for years I'd drink 7-8 cups per day - but I'm currently down to something like 3-4.

Anyone got any advice? I've thought about talking to the GP - but have never yet gotten around to making an appointment... if it's that young American lass that they make me an appointment with again I'll likely just end up flirting with her again and not talking about my problem :-(

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milo

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The OP seems to be very keen to advertise his "pros" but I have failed to see how this has any relevance to his question.

I know he isn't the first to ask for medical advice on here, but I still don't understand what reliable and authoritative help he actually expects to get.

Professional medical advice is available for free from a doctor. Isn't that the obvious place to go?

SeekingtheTruth

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Writes a long post about himself and how good he is with women and then puts this



My Pros:-
  - modest


I actually burst out laughing.  :lol:

Offline bobdavid

how good he is with women

^^ aye .. except the Subject line and point of my post ;)

I actually burst out laughing.  :lol:

Sarcasm isn't in my dictionary ;)

Offline manc36

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SeekingtheTruth

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^^ aye .. except the Subject line and point of my post ;)

Sarcasm isn't in my dictionary ;)

Then why bother the fluff piece on yourself? No one cares if you think you are good looking/tanned/modest. Just get to the point.

Offline manc36

Regarding the op. Not sure, maybe a blue pill will make you last a bit longer ?. Seems to numb things a little I find.

I am the opposite really when wearing a condom, can pretty much come when I want first pop but like yourself I take quite a bit to fully recharge. I just except that is how I am.
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Offline Cum_again

I think the modest was a joke folks..

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Offline Plan R

:lol: I was half tempted to ask for a date myself.  :D

I saw him first !!  :crazy:

Offline switftjake

Try FBSM meet instead and get the SP to edge you for 30mins. Gets easier and easier to just lay back and enjoy the fuck out of it and fire when you want to.

Offline bobdavid

Try FBSM meet instead and get the SP to edge you for 30mins. Gets easier and easier to just lay back and enjoy the fuck out of it and fire when you want to.

Oh, I do those as well.. and yeah, those go well - and are much cheaper of course.

Offline Marmalade

the answer was priligy. available by itself or in a combination tab with viagra/sildenafil

Offline fatboy

I saw him first !!  :crazy:

Stop it girls, handbags at 5 paces... :sarcastic:
Seriously though, agree with others, get professional advice

Offline shagmore

He sure thinks a lot of him self  :dash:

Offline Marmalade

He sure thinks a lot of him self  :dash:
Benefit of the doubt though he was maybe being sarcastic...

Offline Marmalade

There was a book that helped me when I was younger (before ED drugs and and prem-ejac drugs) called The Tao of Love and Sex. Pretty good.  :thumbsup:

Offline Students Notebook

Benefit of the doubt though he was maybe being sarcastic...

Since when, Marmalade, did you ever give anyone the "Benefit of the doubt". ??  :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Offline windowlicker

the answer was priligy. available by itself or in a combination tab with viagra/sildenafil

~Can you please confirm the name of the combination tablet. Thanks.

Offline bobdavid

I might try Priligy ... I've tried a few tablets before .. some made me so dizzy, though, that I had to give up.

JamesFD

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~Can you please confirm the name of the combination tablet. Thanks.
You can get in from the less regulated online vendors, for example:

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Whether you risk it is up to you.

Offline Marmalade

~Can you please confirm the name of the combination tablet. Thanks.

Priligy is just one of the main brand names. The chemical name is dapoxetine (same as the chemical ingredient name for Viagra is sildenafil).
Poxet and Vriligy are other common brand names.

So you are looking for a dapoxetine-sildenafil combination. Such as Suhagra-force or Super-P Force, which are the two I know of, but I haven't used them personally as I don't have premature ejaculation.

Suhagra Force is marketed by Cipla, one of the biggest pharmaceutical companies in India and a worldwide supplier of generics with, I believe, many awards (you can look them up on Wikipedia for instance).

If you can't get the combo just take the two together.

Offline windowlicker

Priligy is just one of the main brand names. The chemical name is dapoxetine (same as the chemical ingredient name for Viagra is sildenafil).
Poxet and Vriligy are other common brand names.

So you are looking for a dapoxetine-sildenafil combination. Such as Suhagra-force or Super-P Force, which are the two I know of, but I haven't used them personally as I don't have premature ejaculation.

Suhagra Force is marketed by Cipla, one of the biggest pharmaceutical companies in India and a worldwide supplier of generics with, I believe, many awards (you can look them up on Wikipedia for instance).

If you can't get the combo just take the two together.

Thanks for confirming. Read some reviews for Super P-Force and they seem to have major side effects.

Offline Marmalade

Thanks for confirming. Read some reviews for Super P-Force and they seem to have major side effects.

Well take it or fucking leave it. Everything has side effects, even aspirin.

The question was, what is the drug for coming too soon and dapoxetine is the one approved for it. Otherwise try the Tao of Love and Sex or stop worrying about it.   :rolleyes:

Offline Marmalade

Since when, Marmalade, did you ever give anyone the "Benefit of the doubt". ??  :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Oh all the time. Usually just once.  :D

JamesFD

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Delay spray down in price:

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'Professor Mike Wyllie'. That has to be a made up name  :D

Offline Marmalade

Delay spray down in price:

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'Professor Mike Wyllie'. That has to be a made up name  :D

I think I tried that once when I was younger. Sprayed a bit on my finger to see what she’d be letting herself in for. Reckoned it would be a no-no for OWO.  But maybe they’ve changed the formula?

Offline Lema

Delay spray down in price:

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don't need delay spray when you hit 60... just take a viagra an hour before so you get a massive hard on and fuck for ages before cumming  :yahoo:

Offline Takeitasitcomes

Dapoxetine, thats all you will need, really works.

However there are side effects.  Ive tried it a few times just to dabble, as you do.

It can feel like you have severely overloaded on caffeine, you can get the shakes, sweaty and that jaw clenchy thing, but it does work delay the ejaculation

Offline DDDave

Delay spray down in price:

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'Professor Mike Wyllie'. That has to be a made up name  :D

Tracy Cox, fnrr

Offline bobdavid

Dapoxetine, thats all you will need, really works.

However there are side effects.  Ive tried it a few times just to dabble, as you do.

It can feel like you have severely overloaded on caffeine, you can get the shakes, sweaty and that jaw clenchy thing, but it does work delay the ejaculation

Yeah, I feel terrible with those sorts of tablets... I end up with a sore throat for days ... I assume they all have the same effect :(

Offline Marmalade

Yeah, I feel terrible with those sorts of tablets... I end up with a sore throat for days ... I assume they all have the same effect :(

You assume too much. But it’s your choice. What is annoying is when people ask for the best available product and then poo poo it. Ever watched American ads for pharma? They happily tell you that death may be a side effect while cheerily pushing the sale. It is a legal requirement to warn of every possibility, even if it is 1 in 10,000.

Like crossing the road while struggling to open the fucking packet.

Offline Steely Dan

Of course, if bothering you, try some of things mentioned, particularly talking to GP.  But consider the possibility that you are normal.  Real life is not a porn film.  Don't judge your punt by comparing to a porn film.  Perhaps you could improve your punt by spending more time kissing, fingering, sucking, rimming, spanking, RO, 69 or whatever.

One of the benefits of parties to me was being aware of what other guys are up to.  it is not like I watch the guys, but being in the room with 13 other guys fucking 7 girls makes one notice a few things. Turns out I was more normal than I thought.

Offline Mifune

I think I tried that once when I was younger. Sprayed a bit on my finger to see what she’d be letting herself in for. Reckoned it would be a no-no for OWO.  But maybe they’ve changed the formula?
I’m curious about the OWO question as well if anyone can advise?

PuntGuy

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o/s abstain (I know, difficult) for 5-6 days. Ok you will pop early but should be good for round 2 not long after.

Offline george r

I don't last as long as I used to ? but the second one can takes ages ? a bit of a catch 22..

Offline shagmore

o/s abstain (I know, difficult) for 5-6 days. Ok you will pop early but should be good for round 2 not long after.
I find I can usually last a very good length of time ( an hour or more without any problem), there has been the exception when some lass has given fantastic OWO and just had to erupt a load in her mouth. Once was after no wanking for about 2 weeks - poor lass nearly choked .
When I pop then I can usually get it up again, but its no where near as hard and I am basically not that interested so will cut and run.